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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Be honest how many lads have been told not to wear a condom by a woman? I'm not talking fab as it's a must here but you're getting close to someone and sex chat comes and you bring up condoms and she says "I'm allergic to latex" or I don't like condoms. Growing up I always thought they were exclusively men excuses but atleast 50% of the girls I've been with have said those things to me. And because I didn't want to be insulting I didn't but then again they were all long term exclusive non swinging (as far as I know) girls. Also spoke about this to girls I didn't get with and a good percentage have the same excuses.

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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago

Louth/Meath/Dublin

Never. Unless it was a ltr and other contraception was used.

Allergic to latex? Buy non latex condoms.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never. Unless it was a ltr and other contraception was used.

Allergic to latex? Buy non latex condoms."

They were just excuses I think. I know some people are but how common is it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the ladies I have met outside of fab look surprised when I produce a condom. Usually say its ok you dont need one with me.But it makes you wonder.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most of the ladies I have met outside of fab look surprised when I produce a condom. Usually say its ok you dont need one with me.But it makes you wonder."

They almost take offence haha

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

You can get latex free condoms and now I find them ten times better

Than latex condoms so no excuse . But nothing like bareback with a regular partner hate having to stop in the middle to put on condom cos sometimes it stops play .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never. Unless it was a ltr and other contraception was used.

Allergic to latex? Buy non latex condoms."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is interesting for sure how many girls in the vanilla setting for instance on tinder will fuck bareback on the first meet insisting "this is something I never usually do".

Do the primal sexual insticts to want raw sex overwhelm the brains capacity to also want to keep safe ?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I can only speak for myself but I never had an issue with condoms au contrary I insist on the condom, there's very little to no difference in feeling, it's all just in the head. I had a few encounters in my younger years when I was stupid enough not to have some in my handbag and him not having any either which resulted in no intercourse. As simple as that.

If I were a man I'd be cautious what I'm getting myself into because you never know what contraception a woman is taking/having in place and how serious she's about it. It's not only sti's you could get you know....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can only speak for myself but I never had an issue with condoms au contrary I insist on the condom, there's very little to no difference in feeling, it's all just in the head. I had a few encounters in my younger years when I was stupid enough not to have some in my handbag and him not having any either which resulted in no intercourse. As simple as that.

If I were a man I'd be cautious what I'm getting myself into because you never know what contraception a woman is taking/having in place and how serious she's about it. It's not only sti's you could get you know.... "

My biggest concern is always pregnancy, obviously I'm worried about catching things too but pregnancy scares me the most haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the ladies I have met outside of fab look surprised when I produce a condom. Usually say its ok you dont need one with me.But it makes you wonder."

Used to have this problem myself with fellas.same line was said to me.

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By *rDarcy37Man
over a year ago

lucan

No Glove no Love... it's a motto I go with. It's just a sensible option

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By *angero3aMan
over a year ago

swords

was ask a few years ago by a married woman who I was seeing to stop wear condom she was on the pill But always feared see would get preg.

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By *ittlePinkUnicornWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"It is interesting for sure how many girls in the vanilla setting for instance on tinder will fuck bareback on the first meet insisting "this is something I never usually do".

Do the primal sexual insticts to want raw sex overwhelm the brains capacity to also want to keep safe ?"

This! One of my vanilla friends rarely uses a condom (she has the coil), and I always tell her of for it.

It might take away from the flow of the sex for a few secs, but a STI or baby would take it away for a lot longer!

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Most of the ladies I have met outside of fab look surprised when I produce a condom. Usually say its ok you dont need one with me.But it makes you wonder."

Certainly does make you wonder. She says it to you and everyone else before you.

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By *rudenMan
over a year ago

dublin

Dog hunter. You are a 100percent right

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"I can only speak for myself but I never had an issue with condoms au contrary I insist on the condom, there's very little to no difference in feeling, it's all just in the head. I had a few encounters in my younger years when I was stupid enough not to have some in my handbag and him not having any either which resulted in no intercourse. As simple as that.

If I were a man I'd be cautious what I'm getting myself into because you never know what contraception a woman is taking/having in place and how serious she's about it. It's not only sti's you could get you know....

My biggest concern is always pregnancy, obviously I'm worried about catching things too but pregnancy scares me the most haha "

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth


"Be honest how many lads have been told not to wear a condom by a woman? I'm not talking fab as it's a must here but you're getting close to someone and sex chat comes and you bring up condoms and she says "I'm allergic to latex" or I don't like condoms. Growing up I always thought they were exclusively men excuses but atleast 50% of the girls I've been with have said those things to me. And because I didn't want to be insulting I didn't but then again they were all long term exclusive non swinging (as far as I know) girls. Also spoke about this to girls I didn't get with and a good percentage have the same excuses. "

yep happens a lot to me too..give it to me skin is what i get told..I put a condom on last time and she had a frown on her face as if to say what the fook are you doing? answer is they dont like the feeling of it..same for men

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth


"Most of the ladies I have met outside of fab look surprised when I produce a condom. Usually say its ok you dont need one with me.But it makes you wonder."

yep this exactly

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I can only speak for myself but I never had an issue with condoms au contrary I insist on the condom, there's very little to no difference in feeling, it's all just in the head. I had a few encounters in my younger years when I was stupid enough not to have some in my handbag and him not having any either which resulted in no intercourse. As simple as that.

