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"Think it’s a fetish thing, whatever rocks your world " That's true | |||
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"I'd say it's niche. Some people clearly do and that's their thing. Fair play. I'd say a lot of it is 'locker room' talk and would cringe if a woman actually called them it. Had it said to me once, my cock downed tools instantly lol "Lol  | |||
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"I'd say it's niche. Some people clearly do and that's their thing. Fair play. I'd say a lot of it is 'locker room' talk and would cringe if a woman actually called them it. Had it said to me once, my cock downed tools instantly lol
Lol "She didn't think so lol. Poor woman was mortified, thought I'd like it, no idea why lol. She was happy with Naughty Bitch so we stuck with that | |||
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"Do men really like being called daddy from a grown woman?? " I've came across more women that like to say it than men who like to hear it. | |||
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"I'd say it's niche. Some people clearly do and that's their thing. Fair play. I'd say a lot of it is 'locker room' talk and would cringe if a woman actually called them it. Had it said to me once, my cock downed tools instantly lol "Pmsl | |||
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"Do men really like being called daddy from a grown woman?? I've came across more women that like to say it than men who like to hear it. " But. Youre straight! Exactly how many guys have you cum across??  | |||
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"Do men really like being called daddy from a grown woman?? I've came across more women that like to say it than men who like to hear it. But. Youre straight! Exactly how many guys have you cum across?? "Maybe mmf lad | |||
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"It’s a dom/sub thing but more often than not grossly misinterpreted... Thanks to the medium of film ‘doms’ deliver punishments, discipline and spankings .. whereas the reality is more about mutual respect, sharing of experiences that quieten the minds and focus on touch and taste and physical interactions - all with care and respect. ‘Littles’ and their ‘daddies’ and age play is a niche .... but hey, live and let live " I know the thing well enough, never was involved in it but I added a girl on snapchat from tinder a few years ago and she constantly had a dummy in her mouth and would always try to speak like a child to me. Conversation would start normal then she'd slowly try to get her fetish into it but it wasn't for me. She told me once she had a guy bring her shopping for toys and she was in her 20s. I never met her but I'd be bored to death with that carry on. | |||
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"People and their kinks ... Live and let live ... but not my thing either. " Nor mine but I don't know enough about it other than that like other kinks and fetishes, there is probably more to it than the surface layer of name tags for each other | |||
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"It’s a dom/sub thing but more often than not grossly misinterpreted... Thanks to the medium of film ‘doms’ deliver punishments, discipline and spankings .. whereas the reality is more about mutual respect, sharing of experiences that quieten the minds and focus on touch and taste and physical interactions - all with care and respect. ‘Littles’ and their ‘daddies’ and age play is a niche .... but hey, live and let live I know the thing well enough, never was involved in it but I added a girl on snapchat from tinder a few years ago and she constantly had a dummy in her mouth and would always try to speak like a child to me. Conversation would start normal then she'd slowly try to get her fetish into it but it wasn't for me. She told me once she had a guy bring her shopping for toys and she was in her 20s. I never met her but I'd be bored to death with that carry on. " Sorry but this doesn't qualify you to say you know it well enough to describe what is involved in the dynamics of it, unless you are involved in it directly, you are giving an outer opinion | |||
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"Its daddy/little. It's not dom/submissive. A little can be a brat, can 100% not do what daddy says etc, but the daddy is the "big" and the other the "little", so daddy will have his way with her. Then it extends into age play. Where the little will actually act young, wear school uniforms and all that stuff. Then there is the daddy/daughter, where things get weird, but I know some girls/men on here are into that so whatever. I'm not into any of it. Being called daddy or sir, it does nothing for me at all, show you are submissive by spreading your ass cheeks when asked, not responding "yes sir", thats my take on it." It was always something that baffled me a bit but I starred coming across blogs when searching D/s material and after reading up a bit more on it all and reading about people into the D/d dynamic I can see the appeal for people. Not for me but I'm quite sure a lot of my kinks aren't to everyone's tastes either | |||
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"It’s a dom/sub thing but more often than not grossly misinterpreted... Thanks to the medium of film ‘doms’ deliver punishments, discipline and spankings .. whereas the reality is more about mutual respect, sharing of experiences that quieten the minds and focus on touch and taste and physical interactions - all with care and respect. ‘Littles’ and their ‘daddies’ and age play is a niche .... but hey, live and let live I know the thing well enough, never was involved in it but I added a girl on snapchat from tinder a few years ago and she constantly had a dummy in her mouth and would always try to speak like a child to me. Conversation would start normal then she'd slowly try to get her fetish into it but it wasn't for me. She told me once she had a guy bring her shopping for toys and she was in her 20s. I never met her but I'd be bored to death with that carry on. Sorry but this doesn't qualify you to say you know it well enough to describe what is involved in the dynamics of it, unless you are involved in it directly, you are giving an outer opinion" Think you have to read into what he's saying a bit more Madame Butterfly 
Saying you know it "well enough" doesn't mean you have to know it at all..you can know it 1% or 100% whatever amount, that's enough for that person.
