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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am a married man on here playing alone.

Is it really that hard to meet someone.

Am i been to honest.

Im sure im not the only one.....

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"I am a married man on here playing alone.

Is it really that hard to meet someone.

Am i been to honest.

Im sure im not the only one....."

Depends if you’ve told your wife you’re on here doesn’t it ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No i havent.

And im sure im not the only one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If wife has no interest no point in telling her

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"No i havent.

And im sure im not the only one. "

No you're definitely not the only one. Some wouldn't meet an attached guy that is playing without partner's consent, others don't mind. It's in general not that easy to get a meet as the female male ratio is about 1:10. If you want to increase your chances work on your profile.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"No i havent.

And im sure im not the only one. "

True - it’s just your cri de coeur “am I been (sic) too honest” rings a little hollow when you’re looking the ride behind your wife’s back.

Not judging - just making an observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No i havent.

And im sure im not the only one.

True - it’s just your cri de coeur “am I been (sic) too honest” rings a little hollow when you’re looking the ride behind your wife’s back.

Not judging - just making an observation "

Made the same observation

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

If you are being honest why not be honest on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a married man on here playing alone.

Is it really that hard to meet someone.

Am i been to honest.

Im sure im not the only one....."
It depends who you are here some married people are treated like celebrities while others are called cheats.

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Your not being honest as you are playing behind yoyr wifes back bit hypocritical if you ask me and why not buton your profile that you are married if you are being so honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The issue here is if someone wants to play with married there are plenty of married men and women playing together so why would anyone take the chance on someone been deceitful just to get a ride . It's also the excuses from some on here "my wife doesn't understand me" "we live separate lives" and many other utterly ridiculous statements cos at home some play the doting husband . Any man or indeed woman playing behind someone's back on here has to take the chance of been caught but singles don't have to engage and alot won't so you been truthful here does nothing really

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Married people have less free time which doesn't suit a lot of singles

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth


"Married people have less free time which doesn't suit a lot of singles"

On a seperate topic, profile pic is something else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My experience with married fellas is that they assume you have to fit their schedule and agree to all their demands, coz they are married and don’t want anyone to know. Just coz I’m single doesn’t mean I waiting Home desperate for sex all day long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of married people here but clearly it’s not going to suit all women to get involved with that. Maybe focus more on what might interest someone rather than what’s going to put them off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a married man on here playing alone.

Is it really that hard to meet someone.

Am i been to honest.

Im sure im not the only one.....

Depends if you’ve told your wife you’re on here doesn’t it ?"

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

Whenever I see married people here, I always think about "Escape (The Pins Colada song)" and wonder if something so nice will happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whenever I see married people here, I always think about "Escape (The Pins Colada song)" and wonder if something so nice will happen.

"

Lol I like your optimism!

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal


"My experience with married fellas is that they assume you have to fit their schedule...

"

We don't meet married people for this reason. Our experience has been poor in this area. Everything was last minute because he "wasn't sure if he could get away"

To quote Sweet Brown "Ain't no body got time for that."

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

I'm a single guy and had a meet cancelled because she thought I was married because I'm not willing to accommodate. Is it that unreasonable to not want to invite strangers to my home?

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Loads of married men on here cheating, doing well.

Loads of married women too, well a few at least.

Being honest about it does not seem to impact chances really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a single guy and had a meet cancelled because she thought I was married because I'm not willing to accommodate. Is it that unreasonable to not want to invite strangers to my home? "

You want to fuck her but won’t have her in your home ? You gave her no other reason then that ?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I'm sure there is a few married who don't say it also.

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"I'm a single guy and had a meet cancelled because she thought I was married because I'm not willing to accommodate. Is it that unreasonable to not want to invite strangers to my home?

You want to fuck her but won’t have her in your home ? You gave her no other reason then that ? "

Ah come on now - He's a guy, which means he'd have to tidy up, do the dishes and hoover and stuff before inviting someone over; I'm with him on this one..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a single guy and had a meet cancelled because she thought I was married because I'm not willing to accommodate. Is it that unreasonable to not want to invite strangers to my home?

You want to fuck her but won’t have her in your home ? You gave her no other reason then that ?

Ah come on now - He's a guy, which means he'd have to tidy up, do the dishes and hoover and stuff before inviting someone over; I'm with him on this one..! "

There are lots of single people here who don’t accommodate for different reasons and some prefer to have the first play meet some where like a hotel before inviting someone over .

But Sorry telling someone they are good enough to fuck not good enough to have your home , is how he came across and well I’d be saying no to that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a single guy and had a meet cancelled because she thought I was married because I'm not willing to accommodate. Is it that unreasonable to not want to invite strangers to my home?

You want to fuck her but won’t have her in your home ? You gave her no other reason then that ?

Ah come on now - He's a guy, which means he'd have to tidy up, do the dishes and hoover and stuff before inviting someone over; I'm with him on this one..!

There are lots of single people here who don’t accommodate for different reasons and some prefer to have the first play meet some where like a hotel before inviting someone over .

