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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What causes people to go completely off sex with a loved one? There seems to be a huge number of people male and female on here claiming their partners have zero interest in sex. I doubt they're all truthful but obviously some are. What are the causes? Are they to blame for not making their partners feel sexy? It can't just be a one way street

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

Loss of libedo which could be brought on by numerous reasons from depression ,menopause , falling out of love, financial pressure. It's just life unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relationships can just go stale if there’s no effort put into them. Both people are often the cause I think. Even if one half of the couple is trying to fix the problem, it takes both. Have to want to work on it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It seems overly common here. I've no doubt it genuinely happens but I suspect some are just using it as their excuse

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"What causes people to go completely off sex with a loved one? There seems to be a huge number of people male and female on here claiming their partners have zero interest in sex. I doubt they're all truthful but obviously some are. What are the causes? Are they to blame for not making their partners feel sexy? It can't just be a one way street "

Maybe not everyone claiming their partner has gone off sex is telling the truth??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What causes people to go completely off sex with a loved one? There seems to be a huge number of people male and female on here claiming their partners have zero interest in sex. I doubt they're all truthful but obviously some are. What are the causes? Are they to blame for not making their partners feel sexy? It can't just be a one way street

Maybe not everyone claiming their partner has gone off sex is telling the truth?? "

Thats what I was thinking. If they're all telling the truth then long lasting monogamy relationships seem doomed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" If they're all telling the truth then long lasting monogamy relationships seem doomed"

For a relationship to work marriage should not be the end of the courtship ... the relationship moves into a different phase ... & part of thst phase is kids, mortgages, careers & life stresses ... communications is the key to working thru this phase ... to growing together as a couple .

As a counsellor once said to me " you plant a tree, you nurture & look after it ... if not the growth is stunted & it may die" ... so to a marriage ... nearly 9 years on I can see the mistakes i made, the lack of communication & the taking for granted .

In Fab many are seeking the sex they were or are missing ... but the sex does not make up for a relationship.

On the other hand if you enjoy sex & can enjoy without an emotional attachment ... then Fab is great & the place to be for nsa sex

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