FabSwingers.com forum: safety ... can accommodate

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

can accommodate...

I cannot believe how many women say on their profile that they "can accommodate" ... In my younger days a lady with her own flat was a great catch, but ladies these days think safe ... do you really want this 1 off guy to know where you live ..if the guy is chasing you let him shell out for the hotel room for thst 1st meet.. after all, its meet for fun... possibly really enjoyed it, but you may not going back for more... time to move on ... but maybe that stud/alpha male felt you were the one for him and he wants more & he is not for sharing ... at least you can block his emails or phone number, but can you easily stop him parking near your home, watching you, stalking you ... we have all seen the TV programs & the stories are not based on fiction.

as for sharing you phone number, email address, whatsapp, kik, etc ... get a 2nd phone, FAB is your alternate life, a life you may not be comfortable sharng with friends, relations or work colleagues ... in the TV shows it is called a "burner phone" but it is the best way to keep you FAB life discreet.

That said, if you have a "Meet" make sure you get a trusted friend to phone you about 30 minutes into the "Meet", agree a phrase to indicate you are safe or need an excuse to get away from the "Meet".

And Guys remember not all ladies are Sugar & spice & all things nice ... there are bunny boilers out there ...Guys should endeavour to be safe also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really?

bloody nonsense post.

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By *shoreMan
over a year ago

cork

Well said fentastic piece of advice,Im my younger days I had the bunny boiler experience and it was not nice,very very scarey stuff...so well said

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

cc hotel

"Really?

bloody nonsense post. "

I'm with you on this one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the tips........

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Sweet baby jebus.... women are not stupid. If they give out details on first contact on Fab they will do it outside fab too. Yes you're right with making sure your safe but that goes for males too. As for a second phone,I can hardly keep up with the one I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally if I was ever to meet someone off this my first preference would be my own house and second would be a hotel. Third would be the woman's House. I feel way more comfortable in my own place and less comfortable in someone else's.

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By *shoreMan
over a year ago

cork

Its slim to meet a nutter but how many times have i heard women on here getting grief from guys they rejected....if they can give grief over the internet imagne what they may be like up close and personal.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's all wrap ourselves in bubble wrap, don't let your kids out to play, don't drive, don't ride a bike, don't go on a swing, don't play contact sports, don't go on a date, don't live, don't take risks, don't trust or be confident in your own jusgement. DO NOT BE POSITIVE, be negative and have a great boring life. Great post OP.

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

OMG. Never accommodate strangers in your home off here. So dangerous.

As a matter of fact I feel so strongly about this I would like to call a group meeting in person to discuss the issue.

Open invitation to anyone who would like to attend

Location:

My place, I will accommodate

Seriously though look after yourselves..... and each other

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"Its slim to meet a nutter but how many times have i heard women on here getting grief from guys they rejected....if they can give grief over the internet imagne what they may be like up close and personal....."

There's nutters everywhere . Male and female. But as Fantasyfuntime mentions do we wrap ourselves up in bubblewrap(bet There's a bubblewrap fetish).

Yes.... be careful

Yes.... carry out as many checks before a meet.

Yes.... well just yes.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"Let's all wrap ourselves in bubble wrap, don't let your kids out to play, don't drive, don't ride a bike, don't go on a swing, don't play contact sports, don't go on a date, don't live, don't take risks, don't trust or be confident in your own jusgement. DO NOT BE POSITIVE, be negative and have a great boring life. Great post OP.

The sales in bubblewrap will soar... could be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully we are all grown adults capable of looking after ourselves and making our own decisions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 weeks and you have won fabswingers

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Seriously what do you take people here for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bubblewrap Party!

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By *pontaneous fun boyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary, Dublin.

Great post OP.

And let's all get a medal for being like that.

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