But Sorry telling someone they are good enough to fuck not good enough to have your home , is how he came across and well I’d be saying no to that ."

I think men are as entitled as women to be wary of bringing strangers to their home.

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


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Ah come on now - He's a guy, which means he'd have to tidy up, do the dishes and hoover and stuff before inviting someone over; I'm with him on this one..!

There are lots of single people here who don’t accommodate for different reasons and some prefer to have the first play meet some where like a hotel before inviting someone over .

But Sorry telling someone they are good enough to fuck not good enough to have your home , is how he came across and well I’d be saying no to that ."

Is it not the "accepted" norm to have a neutral venue for first fuck dates for 1-2-1 meets..? Just curious..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ah come on now - He's a guy, which means he'd have to tidy up, do the dishes and hoover and stuff before inviting someone over; I'm with him on this one..!

There are lots of single people here who don’t accommodate for different reasons and some prefer to have the first play meet some where like a hotel before inviting someone over .

But Sorry telling someone they are good enough to fuck not good enough to have your home , is how he came across and well I’d be saying no to that .

Is it not the "accepted" norm to have a neutral venue for first fuck dates for 1-2-1 meets..? Just curious.."

It would be but that’s not how he came across if he had said something like that then of course thats acceptable perhaps I miss understood what he said

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"I'm a single guy and had a meet cancelled because she thought I was married because I'm not willing to accommodate. Is it that unreasonable to not want to invite strangers to my home? "

Everyone has the right to not invite strangers to their personal space! Men as much as women. Women can turn out to be psycho too definitely don’t want a bunny boiler knowing we’re you live!!!! Her lose cancelling on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it not the "accepted" norm to have a neutral venue for first fuck dates for 1-2-1 meets..? "

For various reasons that 1st meet should not be in your house, it is a stranger you are meeting & if you decide to not progress past the coffee, do you really want someone in your house that may not leave or in the future knows where you live ... welcome your very own stalker or Bunnyboiler

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


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Ah come on now - He's a guy, which means he'd have to tidy up, do the dishes and hoover and stuff before inviting someone over; I'm with him on this one..!

There are lots of single people here who don’t accommodate for different reasons and some prefer to have the first play meet some where like a hotel before inviting someone over .

But Sorry telling someone they are good enough to fuck not good enough to have your home , is how he came across and well I’d be saying no to that .

Is it not the "accepted" norm to have a neutral venue for first fuck dates for 1-2-1 meets..? Just curious..

It would be but that’s not how he came across if he had said something like that then of course thats acceptable perhaps I miss understood what he said "

Nah, you had a valid comment.

Besides, his wife was at home that day so it would have been inconvenient as well as socially very awkward to go ahead with the meet...

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I'm a single guy and had a meet cancelled because she thought I was married because I'm not willing to accommodate. Is it that unreasonable to not want to invite strangers to my home?

You want to fuck her but won’t have her in your home ? You gave her no other reason then that ? "

I think that's a very acceptable reason.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I'm a single guy and had a meet cancelled because she thought I was married because I'm not willing to accommodate. Is it that unreasonable to not want to invite strangers to my home?

You want to fuck her but won’t have her in your home ? You gave her no other reason then that ?

I think that's a very acceptable reason. "

Let's not forget she also wanted to fuck him but there was no mention of going round to hers

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"I'm a single guy and had a meet cancelled because she thought I was married because I'm not willing to accommodate. Is it that unreasonable to not want to invite strangers to my home?

You want to fuck her but won’t have her in your home ? You gave her no other reason then that ?

I think that's a very acceptable reason.

Let's not forget she also wanted to fuck him but there was no mention of going round to hers "

Yeah, but she still lives with her mum and dad and their patience was starting to wear a bit thin: "Eithne! Not another one! Thats 9 this month from Fab alone and poor Mrs Doherty next door has never gotten over you pegging that last fella over the garden gate during Coronation Street last week!".

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I'm a single guy and had a meet cancelled because she thought I was married because I'm not willing to accommodate. Is it that unreasonable to not want to invite strangers to my home?

You want to fuck her but won’t have her in your home ? You gave her no other reason then that ?

I think that's a very acceptable reason.

Let's not forget she also wanted to fuck him but there was no mention of going round to hers "

Ahhh CJ, you know you can always come around to my gingerbread house.

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town


"I'm a single guy and had a meet cancelled because she thought I was married because I'm not willing to accommodate. Is it that unreasonable to not want to invite strangers to my home?

You want to fuck her but won’t have her in your home ? You gave her no other reason then that ? "

To be fair, she knew I couldn't accom. From the start. She couldn't either.(pot kettle black?) We agreed to meet for coffee and take it from there.

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town


"I'm a single guy and had a meet cancelled because she thought I was married because I'm not willing to accommodate. Is it that unreasonable to not want to invite strangers to my home?

Everyone has the right to not invite strangers to their personal space! Men as much as women. Women can turn out to be psycho too definitely don’t want a bunny boiler knowing we’re you live!!!! Her lose cancelling on you "

thanks.

