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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi people. Just looking for advice.

I've just noticed a work college was on both fab and kik.

(Just happened to spot on his phone over his shoulder as walking past) it's a male colleague.

Do I say oh hay. I'm on it too. Or just say nothing. Cause it could turn out to be some fun if he's open minded like me. ????

Thanks peeps.

Rob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say nothing..think it's everyone's own business and they might feel uncomfortable about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok. Thanks for advice. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ye I wouldn't say anything in person, maybe find his profile and write to him pretend you don't know who it is? If he's into it he will reply if not leave him be

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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago

north cork

Nothing ventured nothing gained. If he doesnt want you involved then he wont reply.

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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago

north cork

Also he's clearly not that discrete if you've spotted both apps as you've walked past him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say nothing..think it's everyone's own business and they might feel uncomfortable about it. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't shit where you eat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi people. Just looking for advice.

I've just noticed a work college was on both fab and kik.

(Just happened to spot on his phone over his shoulder as walking past) it's a male colleague.

Do I say oh hay. I'm on it too. Or just say nothing. Cause it could turn out to be some fun if he's open minded like me. ????

Thanks peeps.

Rob. "

I wouldn’t if you come across him in Person at an event then say hello other then that keep it separate

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By *itandhotCouple
over a year ago

citywest

Hope it’s not me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also he's clearly not that discrete if you've spotted both apps as you've walked past him"

Walk past. /sit beside. But ya. Not as discreet as me. I've tried to find him. And see who's online nearby where. I just seen him messaging. ??

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Hi people. Just looking for advice.

I've just noticed a work college was on both fab and kik.

(Just happened to spot on his phone over his shoulder as walking past) it's a male colleague.

Do I say oh hay. I'm on it too. Or just say nothing. Cause it could turn out to be some fun if he's open minded like me. ????

Thanks peeps.

Rob. "

If he's open-minded like u it could be a bit of fun and if he's not it could get very hard for u to work beside him

Jog on in the knowledge that u know something about him no one else does and keep it that way

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

I wouldn't say it. It could make things awkward in work plus also he may question as to why you were looking at his phone (even in a quick glance)

I introduced friends to FAB and even then I refused to give them my username. As what I do on here is my business and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP how would you feel if he approached you in the same manner ? I wouldn’t like it don’t do it would be my advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ya. I know what ya mean guys. I don't think I'll say anything. Maybe I should accidently leave my Fab open as he passes and see what he says or does.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Don't shit where you eat."

Or on your own doorstep!

These are both old sayings but still valid wise words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait and see if he says anything to you

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By *unne66Man
over a year ago

North County

Please stop looking over my shoulder at work! Have you no work to do........

But seriously, keep it to yourself. People can be very sensitive and secretive about these things.....

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

Say nothing, it never happened. Different if he bump into each other at a M&G or at Vanilla Club

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By *iroma2010Man
over a year ago

Blackrock


"Say nothing..think it's everyone's own business and they might feel uncomfortable about it. "

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Just say the truth.

"Hey mate was looking over your shoulder and seen you on fab and kik, you down for some fun?"

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Have met an ex boss, client and co-worker here so far. It's best to say nothing unless you both run into each other at The Vanilla Club or at a M&G...

Block & move on is your best bet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I left my phone accidently open on home page of fab. He had to help me with something so didn't lock it. Hope he didn't see. ????

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