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By *adylace OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I promise this isn’t a rant. Lol

I was blocked today because I wouldn’t agree to play with a couple tonight. I offered to meet them for a drink to see how we got on and they could have kept looking for someone to join them later. I get it that it can be really frustrating when you’re looking for a kinky night of fun. But surely it was a bit short sighted of them to block me. We all know that it’s tough to get single women to meet so they would have at least been banking a chance of fun in the future by having a drink with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is terrible darling.

Being a single female you have to make sure you are safe and that you aren't meeting weirdos.

Their loss - big hug sent your way. X

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Their loss entirely...

Plenty more for you to choose from that are willing to give you a bit of leeway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is about your experiences and what you want. Their loss as far as I can remember your a gorgeous lady oozing sex appeal xx

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

You missed nothing. Stick to your own rules. End of !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People block for differant reasons.. i was once blocked by a couple I was due to meet, I found out later that the M felt his oartner was too keen and got jealous. Dont dwell, put it down to FIIF (fuck it, its Fab) and move al9ng to your next adventure

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By *ngloirishcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

When we meet single females there is never any pressure to play, for us treating her with respect is the most important thing.

Now we understand why women say we are not like a lot of couples they meet. If you don't respect people they won't respect you and other people soon hear about it.

Like others have said, their loss, chin up xxx

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By *adylace OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I actually don’t mean to sound like I’m giving out about them at all. I just think a couple is cutting their nose off to spite their face by doing this. Surely a guaranteed drink and chat is better than nothing at all.

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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago

north cork

Some people aren't here for drinks and chats tho.

Maybe they didn't want to waste your time or theirs. Blocking was a bit much tho

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth


"I promise this isn’t a rant. Lol

I was blocked today because I wouldn’t agree to play with a couple tonight. I offered to meet them for a drink to see how we got on and they could have kept looking for someone to join them later. I get it that it can be really frustrating when you’re looking for a kinky night of fun. But surely it was a bit short sighted of them to block me. We all know that it’s tough to get single women to meet so they would have at least been banking a chance of fun in the future by having a drink with me.

"

They obviously know what they want and they dont want to meet somebody whos undecided...they want somebody down to fuck

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

im sure ive been blocked by loads i dont care tbh ppl have their reasons.dont let it bother u lady . my advice pull up ur sexy panties forget it and move on plenty more sexis on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people dont do the fab party socials or m&g like myself.a social coffee/drink meet first is safer way to approach a play meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I promise this isn’t a rant. Lol

I was blocked today because I wouldn’t agree to play with a couple tonight. I offered to meet them for a drink to see how we got on and they could have kept looking for someone to join them later. I get it that it can be really frustrating when you’re looking for a kinky night of fun. But surely it was a bit short sighted of them to block me. We all know that it’s tough to get single women to meet so they would have at least been banking a chance of fun in the future by having a drink with me.

"
please tell me your joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their loss entirely...

Plenty more for you to choose from that are willing to give you a bit of leeway.

"
Mrs snickers and I would give lady lace as much leeway as she wanted lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I promise this isn’t a rant. Lol

I was blocked today because I wouldn’t agree to play with a couple tonight. I offered to meet them for a drink to see how we got on and they could have kept looking for someone to join them later. I get it that it can be really frustrating when you’re looking for a kinky night of fun. But surely it was a bit short sighted of them to block me. We all know that it’s tough to get single women to meet so they would have at least been banking a chance of fun in the future by having a drink with me.

They obviously know what they want and they dont want to meet somebody whos undecided...they want somebody down to fuck "
doesnt work like that though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I promise this isn’t a rant. Lol

I was blocked today because I wouldn’t agree to play with a couple tonight. I offered to meet them for a drink to see how we got on and they could have kept looking for someone to join them later. I get it that it can be really frustrating when you’re looking for a kinky night of fun. But surely it was a bit short sighted of them to block me. We all know that it’s tough to get single women to meet so they would have at least been banking a chance of fun in the future by having a drink with me.

