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Any point in carrying on?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the point Anymore no women want to meet up or even talk on here anymore it's just another failed site in my eyes

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I don't think it's a failed site. Maybe it's your opinion it's a failed site but lots of people all over the country are getting meets off this site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think it's a failed site. Maybe it's your opinion it's a failed site but lots of people all over the country are getting meets off this site. "
some are but iv spoken to a few and have same problem as me women don't want to give us a chance

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By *rezMan
over a year ago

Tuam

You have to be in DA circle to get in...

Dont worry...keeo it up...be patient

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have to be in DA circle to get in...

Dont worry...keeo it up...be patient"
it just be nice to be given a chance

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By *ackonceagain1969Woman
over a year ago

dublin


"What's the point Anymore no women want to meet up or even talk on here anymore it's just another failed site in my eyes "
..Are you making much effort to look? Pictures of cocks don't appeal to many women..maybe you fill our your profile, show a little bit of your humour and cheeky side n laid I totally agree with you..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's the point Anymore no women want to meet up or even talk on here anymore it's just another failed site in my eyes ..Are you making much effort to look? Pictures of cocks don't appeal to many women..maybe you fill our your profile, show a little bit of your humour and cheeky side n laid I totally agree with you.. I try keep my humour and cheeky side for the messages and bedroom but no one fancies giving me a chance "

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By *rDarcy37Man
over a year ago

lucan


"You have to be in DA circle to get in...

Dont worry...keeo it up...be patient"

What's "DA Circle" and how do you gain entry...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it the anal rim?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site was a load of cock.. No pun intended , but since we blocked all cocks it's not a load of cock anymore ... no offence guys to much trash mail

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

Sorry for my brutal honesty.

You have used 18 words in your bio to "sell" yourself. None of them tell us anything about your personality. Half your pics are of your dick. You've been here for over a year, surly you know most woman don't want dick pics unless they ask you.

I get that it isn't easy for single guys on here. But I also think it makes sense that the guys profiles with the least amount of effort in them are the ones at the bottom of the fab pile. And the very same guys complaining about it here.

So "Is there any point carrying on?" Honestly ...... No

Unless you make a few changes. Stand out, make people want to know more about you.

If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got.

I hope you take this in the constructive way it was intended. And that you find what you are looking for.

All the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good bye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try get invite to one those meet and greets that's suppose be golden ticket to the fanny lol.

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

I wonder what the forum would be like if we had a week free of such threads that appear here every single day... Is it just not easier to forum search.. sigh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder what the forum would be like if we had a week free of such threads that appear here every single day... Is it just not easier to forum search.. sigh "
there too lazy to do that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for my brutal honesty.

You have used 18 words in your bio to "sell" yourself. None of them tell us anything about your personality. Half your pics are of your dick. You've been here for over a year, surly you know most woman don't want dick pics unless they ask you.

I get that it isn't easy for single guys on here. But I also think it makes sense that the guys profiles with the least amount of effort in them are the ones at the bottom of the fab pile. And the very same guys complaining about it here.

So "Is there any point carrying on?" Honestly ...... No

Unless you make a few changes. Stand out, make people want to know more about you.

If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got.

I hope you take this in the constructive way it was intended. And that you find what you are looking for.

All the best

"

^^^^^^

Sound advice.

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

I think it’s time to be honest and admit sites like these aren’t for everyone. Signing up doesn’t gaurantee you is gonna get the ride you know?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it’s time to be honest and admit sites like these aren’t for everyone. Signing up doesn’t gaurantee you is gonna get the ride you know?"
totally agree with you but even a chat once in a while be nice

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"Sorry for my brutal honesty.

You have used 18 words in your bio to "sell" yourself. None of them tell us anything about your personality. Half your pics are of your dick. You've been here for over a year, surly you know most woman don't want dick pics unless they ask you.

I get that it isn't easy for single guys on here. But I also think it makes sense that the guys profiles with the least amount of effort in them are the ones at the bottom of the fab pile. And the very same guys complaining about it here.

So "Is there any point carrying on?" Honestly ...... No

Unless you make a few changes. Stand out, make people want to know more about you.

If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got.

I hope you take this in the constructive way it was intended. And that you find what you are looking for.