Yes he wasn't ditectly involved (which he stated also) but he had a sample of what it might be like, with a girl trying to engage him in the world and telling a story of buying toys with a previous Daddy and even if he never came across that girl, he's still entitled to his opinion....no matter if he's an innie or an outie | |||
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"It’s a dom/sub thing but more often than not grossly misinterpreted... Thanks to the medium of film ‘doms’ deliver punishments, discipline and spankings .. whereas the reality is more about mutual respect, sharing of experiences that quieten the minds and focus on touch and taste and physical interactions - all with care and respect. ‘Littles’ and their ‘daddies’ and age play is a niche .... but hey, live and let live I know the thing well enough, never was involved in it but I added a girl on snapchat from tinder a few years ago and she constantly had a dummy in her mouth and would always try to speak like a child to me. Conversation would start normal then she'd slowly try to get her fetish into it but it wasn't for me. She told me once she had a guy bring her shopping for toys and she was in her 20s. I never met her but I'd be bored to death with that carry on. Sorry but this doesn't qualify you to say you know it well enough to describe what is involved in the dynamics of it, unless you are involved in it directly, you are giving an outer opinion" And I've also seen numerous documentaries (I should have stated that but I just gave my own small personal experience of it) it's not hard to understand the kink I just find it boring | |||
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"Do men really like being called daddy from a grown woman?? " I wouldn't be a fan of it. Not my fetish. | |||
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"It’s a dom/sub thing but more often than not grossly misinterpreted... Thanks to the medium of film ‘doms’ deliver punishments, discipline and spankings .. whereas the reality is more about mutual respect, sharing of experiences that quieten the minds and focus on touch and taste and physical interactions - all with care and respect. ‘Littles’ and their ‘daddies’ and age play is a niche .... but hey, live and let live I know the thing well enough, never was involved in it but I added a girl on snapchat from tinder a few years ago and she constantly had a dummy in her mouth and would always try to speak like a child to me. Conversation would start normal then she'd slowly try to get her fetish into it but it wasn't for me. She told me once she had a guy bring her shopping for toys and she was in her 20s. I never met her but I'd be bored to death with that carry on. Sorry but this doesn't qualify you to say you know it well enough to describe what is involved in the dynamics of it, unless you are involved in it directly, you are giving an outer opinion Think you have to read into what he's saying a bit more Madame Butterfly
Saying you know it "well enough" doesn't mean you have to know it at all..you can know it 1% or 100% whatever amount, that's enough for that person.
Yes he wasn't ditectly involved (which he stated also) but he had a sample of what it might be like, with a girl trying to engage him in the world and telling a story of buying toys with a previous Daddy and even if he never came across that girl, he's still entitled to his opinion....no matter if he's an innie or an outie "Fair point but I have no problem with someone saying that they are into something or not, this isn't something that I am into. But my point was about sweeping the kink in under one statement when there are more dynamics to it. I will avidly read/listen to people talking about the dynamics behind their likes and kinks as I find it fascinating regardless of whether I am into it or not. That's where myself and returned one are differing, he finds it boring and I think kinks are fascinating. | |||
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"It’s a dom/sub thing but more often than not grossly misinterpreted... Thanks to the medium of film ‘doms’ deliver punishments, discipline and spankings .. whereas the reality is more about mutual respect, sharing of experiences that quieten the minds and focus on touch and taste and physical interactions - all with care and respect. ‘Littles’ and their ‘daddies’ and age play is a niche .... but hey, live and let live I know the thing well enough, never was involved in it but I added a girl on snapchat from tinder a few years ago and she constantly had a dummy in her mouth and would always try to speak like a child to me. Conversation would start normal then she'd slowly try to get her fetish into it but it wasn't for me. She told me once she had a guy bring her shopping for toys and she was in her 20s. I never met her but I'd be bored to death with that carry on. Sorry but this doesn't qualify you to say you know it well enough to describe what is involved in the dynamics of it, unless you are involved in it directly, you are giving an outer opinion Think you have to read into what he's saying a bit more Madame Butterfly
Saying you know it "well enough" doesn't mean you have to know it at all..you can know it 1% or 100% whatever amount, that's enough for that person.
Yes he wasn't ditectly involved (which he stated also) but he had a sample of what it might be like, with a girl trying to engage him in the world and telling a story of buying toys with a previous Daddy and even if he never came across that girl, he's still entitled to his opinion....no matter if he's an innie or an outie
Fair point but I have no problem with someone saying that they are into something or not, this isn't something that I am into. But my point was about sweeping the kink in under one statement when there are more dynamics to it.
I will avidly read/listen to people talking about the dynamics behind their likes and kinks as I find it fascinating regardless of whether I am into it or not. That's where myself and returned one are differing, he finds it boring and I think kinks are fascinating. "You find all kinks fascinating? I find that one particularly boring or atleast the side of it that I was exposed to boring. I have my own kinks too, I don't find them all boring haha | |||
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"It’s better than being called Granddad! "That's a different kink, the art of zimmerframe sex. | |||
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"It’s better than being called Granddad!