They obviously know what they want and they dont want to meet somebody whos undecided...they want somebody down to fuck doesnt work like that though..."

Let him believe it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people dont do the fab party socials or m&g like myself.a social coffee/drink meet first is safer way to approach a play meet."

Ahhh sorry to hear you don’t do socials anymore

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By *adylace OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford City


"im sure ive been blocked by loads i dont care tbh ppl have their reasons.dont let it bother u lady . my advice pull up ur sexy panties forget it and move on plenty more sexis on fab "

I’m happily moving on to my next adventure. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a guy (obviously lol) and 9 times out of ten it would be a coffee or a drink for me. Its seriously dangerous to go anywhere with strangers these days

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By *adylace OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford City


"Their loss entirely...

Plenty more for you to choose from that are willing to give you a bit of leeway.

Mrs snickers and I would give lady lace as much leeway as she wanted lol."

Haha. I’m not looking for leeway at all. Everyone has their preferences. But thanks hun. xx

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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago

Louth/Meath/Dublin

It may not have even been a couple. Could have been just a him, and when he realised he wasn't gonna get anywhere he blocked.

But I'm very cynical as you know, Ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say you are bang on the money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their loss entirely...

Plenty more for you to choose from that are willing to give you a bit of leeway.

Mrs snickers and I would give lady lace as much leeway as she wanted lol.

Haha. I’m not looking for leeway at all. Everyone has their preferences. But thanks hun. xx"
we're down for

A road trip to you near the end of August...il be able to show of the tan to you lol and their won't be a tan line in sight

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By *oxminxCouple
over a year ago

Portlaoise

We have met lots of people for a drink without play. Some we have gone on to play with and other's we have not, but i don't recall blocking folk when we didn't play. We have blocked some people with whom we had no connection and whom we had no intention of ever wishing to meet again.

I once played as a Unicorn so fear not, learn as you go and enjoy the ride Mel ××

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"People block for differant reasons.. i was once blocked by a couple I was due to meet, I found out later that the M felt his oartner was too keen and got jealous. Dont dwell, put it down to FIIF (fuck it, its Fab) and move al9ng to your next adventure"

FIIF....

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By *adylace OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford City


"Their loss entirely...

Plenty more for you to choose from that are willing to give you a bit of leeway.

Mrs snickers and I would give lady lace as much leeway as she wanted lol.

Haha. I’m not looking for leeway at all. Everyone has their preferences. But thanks hun. xxwe're down for

A road trip to you near the end of August...il be able to show of the tan to you lol and their won't be a tan line in sight "

Looking forward to it.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"I actually don’t mean to sound like I’m giving out about them at all. I just think a couple is cutting their nose off to spite their face by doing this. Surely a guaranteed drink and chat is better than nothing at all. "

Give out if you want it's a forum. From what I can see its their loss. Your profile ,your rules.... play it the way YOU want. If they don't want to do it your way well maybe it's for the best.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I actually don’t mean to sound like I’m giving out about them at all. I just think a couple is cutting their nose off to spite their face by doing this. Surely a guaranteed drink and chat is better than nothing at all.

Give out if you want it's a forum. From what I can see its their loss. Your profile ,your rules.... play it the way YOU want. If they don't want to do it your way well maybe it's for the best. "

Ohhh u on dodgy ground there Bbd after all it's a cpl she should comply to their rules

Slopes back into his corner and stays quiet

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"I actually don’t mean to sound like I’m giving out about them at all. I just think a couple is cutting their nose off to spite their face by doing this. Surely a guaranteed drink and chat is better than nothing at all.

Give out if you want it's a forum. From what I can see its their loss. Your profile ,your rules.... play it the way YOU want. If they don't want to do it your way well maybe it's for the best.

