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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You arrange to meet...

They post looking for a meet same day. Say it's a back up plan if anything falls through with our meet.

Thoughts?

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"You arrange to meet...

They post looking for a meet same day. Say it's a back up plan if anything falls through with our meet.

Thoughts? "

Think most people would agree the explanation was BS...

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves


"You arrange to meet...

They post looking for a meet same day. Say it's a back up plan if anything falls through with our meet.

Thoughts? "

No. Just no.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

Eh what a twat tell them to F off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor form I'd say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thought I missed something in the Fab book of etiquette but it's a bit disrespectful, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feck off i do wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you were his back up plan. Obviously a bit of a dickhead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought I missed something in the Fab book of etiquette but it's a bit disrespectful, right? "

Not even.... looking for a better offer.... ditch...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like you were his back up plan. Obviously a bit of a dickhead. "

Yup.

Next please!

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"Sounds like you were his back up plan. Obviously a bit of a dickhead.

Yup.

Next please! "

Stick a note on his profile or block him. They tend to come back after few months looking for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very..guy either has little confidence or is brimming over in arrogance

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Wish I’d gotten a back up plan today..

But seriously OP, if I’m not the main course they can feck off. Hope you ditched him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total ass

Block him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total ass

Block him

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"Total ass

Block him"

Bit of a forum stutter there...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wish I’d gotten a back up plan today..

But seriously OP, if I’m not the main course they can feck off. Hope you ditched him "

Done and done Ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total ass

Block him

Bit of a forum stutter there... "

How?

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"Total ass

Block him

Bit of a forum stutter there...

How?"

You posted twice...??

Unless you felt really strongly about your response and meant to click twice...!

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Total ass

Block him

Bit of a forum stutter there...

How?

You posted twice...??

Unless you felt really strongly about your response and meant to click twice...! "

Blocked back and front

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total ass

Block him

Bit of a forum stutter there...

How?

You posted twice...??

Unless you felt really strongly about your response and meant to click twice...! "

If u google stutter its the slow hesitant pronunciation of the word or line

Dont think i had a problem there

Total ass

Block him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Total ass

Block him

Bit of a forum stutter there...

How?

You posted twice...??

Unless you felt really strongly about your response and meant to click twice...!

Blocked back and front "

Side ways now

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"

If u google stutter its the slow hesitant pronunciation of the word or line

Dont think i had a problem there

Total ass

Block him "

Jeez! Forum Shamed by Miss Fabs superior knowledge of sentence semantics! I feel like a Fionnula...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If u google stutter its the slow hesitant pronunciation of the word or line

Dont think i had a problem there

Total ass

Block him

Jeez! Forum Shamed by Miss Fabs superior knowledge of sentence semantics! I feel like a Fionnula... "

Fionnula didnt use google

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By *ysteryman2009Man
over a year ago

Ireland


"You arrange to meet...

They post looking for a meet same day. Say it's a back up plan if anything falls through with our meet.

Thoughts? "

Thats a terrible thing for a guy to do, He needs to be blocked by all for his imature actions.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Is it they or he?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it they or he? "

He

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland


"You arrange to meet...

They post looking for a meet same day. Say it's a back up plan if anything falls through with our meet.

Thoughts? "

Yes for us anyway...once had 3 couples to meet one night and none of them turned up

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By *oxminxCouple
over a year ago

NaughtyVille *×* Laois

Maybe he was hoping to sort a meet for his split personality

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe he was hoping to sort a meet for his split personality

"

I did mention that last time we met. And he's a Gemini.

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By *oxminxCouple
over a year ago

NaughtyVille *×* Laois

Oh sure that explains that then. Lesson for us all. Be sure you can spread yourself thin for a Gemini before agreeing to a date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's a silly boy (back up plan) should've been grateful to meet you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh sure that explains that then. Lesson for us all. Be sure you can spread yourself thin for a Gemini before agreeing to a date

"

Oh the things I've learned through Fab!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He's a silly boy (back up plan) should've been grateful to meet you "

Very sweet. Thank you.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Op, Never play the second fiddle!

