FabSwingers.com forum: Ignorance is bliss

By *trangetides41 OP Man
over a year ago

Kildare

Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the same boat and do the same thing but it's so hard to meet woman on here. At least you had some action !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First of all there are too many man's here second they are not obligated to answer.

Simple like that

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

"Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

There not interest. No reply means no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First of all there are too many man's here second they are not obligated to answer.

Simple like that"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

There not interest. No reply means no thanks "

Even in real life silence answer a lot of questions.

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By *trangetides41 OP Man
over a year ago

Kildare

"First of all there are too many man's here second they are not obligated to answer.

Simple like that"

Well they ladies want respect and manners which I show and I am but it's only manners to return a message

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By *trangetides41 OP Man
over a year ago

Kildare

"Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

There not interest. No reply means no thanks "

Well then say no, I certainly don't have a problem with a no, its the fact they won't say it that I find ignorant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God you sound very whiney.

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By *trangetides41 OP Man
over a year ago

Kildare

"God you sound very whiney. "

Thanks you Paul I'm far from whiney Im just stating a point and asking opinions, if you don't have anything constructive to say please refrain from commenting thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God you sound very whiney.

Thanks you Paul I'm far from whiney Im just stating a point and asking opinions, if you don't have anything constructive to say please refrain from commenting thank you "

I calls it as I sees it. Your welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God you sound very whiney.

Thanks you Paul I'm far from whiney Im just stating a point and asking opinions, if you don't have anything constructive to say please refrain from commenting thank you "

Maybe the ladies you contact have nothing constructive to say to you and refrain from replying ?

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"God you sound very whiney.

Thanks you Paul I'm far from whiney Im just stating a point and asking opinions, if you don't have anything constructive to say please refrain from commenting thank you "

Read the rules before you start laying down the law about who can post what here

Rules say take a no reply as a not interested and move on

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By *trangetides41 OP Man
over a year ago

Kildare

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By *trangetides41 OP Man
over a year ago

Kildare

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By *trangetides41 OP Man
over a year ago

Kildare

"God you sound very whiney.

Thanks you Paul I'm far from whiney Im just stating a point and asking opinions, if you don't have anything constructive to say please refrain from commenting thank you

Read the rules before you start laying down the law about who can post what here

Rules say take a no reply as a not interested and move on

So manners and respect doesn't count

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

do a forum search on this topic and every single one of these threads will come up with the same bloody answers as to why.. for the love of god im so fed up of the these threads every single week.. pull up ur big boy pants and get the hell over it..

ive send messages with no reply dont see me with a thread moaning over it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

ive send messages with no reply dont see me with a thread moaning over it.. "

Hear hear

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By *trangetides41 OP Man
over a year ago

Kildare

"Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

ive send messages with no reply dont see me with a thread moaning over it.. "

I rearly post on forum and I certainly don't like airing this but I'm posting for honest polite comments not abuse ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best solution to this is a swipe feature like tinder. You match you message. And if you want to text about something forum related the receiver should just get a notification to say "this user wishes to contact you, decline or accept" so they don't even have to read the message if there was no interest. Either that or people just need to accept that no one has to reply to you regardless of how nice your message is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

Because you aren't what they are looking for.

Next question?

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By *trangetides41 OP Man
over a year ago

Kildare

"The best solution to this is a swipe feature like tinder. You match you message. And if you want to text about something forum related the receiver should just get a notification to say "this user wishes to contact you, decline or accept" so they don't even have to read the message if there was no interest. Either that or people just need to accept that no one has to reply to you regardless of how nice your message is. "
thank you for your comment much appreciate some constructive opinion

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By *trangetides41 OP Man
over a year ago

Kildare

"Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

Because you aren't what they are looking for.

Next question?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

ive send messages with no reply dont see me with a thread moaning over it..

I rearly post on forum and I certainly don't like airing this but I'm posting for honest polite comments not abuse ok"

“Pull up your big boy pants and get the hell over it”. Sounds pretty constructive to me.

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By *trangetides41 OP Man
over a year ago

Kildare

"Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

Because you aren't what they are looking for.

Next question?"
thanks you for your comment, that's fair enough but a little manners goes a long was as in no thank you im not interested, not much to ask for

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By *trangetides41 OP Man
over a year ago

Kildare

"Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

ive send messages with no reply dont see me with a thread moaning over it..

I rearly post on forum and I certainly don't like airing this but I'm posting for honest polite comments not abuse ok

“Pull up your big boy pants and get the hell over it”. Sounds pretty constructive to me."

Appreciate if could be constructive Paul and not be oppressive towards me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

ive send messages with no reply dont see me with a thread moaning over it..

I rearly post on forum and I certainly don't like airing this but I'm posting for honest polite comments not abuse ok"

It might be worth your while to look through the forum and see it is a constantly repeated topic.

