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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all, fairly new to the site. So far so good. Seams like a sound bunch here.

My question is : Im having a bit of a thing with a girl i know, we have spoke about threesomes etc and as far as i can make out she seams game for it. Thing is i dont know if i should tell her im on here or not? Should i try slowly ease into telling her the next time we are getting down to it or should i just bring it up in conversation? Im afraid if i tell her shr might think im fucking every tom,dick & fanny and go cold. Dont want this happening as shes hot as hell.

Help a man out!!

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

OK: So you've mentioned the topic of 3somes with her and feel she is open to it.

Why not say to her that you'd like to look into it a bit more then after a week say you've found this site, you've created a logon and are exploring to see how it can be safely done with people who are experienced..? Then ask her what she thinks at each stage..? Play it up as a discovery thing, a bit of a laugh and intro her to the site and have a look through together..?

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By *pontaneous fun boyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary, Dublin.


"OK: So you've mentioned the topic of 3somes with her and feel she is open to it.

Why not say to her that you'd like to look into it a bit more then after a week say you've found this site, you've created a logon and are exploring to see how it can be safely done with people who are experienced..? Then ask her what she thinks at each stage..? Play it up as a discovery thing, a bit of a laugh and intro her to the site and have a look through together..?"

What he said

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"OK: So you've mentioned the topic of 3somes with her and feel she is open to it.

Why not say to her that you'd like to look into it a bit more then after a week say you've found this site, you've created a logon and are exploring to see how it can be safely done with people who are experienced..? Then ask her what she thinks at each stage..? Play it up as a discovery thing, a bit of a laugh and intro her to the site and have a look through together..?"

Good advice^^.

Just make sure she actually likjed the idea of a threesome and not just saying in the heat of the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OK: So you've mentioned the topic of 3somes with her and feel she is open to it.

Why not say to her that you'd like to look into it a bit more then after a week say you've found this site, you've created a logon and are exploring to see how it can be safely done with people who are experienced..? Then ask her what she thinks at each stage..? Play it up as a discovery thing, a bit of a laugh and intro her to the site and have a look through together..?"

Yeah that sounds like a good idea, i think i might run with that and see how it goes. Thanks

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By *pontaneous fun boyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary, Dublin.


"OK: So you've mentioned the topic of 3somes with her and feel she is open to it.

Why not say to her that you'd like to look into it a bit more then after a week say you've found this site, you've created a logon and are exploring to see how it can be safely done with people who are experienced..? Then ask her what she thinks at each stage..? Play it up as a discovery thing, a bit of a laugh and intro her to the site and have a look through together..?

Yeah that sounds like a good idea, i think i might run with that and see how it goes. Thanks"

Be patient with it bud. Give it a week or so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So in other words most you are telling him to lie through his teeth to her.

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By *pontaneous fun boyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary, Dublin.

Well ye. It won't end well if he tells the truth

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I'd say tell her while you're doing her doggy style.

There are two possibilities

1. She'll love it and you'll get the ride of your life.

2. She'll hate it and you'll get the ride of your life.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"Hey all, fairly new to the site. So far so good. Seams like a sound bunch here.

My question is : Im having a bit of a thing with a girl i know, we have spoke about threesomes etc and as far as i can make out she seams game for it. Thing is i dont know if i should tell her im on here or not? Should i try slowly ease into telling her the next time we are getting down to it or should i just bring it up in conversation? Im afraid if i tell her shr might think im fucking every tom,dick & fanny and go cold. Dont want this happening as shes hot as hell.

Help a man out!! "

Are you dating or just casually seeing each other? You’ve only joined and not met anyone sexually, I would be straight with her. As a woman if I found out you’d been here and lied about it I would be gone. Be straight show her your profile and let her be introduced to the site through your profile. See if it’s something she may be open too as joining as a couple. If you don’t want to lose her don’t go behind her back. And yes just bring it up

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