Anyhow if there's anyone out there who can take on a second meet after, please apply within

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Well to be fair if you look at all the "no show" threads on here, a back up might be a contingency plan.

I've only had one no show in a year but some folks on here seem to have a lot of bad luck with their meets.

Maye this guy had been burnt before?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well to be fair if you look at all the "no show" threads on here, a back up might be a contingency plan.

I've only had one no show in a year but some folks on here seem to have a lot of bad luck with their meets.

Maye this guy had been burnt before?

"

Possibly..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He's a silly boy (back up plan) should've been grateful to meet you

Very sweet. Thank you. "

hopefully you told him in the most easy way he would understand to go fuck himself.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

My thoughts?

They have a neck like a jockeys bollox. It's beyond cheeky

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My thoughts?

They have a neck like a jockeys bollox. It's beyond cheeky"

Just found my reply!!

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Well to be fair if you look at all the "no show" threads on here, a back up might be a contingency plan.

I've only had one no show in a year but some folks on here seem to have a lot of bad luck with their meets.

Maye this guy had been burnt before?

"

Do what happens if they don't no show? Does he no show on the other woman?

If you arrange a meet you have to except the risk of no shows that's just the gamble we all take. This hedging bets or having a "back up" just leads to more no shows or people stood up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has she said it was a single guy could have being a couple ? I had a lady coming to a party i was hosting and even texted 3 days before asking could she have a bed for the night and at the same time was on the party chat to the cork club nite which was same nite texted me 2 yours before party to say something came up checked cork party chat next day and she was thanking the hosts for a great nite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well to be fair if you look at all the "no show" threads on here, a back up might be a contingency plan.

I've only had one no show in a year but some folks on here seem to have a lot of bad luck with their meets.

Maye this guy had been burnt before?

Do what happens if they don't no show? Does he no show on the other woman?

If you arrange a meet you have to except the risk of no shows that's just the gamble we all take. This hedging bets or having a "back up" just leads to more no shows or people stood up "

Exactly. If someone took him up on offer I would have been let down or vice versa. Bad form in my humble opinion.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"Has she said it was a single guy could have being a couple ? I had a lady coming to a party i was hosting and even texted 3 days before asking could she have a bed for the night and at the same time was on the party chat to the cork club nite which was same nite texted me 2 yours before party to say something came up checked cork party chat next day and she was thanking the hosts for a great nite"

Yes a he

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

There's something we're all missing here: Generally speaking its hard enough for a guy to get a meet with ONE lady in a night never mind TWO..!

Maybe we should be saluting his sex appeal instead...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has she said it was a single guy could have being a couple ? I had a lady coming to a party i was hosting and even texted 3 days before asking could she have a bed for the night and at the same time was on the party chat to the cork club nite which was same nite texted me 2 yours before party to say something came up checked cork party chat next day and she was thanking the hosts for a great nite

Yes a he"

Was able to read ops answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's something we're all missing here: Generally speaking its hard enough for a guy to get a meet with ONE lady in a night never mind TWO..!

Maybe we should be saluting his sex appeal instead...! "

So a back up meet should be grateful for being a stand in back up meet in case first one stands him up?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's something we're all missing here: Generally speaking its hard enough for a guy to get a meet with ONE lady in a night never mind TWO..!

Maybe we should be saluting his sex appeal instead...! "

Hypothetical sex appeal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's something we're all missing here: Generally speaking its hard enough for a guy to get a meet with ONE lady in a night never mind TWO..!

Maybe we should be saluting his sex appeal instead...!

So a back up meet should be grateful for being a stand in back up meet in case first one stands him up?"