All the best

"

This exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Updated my bio there new photos on the way

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"Updated my bio there new photos on the way "

Kinda sounds like you've made the decision to carry on then. Thread title update needed..!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Updated my bio there new photos on the way

Kinda sounds like you've made the decision to carry on then. Thread title update needed..! "
il give it a few more weeks see how we get on

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"Updated my bio there new photos on the way

Kinda sounds like you've made the decision to carry on then. Thread title update needed..! il give it a few more weeks see how we get on "

You ever grow stuff in a garden? Weeks isn't gonna cut it. Takes months on here. And there are slow times as well as fun times. Patience is your greatest ally. And learning from other guys who are successful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And six pack helps as well lol

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By *anon17Man
over a year ago

mayo


"I think it’s time to be honest and admit sites like these aren’t for everyone. Signing up doesn’t gaurantee you is gonna get the ride you know? totally agree with you but even a chat once in a while be nice "
I can see where your coming from but I have seen some of the pages of girls I know on here and they have told me it's impossible to message everyone back was with a few the weekend and two of the girls had over 60 emails each, look I have got knocked back a few times as well stick it out and try for a meet and greet

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By *r Connie LingusMan
over a year ago

Limerick

I'm an ugly fuck yet I can meet women

It's all about how you treat women

Treat them with respect then eventually you'll get a meet

Treat them like objects then you may aswell bow out now lol

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By *pontaneous fun boyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary, Dublin.

I felt like this before but I just thought about what I'm really like as a person and tried to attach that to my profile have been patient N it has improved my enjoyment coming onto this site. I've never put up a thread complaining about women not even giving you a chance. It's just silly. Do you think women will want to talk to a whinge. I'm sure slot of women have aleady made there mind up now just from the thread. Ye just have to learn to stand out from the crowd. N not with pics. With your personality.

Sorry for being a bit brutal. Buthe it's just some constructive criticism.

But do what u will with it n don't be complaining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I felt like this before but I just thought about what I'm really like as a person and tried to attach that to my profile have been patient N it has improved my enjoyment coming onto this site. I've never put up a thread complaining about women not even giving you a chance. It's just silly. Do you think women will want to talk to a whinge. I'm sure slot of women have aleady made there mind up now just from the thread. Ye just have to learn to stand out from the crowd. N not with pics. With your personality.

Sorry for being a bit brutal. Buthe it's just some constructive criticism.

But do what u will with it n don't be complaining. "

Well said tho man,These wingy threads come up almost daily now,”how can I get a reply from girls,how can I get meets,is something wrong with my profile r pics,why won’t women right back to me,this site is bullshit blah blah,stop feeling so hard done by and if u are that desperate for a date r a fuck try tinder r something,r just go a pub ,my advice anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try get invite to one those meet and greets that's suppose be golden ticket to the fanny lol."

A golden ticket to a m&g and a vert wont get them fanny either but maybe a quick perve at the profile

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

No there isn't IMO. You're 24 you should be out socialising, go on the pull, join tinder or whatever there is. If you're on here for over a year and haven't cracked the site, it's unlikely you will.

There are a few young ones that do well on here but they got themselves into the mood of swinging and seem to understand the idea behind it.

Anyhow good luck

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By *ealOne74Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I wonder what the forum would be like if we had a week free of such threads that appear here every single day... Is it just not easier to forum search.. sigh "

It would be full of people telling each other how they like their pancakes or with threads where you have replace one word with other.

You remember all that stuff... from primary school...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No there isn't IMO. You're 24 you should be out socialising, go on the pull, join tinder or whatever there is. If you're on here for over a year and haven't cracked the site, it's unlikely you will.

There are a few young ones that do well on here but they got themselves into the mood of swinging and seem to understand the idea behind it.

Anyhow good luck "

Good advice DH, I think if a profile is here for a year and hasn't managed to get into the scene it's not worth carrying on regardless of age.

You get what you put in

L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boys you's are going about it clean the wrong way. All you have to do is tell them you love shopping and ed sheeran. And buy a roll of sheep wire and lay up against it to show off your six pack. Do that and your in box will be hopping oh and stand next to some other feckers sports car just hang in there if I can get a meet there's hope for you's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Boys you's are going about it clean the wrong way. All you have to do is tell them you love shopping and ed sheeran. And buy a roll of sheep wire and lay up against it to show off your six pack. Do that and your in box will be hopping oh and stand next to some other feckers sports car just hang in there if I can get a meet there's hope for you's all "
now Boyz listen to the love guru l lol

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By *ivelifeMan
over a year ago

South


"Boys you's are going about it clean the wrong way. All you have to do is tell them you love shopping and ed sheeran. And buy a roll of sheep wire and lay up against it to show off your six pack. Do that and your in box will be hopping oh and stand next to some other feckers sports car just hang in there if I can get a meet there's hope for you's all "

I’ve sheep and sheep wire if you want some

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"I wonder what the forum would be like if we had a week free of such threads that appear here every single day... Is it just not easier to forum search.. sigh

It would be full of people telling each other how they like their pancakes or with threads where you have replace one word with other.

You remember all that stuff... from primary school..."

Oh you mean the lounge

They annihilate moaners and usually good for a bit of silly banter.

Fair play op for apology post, we all have those days

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