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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

when speaking through the net on sites like these you can portray yourself as a nice person but in reality it means very little and is only words. you can say "I'm not a weirdo", "im normal" etc. question is, what makes you trust a person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I'd like to think I'm the same person on line as I am in person. Maybe I'm more chatty in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gut instinct (and a few subtle tests). Learn a lot about your own judgement here.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It's a lot of little puzzle pieces mainly gathered out of conversations, but also drawn from the profile and veris, that that come together to form a picture. The gut feeling is constantly scrutinising the incoming information. If there's doubt, there's no trust, there won't be a meet.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

did you ever have a different opinion on a person to when you met, say at a meet and greet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gut instinct (and a few subtle tests). Learn a lot about your own judgement here. "

Thankfully I already had my instincts finely honed before fab.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"did you ever have a different opinion on a person to when you met, say at a meet and greet?"

No I’ve normally been on the ball with how they’ve been through text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gut instinct and Time ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm a nice guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gut instinct and Time ...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gut instinct is my best friend. It's never let me down, but I've let myself down a few times by not listening to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a nice person, but I have alot of anger in me, due too past experiences, and get hurt easily, but trying too put that behind me, and concentrate on positive people around me as apposed to negativity,

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By *ichael MeathMan
over a year ago

Dublin

As most said, instinct. Keep in mind that some of the fabbers are only recently discovering themselves or are gathering the "courage" to be more open about their way or life. Personally, if I would feel uncomfortable (I guess it is gut feeling), I'd walk away.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"when speaking through the net on sites like these you can portray yourself as a nice person but in reality it means very little and is only words. you can say "I'm not a weirdo", "im normal" etc. question is, what makes you trust a person? "

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Online, you've really no idea as to the gender , mental (in)stability or true age of the person you're chatting with is...

That's why I look to chat on KIK as chatting is instantaneous there and you can begin to see if the person is who they say they are...

Also, if the person is a friend of a Fabber I know really well, chances are that there'll be no messing around or silly games either (My experience so far)

After a while of dealing with trolls, spoofers and timewasters, the legit sexy people stand out a mile here... So experience and gut reaction definitely helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it would depend on what people’s intentions are. Whether they are here just for sex or if they actually want to meet like minded people. People who are sexually frustrated are bound to be a little too eager at times!

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

A lot of wolves in sheep's clothing here and all walk's of life. A combo of using your ears, eyes, gut instinct and your brain.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

So many women say go on gut instinct

Yet I know so many often very smart women who fall for the wrong guy. Their gut instinct is well off

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

I don't think you can actually assess and then judge someone by what they say on here, either on forums or in private messaging.

There's too much noise, too much testosterone at times, too many altered behaviours (on both sides) due to the competition and ratio difference and I believe that affects how people behave and they way they respond and message.

I think you can only get the measure of someone when you start to message offline on kik, etc and its just the two people conversing, so it tends to be a better reflection on the individuals. This is how I make up my mind to meet someone or not.

I know I have sent messages that I later regretted and came across like an arsehole as I was trying too hard to impress as I knew I was up against competition, which affected what I said and hence the lady was never going to form a bond of trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally gut feeling. Hey we often meet folk in real life that cod us for a while before we see through them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im bit more opinionated online I think

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