Now I'm confused

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"Has she said it was a single guy could have being a couple ? I had a lady coming to a party i was hosting and even texted 3 days before asking could she have a bed for the night and at the same time was on the party chat to the cork club nite which was same nite texted me 2 yours before party to say something came up checked cork party chat next day and she was thanking the hosts for a great nite

Yes a he

Was able to read ops answer"

You asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's something we're all missing here: Generally speaking its hard enough for a guy to get a meet with ONE lady in a night never mind TWO..!

Maybe we should be saluting his sex appeal instead...!

So a back up meet should be grateful for being a stand in back up meet in case first one stands him up?

Now I'm confused "

Haha no dont be confused

Never be a back up meet

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"There's something we're all missing here: Generally speaking its hard enough for a guy to get a meet with ONE lady in a night never mind TWO..!

Maybe we should be saluting his sex appeal instead...!

So a back up meet should be grateful for being a stand in back up meet in case first one stands him up?

Now I'm confused

Haha no dont be confused

Never be a back up meet "

I agree either wants you or F off plenty more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very disrespectful and lacking in some good old fashioned manners!!!or maybe I'm just getting too old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has she said it was a single guy could have being a couple ? I had a lady coming to a party i was hosting and even texted 3 days before asking could she have a bed for the night and at the same time was on the party chat to the cork club nite which was same nite texted me 2 yours before party to say something came up checked cork party chat next day and she was thanking the hosts for a great nite

Yes a he

Was able to read ops answer

You asked "

Was asking the op who was in the best position to answer my question they can mean a guy or a couple

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"Has she said it was a single guy could have being a couple ? I had a lady coming to a party i was hosting and even texted 3 days before asking could she have a bed for the night and at the same time was on the party chat to the cork club nite which was same nite texted me 2 yours before party to say something came up checked cork party chat next day and she was thanking the hosts for a great nite

Yes a he

Was able to read ops answer

You asked

Was asking the op who was in the best position to answer my question they can mean a guy or a couple "

You said “has she” that implies anyone to answer not the op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has she said it was a single guy could have being a couple ? I had a lady coming to a party i was hosting and even texted 3 days before asking could she have a bed for the night and at the same time was on the party chat to the cork club nite which was same nite texted me 2 yours before party to say something came up checked cork party chat next day and she was thanking the hosts for a great nite

Yes a he

Was able to read ops answer

You asked

Was asking the op who was in the best position to answer my question they can mean a guy or a couple

You said “has she” that implies anyone to answer not the op"

Smart as ever

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"Has she said it was a single guy could have being a couple ? I had a lady coming to a party i was hosting and even texted 3 days before asking could she have a bed for the night and at the same time was on the party chat to the cork club nite which was same nite texted me 2 yours before party to say something came up checked cork party chat next day and she was thanking the hosts for a great nite

Yes a he

Was able to read ops answer

You asked

Was asking the op who was in the best position to answer my question they can mean a guy or a couple

You said “has she” that implies anyone to answer not the op

Smart as ever"

Why thank you

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"Has she said it was a single guy could have being a couple ? I had a lady coming to a party i was hosting and even texted 3 days before asking could she have a bed for the night and at the same time was on the party chat to the cork club nite which was same nite texted me 2 yours before party to say something came up checked cork party chat next day and she was thanking the hosts for a great nite

Yes a he

Was able to read ops answer

You asked

Was asking the op who was in the best position to answer my question they can mean a guy or a couple

You said “has she” that implies anyone to answer not the op

Smart as ever

Why thank you "

So long winded as ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the physical equivalent of an ignored or deleted message.

The right to ignore is so called fab manners in the book of fab etiquette.....Riiiiiggghhhhtttt?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's the physical equivalent of an ignored or deleted message.

The right to ignore is so called fab manners in the book of fab etiquette.....Riiiiiggghhhhtttt?

"

Who could possibly ignore you?

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Perhaps he was thinking it might become a threesome, no?

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By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Just rude.

