FabSwingers.com forum: Something positive!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

*ahem*

In an effort to change my usual stance on the forums and my recent negative experiences on site and on scene I've decided to start a thread listing some positives of both!

Feel free to join!!

I have had the luck to be extremely fortunate here, having met and played host to some of the most beautiful, interesting, open-minded, sexy people I've ever had the good grace to come across!

It has also allowed me to explore my sexuality in hereto unexamined ways.

In addition I've been able to introduce several close friends to the lifestyle and watch them grow as people, conducting their own explorations of their bodies and their sexual desires.... (That's probably my favourite part!)

Anyone else wanna list something positive?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

P.S.

I also got the ride.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Great thread OP

I've met and made friends with a few off here,(one in particular) some I would call close friends now.

Also I discovered I'm not a sexual deviant ,there are more out there and here.

Ps.... don't look on thing's as negative... they are just othe peoples opinions and beliefs. We're all different ,that's what makes this life exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatted with some wonderful people, one in particular and while not met yet have a great laugh chatting.

Good post OP!

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth

I met Ann, and we have have had an amazing few years since with some very sexy peeps. Thanks Fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met some amazing people, most of them are part of my every day life still.

I've learned a lot, I've taught a bit, and the most surprising and unexpected thing that has happened is I joined a fab walking group which has helped me to be more active, more fit and to accomplish things I never thought I could or would.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Great thread OP

I've met and made friends with a few off here,(one in particular) some I would call close friends now.

Also I discovered I'm not a sexual deviant ,there are more out there and here.

Why thank you!

And I'm glad you found your sexual tribe!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I met Ann, and we have have had an amazing few years since with some very sexy peeps. Thanks Fab!

Ah bless!

I love a good happy pervy ending!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've met some amazing people, most of them are part of my every day life still.

Are you sure it's just the walking keeping you fit?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Chatted with some wonderful people, one in particular and while not met yet have a great laugh chatting.

Good post OP!

Delighted you've found someone you can connect with!!

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth

"I met Ann, and we have have had an amazing few years since with some very sexy peeps. Thanks Fab!

Ah bless!

I love a good happy pervy ending!!!!

Cheers

also, the backpiece is brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers

also, the backpiece is brilliant!"

Thanks! T'would want to be! 24 hours and a few grand later.... no wonder I'm crushed with debt!

Met someone VERY special myself on here a while back... she's taking some time out but I always like to hear of others finding something more than just sex here!

Wish you all the best guys!

(Should I buy a hat?!)

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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

buy a hat, it does miracles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned a few things from reading the threads and grew a thicker skin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Met someone VERY special myself on here a while back... she's taking some time out but I always like to hear of others finding something more than just sex here!

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Thrilled to hear that for you BFB

The number of years I've been on Fabs has allowed me to be my other self. A kinda therapy really - express myself in ways I just can't do with close family and friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was a great distraction from my separation and divorce

Met some great people along the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is a great confidence booster regardless of looks or size most say nice things

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"buy a hat, it does miracles

I actually have several!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great to see a positive post here!

Have to say I’ve really had some great fun on fab over the years and met some great people and made a few friends along the way!

Always fun to find out who thinks you’re hot

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I got a nice walk on a beach.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've learned a few things from reading the threads and grew a thicker skin. "

A must have requirement for every single male on site!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Was a great distraction from my separation and divorce

Met some great people along the way "

Oh I'm sure you managed to find plenty of other, more tangible, distractions along her way too Good Lady!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fab is a great confidence booster regardless of looks or size most say nice things

And the rest you can always block

Wasn't a major user of said feature until recently but it does come in handy!

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By *hemcicalMan
over a year ago

Lisburn

"Was a great distraction from my separation and divorce

So the stupidest guy in Ireland has officially been crowned then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was a great distraction from my separation and divorce

So the stupidest guy in Ireland has officially been crowned then?

Yup I gave him the crown I got when I said yes in the first place

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Was a great distraction from my separation and divorce

So the stupidest guy in Ireland has officially been crowned then?

Smooth as f#@k....

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By *hemcicalMan
over a year ago

Lisburn

"Was a great distraction from my separation and divorce

So the stupidest guy in Ireland has officially been crowned then?

Yup I gave him the crown I got when I said yes in the first place

Content yourself that he's probably kicking himself daily ever since

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By *hemcicalMan
over a year ago

Lisburn

"Was a great distraction from my separation and divorce

So the stupidest guy in Ireland has officially been crowned then?

Smooth as f#@k....

Haha...*bows* why thank you kind sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most positive thing for me- get know myself (sexually and not only), I would never thought I could do things I have done, pushed boundaries in loots ways!

Also met some amazing people!

Have learnt lots lessons too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to live out my kinks in ways I never thought possible, had amazing sex and just love the excitement of meeting new people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Got to live out my kinks in ways I never thought possible, had amazing sex and just love the excitement of meeting new people "

Any more left to tick off the proverbial box?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got to live out my kinks in ways I never thought possible, had amazing sex and just love the excitement of meeting new people

Any more left to tick off the proverbial box?!

Oh plenty in my filthy mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh plenty in my filthy mind

*squirms*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is amazing if your looking for nsa sex to push you're boundaries and explore your sexual fantasies.

I've had so many wonderful experiences.

I find it sad however that some people need fab to find a social outlet and that real life doesn't provide one for them.

Makes me wonder what kind of person can't make friends in regular normal every day life?

