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Do you tell the truth!!!!

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By *s Lolly OP   Woman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

You send a wink or a message ye get chatting there's flirty messages sent back and forth. After a while ye agree to coffee or a drink it goes really well...You decided to a play meet but unfortunately fot you it isn't that good and your left unsatisfied and fustrated....They look to meet agsin do you.

A.. Tell the truth or

B.. Just keep putting off meeting again hoping they get the hint...

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By *onybart2404TV/TS
over a year ago

keady

Never

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West


"You send a wink or a message ye get chatting there's flirty messages sent back and forth. After a while ye agree to coffee or a drink it goes really well...You decided to a play meet but unfortunately fot you it isn't that good and your left unsatisfied and fustrated....They look to meet agsin do you.

A.. Tell the truth or

B.. Just keep putting off meeting again hoping they get the hint... "

I've had a few times like that and if it happens once it will happen again so better off leaving it...

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By *s Lolly OP   Woman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"You send a wink or a message ye get chatting there's flirty messages sent back and forth. After a while ye agree to coffee or a drink it goes really well...You decided to a play meet but unfortunately fot you it isn't that good and your left unsatisfied and fustrated....They look to meet agsin do you.

A.. Tell the truth or

B.. Just keep putting off meeting again hoping they get the hint...

I've had a few times like that and if it happens once it will happen again so better off leaving it..."

But do you just tell them the truth why ye don't want to meet again...

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By *istantduoCouple
over a year ago

tipperary


"You send a wink or a message ye get chatting there's flirty messages sent back and forth. After a while ye agree to coffee or a drink it goes really well...You decided to a play meet but unfortunately fot you it isn't that good and your left unsatisfied and fustrated....They look to meet agsin do you.

A.. Tell the truth or

B.. Just keep putting off meeting again hoping they get the hint...

I've had a few times like that and if it happens once it will happen again so better off leaving it...

But do you just tell them the truth why ye don't want to meet again..."

Tricky one maybe not blow his little shread of confidence to pieces. Could you be very nice and polite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By default, always tell the truth.

Sadly, that is also the quickest way to find out really how mature a lot of people are...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell the truth no point stringing people along

L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be straight and tell it as it is

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By *rishcouple12Couple
over a year ago

Cork County

Truth but said in a nice way

What floats their and your boat may be very different thus leading to a let down, doesn't mean they are awful in bed just didn't push the right buttons

Or the other side is they are awful in bed but you can still give the above answer

I'm sure they will feel a little hurt but that's the process of being a adult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know you are trying to be kind but by telling the truth you are being kind in the long term...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is always the best policy, if it wasn't good for you I'm sure he knew it too. Be polite and say it's not for ya and thanks for your time but aside from that, not a lot you can do

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By *ubjackMan
over a year ago

dublin

Tell the truth. Besides being put off even more frustrating and annoying than being told the truth. We all big boys and can understand that we not everyone’s cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give it second go in hope it's better lol

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Write a shit veri and they won't come back.

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"Write a shit veri and they won't come back. "

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Just tell them you were left unsatisfied and frustrated.

I’ve had to do it in the past..

Would I go there a second time... hhmmm it’s very hard to say, depends on his reaction to me telling him that it didnt work for me first time..

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By *s Lolly OP   Woman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Write a shit veri and they won't come back. "

Never taught of that DH I just never left one

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath


"Write a shit veri and they won't come back.

Never taught of that DH I just never left one "

Don’t leave a veri.. he then has the green tick and doesn’t have to show it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell them you join fab for no strings fun and you consider a return meet strings. Your fab life is a one time matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone ever left a very bad verification if I have a bad meet I just move on no point putting the boot or stillitoe in

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Why not have some tact and just say no to meeting again and not give any reason.

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"Has anyone ever left a very bad verification if I have a bad meet I just move on no point putting the boot or stillitoe in"

Can't recall a veri that savaged someone, but there are some that damn the object of the veri with faint praise, which is pretty much the same thing..

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Write a shit veri and they won't come back.

Never taught of that DH I just never left one "

Oh I see he/they are a bit slow in picking up signals, no veri normally implies the meet didn't work out, but some don't get that.

Anyhow just say not interested with no explanation like Hal suggested further up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few times I have simply said I'm not feeling the connection.

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By *s Lolly OP   Woman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"A few times I have simply said I'm not feeling the connection. "

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I'm liking this approach not rude but suttle...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few times I have simply said I'm not feeling the connection.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I'm liking this approach not rude but suttle... "

Describes me to a t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't tell him you felt frustrated and unsatisfied. Theres no need for that. Just say you tend not to do repeat meets or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You send a wink or a message ye get chatting there's flirty messages sent back and forth. After a while ye agree to coffee or a drink it goes really well...You decided to a play meet but unfortunately fot you it isn't that good and your left unsatisfied and fustrated....They look to meet agsin do you.

A.. Tell the truth or

B.. Just keep putting off meeting again hoping they get the hint... "

Tell the truth and come up with a solution, if I like and want to play again i will on better terms lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, whoever they are, if they read the forums.....they'll prpbably know the craic now, ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell the truth ... no spark & not quite what you were looking for ... or i never return to a book i have read , more fish in this sea

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By *ugs BunnyCouple
over a year ago

south Dublin

I think if everyone was honest and open before during and after sex then he would have known that how things were proceeding was not working for you. If he is in any way a decent bloke, and you communicate what you do like, perhaps it could have been amazing sex. You can't blame a fella for unsatisfactory sex if you weren't open and honest right from the start. Perhaps try again but this time tell him from the start what it is that turns you on.

Tho maybe you did tell him and ive missed the point... Anyway just a suggestion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair he’s probably reading this thread and getting the hint lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a post script to what I've already said, a friend of mine met a guy on another site and didn't really hit it off as well as she thought they would. They tried again, and the second time was much much better. They actually ended up getting married, and yes I do know that that's not necessarily a recommendation for here

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By *s Lolly OP   Woman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"To be fair he’s probably reading this thread and getting the hint lol"

Nope dosent use the forum page hence why im putting it out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look u have 2 learn on here 2 have a tick skin or it's not for u...just tell them ur not for me and 2 move on..wish them luck..

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun


"To be fair he’s probably reading this thread and getting the hint lol

Nope dosent use the forum page hence why im putting it out there "

Evil.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few times I have simply said I'm not feeling the connection. "
me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few times I have simply said I'm not feeling the connection. "
me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You send a wink or a message ye get chatting there's flirty messages sent back and forth. After a while ye agree to coffee or a drink it goes really well...You decided to a play meet but unfortunately fot you it isn't that good and your left unsatisfied and fustrated....They look to meet agsin do you.

A.. Tell the truth or

B.. Just keep putting off meeting again hoping they get the hint... "

Tell the truth. Better the person knows the situation than has unfounded hope of meeting again

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