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"You arrange to meet... They post looking for a meet same day. Say it's a back up plan if anything falls through with our meet. Thoughts? " Think most people would agree the explanation was BS... | |||
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"You arrange to meet... They post looking for a meet same day. Say it's a back up plan if anything falls through with our meet. Thoughts? " No. Just no. | |||
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"Thought I missed something in the Fab book of etiquette but it's a bit disrespectful, right? " Not even.... looking for a better offer.... ditch... | |||
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"Sounds like you were his back up plan. Obviously a bit of a dickhead. " Yup. Next please! | |||
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"Sounds like you were his back up plan. Obviously a bit of a dickhead. Yup. Next please! " Stick a note on his profile or block him. They tend to come back after few months looking for a meet | |||
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"Total ass Block him" Bit of a forum stutter there... | |||
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"Wish I’d gotten a back up plan today.. But seriously OP, if I’m not the main course they can feck off. Hope you ditched him " Done and done Ginger | |||
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"Total ass Block him Bit of a forum stutter there... " How? | |||
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"Total ass Block him Bit of a forum stutter there... How?" You posted twice...?? Unless you felt really strongly about your response and meant to click twice...! | |||
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"Total ass Block him Bit of a forum stutter there... How? You posted twice...?? Unless you felt really strongly about your response and meant to click twice...! " Blocked back and front | |||
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"Total ass Block him Bit of a forum stutter there... How? You posted twice...?? Unless you felt really strongly about your response and meant to click twice...! Blocked back and front " Side ways now | |||
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" If u google stutter its the slow hesitant pronunciation of the word or line Dont think i had a problem there Total ass Block him " Jeez! Forum Shamed by Miss Fabs superior knowledge of sentence semantics! I feel like a Fionnula... | |||
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" If u google stutter its the slow hesitant pronunciation of the word or line Dont think i had a problem there Total ass Block him Jeez! Forum Shamed by Miss Fabs superior knowledge of sentence semantics! I feel like a Fionnula... " Fionnula didnt use google | |||
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"You arrange to meet... They post looking for a meet same day. Say it's a back up plan if anything falls through with our meet. Thoughts? " Thats a terrible thing for a guy to do, He needs to be blocked by all for his imature actions. | |||
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"You arrange to meet... They post looking for a meet same day. Say it's a back up plan if anything falls through with our meet. Thoughts? " Yes for us anyway...once had 3 couples to meet one night and none of them turned up | |||
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"Maybe he was hoping to sort a meet for his split personality " I did mention that last time we met. And he's a Gemini. | |||
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"Oh sure that explains that then. Lesson for us all. Be sure you can spread yourself thin for a Gemini before agreeing to a date " Oh the things I've learned through Fab! | |||
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"He's a silly boy (back up plan) should've been grateful to meet you " Very sweet. Thank you. | |||
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"Well to be fair if you look at all the "no show" threads on here, a back up might be a contingency plan. I've only had one no show in a year but some folks on here seem to have a lot of bad luck with their meets. Maye this guy had been burnt before? " Possibly.. | |||
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"He's a silly boy (back up plan) should've been grateful to meet you Very sweet. Thank you. " hopefully you told him in the most easy way he would understand to go fuck himself. | |||
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"My thoughts? They have a neck like a jockeys bollox. It's beyond cheeky" Just found my reply!! | |||
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"Well to be fair if you look at all the "no show" threads on here, a back up might be a contingency plan. I've only had one no show in a year but some folks on here seem to have a lot of bad luck with their meets. Maye this guy had been burnt before? " Do what happens if they don't no show? Does he no show on the other woman? If you arrange a meet you have to except the risk of no shows that's just the gamble we all take. This hedging bets or having a "back up" just leads to more no shows or people stood up | |||
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"Well to be fair if you look at all the "no show" threads on here, a back up might be a contingency plan. I've only had one no show in a year but some folks on here seem to have a lot of bad luck with their meets. Maye this guy had been burnt before? Do what happens if they don't no show? Does he no show on the other woman? If you arrange a meet you have to except the risk of no shows that's just the gamble we all take. This hedging bets or having a "back up" just leads to more no shows or people stood up " Exactly. If someone took him up on offer I would have been let down or vice versa. Bad form in my humble opinion. | |||
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"Has she said it was a single guy could have being a couple ? I had a lady coming to a party i was hosting and even texted 3 days before asking could she have a bed for the night and at the same time was on the party chat to the cork club nite which was same nite texted me 2 yours before party to say something came up checked cork party chat next day and she was thanking the hosts for a great nite" Yes a he | |||
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"Has she said it was a single guy could have being a couple ? I had a lady coming to a party i was hosting and even texted 3 days before asking could she have a bed for the night and at the same time was on the party chat to the cork club nite which was same nite texted me 2 yours before party to say something came up checked cork party chat next day and she was thanking the hosts for a great nite Yes a he" Was able to read ops answer | |||
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"There's something we're all missing here: Generally speaking its hard enough for a guy to get a meet with ONE lady in a night never mind TWO..! Maybe we should be saluting his sex appeal instead...! " So a back up meet should be grateful for being a stand in back up meet in case first one stands him up? | |||
