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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

why do you think it's so rife on fab when all the site is about is having sexual fun be in with 5 people or 25 people, who cares.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's rooted in insecurity, it's not that the person cares about you, it's the blow to their ego when you decide you prefer to fuck someone else next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's human nature. Just cause it's a swing/sex site doesn't mean people are robots. Feelings or whatever can creep in, and that can result in jealousy or bruised egos etc and what have you and so on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it rife? I'm not involved in any groups so don't notice it

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Like couples jealousy? Or jealousy that others are more popular or what?

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By *m83Man
over a year ago

Lisburn

I was messaging one girl for a few weeks. I put up status that I had meet organised. When she saw this she messaged me notching then blocked me. I thought this was a swinging site not a relationship site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't noticed jealousy on Fab being rife. Maybe I don't take it too seriously though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember my first profile which only lasted about a few weeks. A woman was texting me and she asked if I had been texting others and I said one from (we'll just say Clare) and she texted back saying "it isn't"...... "is it?" and I said no, why? And she said she won't meet anyone who has met her cause she was told she has unprotected sex with every meet by a few guys. I brushed it off but maybe now I think of it it could have been lies made up out of jealousy.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

from what I'm told jealousy is ugly on here. I guess alot goes on behind closed doors where two people are fucking, then he goes off fucking someone else next time instead of her. it's like my opening post says, who cares whose fucking who. I think some on here like the scenario of a one person regular fuck buddy instead of variation.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Some people can be very jealous in 3 sums etc . When you are swinging you can't be jealous at all .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"from what I'm told jealousy is ugly on here. I guess alot goes on behind closed doors where two people are fucking, then he goes off fucking someone else next time instead of her. it's like my opening post says, who cares whose fucking who. I think some on here like the scenario of a one person regular fuck buddy instead of variation. "

Ah so I guess the assumption is that the person who's jealous will always be a woman who's so insecure in herself that she wants to cling onto some man.

Another misogynistic thread started OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"from what I'm told jealousy is ugly on here. I guess alot goes on behind closed doors where two people are fucking, then he goes off fucking someone else next time instead of her. it's like my opening post says, who cares whose fucking who. I think some on here like the scenario of a one person regular fuck buddy instead of variation. "

“He goes off fucking....”

you love a big sweeping statement, don’t you?

Jealousy is confined to women, yeah?

*yawns*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I think it's mainly the men get jealous, not really much reason for women to get jealous on here as there are more men than women. Granted people can form relationships on here but it's a sex site, not a dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh I think it's mainly the men get jealous, not really much reason for women to get jealous on here as there are more men than women. Granted people can form relationships on here but it's a sex site, not a dating site. "

It's usually about egos not relationships.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"from what I'm told jealousy is ugly on here. I guess alot goes on behind closed doors where two people are fucking, then he goes off fucking someone else next time instead of her. it's like my opening post says, who cares whose fucking who. I think some on here like the scenario of a one person regular fuck buddy instead of variation.

Ah so I guess the assumption is that the person who's jealous will always be a woman who's so insecure in herself that she wants to cling onto some man.

Another misogynistic thread started OP "
the e.g. I used said female. don't jump to conclusions. you're well used to saying it's all the males fault yourself

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

lol holy Lord certain individuals get their knickers in a twist over nothing on here

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Tbh I think it's mainly the men get jealous, not really much reason for women to get jealous on here as there are more men than women. Granted people can form relationships on here but it's a sex site, not a dating site. "
it's nothing to do with that. it's more so to do with 'you're shagging somebody then instead of you the choose somebody else the next time'. that's why on here I couldn't give two hoots about veris and never look at them. I couldn't care less how many she's met or who she has met

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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago

Louth/Meath/Dublin


"lol holy Lord certain individuals get their knickers in a twist over nothing on here "

It's almost as if you've been doing it accidentally on purpose for many years over many different profiles.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"lol holy Lord certain individuals get their knickers in a twist over nothing on here

It's almost as if you've been doing it accidentally on purpose for many years over many different profiles. "
would you react the same way if the e.g. used was a man instead of a woman?

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By *rxmrsCouple
over a year ago

in ur bed

We had a meet the ended up being very jealous didn't want me to have sex with my husband or anyone else

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"We had a meet the ended up being very jealous didn't want me to have sex with my husband or anyone else "
pure madness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a meet the ended up being very jealous didn't want me to have sex with my husband or anyone else "

Unreal as if you wouldn't have sex with your husband!

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"We had a meet the ended up being very jealous didn't want me to have sex with my husband or anyone else pure madness "
people forget it's a no commitment website

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol holy Lord certain individuals get their knickers in a twist over nothing on here

It's almost as if you've been doing it accidentally on purpose for many years over many different profiles. "

*gasps in disbelief - surely not!