If I were a man I'd be cautious what I'm getting myself into because you never know what contraception a woman is taking/having in place and how serious she's about it. It's not only sti's you could get you know....

My biggest concern is always pregnancy, obviously I'm worried about catching things too but pregnancy scares me the most haha "

Naw don't worry bud u can't get pregnant

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can only speak for myself but I never had an issue with condoms au contrary I insist on the condom, there's very little to no difference in feeling, it's all just in the head. I had a few encounters in my younger years when I was stupid enough not to have some in my handbag and him not having any either which resulted in no intercourse. As simple as that.

If I were a man I'd be cautious what I'm getting myself into because you never know what contraception a woman is taking/having in place and how serious she's about it. It's not only sti's you could get you know....

My biggest concern is always pregnancy, obviously I'm worried about catching things too but pregnancy scares me the most haha

Naw don't worry bud u can't get pregnant "

Did you just assume my biological capabilities?

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I can only speak for myself but I never had an issue with condoms au contrary I insist on the condom, there's very little to no difference in feeling, it's all just in the head. I had a few encounters in my younger years when I was stupid enough not to have some in my handbag and him not having any either which resulted in no intercourse. As simple as that.

If I were a man I'd be cautious what I'm getting myself into because you never know what contraception a woman is taking/having in place and how serious she's about it. It's not only sti's you could get you know....

My biggest concern is always pregnancy, obviously I'm worried about catching things too but pregnancy scares me the most haha

Naw don't worry bud u can't get pregnant

Did you just assume my biological capabilities? "

Naw it's a dead cert I assumed nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a general rule of thumb you know excluding exclusive long term relationships if she tells you, that you don't need a condom, you really need a condom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can only speak for myself but I never had an issue with condoms au contrary I insist on the condom, there's very little to no difference in feeling, it's all just in the head. I had a few encounters in my younger years when I was stupid enough not to have some in my handbag and him not having any either which resulted in no intercourse. As simple as that.

If I were a man I'd be cautious what I'm getting myself into because you never know what contraception a woman is taking/having in place and how serious she's about it. It's not only sti's you could get you know....

My biggest concern is always pregnancy, obviously I'm worried about catching things too but pregnancy scares me the most haha

Naw don't worry bud u can't get pregnant

Did you just assume my biological capabilities?

Naw it's a dead cert I assumed nothing "

I'd be one of those fathers that's makes people cringe cause I'd be saying "we're" pregnant

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I can only speak for myself but I never had an issue with condoms au contrary I insist on the condom, there's very little to no difference in feeling, it's all just in the head. I had a few encounters in my younger years when I was stupid enough not to have some in my handbag and him not having any either which resulted in no intercourse. As simple as that.

If I were a man I'd be cautious what I'm getting myself into because you never know what contraception a woman is taking/having in place and how serious she's about it. It's not only sti's you could get you know....

My biggest concern is always pregnancy, obviously I'm worried about catching things too but pregnancy scares me the most haha

Naw don't worry bud u can't get pregnant

Did you just assume my biological capabilities?

Naw it's a dead cert I assumed nothing

I'd be one of those fathers that's makes people cringe cause I'd be saying "we're" pregnant "

although u had a hand in it well maybe a hand is the wrong choice of word as that would be fisting

Ur contribution assisted in a female getting pregnant u yourself can not get pregnant

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I can only speak for myself but I never had an issue with condoms au contrary I insist on the condom, there's very little to no difference in feeling, it's all just in the head. I had a few encounters in my younger years when I was stupid enough not to have some in my handbag and him not having any either which resulted in no intercourse. As simple as that.

If I were a man I'd be cautious what I'm getting myself into because you never know what contraception a woman is taking/having in place and how serious she's about it. It's not only sti's you could get you know....

My biggest concern is always pregnancy, obviously I'm worried about catching things too but pregnancy scares me the most haha

Naw don't worry bud u can't get pregnant

Did you just assume my biological capabilities?