That's a different kink, the art of zimmerframe sex. "it's the shakes. It's just like a vibrator . | |||
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"It’s a dom/sub thing but more often than not grossly misinterpreted... Thanks to the medium of film ‘doms’ deliver punishments, discipline and spankings .. whereas the reality is more about mutual respect, sharing of experiences that quieten the minds and focus on touch and taste and physical interactions - all with care and respect. ‘Littles’ and their ‘daddies’ and age play is a niche .... but hey, live and let live I know the thing well enough, never was involved in it but I added a girl on snapchat from tinder a few years ago and she constantly had a dummy in her mouth and would always try to speak like a child to me. Conversation would start normal then she'd slowly try to get her fetish into it but it wasn't for me. She told me once she had a guy bring her shopping for toys and she was in her 20s. I never met her but I'd be bored to death with that carry on. Sorry but this doesn't qualify you to say you know it well enough to describe what is involved in the dynamics of it, unless you are involved in it directly, you are giving an outer opinion Think you have to read into what he's saying a bit more Madame Butterfly
Saying you know it "well enough" doesn't mean you have to know it at all..you can know it 1% or 100% whatever amount, that's enough for that person.
Yes he wasn't ditectly involved (which he stated also) but he had a sample of what it might be like, with a girl trying to engage him in the world and telling a story of buying toys with a previous Daddy and even if he never came across that girl, he's still entitled to his opinion....no matter if he's an innie or an outie
Fair point but I have no problem with someone saying that they are into something or not, this isn't something that I am into. But my point was about sweeping the kink in under one statement when there are more dynamics to it.
I will avidly read/listen to people talking about the dynamics behind their likes and kinks as I find it fascinating regardless of whether I am into it or not. That's where myself and returned one are differing, he finds it boring and I think kinks are fascinating.
You find all kinks fascinating? I find that one particularly boring or atleast the side of it that I was exposed to boring. I have my own kinks too, I don't find them all boring haha"I find the stories behind the attraction and people's understanding of their kinks and what they get out of it really interesting regardless of whether it's my thing or not. I think we are all fascinated by our own kinks | |||
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"Is it just me that has noticed that the guys stroking their beards and commenting in their most knowledgeable way about their experience of all this daddy "stuffs" with the countless women that they have so much experience with.. have no verifications?
There's a saying that springs to mind
"Don't criticise me because my kink isn't your kink ""But you do know there's ways of meeting people outside of this one particular site? | |||
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"Is it just me that has noticed that the guys stroking their beards and commenting in their most knowledgeable way about their experience of all this daddy "stuffs" with the countless women that they have so much experience with.. have no verifications?
There's a saying that springs to mind
"Don't criticise me because my kink isn't your kink ""Open forum and what may excite one will bore/turn off the next. It's good to get these discussions aired so people can discuss it. I don't think saying it is boring is a slight but more so an opinion. I am aware that nobody has said it's their thing though so to those observing and that are into daddy/Little Dom/sub play this is a good opportunity to enlighten people about the different dynamics involved. | |||
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"Is it just me that has noticed that the guys stroking their beards and commenting in their most knowledgeable way about their experience of all this daddy "stuffs" with the countless women that they have so much experience with.. have no verifications?
There's a saying that springs to mind
"Don't criticise me because my kink isn't your kink "
But you do know there's ways of meeting people outside of this one particular site? "And sites directly aimed at FETishes.funny that isn't it other sites. Who would have known. I gave my side of it and wasmt criticising anyone over their kink either. Just because it's not my mine or others kink you have to criticise us? As I said in my first comment each to their own. It wasn't belittling anyone's kink. | |||
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"Is it just me that has noticed that the guys stroking their beards and commenting in their most knowledgeable way about their experience of all this daddy "stuffs" with the countless women that they have so much experience with.. have no verifications?
There's a saying that springs to mind
"Don't criticise me because my kink isn't your kink "
But you do know there's ways of meeting people outside of this one particular site?
And sites directly aimed at FETishes.funny that isn't it other sites. Who would have known.
I gave my side of it and wasmt criticising anyone over their kink either. Just because it's not my mine or others kink you have to criticise us?
As I said in my first comment each to their own. It wasn't belittling anyone's kink. "I didn't critise, I said it was boring to me. I also said I understand the kink but it's not for me. You were trying to discredit everyone on the thread had no verifications. Anyway I'm not getting into an argument over something so small. | |||
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"If someone asks for an opinion, I’ll freely give mine. Whether it’s respected or not is of no consequence to me! People can judge it on its merits, and offer their own.. that’s what makes a forum a forum right? So no sorry necessary " | |||
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"Is it just me that has noticed that the guys stroking their beards and commenting in their most knowledgeable way about their experience of all this daddy "stuffs" with the countless women that they have so much experience with.. have no verifications?
