FabSwingers.com forum: Advice please

By *eeker321 OP Man
over a year ago

prosperous

Hi folks. I'm here seeking advice about swinging as a couple. We've spoken about it a lot but mostly as a hypothetical situation or during sex as in who we would or wouldn't. We've been honest enough to talk about people we both know and about different situations such as watching or being watched and what we'd do if someone was there.

Recently we were in a hotel and we had sex a few times with the blinds open and the thought of someone watching turned us both on.

But I'm wondering what the next step should be as the blinds being open wasn't the norm for us. I'd love some advice from couples who have been down that road because I would love if my partner would join me on here but I don't want to rush it and maybe go too far.

Any advice would be welcome.

Thanks

By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford

If you are taking it slow I suppose the next step would be to have others involved but no interaction like webcaming or a dogging senario where you are watched but you need not have any contact with anyone watching

By *inkycouplehereCouple
over a year ago

belfast

I think as you're getting to know each other sexually you need to ask her if she would like to make fantasy a reality every now and then. If she says yes then I would ask how far she would like to go. You both have to be open about what you both want and how you both feel, even throughout the experience. Maybe start with a bit of soft play in same room as another couple and a few kisses here and there. Ultimately its down to both you and your lady to tell how far you would like to go - communication is key