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"I find that people often expect single bi girls to leave their comfort zone and to just be there for the couple's pleasure. Not all mind you. But some! I've had a lot of correspondence with people who don't want to meet first and think meeting for a drink on the night of a meet constitutes "getting to know each other" . There has to be willingness on both sides. But I for one prefer to have met a couple in a social sense before going further " Dead right, makes total sense. You determine your rules of engagement, no one else. | |||
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"I find that people often expect single bi girls to leave their comfort zone and to just be there for the couple's pleasure. Not all mind you. But some! I've had a lot of correspondence with people who don't want to meet first and think meeting for a drink on the night of a meet constitutes "getting to know each other" . There has to be willingness on both sides. But I for one prefer to have met a couple in a social sense before going further " ![]() | |||
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"Unicorns are mythical creatures just as pretty ladies are on fab." Do you think you say nasty unpleasant things so that when no woman wants anything to do with you, you can justify it in your own head as “it’s only because I talk trash”...? It’s bloody depressing man, 90% of people on here a decent and kind, but it’s the 10% like you who sour it for people.. fuckin unbelievable that mods don’t ban you constantly.. can only imagine it’s because your considered completely irrelevant .. ![]() | |||
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"Unicorns are mythical creatures just as pretty ladies are on fab. Do you think you say nasty unpleasant things so that when no woman wants anything to do with you, you can justify it in your own head as “it’s only because I talk trash”...? It’s bloody depressing man, 90% of people on here a decent and kind, but it’s the 10% like you who sour it for people.. fuckin unbelievable that mods don’t ban you constantly.. can only imagine it’s because your considered completely irrelevant .. ![]() I find ignoring said posts the most effective ![]() | |||
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"Maybe so JD... definitely Just on the wound up side of things tonight.. ![]() ![]() Understood and I understand but after a time here, you learn to ignore. Occasionally though, a good verbal blasting does your heart good. Others may call it White Knighting but, personally, when I do it, I couldn't give two fucks regardless ![]() | |||
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"Unicorns are mythical creatures just as pretty ladies are on fab." What....seriously...then why the hell are you here if you think that. | |||
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"I find that people often expect single bi girls to leave their comfort zone and to just be there for the couple's pleasure. Not all mind you. But some! I've had a lot of correspondence with people who don't want to meet first and think meeting for a drink on the night of a meet constitutes "getting to know each other" . " Full agree .... | |||
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"Unicorns are mythical creatures just as pretty ladies are on fab. Do you think you say nasty unpleasant things so that when no woman wants anything to do with you, you can justify it in your own head as “it’s only because I talk trash”...? It’s bloody depressing man, 90% of people on here a decent and kind, but it’s the 10% like you who sour it for people.. fuckin unbelievable that mods don’t ban you constantly.. can only imagine it’s because your considered completely irrelevant .. ![]() I think you better try and explain your outburst its very insulting. | |||
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"Unicorns are mythical creatures just as pretty ladies are on fab. Do you think you say nasty unpleasant things so that when no woman wants anything to do with you, you can justify it in your own head as “it’s only because I talk trash”...? It’s bloody depressing man, 90% of people on here a decent and kind, but it’s the 10% like you who sour it for people.. fuckin unbelievable that mods don’t ban you constantly.. can only imagine it’s because your considered completely irrelevant .. ![]() been a bit a generous with 90%. ![]() | |||
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"Unicorns are mythical creatures just as pretty ladies are on fab. Do you think you say nasty unpleasant things so that when no woman wants anything to do with you, you can justify it in your own head as “it’s only because I talk trash”...? It’s bloody depressing man, 90% of people on here a decent and kind, but it’s the 10% like you who sour it for people.. fuckin unbelievable that mods don’t ban you constantly.. can only imagine it’s because your considered completely irrelevant .. ![]() ...nah I don’t think I will.. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Unicorns are mythical creatures just as pretty ladies are on fab. Do you think you say nasty unpleasant things so that when no woman wants anything to do with you, you can justify it in your own head as “it’s only because I talk trash”...? It’s bloody depressing man, 90% of people on here a decent and kind, but it’s the 10% like you who sour it for people.. fuckin unbelievable that mods don’t ban you constantly.. can only imagine it’s because your considered completely irrelevant .. ![]() ![]() I’m the eternal optimist... ![]() | |||
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"There are 30 women online. .. advanced search feature tells me 2 are bisexual/ have threesomes listed as a preference. There are 102 couples and 300+ men. I'd say statistally that's rare! The dynamic has to work for everyone involved. .. and social interaction is vital in establishing an attraction... regardless of what a profile says! Being the centre of a couples attention has to be awesome. .. but unfortunately unicorns are sometimes used by couples as fluffers... and can leave the encounter feeling unfulfilled. I think unicorns are rare... What's rare is precious! What's precious is valued and revered. Happy fabbing xxx ![]() ![]() Searching who is online will only give you part of the picture. The point I am making is bi sexual females are not rare but establishing play with them is, so how can this change. Again this isn't about blame as I think it's from both sides. I know for me starting out I had a bit of a experience that left me wary and I feel it holds me back a bit. I also know what it's like to try to be inclusive and respectful of a female joining a couple dynamic from the couple's perspective which is more difficult at times making sure everyone is ok. Is it rare for this dynamic because it's more work? | |||
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