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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any advice here would be greatly appreciated.

I have this fella who's clearly freaking me out badly OK I had a chat with him over the phone mate way and I said him this evening couldn't meet up because I feeling trying he's arm lol .

He's been blocked but I constantly getting calls off him withheld numbers etc WTF do I do feeling abit worried TBH.

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

So you made contact with a guy on here just in the friendzone? Now he is phoning your number from different moblie phones?

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Ring the police . They might be able to help .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aye well he wanted to meet up today I said yes at the beginning then I had this awful bad feeling six sense so I said no . Blocked him off everything and now he's ringing me 3 or 4 times on a withheld number...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ring the police . They might be able to help ."

Ring sheriffs street station lol .

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

I had similar happen a few weeks ago with a woman. She even followed me one day. If ignoring them doesn't work I advise being direct and telling them to leave you alone or you will report them

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Get a few friends and go around to his gaff and frighten the life out of him .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Document all calls, any messages and you can form a complaint with the police. They can contact him to warn him and if taking it to a official complaint of harressessment (here in Ireland) then you have to give over you mobile phone as evidence

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Get a few friends and go around to his gaff and frighten the life out of him . "

That's the worst advice and a way to get the OP in serious trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also only know from experience

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Aye well he wanted to meet up today I said yes at the beginning then I had this awful bad feeling six sense so I said no . Blocked him off everything and now he's ringing me 3 or 4 times on a withheld number..."

Oh dear....maybe in future you should chat via Kik. Making mates on Fab is a great idea but some folks aren't what they seem. You say you just wanted to be friends with this guy? Perhaps Fabswingers.com isn't your ideal site for just friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a handy app you can download which automatically records all your phone calls when you set it to do so.

ACR I think it is called.

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"There is a handy app you can download which automatically records all your phone calls when you set it to do so.

ACR I think it is called."

How would that help though? Doesn't stop folk calling

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanking you all .

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Brian, chalk this up to a valuable lesson. Toughen when it comes to giving out any personal details online.

Firstly, you are allowed to change your mind. You said no and the person is persisting. Ignore, do not answer with held number's. They will hopefully tire of it. Block all means of contact, if need be, change your number. Do document and save any nuisance or abuse incase of reporting it.

While we only have one side of the story about what happened the fact remains that you no longer want contact and this person is ignoring that. Stay safe and learn a lesson here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get a few friends and go around to his gaff and frighten the life out of him .

That's the worst advice and a way to get the OP in serious trouble."

About to say and a criminal record no thanks .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Brian, chalk this up to a valuable lesson. Toughen when it comes to giving out any personal details online.

Firstly, you are allowed to change your mind. You said no and the person is persisting. Ignore, do not answer with held number's. They will hopefully tire of it. Block all means of contact, if need be, change your number. Do document and save any nuisance or abuse incase of reporting it.

While we only have one side of the story about what happened the fact remains that you no longer want contact and this person is ignoring that. Stay safe and learn a lesson here. "

Thanking you very much .

Yes I will learn a valuable lesson .

Maybe keep to clubs be better .

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Any advice here would be greatly appreciated.

I have this fella who's clearly freaking me out badly OK I had a chat with him over the phone mate way and I said him this evening couldn't meet up because I feeling trying he's arm lol .

He's been blocked but I constantly getting calls off him withheld numbers etc WTF do I do feeling abit worried TBH. "

Maybe he wants to see your bank statements too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any advice here would be greatly appreciated.

I have this fella who's clearly freaking me out badly OK I had a chat with him over the phone mate way and I said him this evening couldn't meet up because I feeling trying he's arm lol .

He's been blocked but I constantly getting calls off him withheld numbers etc WTF do I do feeling abit worried TBH.

Maybe he wants to see your bank statements too "

Haha I'll tell him come down gilmartin rd..

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Any advice here would be greatly appreciated.

I have this fella who's clearly freaking me out badly OK I had a chat with him over the phone mate way and I said him this evening couldn't meet up because I feeling trying he's arm lol .

He's been blocked but I constantly getting calls off him withheld numbers etc WTF do I do feeling abit worried TBH.

Maybe he wants to see your bank statements too

Haha I'll tell him come down gilmartin rd.."

Don't go sending him to my gaff

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahahahahaha.Sure you no houses there no more lol .

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Ahahahahaha.Sure you no houses there no more lol .

"

I have one with wheels on it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol ..

No better spot going into geoghans at the weekends lol ...

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Lol ..

No better spot going into geoghans at the weekends lol ... "

Go to the HB instead

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

HiB ??.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"HiB ??.

"

How well do you know Tuam??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a handy app you can download which automatically records all your phone calls when you set it to do so.

ACR I think it is called.

How would that help though? Doesn't stop folk calling "

Well, because if the guy calls from withheld numbers the calls will be recorded which will be handy to have if reporting him to police, especially if asked to recall what was said during the calls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore him usually I don't answer any calls on withheld number only people hiding something would ring you without there number showing anyone else will leave voicemail and you can call them back you already blocked them so not much else to do unless they start proper stalking you following you etc then ya would have report them to the guards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block call from private numbers on your phone, ignore him and he will move on once he is tired of ringing.

Some can’t handle rejection well

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