And that fab gives them that false sense of real friendship. I do find that very sad indeed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fab is amazing if your looking for nsa sex to push you're boundaries and explore your sexual fantasies.

I've had so many wonderful experiences.

I find it sad however that some people need fab to find a social outlet and that real life doesn't provide one for them.

Makes me wonder what kind of person can't make friends in regular normal every day life?

And that fab gives them that false sense of real friendship. I do find that very sad indeed!

Wow. That's an interesting take.

Speaking only for myself; If a spend a night in a lady's or couple's company. We have great sex, a good laugh, fair bit of banter and obviously share similar interests... why wouldn't we become friendly?

I have plenty of vanilla friends.... some of whom have joined this site as a result of my advice... and they too have met and formed friendships on here.

It's the same as any other social site... but whereas dating sites are for dating... and friendship sites are for friendship... here is for swinging.

It's only natural that social relationships are formed here. In fact it's the part of the scene I enjoy the most.

I'm over 12 years swinging now... my little black book doesn't necessarily need more additions... but I enjoy meeting and getting to know new and interesting people!

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By *nalcumslutWoman
over a year ago

navan

"Fab is amazing if your looking for nsa sex to push you're boundaries and explore your sexual fantasies.

I've had so many wonderful experiences.

I find it sad however that some people need fab to find a social outlet and that real life doesn't provide one for them.

Makes me wonder what kind of person can't make friends in regular normal every day life?

And that fab gives them that false sense of real friendship. I do find that very sad indeed!

Wow. That's an interesting take.

I have plenty of vanilla friends.... some of whom have joined this site as a result of my advice... and they too have met and formed friendships on here.

It's the same as any other social site... but whereas dating sites are for dating... and friendship sites are for friendship... here is for swinging.

It's only natural that social relationships are formed here. In fact it's the part of the scene I enjoy the most.

I'm over 12 years swinging now... my little black book doesn't necessarily need more additions... but I enjoy meeting and getting to know new and interesting people! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met the love of my life on here, the King of course.

We would never have meet if it wasn't for fab.

Meeting loads of lovely people the length and breadth of the country. And being outdoorsy for once in my life

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

I'm hoping given time I'll have lots of positive things to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Met the love of my life on here, the King of course.

We would never have meet if it wasn't for fab.

Meeting loads of lovely people the length and breadth of the country. And being outdoorsy for once in my life"

What a lovely story xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha, the only thing positive I've gotten from this site is HIV!

Well I've met my amazing gf on tinder, but pretty soon we realised we both were on Fab and that was the cherry on top. It's fun to have your vanilla regular life, then go off to secret sexy parties and explore that side of things together aswell.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Met the love of my life on here, the King of course.

We would never have meet if it wasn't for fab.

Meeting loads of lovely people the length and breadth of the country. And being outdoorsy for once in my life"

I concur with MISSGrey!

Think we should start collecting all the love stories to come out of a shared passion for filth!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm hoping given time I'll have lots of positive things to say "

Oh I have no doubt! Fab is much like everything else in life.... good and bad...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Haha, the only thing positive I've gotten from this site is HIV!

*ahem*

And you've met me! You big ask hunk ya!

Although I get you trying to keep that on the down low....

Our love, though pure, is a secret love....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Similar situation meet on tinder I mentioned Vanilla brought her and couples profile next day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been lucky enough on here to have met some decent skins, made good friends 1 or 2 in particular, realised what I once thought was abnormal or weird actually isn’t and I’ve had a lot of fun doing it!!!

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

Thanks to a certain lady who recently lifted the blinkers from my mind and directed me towards my true sexual self.

You know who you are X

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"Haha, the only thing positive I've gotten from this site is HIV!

You guys just rock!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Similar situation meet on tinder I mentioned Vanilla brought her and couples profile next day

That's some impressively fast work!

Kudos! Here's to corruption!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also think Ive been fortunate here, I met a great guy and we had a very special relationship, have had many mfm’s with some super hot and nice guys. It has also given me more confidence to show off my curves. I haven’t done too badly here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Met the love of my life on here, the King of course.

We would never have meet if it wasn't for fab.

Meeting loads of lovely people the length and breadth of the country. And being outdoorsy for once in my life

I concur with MISSGrey!

Think we should start collecting all the love stories to come out of a shared passion for filth!

Thanks guys, what a great idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I also think Ive been fortunate here, I met a great guy and we had a very special relationship, have had many mfm’s with some super hot and nice guys. It has also given me more confidence to show off my curves. I haven’t done too badly here!

Redhott;

We humbly thank you for showing off your curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Similar situation meet on tinder I mentioned Vanilla brought her and couples profile next day

That's some impressively fast work!

Kudos! Here's to corruption!

What can I say I'm good at what I do best

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What can I say I'm good at what I do best

Long may it continue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What can I say I'm good at what I do best

Long may it continue!"

Here's hoping BFB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha, the only thing positive I've gotten from this site is HIV!

*ahem*

And you've met me! You big ask hunk ya!

Although I get you trying to keep that on the down low....

Our love, though pure, is a secret love....

Haha, I'd like to think that it's in our destiny to meet, so would have crossed paths regardless of Fab.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Fab/swinging has been an overall positive experience for me lots and lots of positives from the friends I've made, the people I've loved to the experiences I've had the only negatives are the people who have left.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"*ahem*

And you've met me! You big ask hunk ya!

Although I get you trying to keep that on the down low....

Our love, though pure, is a secret love....

Haha, I'd like to think that it's in our destiny to meet, so would have crossed paths regardless of Fab.

Such a sweetie!

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