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town


"I'm a single guy and had a meet cancelled because she thought I was married because I'm not willing to accommodate. Is it that unreasonable to not want to invite strangers to my home?

You want to fuck her but won’t have her in your home ? You gave her no other reason then that ?

I think that's a very acceptable reason.

Let's not forget she also wanted to fuck him but there was no mention of going round to hers "

True that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads of married men on here cheating, doing well.

Loads of married women too, well a few at least.

Being honest about it does not seem to impact chances really."

There are loads of posts about married guys and married women.

Though guys do seem to get the worst backlash than women. Is that because fab women have higher morals in meeting married men than guys meeting married women? Though some say on their profile they don't meet married guys yet are verified by them?

Who knows.

But in my humble opinion if a person, male or female puts on their profile that they are married then it is entirely up to other fabbers whether they meet them or not!

Though I do think guys or women who are married should put it on their profile.

As I have seen on various threads....until you walk a mile in someone elses shoes etc etc don't judge!

Just saying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My experience with married fellas is that they assume you have to fit their schedule and agree to all their demands, coz they are married and don’t want anyone to know. Just coz I’m single doesn’t mean I waiting Home desperate for sex all day long. "

This. Was chatting a guy wants to meet but wants me to book hotel, take the day off work, travel as close to dublin to suit him but he have to be gone by 5am in morning. So im out 2 days work and hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My experience with married fellas is that they assume you have to fit their schedule and agree to all their demands, coz they are married and don’t want anyone to know. Just coz I’m single doesn’t mean I waiting Home desperate for sex all day long.

This. Was chatting a guy wants to meet but wants me to book hotel, take the day off work, travel as close to dublin to suit him but he have to be gone by 5am in morning. So im out 2 days work and hotel. "

He sure knows how to make you feel special, huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My experience with married fellas is that they assume you have to fit their schedule and agree to all their demands, coz they are married and don’t want anyone to know. Just coz I’m single doesn’t mean I waiting Home desperate for sex all day long.

This. Was chatting a guy wants to meet but wants me to book hotel, take the day off work, travel as close to dublin to suit him but he have to be gone by 5am in morning. So im out 2 days work and hotel.

He sure knows how to make you feel special, huh? "

Lol. Believe me the most unexpected guys can make you feel like sh*t on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not into men married or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My experience with married fellas is that they assume you have to fit their schedule and agree to all their demands, coz they are married and don’t want anyone to know. Just coz I’m single doesn’t mean I waiting Home desperate for sex all day long.

This. Was chatting a guy wants to meet but wants me to book hotel, take the day off work, travel as close to dublin to suit him but he have to be gone by 5am in morning. So im out 2 days work and hotel.

He sure knows how to make you feel special, huh? "

Ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My experience with married fellas is that they assume you have to fit their schedule and agree to all their demands, coz they are married and don’t want anyone to know. Just coz I’m single doesn’t mean I waiting Home desperate for sex all day long.

This. Was chatting a guy wants to meet but wants me to book hotel, take the day off work, travel as close to dublin to suit him but he have to be gone by 5am in morning. So im out 2 days work and hotel.

He sure knows how to make you feel special, huh?

Lol. Believe me the most unexpected guys can make you feel like sh*t on here. "

I don't doubt it’s true. But regardless of the circumstances of either person, it has to work for both. Someone with limited availability can’t expect that they can call the shots. Unless he’s some kind of love guru of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet attached men.

Whether married or with partners.

My choice.

I don't judge.

Not here to judge.

Being honest OP means on your profile stating you are married.

Maybe then you will have more luck.

That way people know right up front.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a married man on here playing alone.

Is it really that hard to meet someone.

Am i been to honest.

Im sure im not the only one....."

Hey I am a married woman looking to meet a married man only. I want someone who is going to be as discrete as me with as much to lose. Why don't you state exactly what you want in your profile it worked for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a married man on here playing alone.

Is it really that hard to meet someone.

Am i been to honest.

Im sure im not the only one.....

Hey I am a married woman looking to meet a married man only. I want someone who is going to be as discrete as me with as much to lose. Why don't you state exactly what you want in your profile it worked for me. "

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By *lowersMan
over a year ago

Derry

Everyone should do what they are comfortable with. As for inviting someone to your home, there are reasons not to. One is that they know where you live and if they are minded to can make things difficult for the host.

Another is the guy’s personal circumstances. He may live in a fucking mansion but he may live in a house where there isn’t much money around for the nicer things in life and he would feel a little embarrassed.

Don’t rush to judgement my friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True lady phoinex stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My experience with married fellas is that they assume you have to fit their schedule and agree to all their demands, coz they are married and don’t want anyone to know. Just coz I’m single doesn’t mean I waiting Home desperate for sex all day long.

This. Was chatting a guy wants to meet but wants me to book hotel, take the day off work, travel as close to dublin to suit him but he have to be gone by 5am in morning. So im out 2 days work and hotel. "
WHAT.......was he a bloody comedian having a laugh

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