FabSwingers.com forum: Are guys just fluffers for couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Guy do you ever feel like a Fluffer when meeting couples.

you meet the couple, you have great fun with the Fem, lots of teasing,

touching, fingering, licking, you are giving loads of attention given

to her ( and sometimes him, even though straight on his profile) & she

is giving attention back to you .. the partner is giving lots of

encouragement & instructions from the sidelines... all is going well,

you are doing all the work the finish line is in sight but!!! .. you

realize you are not going to get the prize .. the partner (husband)

get to finish her off.. & you are left with an unsatisfied hard-on.

Now maybe its because I meet older couples and often some health

conditions cause problems so the guy cannot really fully satisfy his

wife, but while it is great to get meets, great to have fun, it can be

somewhat frustrating not to get the prize.

over the years i have also talked to women meeting couples &

similiarly they are finding, lots of Bi play with the lady, BJ for the

guy, but no Cock for the single lady not meeting the couple. many of

the women had decided to stop meeting couples for this reason & often

an under lying jealousy, some had a meet once policy

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I think you are meeting the wrong couples.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Are you saying you're not getting to climax because the games over once when the couple cums?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you saying you're not getting to climax because the games over once when the couple cums?

No i was pointing out that there is no penetration ... that is reserved for the partner.

In the case of the single ladies the guy is only allowed penetrate his partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you saying you're not getting to climax because the games over once when the couple cums?

No i was pointing out that there is no penetration ... that is reserved for the partner.

In the case of the single ladies the guy is only allowed penetrate his partner"

I have never found this with any of the couples I've met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then don't meet couples who don't allow penetration.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Then don't meet couples who don't allow penetration."

Despite the messages & texts prior to the meet, it often only becomes obvious when you get down to the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Then don't meet couples who don't allow penetration.

Despite the messages & texts prior to the meet, it often only becomes obvious when you get down to the fun"

Then you need to be specific about establishing where the boundaries lie.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Are you saying you're not getting to climax because the games over once when the couple cums?

No i was pointing out that there is no penetration ... that is reserved for the partner.

In the case of the single ladies the guy is only allowed penetrate his partner"

Ah now I'm getting it, thanks for clarifying. Sure that's something you can find out beforehand and then decide if you want to go along with it.

I've to say sometimes I do get the impression that for some couples singles are a performance toy for their amusement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt meet couples so wouldnt be able to tell you from experience but does sound like your doing all the work but not getting the reward which doesnt seem fair on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never experienced this issue when meeting with couples, it's usually the complete opposite as the lady is getting spoiled by both gents. I can understand it happening once to you with crossed wires but seems strange if this has happened on multiple occasions

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By *angero3aMan
over a year ago

swords

I cannot even meet a couple on here.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Of course they are... only to be used and disposed off as you please

But being serious, the single guy should always be made feel like hes on equal footing with husband. If they feel like they can be friends outside is usually a good start.

The best ones we have had have been about having a laugh.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"I think you are meeting the wrong couples. "
This

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

I was going to reply to this thread about fluffers

But its so hard to read , thought my eyes wud need mufflers

I scrolled down through it looking for rhyme or some reason

But all i get is a poor guy, cock in hand, freezin

So if youre going to post and make it look like a poem

At least make it rhyme....though its fab, should have known..

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Communication and clarifying boundaries and wants etc in advance is essential.

It's a shame to hear that things only became clear on the night OP. I can see how all that could happen but thankfully that scenario has never happened to me. Fingers crossed it never will

I've no problem helping with fantasies etc but I'd prefer to go in with my eyes open (figuratively and in reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you saying you're not getting to climax because the games over once when the couple cums?

No i was pointing out that there is no penetration ... that is reserved for the partner.

In the case of the single ladies the guy is only allowed penetrate his partner"

Your obviously meeting the wrong people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In fairness it has only happened a few tines over 10 yrs ... in Ireland & in England ... but yes I should vet the meets a bit better ... although I like to go with tbe flow

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