There's a saying that springs to mind
"Don't criticise me because my kink isn't your kink "
But you do know there's ways of meeting people outside of this one particular site?
And sites directly aimed at FETishes.funny that isn't it other sites. Who would have known.
I gave my side of it and wasmt criticising anyone over their kink either. Just because it's not my mine or others kink you have to criticise us?
As I said in my first comment each to their own. It wasn't belittling anyone's kink.
I didn't critise, I said it was boring to me. I also said I understand the kink but it's not for me. You were trying to discredit everyone on the thread had no verifications. Anyway I'm not getting into an argument over something so small. "Are you picking on my penis again?! | |||
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"The issue is, as always, people feel the need to comment, and pass judgement on, something they have ZERO understanding off.. and having read the comments here, none of the commenters have any understanding" The OP asked men a question... men answered.. what’s the point of a forum If people don’t do that? Discussion and debate is how people learn like.. if the question was what do people who practice this kind of play think etc etc then fair enough, but it wasn’t...? I’m also fairly sure no one is trying to say their opinion is fact and that no one else POV matters.. least I know I’m not and never would.. | |||
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"The issue is, as always, people feel the need to comment, and pass judgement on, something they have ZERO understanding off.. and having read the comments here, none of the commenters have any understanding" I understand 100% what I like and that was my comment. Not everyone is passing judgement. | |||
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"Do men really like being called daddy from a grown woman?? " Some people are into it. Some aren't. Some like spreading their cunt lips apart and taking a photo, then posting on their profile. Some don't. Some like their tits slapped and being called a bitch while being spat on. Some men like their balls punched. There's a kink for everyone. Who fucking cares? | |||
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"The issue is, as always, people feel the need to comment, and pass judgement on, something they have ZERO understanding off.. and having read the comments here, none of the commenters have any understanding" Wouldn't be much of a forum if opinions were the sole preserve of those with PhDs on the subject in question. | |||
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"I’ve have had men message me calling me mommy it turns my stomach. Each to their own for their kinks but this mommy or daddy kink makes me feel physically ill. I don’t understand why anyone would like to “pretend” to be a mommy or daddy and have sex with I’ll prob be slatted "Firstly, and most importantly, DdLg ISNT about sex.. a lot of littles have had complex life histories, and retreating into a fantasy world of where they're small again and have a caregiver to look after them and protect them helps them process the world | |||
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"The issue is, as always, people feel the need to comment, and pass judgement on, something they have ZERO understanding off.. and having read the comments here, none of the commenters have any understanding" One van have an opinion without full understanding as I'd guess many who have some knowledge will look down on those who don't. However as it's a public forum it's a place to listen, learn and develop. Some I guess have a the answers with some experience , some have them with little or no experience. It's a good place to learn all the same. | |||
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"I’ve have had men message me calling me mommy it turns my stomach. Each to their own for their kinks but this mommy or daddy kink makes me feel physically ill. I don’t understand why anyone would like to “pretend” to be a mommy or daddy and have sex with I’ll prob be slatted
Firstly, and most importantly, DdLg ISNT about sex.. a lot of littles have had complex life histories, and retreating into a fantasy world of where they're small again and have a caregiver to look after them and protect them helps them process the world"They still have sex | |||
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"The issue is, as always, people feel the need to comment, and pass judgement on, something they have ZERO understanding off.. and having read the comments here, none of the commenters have any understanding" One can have an opinion without full understanding as I'd guess many who have some knowledge will look down on those who don't. However as it's a public forum it's a place to listen, learn and develop. Some I guess have the answers with some experience , some have them with little or no experience. It's a good place to learn all the same. | |||
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"It was always something that baffled me a bit but I starred coming across blogs when searching D/s material and after reading up a bit more on it all and reading about people into the D/d dynamic I can see the appeal for people. Not for me but I'm quite sure a lot of my kinks aren't to everyone's tastes either " I think the daddy/little thing could be fun as a role play, or a school uniform could be fun as a role play, like one night of fun... But when people start living their life as daddy, then it baffles me. Like some girls/littles want to sit around doing colouring books and writing out punishment lines for daddy in their spare time. Its not sexually attractive for me to have to give my partner lines to write out because they spilled their milk. As for daddy/daughter, I don't get that at all, they must be abuse victims or have mental health issues. Anyway there are loads into it. | |||
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"I’ve have had men message me calling me mommy it turns my stomach. Each to their own for their kinks but this mommy or daddy kink makes me feel physically ill. I don’t understand why anyone would like to “pretend” to be a mommy or daddy and have sex with I’ll prob be slatted
Firstly, and most importantly, DdLg ISNT about sex.. a lot of littles have had complex life histories, and retreating into a fantasy world of where they're small again and have a caregiver to look after them and protect them helps them process the world
They still have sex "So do couples who play pokemon go togethet, what's your point? | |||
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"I’ve have had men message me calling me mommy it turns my stomach. Each to their own for their kinks but this mommy or daddy kink makes me feel physically ill. I don’t understand why anyone would like to “pretend” to be a mommy or daddy and have sex with I’ll prob be slatted
Firstly, and most importantly, DdLg ISNT about sex.. a lot of littles have had complex life histories, and retreating into a fantasy world of where they're small again and have a caregiver to look after them and protect them helps them process the world
They still have sex
So do couples who play pokemon go togethet, what's your point?"They aren’t being called daddy and being praised for being a good little girl | |||
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"So do couples who play pokemon go togethet, what's your point?" No, the daddy wont play pokemon, but he will buy a pokoemon game for the girl, and colouring books, and crayons, and toys. He will sit watching her play with them getting sexually aroused. But he himself sees himself as an adult. Same for a mommy, reverse buy stuff for the guy but mommy is an adult. That's if they are into age play. For some its just the girl is a bit of a brat and will say somehting like "I've been a bad girl daddy" when they make a mistake. A load of them are into age play though. | |||
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"I’ve have had men message me calling me mommy it turns my stomach. Each to their own for their kinks but this mommy or daddy kink makes me feel physically ill. I don’t understand why anyone would like to “pretend” to be a mommy or daddy and have sex with I’ll prob be slatted
Firstly, and most importantly, DdLg ISNT about sex.. a lot of littles have had complex life histories, and retreating into a fantasy world of where they're small again and have a caregiver to look after them and protect them helps them process the world
They still have sex
So do couples who play pokemon go togethet, what's your point?