Ohhh u on dodgy ground there Bbd after all it's a cpl she should comply to their rules

Slopes back into his corner and stays quiet "

Yeah....the bold boy corner. And..... I love dodgy ... I live on the edge me

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I actually don’t mean to sound like I’m giving out about them at all. I just think a couple is cutting their nose off to spite their face by doing this. Surely a guaranteed drink and chat is better than nothing at all.

Give out if you want it's a forum. From what I can see its their loss. Your profile ,your rules.... play it the way YOU want. If they don't want to do it your way well maybe it's for the best.

Ohhh u on dodgy ground there Bbd after all it's a cpl she should comply to their rules

Slopes back into his corner and stays quiet

Yeah....the bold boy corner. And..... I love dodgy ... I live on the edge me "

U need some one to get u over the edge do u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I promise this isn’t a rant. Lol

I was blocked today because I wouldn’t agree to play with a couple tonight. I offered to meet them for a drink to see how we got on and they could have kept looking for someone to join them later. I get it that it can be really frustrating when you’re looking for a kinky night of fun. But surely it was a bit short sighted of them to block me. We all know that it’s tough to get single women to meet so they would have at least been banking a chance of fun in the future by having a drink with me. No point giving out about it really shit happens just move on

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"I actually don’t mean to sound like I’m giving out about them at all. I just think a couple is cutting their nose off to spite their face by doing this. Surely a guaranteed drink and chat is better than nothing at all.

Give out if you want it's a forum. From what I can see its their loss. Your profile ,your rules.... play it the way YOU want. If they don't want to do it your way well maybe it's for the best.

Ohhh u on dodgy ground there Bbd after all it's a cpl she should comply to their rules

Slopes back into his corner and stays quiet

Yeah....the bold boy corner. And..... I love dodgy ... I live on the edge me

U need some one to get u over the edge do u "

Or someone to edge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol "

How is having a prefernce awkward.we all adults afterall.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Don't mind them it's there loss. Cos it's very hard to get ladies to meet a couple . Your safety is more important .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol

How is having a prefernce awkward.we all adults afterall."
I dunno just seems awakard to me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol

How is having a prefernce awkward.we all adults afterall."
when I mean awakard like been single and deciding not play with couple lol

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol "

You mean like takeing one for the team what about when one of the cpl don't get the tingling when ye meet should he or she just say nothing and take one for the team I think not.

When swinging u have to be able to accept that not every one is going to stir ur interest so wheather it's a cpl or a single if it's not for u it's not for u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol

How is having a prefernce awkward.we all adults afterall. when I mean awakard like been single and deciding not play with couple lol"

Very easy u meet have a drink chat.if either of the three people not getting the feeling u say thanks but no thanks .was great meeting and chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol

You mean like takeing one for the team what about when one of the cpl don't get the tingling when ye meet should he or she just say nothing and take one for the team I think not.

When swinging u have to be able to accept that not every one is going to stir ur interest so wheather it's a cpl or a single if it's not for u it's not for u "
I get you but obviously the couple want to play but if she's not sure about playing why bother going for a drink with them seems pointless to me like you know by there pics if you have interest in them if your still uncertain after seen there pics is there much point meeting up don't mind me think I'm.startinv to confuse myself lol

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol

You mean like takeing one for the team what about when one of the cpl don't get the tingling when ye meet should he or she just say nothing and take one for the team I think not.

When swinging u have to be able to accept that not every one is going to stir ur interest so wheather it's a cpl or a single if it's not for u it's not for u I get you but obviously the couple want to play but if she's not sure about playing why bother going for a drink with them seems pointless to me like you know by there pics if you have interest in them if your still uncertain after seen there pics is there much point meeting up don't mind me think I'm.startinv to confuse myself lol "

Awe that's where a lot of meets fall down they go with great expectations of debauchery and when they get ther those great pics haven't a personality or she finds them to not be what she was led to believe they were

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By *adylace OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford City


"Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol

You mean like takeing one for the team what about when one of the cpl don't get the tingling when ye meet should he or she just say nothing and take one for the team I think not.