Naw it's a dead cert I assumed nothing

I'd be one of those fathers that's makes people cringe cause I'd be saying "we're" pregnant

although u had a hand in it well maybe a hand is the wrong choice of word as that would be fisting

Ur contribution assisted in a female getting pregnant u yourself can not get pregnant "

Anyway back to wearing condoms less of my distractions

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Be honest how many lads have been told not to wear a condom by a woman? I'm not talking fab as it's a must here but you're getting close to someone and sex chat comes and you bring up condoms and she says "I'm allergic to latex" or I don't like condoms. Growing up I always thought they were exclusively men excuses but atleast 50% of the girls I've been with have said those things to me. And because I didn't want to be insulting I didn't but then again they were all long term exclusive non swinging (as far as I know) girls. Also spoke about this to girls I didn't get with and a good percentage have the same excuses.

yep happens a lot to me too..give it to me skin is what i get told..I put a condom on last time and she had a frown on her face as if to say what the fook are you doing? answer is they dont like the feeling of it..same for men "

I wonder how many women would really feel the difference in a 'blind testing' without versus a thin well fitted condom. My best guess is most would struggle to tell....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be honest how many lads have been told not to wear a condom by a woman? I'm not talking fab as it's a must here but you're getting close to someone and sex chat comes and you bring up condoms and she says "I'm allergic to latex" or I don't like condoms. Growing up I always thought they were exclusively men excuses but atleast 50% of the girls I've been with have said those things to me. And because I didn't want to be insulting I didn't but then again they were all long term exclusive non swinging (as far as I know) girls. Also spoke about this to girls I didn't get with and a good percentage have the same excuses.

yep happens a lot to me too..give it to me skin is what i get told..I put a condom on last time and she had a frown on her face as if to say what the fook are you doing? answer is they dont like the feeling of it..same for men

I wonder how many women would really feel the difference in a 'blind testing' without versus a thin well fitted condom. My best guess is most would struggle to tell.... "

I dunno about women but for me personally there is a bit of a difference but would glady wear one.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Be honest how many lads have been told not to wear a condom by a woman? I'm not talking fab as it's a must here but you're getting close to someone and sex chat comes and you bring up condoms and she says "I'm allergic to latex" or I don't like condoms. Growing up I always thought they were exclusively men excuses but atleast 50% of the girls I've been with have said those things to me. And because I didn't want to be insulting I didn't but then again they were all long term exclusive non swinging (as far as I know) girls. Also spoke about this to girls I didn't get with and a good percentage have the same excuses.

yep happens a lot to me too..give it to me skin is what i get told..I put a condom on last time and she had a frown on her face as if to say what the fook are you doing? answer is they dont like the feeling of it..same for men

I wonder how many women would really feel the difference in a 'blind testing' without versus a thin well fitted condom. My best guess is most would struggle to tell.... "

I'd say your right DH. Some have been known to remove the condom just before the act. It's a real thing and it's called Stealthing. It's classed as assault. There's some sick people out there.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Be honest how many lads have been told not to wear a condom by a woman? I'm not talking fab as it's a must here but you're getting close to someone and sex chat comes and you bring up condoms and she says "I'm allergic to latex" or I don't like condoms. Growing up I always thought they were exclusively men excuses but atleast 50% of the girls I've been with have said those things to me. And because I didn't want to be insulting I didn't but then again they were all long term exclusive non swinging (as far as I know) girls. Also spoke about this to girls I didn't get with and a good percentage have the same excuses.

yep happens a lot to me too..give it to me skin is what i get told..I put a condom on last time and she had a frown on her face as if to say what the fook are you doing? answer is they dont like the feeling of it..same for men

I wonder how many women would really feel the difference in a 'blind testing' without versus a thin well fitted condom. My best guess is most would struggle to tell....

I dunno about women but for me personally there is a bit of a difference but would glady wear one. "

Yeah I get that. For a man it's different. Although I'd say a positive attitude towards wearing the condom and you feel it already far less.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be honest how many lads have been told not to wear a condom by a woman? I'm not talking fab as it's a must here but you're getting close to someone and sex chat comes and you bring up condoms and she says "I'm allergic to latex" or I don't like condoms. Growing up I always thought they were exclusively men excuses but atleast 50% of the girls I've been with have said those things to me. And because I didn't want to be insulting I didn't but then again they were all long term exclusive non swinging (as far as I know) girls. Also spoke about this to girls I didn't get with and a good percentage have the same excuses.

yep happens a lot to me too..give it to me skin is what i get told..I put a condom on last time and she had a frown on her face as if to say what the fook are you doing? answer is they dont like the feeling of it..same for men

I wonder how many women would really feel the difference in a 'blind testing' without versus a thin well fitted condom. My best guess is most would struggle to tell....

I dunno about women but for me personally there is a bit of a difference but would glady wear one.

Yeah I get that. For a man it's different. Although I'd say a positive attitude towards wearing the condom and you feel it already far less. "

I know guys that say they can't cum if they wear one sadly there's no difference in time for me cumming with or without one

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


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yep happens a lot to me too..give it to me skin is what i get told..I put a condom on last time and she had a frown on her face as if to say what the fook are you doing? answer is they dont like the feeling of it..same for men

I wonder how many women would really feel the difference in a 'blind testing' without versus a thin well fitted condom. My best guess is most would struggle to tell.... "

I'd say your right DH. Some have been known to remove the condom just before the act. It's a real thing and it's called Stealthing. It's classed as assault. There's some sick people out there. "

I get your point but just want to point out I wasn't referring to stealthing, such behaviour is just terribly wrong and appalling.

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