They aren’t being called daddy and being praised for being a good little girl"As i said, zero understanding. It isnt about in cest or age play, its about feeling safe and cared for Judgement without understanding | |||
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"Do men really like being called daddy from a grown woman?? I've came across more women that like to say it than men who like to hear to. " Yea this is so true | |||
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"I’ve have had men message me calling me mommy it turns my stomach. Each to their own for their kinks but this mommy or daddy kink makes me feel physically ill. I don’t understand why anyone would like to “pretend” to be a mommy or daddy and have sex with I’ll prob be slatted
Firstly, and most importantly, DdLg ISNT about sex.. a lot of littles have had complex life histories, and retreating into a fantasy world of where they're small again and have a caregiver to look after them and protect them helps them process the world
They still have sex
So do couples who play pokemon go togethet, what's your point?
They aren’t being called daddy and being praised for being a good little girl
As i said, zero understanding. It isnt about in cest or age play, its about feeling safe and cared for
Judgement without understanding "Why then do they like to be called daddy during sex explain that one see as you seem to understand it all | |||
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"I’ve have had men message me calling me mommy it turns my stomach. Each to their own for their kinks but this mommy or daddy kink makes me feel physically ill. I don’t understand why anyone would like to “pretend” to be a mommy or daddy and have sex with I’ll prob be slatted
Firstly, and most importantly, DdLg ISNT about sex.. a lot of littles have had complex life histories, and retreating into a fantasy world of where they're small again and have a caregiver to look after them and protect them helps them process the world
They still have sex
So do couples who play pokemon go togethet, what's your point?
They aren’t being called daddy and being praised for being a good little girl
As i said, zero understanding. It isnt about in cest or age play, its about feeling safe and cared for
Judgement without understanding
Why then do they like to be called daddy during sex explain that one see as you seem to understand it all "Some do some dont, but it has nothing to do with pretending to be the REAL daddy. DDLG is a sub-set of bdsm, only with softer edges.. in stead of Master or Sir, the dom role is daddy, its just a name, a role, a term of endearment | |||
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"So do couples who play pokemon go togethet, what's your point? No, the daddy wont play pokemon, but he will buy a pokoemon game for the girl, and colouring books, and crayons, and toys. He will sit watching her play with them getting sexually aroused. But he himself sees himself as an adult. Same for a mommy, reverse buy stuff for the guy but mommy is an adult. That's if they are into age play. For some its just the girl is a bit of a brat and will say somehting like "I've been a bad girl daddy" when they make a mistake. A load of them are into age play though." Such expert knowledge.. and yes, thst is sarcasm | |||
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"I’ve have had men message me calling me mommy it turns my stomach. Each to their own for their kinks but this mommy or daddy kink makes me feel physically ill. I don’t understand why anyone would like to “pretend” to be a mommy or daddy and have sex with I’ll prob be slatted
Firstly, and most importantly, DdLg ISNT about sex.. a lot of littles have had complex life histories, and retreating into a fantasy world of where they're small again and have a caregiver to look after them and protect them helps them process the world
They still have sex
So do couples who play pokemon go togethet, what's your point?
