FabSwingers.com forum: Not being able to cum

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey folks..... had a new sex partner for a while now...

Funny thing is I haven’t been able to cum for her...

Any tips on what I should do??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think sexy thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this problem too recently and the easiest way i found to get over it was to make myself cum in front of her, once id done that i found it alot easier to cum for her

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Fuck someone else if you cum with them the problem is your partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cut back on the porn

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"Fuck someone else if you cum with them the problem is your partner

Don't ever become an Agony aunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cut back on the porn"

Or else watch some with her

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"Fuck someone else if you cum with them the problem is your partner

Don't ever become an Agony aunt

Avoid self pleasuring for 4 or 5 days before your next meet. I know it'll be tough and take discipline but it might be worthwhile and put a smile on her face.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bit harsh....

I may not just go with that idea but what if????

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

"Hey folks..... had a new sex partner for a while now...

Funny thing is I haven’t been able to cum for her...

Any tips on what I should do?? "

No ejaculation for 4 days before you meet her..i know its difficult to predict when you meet someone but if you know roughly the time you will meet then do this..nothing worse than masturbating in the morning emptying a load and then having a spur of the moment meet later that day..you think to yourself now why didnt i save everything for her dammit im not 18 anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope she can't see your status not very flattering to say she can't make you cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop wanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope she can't see your status not very flattering to say she can't make you cum

We know it's always the woman's fault, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it isnt. Hopefully you will get over it with some of the good advice above.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

I’ve had that with an ex and it didn’t matter what we did he just couldn’t cum. So we stopped trying to make him and forgot about it. The fun is in the sex and play anyway

what worked in the end was a sensual all over massage with oils and him blindfolded, he relaxed so much that when I climbed on top he was cummin in no time

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By *ancyachatnowMan
over a year ago

Naas

You missed a good opportunity

Can anyone make me cum challenge

This should have been your Topic headline

Let’s hope you Play buddy isn’t on Fab

I’d be happy with the struggle to cum

Gives lots more play time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had that with an ex and it didn’t matter what we did he just couldn’t cum. So we stopped trying to make him and forgot about it. The fun is in the sex and play anyway

what worked in the end was a sensual all over massage with oils and him blindfolded, he relaxed so much that when I climbed on top he was cummin in no time

Omg this sounds so hot, sensual massages are incredible

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Just sometimes with a new partner you can get worried and put a lot of pressure on yourself to Cum . Relax and don't think about Cumming just enjoy sex and then you will Cum .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes me ages to cum even when wanking sometimes should prob see doctor lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the worst problem, atleast the girl will enjoy herself haha.

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By *andsomeman100Man
over a year ago

Ah sure now...

Are you on any medication?

Some anti depressants can affect the area of your brain that controls ejaculation / sends the signal to ejaculate. If you are on any meds, look up the side affects on line.

If not, then milk it for all its worth!! Hopefully your partner will see it as a challenge!!

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By *hemcicalMan
over a year ago

Lisburn

Try a dude?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some great advice here folks.....Anyone up for a challenge?

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

Are you able to make yourself cum? If not go see a doc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you able to make yourself cum? If not go see a doc

Put it like this..... I definitely work... haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of your cock as a magic lamp,

Rub it fast and hard and a genie will appear to give you your wish!

You’re welcum

(See what I did there!?)

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By *ittyMissKittyWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Think of your cock as a magic lamp,

Rub it fast and hard and a genie will appear to give you your wish!

You’re welcum

(See what I did there!?)

Fooooey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe cut down on the hand action mate

Excessive masturbation can lead to inability to ejaculate during penetrative sex as you desensitize your penis and it only responds to the force of your hand?

Usually the issue when you can cum by hand and not via sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe cut down on the hand action mate

Excessive masturbation can lead to inability to ejaculate during penetrative sex as you desensitize your penis and it only responds to the force of your hand?

Usually the issue when you can cum by hand and not via sex"

wise words

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have received some complaints saying that I should have more respect for my fb....

Just to call it how it is I think that she might be a little too vanilla for me maybe... that’s all..

Great girl though... I’m think I’m just warped lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have received some complaints saying that I should have more respect for my fb....

Just to call it how it is I think that she might be a little too vanilla for me maybe... that’s all..

Great girl though... I’m think I’m just warped lol "

I agree wasn’t good form to post it here I hope she isn’t on fab .

Having said that you may be right it might be it’s just not the type of sex you need maybe indroduce new things and see how it goes .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have received some complaints saying that I should have more respect for my fb....

Just to call it how it is I think that she might be a little too vanilla for me maybe... that’s all..

Great girl though... I’m think I’m just warped lol

I agree wasn’t good form to post it here I hope she isn’t on fab .

Having said that you may be right it might be it’s just not the type of sex you need maybe indroduce new things and see how it goes . "

New things??? What would you have in mind??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loosen up about it ... Have a few drinks with her see what SHES into and work on that I've found really driving a woman crazy and making her come has me right at the edge sometimes ... And if that doesn't work then switch it to what you are really into but as always make sure you put the lady first

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"Fuck someone else if you cum with them the problem is your partner

laid hahaha

no filter lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fuck someone else if you cum with them the problem is your partner

laid hahaha

no filter lmao "

Harsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck someone else if you cum with them the problem is your partner

laid hahaha

no filter lmao

Harsh "

It is a bit tongue in cheek and maybe a little bit harsh but there is some truth in it .

If the chemistry isn’t there it is never happen it’s the difference between mediocre sex and sex that leaves you senseless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have received some complaints saying that I should have more respect for my fb....

Just to call it how it is I think that she might be a little too vanilla for me maybe... that’s all..

Great girl though... I’m think I’m just warped lol "

I agree.a little disrespectful to ur freind.hope she never gets to find out about what u posted lol.

One way or another whether u cum or not ur still call her ur fuck buddy and still play with her all the same so the sex cant be that bad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have received some complaints saying that I should have more respect for my fb....

Just to call it how it is I think that she might be a little too vanilla for me maybe... that’s all..

Great girl though... I’m think I’m just warped lol

I agree.a little disrespectful to ur freind.hope she never gets to find out about what u posted lol.

She’s a great girl... I want to cum for her..

Hate disappointing her... the look is enough

One way or another whether u cum or not ur still call her ur fuck buddy and still play with her all the same so the sex cant be that bad.

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