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"There's something we're all missing here: Generally speaking its hard enough for a guy to get a meet with ONE lady in a night never mind TWO..! Maybe we should be saluting his sex appeal instead...! " Hypothetical sex appeal | |||
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"There's something we're all missing here: Generally speaking its hard enough for a guy to get a meet with ONE lady in a night never mind TWO..! Maybe we should be saluting his sex appeal instead...! So a back up meet should be grateful for being a stand in back up meet in case first one stands him up?" Now I'm confused | |||
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"Has she said it was a single guy could have being a couple ? I had a lady coming to a party i was hosting and even texted 3 days before asking could she have a bed for the night and at the same time was on the party chat to the cork club nite which was same nite texted me 2 yours before party to say something came up checked cork party chat next day and she was thanking the hosts for a great nite Yes a he Was able to read ops answer" You asked | |||
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"There's something we're all missing here: Generally speaking its hard enough for a guy to get a meet with ONE lady in a night never mind TWO..! Maybe we should be saluting his sex appeal instead...! So a back up meet should be grateful for being a stand in back up meet in case first one stands him up? Now I'm confused " Haha no dont be confused Never be a back up meet | |||
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"There's something we're all missing here: Generally speaking its hard enough for a guy to get a meet with ONE lady in a night never mind TWO..! Maybe we should be saluting his sex appeal instead...! So a back up meet should be grateful for being a stand in back up meet in case first one stands him up? Now I'm confused Haha no dont be confused Never be a back up meet " I agree either wants you or F off plenty more | |||
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"Has she said it was a single guy could have being a couple ? I had a lady coming to a party i was hosting and even texted 3 days before asking could she have a bed for the night and at the same time was on the party chat to the cork club nite which was same nite texted me 2 yours before party to say something came up checked cork party chat next day and she was thanking the hosts for a great nite Yes a he Was able to read ops answer You asked " Was asking the op who was in the best position to answer my question they can mean a guy or a couple | |||
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"Has she said it was a single guy could have being a couple ? I had a lady coming to a party i was hosting and even texted 3 days before asking could she have a bed for the night and at the same time was on the party chat to the cork club nite which was same nite texted me 2 yours before party to say something came up checked cork party chat next day and she was thanking the hosts for a great nite Yes a he Was able to read ops answer You asked Was asking the op who was in the best position to answer my question they can mean a guy or a couple " You said “has she” that implies anyone to answer not the op | |||
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"Has she said it was a single guy could have being a couple ? I had a lady coming to a party i was hosting and even texted 3 days before asking could she have a bed for the night and at the same time was on the party chat to the cork club nite which was same nite texted me 2 yours before party to say something came up checked cork party chat next day and she was thanking the hosts for a great nite Yes a he Was able to read ops answer You asked Was asking the op who was in the best position to answer my question they can mean a guy or a couple You said “has she” that implies anyone to answer not the op" Smart as ever | |||
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"Has she said it was a single guy could have being a couple ? I had a lady coming to a party i was hosting and even texted 3 days before asking could she have a bed for the night and at the same time was on the party chat to the cork club nite which was same nite texted me 2 yours before party to say something came up checked cork party chat next day and she was thanking the hosts for a great nite Yes a he Was able to read ops answer You asked Was asking the op who was in the best position to answer my question they can mean a guy or a couple You said “has she” that implies anyone to answer not the op Smart as ever" Why thank you | |||
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"Has she said it was a single guy could have being a couple ? I had a lady coming to a party i was hosting and even texted 3 days before asking could she have a bed for the night and at the same time was on the party chat to the cork club nite which was same nite texted me 2 yours before party to say something came up checked cork party chat next day and she was thanking the hosts for a great nite Yes a he Was able to read ops answer You asked Was asking the op who was in the best position to answer my question they can mean a guy or a couple You said “has she” that implies anyone to answer not the op Smart as ever Why thank you " So long winded as ever | |||
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"It's the physical equivalent of an ignored or deleted message. The right to ignore is so called fab manners in the book of fab etiquette.....Riiiiiggghhhhtttt? " Who could possibly ignore you? | |||
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"The great thing about here is there is something for everyone. We all have our own tastes and kinks and they aren’t the same but What we should always have is respect and honesty. In my opinion the person you are talking about lacks both. It also tells you all you need to know about him. Don’t let it put you off though as there are some great people about. " Thank you. Been mostly positive here thus far. Was worried I was overreacting given the nature of the game here.. | |||
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"The great thing about here is there is something for everyone. We all have our own tastes and kinks and they aren’t the same but What we should always have is respect and honesty. In my opinion the person you are talking about lacks both. It also tells you all you need to know about him. Don’t let it put you off though as there are some great people about. Thank you. Been mostly positive here thus far. Was worried I was overreacting given the nature of the game here.." You're not over reacting op. Had similar happen with a meet. Had left home 10 mins into journey when got cancel txt. Next day she had veri from her back up guy. Ironicly she continually whines on her status about guys mucking her about. Agree with all others on this thread blocking the best answer. | |||