They aren’t being called daddy and being praised for being a good little girl
As i said, zero understanding. It isnt about in cest or age play, its about feeling safe and cared for
Judgement without understanding
Why then do they like to be called daddy during sex explain that one see as you seem to understand it all
Some do some dont, but it has nothing to do with pretending to be the REAL daddy. DDLG is a sub-set of bdsm, only with softer edges.. in stead of Master or Sir, the dom role is daddy, its just a name, a role, a term of endearment"And the mommy? I’ve been asked can they call me that during sex I’ve been had messages with a full scenario I don’t find anything of this kink endearing | |||
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"I’ve have had men message me calling me mommy it turns my stomach. Each to their own for their kinks but this mommy or daddy kink makes me feel physically ill. I don’t understand why anyone would like to “pretend” to be a mommy or daddy and have sex with I’ll prob be slatted
Firstly, and most importantly, DdLg ISNT about sex.. a lot of littles have had complex life histories, and retreating into a fantasy world of where they're small again and have a caregiver to look after them and protect them helps them process the world
They still have sex
So do couples who play pokemon go togethet, what's your point?
They aren’t being called daddy and being praised for being a good little girl
As i said, zero understanding. It isnt about in cest or age play, its about feeling safe and cared for
Judgement without understanding
Why then do they like to be called daddy during sex explain that one see as you seem to understand it all
Some do some dont, but it has nothing to do with pretending to be the REAL daddy. DDLG is a sub-set of bdsm, only with softer edges.. in stead of Master or Sir, the dom role is daddy, its just a name, a role, a term of endearment
And the mommy? I’ve been asked can they call me that during sex I’ve been had messages with a full scenario I don’t find anything of this kink endearing "Everyone is differant and i csnt speak for your experience, just my own | |||
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"In BDSM a "Daddy" is the dominant figure. He takes on the responsibility of caring and nurturing very much the protector. This has nothing to do with in cest. It a place where the sub can let go of her cares,responsibilities etc and let a warm caring dominant figure take control. Unfortunately a lot of wannabes have given it a bad name. Every relationship is different. This kind of role can also be used to spice up things in the bedroom or some choose to live as D/S on a full time basis. On a footnote I don't like the term Daddy and it's usually the sub who wants to use the name which in fact has nothing to do with in cest but is used as a term of endearment nothing more. I know people in tbese kind of relationships and they have the most fulfilled ones thst I know of. If you think being dominant is all about your pleasure ,I can assure you .... you're doing it wrong . "An excellent and eloquent discription | |||
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"In BDSM a "Daddy" is the dominant figure. He takes on the responsibility of caring and nurturing very much the protector. This has nothing to do with in cest. It a place where the sub can let go of her cares,responsibilities etc and let a warm caring dominant figure take control. Unfortunately a lot of wannabes have given it a bad name. Every relationship is different. This kind of role can also be used to spice up things in the bedroom or some choose to live as D/S on a full time basis. On a footnote I don't like the term Daddy and it's usually the sub who wants to use the name which in fact has nothing to do with in cest but is used as a term of endearment nothing more. I know people in tbese kind of relationships and they have the most fulfilled ones thst I know of. If you think being dominant is all about your pleasure ,I can assure you .... you're doing it wrong . "You know what you are talking about. I don't consider myself a dom but I do like to control play/positions/activities etc without being a sergeant major and am extremely conscious about playmates pleasure. Where does this in your opinion rank in dom tendencies ? | |||
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"In BDSM a "Daddy" is the dominant figure. He takes on the responsibility of caring and nurturing very much the protector. This has nothing to do with in cest. It a place where the sub can let go of her cares,responsibilities etc and let a warm caring dominant figure take control. Unfortunately a lot of wannabes have given it a bad name. Every relationship is different. This kind of role can also be used to spice up things in the bedroom or some choose to live as D/S on a full time basis. On a footnote I don't like the term Daddy and it's usually the sub who wants to use the name which in fact has nothing to do with in cest but is used as a term of endearment nothing more. I know people in tbese kind of relationships and they have the most fulfilled ones thst I know of. If you think being dominant is all about your pleasure ,I can assure you .... you're doing it wrong .
An excellent and eloquent discription
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"Unfortunately most people dont see it like that. Its still cringy for most people, even if its got nothing to do with a father. Master sounds so much better even though its not the same thing." | |||
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"In BDSM a "Daddy" is the dominant figure. He takes on the responsibility of caring and nurturing very much the protector. This has nothing to do with in cest. It a place where the sub can let go of her cares,responsibilities etc and let a warm caring dominant figure take control. Unfortunately a lot of wannabes have given it a bad name. Every relationship is different. This kind of role can also be used to spice up things in the bedroom or some choose to live as D/S on a full time basis. On a footnote I don't like the term Daddy and it's usually the sub who wants to use the name which in fact has nothing to do with in cest but is used as a term of endearment nothing more. I know people in tbese kind of relationships and they have the most fulfilled ones thst I know of. If you think being dominant is all about your pleasure ,I can assure you .... you're doing it wrong .