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By *rxmrsCouple
over a year ago

in ur bed


"We had a meet the ended up being very jealous didn't want me to have sex with my husband or anyone else

Unreal as if you wouldn't have sex with your husband! "
I know we found it really funny

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"We had a meet the ended up being very jealous didn't want me to have sex with my husband or anyone else pure madness people forget it's a no commitment website "

Who said it was a no commitment site... or a sex site. Ffs this annoys the fook out of me.

It's a site where like minded people meet ... what happens between each individual is entirely their own business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a meet the ended up being very jealous didn't want me to have sex with my husband or anyone else pure madness people forget it's a no commitment website

Who said it was a no commitment site... or a sex site. Ffs this annoys the fook out of me.

It's a site where like minded people meet ... what happens between each individual is entirely their own business. "

Get your wooden spoon out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People catch feels I guess most go on like it's dating site anyway mainly females lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a meet the ended up being very jealous didn't want me to have sex with my husband or anyone else pure madness people forget it's a no commitment website

Who said it was a no commitment site... or a sex site. Ffs this annoys the fook out of me.

It's a site where like minded people meet ... what happens between each individual is entirely their own business. "
is the main goal not to have sex that sounds like dating site your describing

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"We had a meet the ended up being very jealous didn't want me to have sex with my husband or anyone else pure madness people forget it's a no commitment website

Who said it was a no commitment site... or a sex site. Ffs this annoys the fook out of me.

It's a site where like minded people meet ... what happens between each individual is entirely their own business. "
the vast majority join here for the one reason, sex. rock out with your cock out or fanny out, whichever you want and have fun. leave the jealousy at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a meet the ended up being very jealous didn't want me to have sex with my husband or anyone else pure madness people forget it's a no commitment website

Who said it was a no commitment site... or a sex site. Ffs this annoys the fook out of me.

It's a site where like minded people meet ... what happens between each individual is entirely their own business. the vast majority join here for the one reason, sex. rock out with your cock out or fanny out, whichever you want and have fun. leave the jealousy at home "
agree with you but look most female profiles they defo treating it like dating site lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a meet the ended up being very jealous didn't want me to have sex with my husband or anyone else pure madness people forget it's a no commitment website

Who said it was a no commitment site... or a sex site. Ffs this annoys the fook out of me.

It's a site where like minded people meet ... what happens between each individual is entirely their own business. the vast majority join here for the one reason, sex. rock out with your cock out or fanny out, whichever you want and have fun. leave the jealousy at home agree with you but look most female profiles they defo treating it like dating site lol "

Nah...most just won't fuck any old willy

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By *rxmrsCouple
over a year ago

in ur bed


"We had a meet the ended up being very jealous didn't want me to have sex with my husband or anyone else pure madness people forget it's a no commitment website

Who said it was a no commitment site... or a sex site. Ffs this annoys the fook out of me.

It's a site where like minded people meet ... what happens between each individual is entirely their own business. the vast majority join here for the one reason, sex. rock out with your cock out or fanny out, whichever you want and have fun. leave the jealousy at home agree with you but look most female profiles they defo treating it like dating site lol "
ya but it not it a sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a meet the ended up being very jealous didn't want me to have sex with my husband or anyone else pure madness people forget it's a no commitment website

Who said it was a no commitment site... or a sex site. Ffs this annoys the fook out of me.

It's a site where like minded people meet ... what happens between each individual is entirely their own business. the vast majority join here for the one reason, sex. rock out with your cock out or fanny out, whichever you want and have fun. leave the jealousy at home agree with you but look most female profiles they defo treating it like dating site lol "

How so exactly?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

some people get alot more emotionally involved and tend to struggle with casual sex. for e.g. if you meet somebody an hour or more away it's not realistically gonna be a regular unless you're struggling like fuck at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a meet the ended up being very jealous didn't want me to have sex with my husband or anyone else pure madness people forget it's a no commitment website

Who said it was a no commitment site... or a sex site. Ffs this annoys the fook out of me.

It's a site where like minded people meet ... what happens between each individual is entirely their own business. the vast majority join here for the one reason, sex. rock out with your cock out or fanny out, whichever you want and have fun. leave the jealousy at home agree with you but look most female profiles they defo treating it like dating site lol

Nah...most just won't fuck any old willy "

nailed it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interested in the answer to this... how do most women treat Fab like a dating site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interested in the answer to this... how do most women treat Fab like a dating site?"
well yas want get to know the guys are much deeper level then just shagging so that sounds like what you do when your dating someone . I think most blokes just want sex but in order do so have play the part of been interested in the women's life stories lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a meet the ended up being very jealous didn't want me to have sex with my husband or anyone else pure madness people forget it's a no commitment website

Who said it was a no commitment site... or a sex site. Ffs this annoys the fook out of me.