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The great thing about here is there is something for everyone. We all have our own tastes and kinks and they aren’t the same but What we should always have is respect and honesty. In my opinion the person you are talking about lacks both. It also tells you all you need to know about him. Don’t let it put you off though as there are some great people about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The great thing about here is there is something for everyone. We all have our own tastes and kinks and they aren’t the same but What we should always have is respect and honesty. In my opinion the person you are talking about lacks both. It also tells you all you need to know about him. Don’t let it put you off though as there are some great people about. "

Thank you. Been mostly positive here thus far. Was worried I was overreacting given the nature of the game here..

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

I would appreciate the honesty with the meet would be far worse if he lied about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id just block and move on

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth

While organising Anns B-day MMF i arranged a back up incase the first guy was a no show. Everyone involved was aware but i dont think its unethical as far as fabbing goes. Anyone whos organised anything will attest to dropouts on here

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By *unninglinguist600Man
over a year ago

belfast


"The great thing about here is there is something for everyone. We all have our own tastes and kinks and they aren’t the same but What we should always have is respect and honesty. In my opinion the person you are talking about lacks both. It also tells you all you need to know about him. Don’t let it put you off though as there are some great people about.

Thank you. Been mostly positive here thus far. Was worried I was overreacting given the nature of the game here.."

You're not over reacting op. Had similar happen with a meet. Had left home 10 mins into journey when got cancel txt. Next day she had veri from her back up guy. Ironicly she continually whines on her status about guys mucking her about. Agree with all others on this thread blocking the best answer.

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"While organising Anns B-day MMF i arranged a back up incase the first guy was a no show. Everyone involved was aware but i dont think its unethical as far as fabbing goes. Anyone whos organised anything will attest to dropouts on here"

Just an example of how to be honest and respecting everyone.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Mmmmmmm... Post number 69.

I love a good 69

.

Even a bad one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmmmmm... Post number 69.

I love a good 69

.

Even a bad one... "

Damn it, you greedy boy

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Op, Never play the second fiddle!

Anyhow if there's anyone out there who can take on a second meet after, please apply within "

Ever the opportunist

Op personally I don't care how it was explained, respectfully or otherwise... I am not here as anyone's just incase! I am Madame B not plan B

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Op, Never play the second fiddle!

Anyhow if there's anyone out there who can take on a second meet after, please apply within

Ever the opportunist

Op personally I don't care how it was explained, respectfully or otherwise... I am not here as anyone's just incase! I am Madame B not plan B "

Maybe im reading it wrong but if the person posted the met after making arrangements with the op then she isn't the back up plan.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

[Removed by poster at 14/06/18 13:45:45]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You arrange to meet...

They post looking for a meet same day. Say it's a back up plan if anything falls through with our meet.

Thoughts? "

Loads do this, and they’re dicks for it!

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

been honest I couldn't care less if I'm the main course or not. the site is a bit of _aid back fun. if it comes about take it, if not there is other means. the more I read comments the more I see how serious some individuals take this site. if a person agrees to meet you and life gets in the way and you have to cancel. is it such a big deal that they have somebody else to call on? it's a no strings site for crying out loud!

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

Don't know whether to have a red face for posting on here we had a back up plan organized before incase we were let down. Or sit here with a smerk became we did have a back up plan arranged as the original meet let us down an hour before the meet!

We paid for double room in hotel, flights to arranged meet only to be let down. So, arranging a back up sometimes is the smart thing to do

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.


"You arrange to meet...

They post looking for a meet same day. Say it's a back up plan if anything falls through with our meet.

Thoughts?

Loads do this, and they’re dicks for it! "

We very rarely meet but one thing about us, if we say well meet, well make sure we do

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Hate shit like that back up plan my arse trying to be a smugg cunt more like it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the problem doubt he would got anyone if he was actually advertising it as back up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Because he was arranging a back up as it was his birthday, like anyone would do for a celebratory shag.

There's a huge difference between this being a site for nsa fun and being open to sleep with anyone.

I'm not just anyone and never treat any of my meets like they are either.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Because he was arranging a back up as it was his birthday, like anyone would do for a celebratory shag.