You know what you are talking about. I don't consider myself a dom but I do like to control play/positions/activities etc without being a sergeant major and am extremely conscious about playmates pleasure. Where does this in your opinion rank in dom tendencies ?"I can't tell you what mind of Dom you are... time will tell . Every day is a learning day. I can only speak for myself. I class myself as a sensual Domme. Control and pleasure is my thing. | |||
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"In BDSM a "Daddy" is the dominant figure. He takes on the responsibility of caring and nurturing very much the protector. This has nothing to do with in cest. It a place where the sub can let go of her cares,responsibilities etc and let a warm caring dominant figure take control. Unfortunately a lot of wannabes have given it a bad name. Every relationship is different. This kind of role can also be used to spice up things in the bedroom or some choose to live as D/S on a full time basis. On a footnote I don't like the term Daddy and it's usually the sub who wants to use the name which in fact has nothing to do with in cest but is used as a term of endearment nothing more. I know people in tbese kind of relationships and they have the most fulfilled ones thst I know of. If you think being dominant is all about your pleasure ,I can assure you .... you're doing it wrong .
You know what you are talking about. I don't consider myself a dom but I do like to control play/positions/activities etc without being a sergeant major and am extremely conscious about playmates pleasure. Where does this in your opinion rank in dom tendencies ?
I can't tell you what mind of Dom you are... time will tell . Every day is a learning day. I can only speak for myself. I class myself as a sensual Domme. Control and pleasure is my thing. "I can certainly relate to that. Your description sounds tailor made for me. Will consider mentioning it on my profile. Thank you | |||
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"Do men really like being called daddy from a grown woman?? " Just happy to be called at all if I am honest | |||
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"In BDSM a "Daddy" is the dominant figure. He takes on the responsibility of caring and nurturing very much the protector. This has nothing to do with in cest. It a place where the sub can let go of her cares,responsibilities etc and let a warm caring dominant figure take control. Unfortunately a lot of wannabes have given it a bad name. Every relationship is different. This kind of role can also be used to spice up things in the bedroom or some choose to live as D/S on a full time basis. On a footnote I don't like the term Daddy and it's usually the sub who wants to use the name which in fact has nothing to do with in cest but is used as a term of endearment nothing more. I know people in tbese kind of relationships and they have the most fulfilled ones thst I know of. If you think being dominant is all about your pleasure ,I can assure you .... you're doing it wrong .
You know what you are talking about. I don't consider myself a dom but I do like to control play/positions/activities etc without being a sergeant major and am extremely conscious about playmates pleasure. Where does this in your opinion rank in dom tendencies ?
I can't tell you what mind of Dom you are... time will tell . Every day is a learning day. I can only speak for myself. I class myself as a sensual Domme. Control and pleasure is my thing.
I can certainly relate to that. Your description sounds tailor made for me. Will consider mentioning it on my profile. Thank you "Google the Dominant Soul. He has a blog that's very informative. | |||
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"In BDSM a "Daddy" is the dominant figure. He takes on the responsibility of caring and nurturing very much the protector. This has nothing to do with in cest. It a place where the sub can let go of her cares,responsibilities etc and let a warm caring dominant figure take control. Unfortunately a lot of wannabes have given it a bad name. Every relationship is different. This kind of role can also be used to spice up things in the bedroom or some choose to live as D/S on a full time basis. On a footnote I don't like the term Daddy and it's usually the sub who wants to use the name which in fact has nothing to do with in cest but is used as a term of endearment nothing more. I know people in tbese kind of relationships and they have the most fulfilled ones thst I know of. If you think being dominant is all about your pleasure ,I can assure you .... you're doing it wrong .
You know what you are talking about. I don't consider myself a dom but I do like to control play/positions/activities etc without being a sergeant major and am extremely conscious about playmates pleasure. Where does this in your opinion rank in dom tendencies ?
I can't tell you what mind of Dom you are... time will tell . Every day is a learning day. I can only speak for myself. I class myself as a sensual Domme. Control and pleasure is my thing.
I can certainly relate to that. Your description sounds tailor made for me. Will consider mentioning it on my profile. Thank you
Google the Dominant Soul. He has a blog that's very informative. "Wow just had a look at that blog. Exactly what I am and look forward to lots of reading on my hols. If we ever meet I owe you one very large G&T or whatever you fancy. Sincere thanks. | |||
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" If you think being dominant is all about your pleasure ,I can assure you .... you're doing it wrong . "
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"I am a sub who has a very good relationship with her sir. Would never dream of calling him daddy as it is wrong to me. A dom looks after his sub and makes sure she or he is pleased foremost " No all littles are sub and not all subs are littles | |||
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"I am a sub who has a very good relationship with her sir. Would never dream of calling him daddy as it is wrong to me. A dom looks after his sub and makes sure she or he is pleased foremost " yes totally agree with you on this I remember meeting u before with a Dom and u called him sir | |||
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"I am a sub who has a very good relationship with her sir. Would never dream of calling him daddy as it is wrong to me. A dom looks after his sub and makes sure she or he is pleased foremost No all littles are sub and not all subs are littles" But some Dommes are huge... Sorry couldn't resist. | |||
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"I am a sub who has a very good relationship with her sir. Would never dream of calling him daddy as it is wrong to me. A dom looks after his sub and makes sure she or he is pleased foremost No all littles are sub and not all subs are littles But some Dommes are huge... Sorry couldn't resist. "i love a domme that is huge mmmm | |||
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"I am a sub who has a very good relationship with her sir. Would never dream of calling him daddy as it is wrong to me. A dom looks after his sub and makes sure she or he is pleased foremost No all littles are sub and not all subs are littles But some Dommes are huge... Sorry couldn't resist. "That's Jean-Claude Van Domme you're thinking of | |||
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"I am a sub who has a very good relationship with her sir. Would never dream of calling him daddy as it is wrong to me. A dom looks after his sub and makes sure she or he is pleased foremost No all littles are sub and not all subs are littles But some Dommes are huge... Sorry couldn't resist.