Rather than asking why maybe ask yourself what else you can do to give yourself a better chance of success.

Basic politeness is the absolute minimum when sending a mail as it should be in normal life when approaching someone. It does not however entitle you to a reply.

You have the free speech to contact ladies but it does not come with the obligation of them to hear you out and reply.

Simply put it is a case of supply and demand.

There are multiples of men for every woman. Women as a rule of thumb are far more discerning when it comes to picking a sexual partner.

Evidence of that is guys who are "straight" will fuck a gurl like me and identify as straight still just to get their rocks off. I guarantee there are far less ladies as a percentage who would sleep a crossdressing woman just ti have the idea they are fucking a guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has being said hundreds of times here when u join fab rules state no answer is an answer no interest its not that hard to understand !!very few guys will get an answer by sending a message unless u have meet them face to face at a party or m&g before hand if u cannot except this you are better to delete fab and not get annoyed when ladys do not answer u

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

"Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

There not interest. No reply means no thanks

Well then say no, I certainly don't have a problem with a no, its the fact they won't say it that I find ignorant "

You may find it ignorant but it’s standard practice. It’s in the rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

Because you aren't what they are looking for.

Next question? thanks you for your comment, that's fair enough but a little manners goes a long was as in no thank you im not interested, not much to ask for "

Did these ladies ask you to contact them?

Manners works both ways

Site rules as I'm sure you have been reminded many many times states,no reply means not interested,it isnt rude not to reply.

You are not entitled to a reply just because you.feel.your message warrants it.

The ladies and couples have as much right to ignore and delete as you have sending.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

Because you aren't what they are looking for.

Next question? thanks you for your comment, that's fair enough but a little manners goes a long was as in no thank you im not interested, not much to ask for

Did these ladies ask you to contact them?

Manners works both ways

Site rules as I'm sure you have been reminded many many times states,no reply means not interested,it isnt rude not to reply.

You are not entitled to a reply just because you.feel.your message warrants it.

The ladies and couples have as much right to ignore and delete as you have sending."

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

"Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

Because you aren't what they are looking for.

Next question? thanks you for your comment, that's fair enough but a little manners goes a long was as in no thank you im not interested, not much to ask for "

As per a previous poster, these threads come up everyday and with a quick search you will have all the exact same replies....no answer means not interested.

Someone on another thread worked out the time it would take a woman to answer say 200 (conservative figure) messages with a "polite no thanks" and it would take a significant portion of her day. Why should she waste all that time just to satisfy your wants.

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By *trangetides41 OP Man
over a year ago

Kildare

"Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

Because you aren't what they are looking for.

Next question? thanks you for your comment, that's fair enough but a little manners goes a long was as in no thank you im not interested, not much to ask for

Did these ladies ask you to contact them?

Manners works both ways

Site rules as I'm sure you have been reminded many many times states,no reply means not interested,it isnt rude not to reply.

You are not entitled to a reply just because you.feel.your message warrants it.

The ladies and couples have as much right to ignore and delete as you have sending."
what's the point in having the site if you can't contact someone thst is a nonsense answer

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By *trangetides41 OP Man
over a year ago

Kildare

OK thank you everyone for your opinions and constructive response s

As I said I'm not one for airing but I just find it frustrating

For those who felt the need to belittle me for my tread think you need to have a long think about your so called opinions it's a free world and I'm entitled to ask questions

I will be deleting this post now thank you again

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

"Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

Because you aren't what they are looking for.

Next question? thanks you for your comment, that's fair enough but a little manners goes a long was as in no thank you im not interested, not much to ask for

Did these ladies ask you to contact them?

Manners works both ways

Site rules as I'm sure you have been reminded many many times states,no reply means not interested,it isnt rude not to reply.

You are not entitled to a reply just because you.feel.your message warrants it.

The ladies and couples have as much right to ignore and delete as you have sending. what's the point in having the site if you can't contact someone thst is a nonsense answer "

You're missing their point OP.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Maybe admin should look into a automatic reply button for ladies just so that they don't sit all night replying no thankyou. Then maybe we wouldn't get as many men complaining on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

Because you aren't what they are looking for.

Next question? thanks you for your comment, that's fair enough but a little manners goes a long was as in no thank you im not interested, not much to ask for

Did these ladies ask you to contact them?

Manners works both ways

Site rules as I'm sure you have been reminded many many times states,no reply means not interested,it isnt rude not to reply.

You are not entitled to a reply just because you.feel.your message warrants it.

The ladies and couples have as much right to ignore and delete as you have sending. what's the point in having the site if you can't contact someone thst is a nonsense answer "

But you can contact others,you know you can contact them because you have done so yourself,you just aren't entitled to a favourable or any reply.

