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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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is this a Swing site or a Dating site ... it is a question I have pondered over my years on such sites.
I always understood Swinging to be people with a high sex drive seeking NSA sex with like minded people, that many of the meetings would be a one off, and at short notice.
Where as on a Dating site the Elephant in the room is how many dates before progressing to Sex.
But as I read the profiles on here it is beginning to read like a Dating site .
people are looking for Interesting people, fit people, friendship,regular partners.
there will be coffee dates before a date & invite to the bedroom.
Yes finding the person, interesting & passably attractive is a plus when you do finally meet, but the chances are you have been in contact by email, text & possible even a video call with the person...guys are not as fussy or picky as women & most guys would "get up on a crack in a teacup" when they are horny or have Blueballs.
a woman once described her best meets with guys as "pictures no sound" ... in that the guy arrived, swept her off her feet & fcuker her every which way, and after 2 or 3 hours left, and left her satisified ... the only conversation was her instructions to him on where & how ... now that is swinging.
yet as I read the profiles
couples are looking to meet other couples but not to necessarily have Full swop, the women can play together but the guys can only orally pleasure the other Fem.
married couples are madly in love but want to "spice up their sex life"
Women are not looking for single guys!
Single guys are looking to meet couples!
yes it is nice to make friends on the site and there can be a nice social element to the site, but as with the Clubs, it is supposed to be about Sex, you are Horny & want to meet someone to experience sex with someone different & different sexual interests, you will most likely only meet them the once, the sex may or may not be great, but the meet & experience will always be memorable.
reading the various Veris, the reality is most people meet once or twice and then move on to other people, as for friends, sex can ruin a good friendship.
if you want a regular sex partner or someone to meet on a regular basis, then a Swing site is not where you should be.
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