That's Jean-Claude Van Domme you're thinking of "Lol... no _igblondedomme | |||
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"Methinks this is beginning to sound like Brexit or Alice in Wonderland. I say what I mean doesnt mean I do what I say..... "What does this mean?? | |||
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"It doesnt. Thats the point. Its goin around in meaningless circles." Ok..... | |||
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"I've been reticent about posting on this as last time I posted on a similar thread I received quite a few nasty, abusive PM's. Everyone's sexual preferences & kinks (as the majority on here get) are different. I love a daddy dom, love a guy who takes control in the bedroom & gives instructions. However the fact that they have a sexually assertive & dominant personality, does not mean that they are self centered or uncaring. Quite the opposite in my experience.....it's seriously hot "Kitten999.....we have to meet...;) | |||
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"It’s a dom/sub thing but more often than not grossly misinterpreted... Thanks to the medium of film ‘doms’ deliver punishments, discipline and spankings .. whereas the reality is more about mutual respect, sharing of experiences that quieten the minds and focus on touch and taste and physical interactions - all with care and respect. ‘Littles’ and their ‘daddies’ and age play is a niche .... but hey, live and let live I know the thing well enough, never was involved in it but I added a girl on snapchat from tinder a few years ago and she constantly had a dummy in her mouth and would always try to speak like a child to me. Conversation would start normal then she'd slowly try to get her fetish into it but it wasn't for me. She told me once she had a guy bring her shopping for toys and she was in her 20s. I never met her but I'd be bored to death with that carry on. Sorry but this doesn't qualify you to say you know it well enough to describe what is involved in the dynamics of it, unless you are involved in it directly, you are giving an outer opinion Think you have to read into what he's saying a bit more Madame Butterfly
Saying you know it "well enough" doesn't mean you have to know it at all..you can know it 1% or 100% whatever amount, that's enough for that person.
Yes he wasn't ditectly involved (which he stated also) but he had a sample of what it might be like, with a girl trying to engage him in the world and telling a story of buying toys with a previous Daddy and even if he never came across that girl, he's still entitled to his opinion....no matter if he's an innie or an outie
Fair point but I have no problem with someone saying that they are into something or not, this isn't something that I am into. But my point was about sweeping the kink in under one statement when there are more dynamics to it.
I will avidly read/listen to people talking about the dynamics behind their likes and kinks as I find it fascinating regardless of whether I am into it or not. That's where myself and returned one are differing, he finds it boring and I think kinks are fascinating. "Fair point too Madame Butterfly ;-) | |||
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"Do men really like being called daddy from a grown woman?? " No | |||
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"God no, what a ridiculous suggestion  "Says the guy called DaddyCool. | |||
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"God no, what a ridiculous suggestion
Says the guy called DaddyCool. " | |||
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"God no, what a ridiculous suggestion
Says the guy called DaddyCool. "It's called irony darling | |||
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"God no, what a ridiculous suggestion
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"God no, what a ridiculous suggestion
Says the guy called DaddyCool.
It's called irony darling"Ahhh get ya now. Awww you called me darling. | |||
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"God no, what a ridiculous suggestion
Says the guy called DaddyCool.
Slow crowd today eh?"Is this irony too? | |||
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"Thought it was April fools this morn got a mesg this morn from a guy with a 2ins cock when erect said he would send me money for my phone.. Then asked me to be his mistress but I didn't have to meet him phew.. wants me to humiliate him .. stupid me asked how .. put a nappy on me and let me suck on your clit ... Lol I'm waiting on him to get back too me "I'd say it was time to change the nappy | |||
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"Thought it was April fools this morn got a mesg this morn from a guy with a 2ins cock when erect said he would send me money for my phone.. Then asked me to be his mistress but I didn't have to meet him phew.. wants me to humiliate him .. stupid me asked how .. put a nappy on me and let me suck on your clit ... Lol I'm waiting on him to get back too me
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"God no, what a ridiculous suggestion
Says the guy called DaddyCool.
Slow crowd today eh?
Is this irony too?"No. You'll figure it out eventually though | |||
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"God no, what a ridiculous suggestion
Says the guy called DaddyCool.
Slow crowd today eh?
Is this irony too?
No. You'll figure it out eventually though "Ahh sure I'm blonde... it takes awhile | |||
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