When swinging u have to be able to accept that not every one is going to stir ur interest so wheather it's a cpl or a single if it's not for u it's not for u I get you but obviously the couple want to play but if she's not sure about playing why bother going for a drink with them seems pointless to me like you know by there pics if you have interest in them if your still uncertain after seen there pics is there much point meeting up don't mind me think I'm.startinv to confuse myself lol "

Pics actually mean very little to me. I never decide from anyone’s pics. I prefer to see how we get on in person. That’s why I don’t play on the first meet. I like to be able to chat and see how we get on without the will they won’t hey question looming in the background.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol

You mean like takeing one for the team what about when one of the cpl don't get the tingling when ye meet should he or she just say nothing and take one for the team I think not.

When swinging u have to be able to accept that not every one is going to stir ur interest so wheather it's a cpl or a single if it's not for u it's not for u I get you but obviously the couple want to play but if she's not sure about playing why bother going for a drink with them seems pointless to me like you know by there pics if you have interest in them if your still uncertain after seen there pics is there much point meeting up don't mind me think I'm.startinv to confuse myself lol "

If you go through your fab life expecting everyone to look like their pics I'm afraid you will be in for a rude awakening. Everything from good angles or lighting right to outright photo shopping or the odd (very) old pic going on in here

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us....we would never arrange a play meet we less we had met for a drink or coffee first. Nor would we expect anyone to either.

U cannot entirely (pardon the pun) get a feel for somebody through text/cam....a social meet for us would always be expected...Only in circumstances where we are at a party would we play on first meets. Stick to your own rules.

Chin up o.p

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Sometimes Ladylace, blocking is a good thing. I would rather be blocked in advance than get attitude after meeting. Chalk it down to experience that some people fab like it's going out of fashion and are merely thinking of their own need's...who wants to be in the middle of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not awakard meeting with couple then deciding your not gonna play do they ask do ya want play or what's craic should just meet up if your up for action otherwise would it not be awakard as fuck lol

You mean like takeing one for the team what about when one of the cpl don't get the tingling when ye meet should he or she just say nothing and take one for the team I think not.

When swinging u have to be able to accept that not every one is going to stir ur interest so wheather it's a cpl or a single if it's not for u it's not for u I get you but obviously the couple want to play but if she's not sure about playing why bother going for a drink with them seems pointless to me like you know by there pics if you have interest in them if your still uncertain after seen there pics is there much point meeting up don't mind me think I'm.startinv to confuse myself lol

If you go through your fab life expecting everyone to look like their pics I'm afraid you will be in for a rude awakening. Everything from good angles or lighting right to outright photo shopping or the odd (very) old pic going on in here

S"
yeah lot ladies that give compliments to always like thank god for filters so you have point there . So guys use filters too never heard guy using them before lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I promise this isn’t a rant. Lol

I was blocked today because I wouldn’t agree to play with a couple tonight. I offered to meet them for a drink to see how we got on and they could have kept looking for someone to join them later. I get it that it can be really frustrating when you’re looking for a kinky night of fun. But surely it was a bit short sighted of them to block me. We all know that it’s tough to get single women to meet so they would have at least been banking a chance of fun in the future by having a drink with me.

"

Their loss ... if i go for coffee I go with an nsa attitude or expectations ... if we are enjoying ourselves then i have no problem playing on that 1st meet but that is often an exception

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Make sure to block them back in case they ever change their mind lol

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By *ealOne74Man
over a year ago

limerick

What's the big deal? They blocked you because they didn't want to talk to you anymore. Maybe they just didn't like you... I get blocked all the time :D. Like couple months ago when arranged a meet with a woman and see simply stopped answering my messages when I was in her hotel lobby... Got blocked when texted her a simple "?".

Your case is curious only because usually it happens to single men...

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