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"While organising Anns B-day MMF i arranged a back up incase the first guy was a no show. Everyone involved was aware but i dont think its unethical as far as fabbing goes. Anyone whos organised anything will attest to dropouts on here" Just an example of how to be honest and respecting everyone. | |||
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"Mmmmmmm... Post number 69. I love a good 69 . Even a bad one... " Damn it, you greedy boy | |||
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"Op, Never play the second fiddle! Anyhow if there's anyone out there who can take on a second meet after, please apply within " Ever the opportunist Op personally I don't care how it was explained, respectfully or otherwise... I am not here as anyone's just incase! I am Madame B not plan B | |||
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"Op, Never play the second fiddle! Anyhow if there's anyone out there who can take on a second meet after, please apply within Ever the opportunist Op personally I don't care how it was explained, respectfully or otherwise... I am not here as anyone's just incase! I am Madame B not plan B " Maybe im reading it wrong but if the person posted the met after making arrangements with the op then she isn't the back up plan. | |||
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"You arrange to meet... They post looking for a meet same day. Say it's a back up plan if anything falls through with our meet. Thoughts? " Loads do this, and they’re dicks for it! | |||
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"You arrange to meet... They post looking for a meet same day. Say it's a back up plan if anything falls through with our meet. Thoughts? Loads do this, and they’re dicks for it! " We very rarely meet but one thing about us, if we say well meet, well make sure we do | |||
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"Because he was arranging a back up as it was his birthday, like anyone would do for a celebratory shag. There's a huge difference between this being a site for nsa fun and being open to sleep with anyone. I'm not just anyone and never treat any of my meets like they are either. " anybody on here can shag who they like. you sign up for fun, you try get it. simple. there is nobody here sitting on a pedestal | |||
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"Because he was arranging a back up as it was his birthday, like anyone would do for a celebratory shag. There's a huge difference between this being a site for nsa fun and being open to sleep with anyone. I'm not just anyone and never treat any of my meets like they are either. anybody on here can shag who they like. you sign up for fun, you try get it. simple. there is nobody here sitting on a pedestal " Its nothing to do about pedestals. While this is a swinger site.its about respect and enjoying the person ur meeting not having them has a option or plan b if plan a dosent work out. | |||
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"Because he was arranging a back up as it was his birthday, like anyone would do for a celebratory shag. There's a huge difference between this being a site for nsa fun and being open to sleep with anyone. I'm not just anyone and never treat any of my meets like they are either. anybody on here can shag who they like. you sign up for fun, you try get it. simple. there is nobody here sitting on a pedestal Its nothing to do about pedestals. While this is a swinger site.its about respect and enjoying the person ur meeting not having them has a option or plan b if plan a dosent work out." there is no issue whatsoever in having a plan B on a fun website. meets can be cancelled for a variety of reasons beyond a person's control. remember you're meeting somebody on here for the potential of sex ultimately. nothing else | |||
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"Because he was arranging a back up as it was his birthday, like anyone would do for a celebratory shag. There's a huge difference between this being a site for nsa fun and being open to sleep with anyone. I'm not just anyone and never treat any of my meets like they are either. anybody on here can shag who they like. you sign up for fun, you try get it. simple. there is nobody here sitting on a pedestal Its nothing to do about pedestals. While this is a swinger site.its about respect and enjoying the person ur meeting not having them has a option or plan b if plan a dosent work out.there is no issue whatsoever in having a plan B on a fun website. meets can be cancelled for a variety of reasons beyond a person's control. remember you're meeting somebody on here for the potential of sex ultimately. nothing else " For some maybe that is ok.they happy with that.not for everyone.eveyone is aware of what the site is about and what they get out of it. Sone people just dosent want to be a stand in meet for thers. | |||
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"Because he was arranging a back up as it was his birthday, like anyone would do for a celebratory shag. There's a huge difference between this being a site for nsa fun and being open to sleep with anyone. I'm not just anyone and never treat any of my meets like they are either. anybody on here can shag who they like. you sign up for fun, you try get it. simple. there is nobody here sitting on a pedestal Its nothing to do about pedestals. While this is a swinger site.its about respect and enjoying the person ur meeting not having them has a option or plan b if plan a dosent work out." Exactly. Some want sex. Some want a connection. I want a connection. No pedestal, just self respect. | |||
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"what ye mean is ye want to feel serial special " Desired. No one wants to feel like a stand in. Would you? | |||
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"what ye mean is ye want to feel serial special Desired. No one wants to feel like a stand in. Would you? " if a person in here had a meet arranged and they cancelled on them and they then contacted me, if I liked them I'd meet no problem. | |||
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"what ye mean is ye want to feel serial special Desired. No one wants to feel like a stand in. Would you? if a person in here had a meet arranged and they cancelled on them and they then contacted me, if I liked them I'd meet no problem. " Different strokes. I need to build up a rapport to like someone. | |||
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"what ye mean is ye want to feel serial special Desired. No one wants to feel like a stand in. Would you? if a person in here had a meet arranged and they cancelled on them and they then contacted me, if I liked them I'd meet no problem. Different strokes. I need to build up a rapport to like someone. " I go d talking too and frow through a screen gets very boring very quickly. the true reflection you get on somebody is in person | |||
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