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

"OK thank you everyone for your opinions and constructive response s

As I said I'm not one for airing but I just find it frustrating

For those who felt the need to belittle me for my tread think you need to have a long think about your so called opinions it's a free world and I'm entitled to ask questions

I will be deleting this post now thank you again"

You are indeed entitled to ask questions, but then you get upset when you don't like the answers you get.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God you sound very whiney.

Thanks you Paul I'm far from whiney Im just stating a point and asking opinions, if you don't have anything constructive to say please refrain from commenting thank you

Read the rules before you start laying down the law about who can post what here

Rules say take a no reply as a not interested and move on

Fuck....are there rules.. ??? I never realised...

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By *trangetides41 OP Man
over a year ago

Kildare

"OK thank you everyone for your opinions and constructive response s

As I said I'm not one for airing but I just find it frustrating

For those who felt the need to belittle me for my tread think you need to have a long think about your so called opinions it's a free world and I'm entitled to ask questions

I will be deleting this post now thank you again

You are indeed entitled to ask questions, but then you get upset when you don't like the answers you get....."
ah Im certainly not upset that's for sure but I certainly feel there was more abuse than constructive comments lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many many more men then women on the NSA swinger scene. It’s a ladies market.

Them is the facts!

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By *trangetides41 OP Man
over a year ago

Kildare

"There are many many more men then women on the NSA swinger scene. It’s a ladies market.

Them is the facts! "
seems to be thanks for your comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God you sound very whiney.

Thanks you Paul I'm far from whiney Im just stating a point and asking opinions, if you don't have anything constructive to say please refrain from commenting thank you

Read the rules before you start laying down the law about who can post what here

Rules say take a no reply as a not interested and move on

Fuck....are there rules.. ??? I never realised...

Pay attention tiger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God you sound very whiney.

Thanks you Paul I'm far from whiney Im just stating a point and asking opinions, if you don't have anything constructive to say please refrain from commenting thank you

Read the rules before you start laying down the law about who can post what here

Rules say take a no reply as a not interested and move on

Fuck....are there rules.. ??? I never realised...

Pay attention tiger

Ha... you can tell I'm the type of bloke who dosnt read the instructions....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U cannot make ladys answer your messages but u could give yourself a better chance of a reply with a profile pic and some general pics on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

They didn't fancy you enough to want to play with you! Unless some of them have a PA to deal with sending the "thanks but no thanks" messages...oh and then reading and replying to the abusive responses, telling them how fat and ugly they are anyway and how dare they be so picky...or the ones asking why they don't find someone attractive when they are such a "genuine" bloke, then you shouldn't expect a response...unless they are actually interested!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your response to the thread will do you no favours OP. You come across as entitled and you lack understanding from the female perspective. Responses that don't echo your own narrative are dismissed as nonsense and so on.

My suggestion honestly is to get an escort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't like when people say a man is whiny by stating the obvious on here... Which is there is about 300 men to 1 woman. Just the way it goes. So being a man here is not a fun and enjoyable experience.

Sounds crazy but you'd have more chance meeting someone on a dating site for a one night stand than here.

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By *trangetides41 OP Man
over a year ago

Kildare

"Why do most women on here either delete or ignore sent messages no matter how polite you are and alway send a face picture with messages???

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thanks for your comment i certainly would never or have abused a woman and anyone that does should be deleted straight away

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By *trangetides41 OP Man
over a year ago

Kildare

"Personally I don't like when people say a man is whiny by stating the obvious on here... Which is there is about 300 men to 1 woman. Just the way it goes. So being a man here is not a fun and enjoyable experience.

Sounds crazy but you'd have more chance meeting someone on a dating site for a one night stand than here.

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thanks for the comment much appreciated

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By *trangetides41 OP Man
over a year ago

Kildare

"Your response to the thread will do you no favours OP. You come across as entitled and you lack understanding from the female perspective. Responses that don't echo your own narrative are dismissed as nonsense and so on.

My suggestion honestly is to get an escort. "
your certainly taking me wrong it's not entitlement it's manners I'm talking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because women get sent literally hundreds of messages. If they had to answer them all they would be sat at the computer all day, usually they have kids works etc. to be dealing with. Its simple really isn't it, no answer means no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners cost Nothing

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"Manners cost Nothing"

so so many men dont understand manners thats the problem

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By *he big dogMan
over a year ago

dublin

The lad has a far point manners don't cost anything the should be used here as the are in the real world cause I know as well as everyone else if you didn't receive manners in the real world from someone you would pull them up on it. And one more thing you seen ladies ask for certain messages like send a face pic make it interesting to keep my attention and you have matched everytbing the asked for and once the read your message the can clearly see the effort but not as much as a no thanks I'm straight but been contacted by so many men and everytbing but still take the time to say no thanks I'm straight