It's a site where like minded people meet ... what happens between each individual is entirely their own business. the vast majority join here for the one reason, sex. rock out with your cock out or fanny out, whichever you want and have fun. leave the jealousy at home agree with you but look most female profiles they defo treating it like dating site lol ya but it not it a sex site "
so you don't come on here with intent to have sex if that's case then just stick to plenty of fish or something lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This won't end well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interested in the answer to this... how do most women treat Fab like a dating site? well yas want get to know the guys are much deeper level then just shagging so that sounds like what you do when your dating someone . I think most blokes just want sex but in order do so have play the part of been interested in the women's life stories lol "

How do you know how every woman uses the site or what they expect from the men they meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a meet the ended up being very jealous didn't want me to have sex with my husband or anyone else pure madness people forget it's a no commitment website

Who said it was a no commitment site... or a sex site. Ffs this annoys the fook out of me.

It's a site where like minded people meet ... what happens between each individual is entirely their own business. the vast majority join here for the one reason, sex. rock out with your cock out or fanny out, whichever you want and have fun. leave the jealousy at home "

Well said, after all it's a sex site if your for a date or love join tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interested in the answer to this... how do most women treat Fab like a dating site? well yas want get to know the guys are much deeper level then just shagging so that sounds like what you do when your dating someone . I think most blokes just want sex but in order do so have play the part of been interested in the women's life stories lol

How do you know how every woman uses the site or what they expect from the men they meet? "

He must be one of those wise men we hear about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interested in the answer to this... how do most women treat Fab like a dating site? well yas want get to know the guys are much deeper level then just shagging so that sounds like what you do when your dating someone . I think most blokes just want sex but in order do so have play the part of been interested in the women's life stories lol

How do you know how every woman uses the site or what they expect from the men they meet? "
well majority I should said some on it have there not meeting at moment i suppose if you look at ages of regular swingers it makes sense that it's more of social thing then sexual it's what I notice lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interested in the answer to this... how do most women treat Fab like a dating site? well yas want get to know the guys are much deeper level then just shagging so that sounds like what you do when your dating someone . I think most blokes just want sex but in order do so have play the part of been interested in the women's life stories lol

How do you know how every woman uses the site or what they expect from the men they meet? well majority I should said some on it have there not meeting at moment i suppose if you look at ages of regular swingers it makes sense that it's more of social thing then sexual it's what I notice lately "

I don't understand what you mean

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Interested in the answer to this... how do most women treat Fab like a dating site? well yas want get to know the guys are much deeper level then just shagging so that sounds like what you do when your dating someone . I think most blokes just want sex but in order do so have play the part of been interested in the women's life stories lol

How do you know how every woman uses the site or what they expect from the men they meet?

He must be one of those wise men we hear about. "

Yep. Just need to find the other two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here. C'est moi!

Now you just need the third!??

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"I'm here. C'est moi!

Now you just need the third!??"

What you packin...

Gold ,Frankenstein or Myrrh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be myrrh as last time I looked in the mirror twas me.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Wtf is Frankenstein??? My phone is acting like a bastard.

Frankincense!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf is Frankenstein??? My phone is acting like a bastard.

Frankincense!!!!"

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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15


"Wtf is Frankenstein??? My phone is acting like a bastard.

Frankincense!!!!"

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frankenstein is the third wise man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm here. C'est moi!

Now you just need the third!??

What you packin...

Gold ,Frankenstein or Myrrh?"

Haha love it

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Interested in the answer to this... how do most women treat Fab like a dating site? well yas want get to know the guys are much deeper level then just shagging so that sounds like what you do when your dating someone . I think most blokes just want sex but in order do so have play the part of been interested in the women's life stories lol

How do you know how every woman uses the site or what they expect from the men they meet? well majority I should said some on it have there not meeting at moment i suppose if you look at ages of regular swingers it makes sense that it's more of social thing then sexual it's what I notice lately

I don't understand what you mean "

He means that the zimmerframe could be a hinderance while shagging, while in fact it allows a whole new set of positions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interested in the answer to this... how do most women treat Fab like a dating site? well yas want get to know the guys are much deeper level then just shagging so that sounds like what you do when your dating someone . I think most blokes just want sex but in order do so have play the part of been interested in the women's life stories lol

How do you know how every woman uses the site or what they expect from the men they meet? well majority I should said some on it have there not meeting at moment i suppose if you look at ages of regular swingers it makes sense that it's more of social thing then sexual it's what I notice lately

I don't understand what you mean

He means that the zimmerframe could be a hinderance while shagging, while in fact it allows a whole new set of positions. "

I can only imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interested in the answer to this... how do most women treat Fab like a dating site? well yas want get to know the guys are much deeper level then just shagging so that sounds like what you do when your dating someone . I think most blokes just want sex but in order do so have play the part of been interested in the women's life stories lol

How do you know how every woman uses the site or what they expect from the men they meet? well majority I should said some on it have there not meeting at moment i suppose if you look at ages of regular swingers it makes sense that it's more of social thing then sexual it's what I notice lately

I don't understand what you mean

He means that the zimmerframe could be a hinderance while shagging, while in fact it allows a whole new set of positions. "

I have interesting images in my head now

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