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By *hickerThanUrAverage OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belfast

So for some reason, single females are apprehensive about chatting or plan a meeting.

Im questioning it if it's my age, im almost 24, in a stable relationship, no kids and not looking for anything serious but also not looking to fuck everyone that messages.

Is age a big factor when planning a meet?

Do you find people assume by your age you're inexperienced?

Or what exactly would put you off when it comes to a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume if people are on here they are her to meet & have fun ... i never assume experience or inexperience ... Fab is a journey .

As for age I tend to meet people +/- 5 yrs around my own age .

I have daughters your age ... most people have a prefered age group to meet

Happy Fabbing

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By *hickerThanUrAverage OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belfast

Yeah I understand some people have a preference, but what's the turn off would be the question I was referring to?

Age is only a number, once you look or feel good, have a connection and are attracted then why not?

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By *cotsguyyMan
over a year ago

Belfast and Fife

Have they said that it was your age that has put them off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me your age would be an issue but if I was 30 or 35 .. game on

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By *hickerThanUrAverage OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belfast

Not exactly,but their verifications show no women my age. Obviously a case by case thing but just noticing it alot more.

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By *cotsguyyMan
over a year ago

Belfast and Fife

All I can say is just keep trying, don't be put off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ur not far from us and we'd have no problem meeting up with you

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By *handycornWoman
over a year ago

BELFAST

I wonder if it could be partly to do with your blurb. It doesn't explicitly say it but it could imply that your partner might want to be watching ("take a back seat"). I would imagine that will reduce the numbers of women interested.

However, I find it much harder to navigate meet ups with women than with men. I think it might just be the nature of us.

Maybe age is something to do with it? Feeling concerned about someone much younger making us feel old?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't over think it.

There's a higher men to women ratio on all these sites.

Plus I think a certain type of woman comes on here for the attention as an ego boost. But when it comes down to it they chicken out and can't go through with a meet, but they stay on for the attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So for some reason, single females are apprehensive about chatting or plan a meeting.

Im questioning it if it's my age, im almost 24, in a stable relationship, no kids and not looking for anything serious but also not looking to fuck everyone that messages.

Is age a big factor when planning a meet?

Do you find people assume by your age you're inexperienced?

Or what exactly would put you off when it comes to a meet?

"

Going to be harsh but honest. Your pictures are shit. Poor lighting and same shot numerous times. Spice it up a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people have age filters and preferences OP, sometimes I go to send a mail and I’m outside their age range. Just move on and you’ll find the right person eventually! Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus I think a certain type of woman comes on here for the attention as an ego boost. But when it comes down to it they chicken out and can't go through with a meet, but they stay on for the attention."

Sound like it could be the same type of women who join sites 2 weeks ago, are already verified then make forum posts about not getting enough attention!

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