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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK so alot of people here are a bit older than me so dunno if they'd understand the situation but anyway... Girls do guys talk about their exs alot? I feel like every girl I get chatting to talks about their ex too much. Once about 15mins into a date with a girl she started talking about her ex and I joked "oh uh I'm the rebound lad am I?" and she got kinda flustered as if she just realised she was yapping on about her ex. She said she was over him but a few things happened that suggested she wasn't. Is this a girl thing? Or bad luck for me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ive none to talk about so not something i do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well ive none to talk about so not something i do"

You've no exs? I've no real exs. Like the longest was 9mnths and we never even went away for a weekend. But still I just don't talk about exs to girls. There's no trace of them and I don't try get them back to bed for one more go. When it's over it's over for me ha.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Don't know where the age comes in here but maybe you've a point girls do and women don't....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't know where the age comes in here but maybe you've a point girls do and women don't.... "

I think because my age group go on loads of tinder dates etc... And I feel the older groups were just better dating wise so didn't go on as many and alot are in long term relationships ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well ive none to talk about so not something i do

You've no exs? I've no real exs. Like the longest was 9mnths and we never even went away for a weekend. But still I just don't talk about exs to girls. There's no trace of them and I don't try get them back to bed for one more go. When it's over it's over for me ha. "

Last time i dated was 1995 so why the feck would i talk aboùt him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find one that got fucked over the most by there exs are the worse for that like the guys have hold over them its sad to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a way to kill the mood

Sometimes its looking for an affirmation that they did the right thing in dumping the person .

In my case & being older any mention may be to do with a place or event remibding me the last time i was there was with my ex ... but the ex is not a constant topic of conversation .

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd get why an older person would talk about their ex if they were with them like 3+ years or had kids with them but these girls are talking about exs of 6-12 months. Maybe 2yrs at a stretch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd get why an older person would talk about their ex if they were with them like 3+ years or had kids with them but these girls are talking about exs of 6-12 months. Maybe 2yrs at a stretch. "

Because they are the kind of people who can't let go of stuff and move on.

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