There's a huge difference between this being a site for nsa fun and being open to sleep with anyone.

I'm not just anyone and never treat any of my meets like they are either.

"

anybody on here can shag who they like. you sign up for fun, you try get it. simple. there is nobody here sitting on a pedestal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because he was arranging a back up as it was his birthday, like anyone would do for a celebratory shag.

There's a huge difference between this being a site for nsa fun and being open to sleep with anyone.

I'm not just anyone and never treat any of my meets like they are either.

anybody on here can shag who they like. you sign up for fun, you try get it. simple. there is nobody here sitting on a pedestal "

Its nothing to do about pedestals. While this is a swinger site.its about respect and enjoying the person ur meeting not having them has a option or plan b if plan a dosent work out.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Because he was arranging a back up as it was his birthday, like anyone would do for a celebratory shag.

There's a huge difference between this being a site for nsa fun and being open to sleep with anyone.

I'm not just anyone and never treat any of my meets like they are either.

anybody on here can shag who they like. you sign up for fun, you try get it. simple. there is nobody here sitting on a pedestal

Its nothing to do about pedestals. While this is a swinger site.its about respect and enjoying the person ur meeting not having them has a option or plan b if plan a dosent work out."

there is no issue whatsoever in having a plan B on a fun website. meets can be cancelled for a variety of reasons beyond a person's control. remember you're meeting somebody on here for the potential of sex ultimately. nothing else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because he was arranging a back up as it was his birthday, like anyone would do for a celebratory shag.

There's a huge difference between this being a site for nsa fun and being open to sleep with anyone.

I'm not just anyone and never treat any of my meets like they are either.

anybody on here can shag who they like. you sign up for fun, you try get it. simple. there is nobody here sitting on a pedestal

Its nothing to do about pedestals. While this is a swinger site.its about respect and enjoying the person ur meeting not having them has a option or plan b if plan a dosent work out.there is no issue whatsoever in having a plan B on a fun website. meets can be cancelled for a variety of reasons beyond a person's control. remember you're meeting somebody on here for the potential of sex ultimately. nothing else "

For some maybe that is ok.they happy with that.not for everyone.eveyone is aware of what the site is about and what they get out of it. Sone people just dosent want to be a stand in meet for thers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because he was arranging a back up as it was his birthday, like anyone would do for a celebratory shag.

There's a huge difference between this being a site for nsa fun and being open to sleep with anyone.

I'm not just anyone and never treat any of my meets like they are either.

anybody on here can shag who they like. you sign up for fun, you try get it. simple. there is nobody here sitting on a pedestal

Its nothing to do about pedestals. While this is a swinger site.its about respect and enjoying the person ur meeting not having them has a option or plan b if plan a dosent work out."

Exactly.

Some want sex.

Some want a connection.

I want a connection.

No pedestal, just self respect.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

what ye mean is ye want to feel serial

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"what ye mean is ye want to feel serial "
special

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what ye mean is ye want to feel serial special "

Desired.

No one wants to feel like a stand in.

Would you?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"what ye mean is ye want to feel serial special

Desired.

No one wants to feel like a stand in.

Would you? "

if a person in here had a meet arranged and they cancelled on them and they then contacted me, if I liked them I'd meet no problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what ye mean is ye want to feel serial special

Desired.

No one wants to feel like a stand in.

Would you? if a person in here had a meet arranged and they cancelled on them and they then contacted me, if I liked them I'd meet no problem. "

Different strokes.

I need to build up a rapport to like someone.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"what ye mean is ye want to feel serial special

Desired.

No one wants to feel like a stand in.

Would you? if a person in here had a meet arranged and they cancelled on them and they then contacted me, if I liked them I'd meet no problem.

Different strokes.

I need to build up a rapport to like someone. "

I go d talking too and frow through a screen gets very boring very quickly. the true reflection you get on somebody is in person

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