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"The lad has a far point manners don't cost anything the should be used here as the are in the real world cause I know as well as everyone else if you didn't receive manners in the real world from someone you would pull them up on it. And one more thing you seen ladies ask for certain messages like send a face pic make it interesting to keep my attention and you have matched everytbing the asked for and once the read your message the can clearly see the effort but not as much as a no thanks I'm straight but been contacted by so many men and everytbing but still take the time to say no thanks I'm straight "

but when u say no thanks do u get the threats the nasty comments horrific abuse the ill find u and out u.. us women do all the time so we are left with no option other than ignore the message.. why is this so hard for ye to understand.. some men dont like rejection they assume cos its a sex site we should never say no.. we all have different attractions to ppl and thats not always excepted..

id rather come accross rude and have no manners than put up with the nasties

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By *he big dogMan
over a year ago

dublin

I understand girls get a lot of abuse but don't paint all men with the same brush there is a lot of decent men like myself who can take been rejected and move on handing out abuse to anyone is the last thing I want this is all suppose to be for fun and people to explore there kinks

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

The end result is the same though

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"I understand girls get a lot of abuse but don't paint all men with the same brush there is a lot of decent men like myself who can take been rejected and move on handing out abuse to anyone is the last thing I want this is all suppose to be for fun and people to explore there kinks "

the problem is we dont know who those guys are and we arent willing to take the risk ina no thanks.. ill admit ive not replied to some lovely men i later met at a m&g but thats the down side but the constant threads like these get tiring and dont help men either imagine if a few times a week every week we moaned about the abuse we get ye too would tired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we're not interested we don't reply I assume it's the same with everyone else.

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By *he big dogMan
over a year ago

dublin

I understand that sometimes it's a risk and dickheads do slip through the cracks which does let all the decent men of the fab world down I'd like to think that the men who write a decent message are of the normel respectful men of this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op it's as simple as making yourself stand out above the others. Lots of woman have strict filters on so might not get the amount of messages that has been mentioned but at the end of the day if your message does not interest her you will still not get a reply. Do you respond to the junk mail that's put through your door saying thanks but I'm fine for a pizza, insurance whatever it is.... No because you didn't ask for it so why respond? It's not about manners it's about being adults... If someone wants to take on my hubby, kids, full time job and college work and I will sit and write nice replies to all the fancy a fuck messages that's super but in real life that's not going to happen. We have sent messages that have been ignored and my thinking is ah well they are not interested ill move swiftly on. Try not to get so worked up about it life's too short to be worrying about all those bitches not answering your perfectly worded message

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Op it's as simple as making yourself stand out above the others. Lots of woman have strict filters on so might not get the amount of messages that has been mentioned but at the end of the day if your message does not interest her you will still not get a reply. Do you respond to the junk mail that's put through your door saying thanks but I'm fine for a pizza, insurance whatever it is.... No because you didn't ask for it so why respond? It's not about manners it's about being adults... If someone wants to take on my hubby, kids, full time job and college work and I will sit and write nice replies to all the fancy a fuck messages that's super but in real life that's not going to happen. We have sent messages that have been ignored and my thinking is ah well they are not interested ill move swiftly on. Try not to get so worked up about it life's too short to be worrying about all those bitches not answering your perfectly worded message

Perfectly said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And some men can accept a no reply is a no thanks and don't whinge about others being ill mannered.

Besides do you well mannered guys really want to meet ill mannered women?

Take your time pondering that one.

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By *otwife85Couple
over a year ago

Galway

" what's the point in having the site if you can't contact someone thst is a nonsense answer "

Such good manners...

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

I've cut and paste a comment I posted earlier because the point seems to have been missed:

"As per a previous poster, these threads come up everyday and with a quick search you will have all the exact same replies....no answer means not interested.

Someone on another thread worked out the time it would take a woman to answer say 200 (conservative figure) messages with a polite no thanks and it would take a significant portion of her day. Why should she waste all that time just to satisfy your wants."

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I used to reply to every message I got until the abuse started...

I have my filters up and don't get many messages now which is the way I want it.. but the messages that do get through I'll look at the profile before I even open it and if the profile is lacking in one of the elements I'm looking for then it's a delete without even reading the message.

So guys before sending a message take the time to read the profiles (as that's what they are there for) ... and if you have all the required elements then go ahead and message but at the end of the day it still boils down to NO REPLY MEANS NO INTEREST...

PS... I've saved this message to save me writing it again next week...

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I used to reply to every message I got until the abuse started...

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Awe jayus another cut and paste artist would u not try be original at least

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over a year ago

".. pull up ur big boy pants and get the hell over it. "

I can't help but feel that this is the internalised misogyny of a patriarchal structure of intersectional normative norms

Check your privilege

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"I used to reply to every message I got until the abuse started...

PS... I've saved this message to save me writing it again next week...

Awe jayus another cut and paste artist would u not try be original at least

Naaaahhhhh can't be arsed

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"I used to reply to every message I got until the abuse started...

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What she said ^^..

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