FabSwingers.com forum: Paid sex workers

By *adame B OP Woman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Following a discussion on another forum, some of the UK club's are paying female sex workers to come to clubs without letting swingers know, some do advertise it and are charging more for those events. What is the Irish swingers take on this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Following a discussion on another forum, some of the UK club's are paying female sex workers to come to clubs without letting swingers know, some do advertise it and are charging more for those events. What is the Irish swingers take on this? "

I wouldn’t be comfortable with that.. Wouldn’t be the same as two people that both want fun and not motivated by money

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork

I wouldn’t be comfortable with that.. Wouldn’t be the same as two people that both want fun and not motivated by money "

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork

I wouldn’t be comfortable with that.. Wouldn’t be the same as two people that both want fun and not motivated by money

Not cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't attend a club that was pulling stunts like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would put me off attending a club where that is happening..

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

They should not be allowed . If people want a sex worker well they can easily get one on line .

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By *otstuffkerry1Couple
over a year ago

tralee

why should't they be there imho..

we were at a very fancy smart club in Madrid ... its very common for guys to pay the ladies to attend couple only clubs over there ...they didn't bother us by being there at all and in all fairness were very very easy to spot too

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By *adame B OP Woman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"why should't they be there imho..

That's an individual choice, these women are paid by the club and apparently very little with even less choice to say no. That in my books is exploitation and makes the club a sex club not a swingers venue.

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By *ealOne74Man
over a year ago

limerick

"why should't they be there imho..

Paid sex workers are not exploited. They are usually way overpaid for their qualifications...

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

I personally don't think paid sex workers should be part of the swinging scene.

I have no issue if a particular event is organised and the participants are told that paid sex workers would attend. Then it's up to the individual to go or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be fairly against that mostly because the sale of sex is illegal so that would push a club into some murky legal grey waters

Also if people knew there were sex workers they may expect to have sex with anyone and I think that would draw the wrong clientele

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

The last thing the Irish scene needs is to get mixed up with prostitution

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By *otstuffkerry1Couple
over a year ago

tralee

"why should't they be there imho..

oh i agree with you there totally ...is it a club where there are a few rumours about??

if it is that club it is well known for it

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By *adame B OP Woman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"why should't they be there imho..

Paid sex workers are not exploited. They are usually way overpaid for their qualifications..."

Any industry that isn't regulated gets exploited and the sex industry in particular.

Some are well set up but it's not the case for the majority.

Exploitation is only a part of the issue of the topic but personally I want no part of a club that is exploiting sex workers, keeping the information that they are paying sex workers from other people attending and only doing so to keep their profit margins up!

I believe it's not the solution to a problem that we as a swinging community have essentially created.

Clubs, parties, socials, events all over charge single guy's because they are the majority hence making them a higher profit. The minority being unicorns, single females then couples who are mainly interested in each other thus lowering the chances of play for single guy's.

Not all single guy's are reliable hence capped numbers with deadlines on event's creating more pressure on event organisers.

It's a cycle that needs to change in my opinion but I don't have the answers but do think discussing it helps.

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By *adame B OP Woman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"I'd be fairly against that mostly because the sale of sex is illegal so that would push a club into some murky legal grey waters

Also if people knew there were sex workers they may expect to have sex with anyone and I think that would draw the wrong clientele

And the wrong attitude that sex is a given when ever they attend a swinging event

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be fairly against that mostly because the sale of sex is illegal so that would push a club into some murky legal grey waters

Also if people knew there were sex workers they may expect to have sex with anyone and I think that would draw the wrong clientele

And the wrong attitude that sex is a given when ever they attend a swinging event"

Exactly that is definitely not what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t of thought they would need to given there’s no shortage of men looking to get into clubs I’m sure plenty are paying escorts to get entrance in as couples anyhow. Just think it should all be legalized anyway would make some dint in the mis treatment of women in the sex trade.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

This club approached me and offered me money to entertain the ladies there. Unfortunately I was already booked up for all of that month

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By *iver80Man
over a year ago

south side ,

Definetly wouldnt attend at all

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By *pontaneous fun boyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary, Dublin.

No no n nope, think of it this way. What would be better a person doing it because it's there job or a person doing it as a hobby.

There wud be no passion. No real want. No drive. I'd take the hobbiest every minute of every hour of every day.

The trill of the case is the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think they do that lot in UK seen it on twitter ladies are hot tho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t be comfortable with that.. Wouldn’t be the same as two people that both want fun and not motivated by money "

I agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably mixing themes here....are we talking about prostitution generally or specifically within swinging parties?

My view is... his or her body - his or her choice provided there's no trafficking, pimping etc.

Keeping it illegal doesn't help.

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland

Have got this feeling before

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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago

north cork

Happening wholesale in the other countries. Have seen it ourselves. Pay a stunning looking woman/women to be in the club. While i do think playing/having sex is optional for some of these women, others are just being paid to have sex.

Its gonna eventually make its way to Irish clubs.

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By *e r usCouple
over a year ago

derry

Doesn’t only happen in other countries happens here too attended party in Dublin was party organised by a person who made profits as was quite expensive to attend and was hit and miss as to attendance of actual swingers. There was a hostess who was paid to attend party and who actively invited males to “talk” when playing seemed to be less than interested never actually played as always seemed to be bad week. Seemed as if actually didn’t want to be there.

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

This club approached me and offered me money to entertain the ladies there. Unfortunately I was already booked up for all of that month

Ha ha ha ha and more ... Pmsl. You my friend made me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's plenty of escorts here on the Irish forum.

They lure you in for a meet and then they ask for money.

Be careful folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably mixing themes here....are we talking about prostitution generally or specifically within swinging parties?

My view is... his or her body - his or her choice provided there's no trafficking, pimping etc.

I think it is about it being brought into swinging, I suppose using the scene and safety is just right for it. I can imagine if it were legai alot of fab would be doing it lol

Keeping it illegal doesn't help. "

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