FabSwingers.com forum: Are bi guys afraid to message women here?

By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I’ve seen a few threads that love bi guys which is great. But I’ve also seen a few pretty negative ones. Which makes me wonder does it make bi guys nervous about telling women here that they are bi?

I for one love bi guys. So message away. xx

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

id be happy ina room full of bi guys

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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago

Waterford City

"id be happy ina room full of bi guys

Oh yes please. Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be a bit hit and miss. Most women here get snowed under by messages and don't get around to answering be it to bi or straight guys. Being bi I genuinely have no issue messaging women...or guys.

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"id be happy ina room full of bi guys

Oh yes please. Me too.

makings of a good night me & u with a room full

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"id be happy ina room full of bi guys

Oh yes please. Me too.

makings of a good night me & u with a room full "

Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's hard to find ladies who like it

it's great everyone enjoying everyone during group fun

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

It’s a funny ole world, everyone looking for bi women but bi men not so much

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By *ityetfunkyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I have had fun with a couple guys before even though I'd class myself more straight than bi hut I'd be more than happy to help make up numbers in this room ladies (; lol

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By *rit on shannonMan
over a year ago

portumna

openly bi here have it in the profile name some people reject messages because you are bi but each to tyeir own choice never had any negatives responses otyer than a sinple no not for me/us

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"id be happy ina room full of bi guys

Oh yes please. Me too.

makings of a good night me & u with a room full

Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them

always always room for u laura

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By *iver80Man
over a year ago

south side ,

"id be happy ina room full of bi guys

It can be strange at first telling someone people do still judge i get some slagging but most of the time its great been open..im not ashamed of who i am, i like both haha a greedy fucker

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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago

Waterford City

"id be happy ina room full of bi guys

Oh yes please. Me too.

makings of a good night me & u with a room full

Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them

always always room for u laura

Giving me very naughty ideas girls.

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By *he socialistsCouple
over a year ago

dublin

"id be happy ina room full of bi guys

Oh yes please. Me too.

makings of a good night me & u with a room full

Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them

always always room for u laura

Think we should have a trial run on Saturday

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"id be happy ina room full of bi guys

Oh yes please. Me too.

makings of a good night me & u with a room full

Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them

always always room for u laura

Giving me very naughty ideas girls.

You are not alone

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"id be happy ina room full of bi guys

Oh yes please. Me too.

makings of a good night me & u with a room full

Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them

always always room for u laura

Giving me very naughty ideas girls.

You are not alone

ooo like where this is going

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"id be happy ina room full of bi guys

Oh yes please. Me too.

makings of a good night me & u with a room full

Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them

always always room for u laura

Think we should have a trial run on Saturday

trial run my room its the biggest

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"id be happy ina room full of bi guys

Oh yes please. Me too.

makings of a good night me & u with a room full

Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them

always always room for u laura

Giving me very naughty ideas girls.

You are not alone

(I'll use the right profile this time

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We certainly are not alone but i fear it may turn in to a greedy girls party but fook it... it's a win win situation then

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"id be happy ina room full of bi guys

Oh yes please. Me too.

makings of a good night me & u with a room full

Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them

always always room for u laura

Think we should have a trial run on Saturday

trial run my room its the biggest

You reckon?

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"id be happy ina room full of bi guys

Oh yes please. Me too.

makings of a good night me & u with a room full

Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them

always always room for u laura

Giving me very naughty ideas girls.

You are not alone

ooo like where this is going "

It is turning into a meaty meet

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"id be happy ina room full of bi guys

Oh yes please. Me too.

makings of a good night me & u with a room full

Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them

always always room for u laura

Think we should have a trial run on Saturday

trial run my room its the biggest

You reckon?

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"id be happy ina room full of bi guys

Oh yes please. Me too.

makings of a good night me & u with a room full

Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them

always always room for u laura

Think we should have a trial run on Saturday

trial run my room its the biggest

You reckon?

ill have to see for myself so

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"id be happy ina room full of bi guys

Oh yes please. Me too.

makings of a good night me & u with a room full

Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them

always always room for u laura

Giving me very naughty ideas girls.

You are not alone

ooo like where this is going

It is turning into a meaty meet

more meat the better

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By *iver80Man
over a year ago

south side ,

That would be one hell of a group meet , all bi guys been watched by loads of hot ladies having plenty of games

I think this is something that would definetly be mamzing

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"id be happy ina room full of bi guys

Oh yes please. Me too.

makings of a good night me & u with a room full

Ehhh hello I'll be in the middle of them

always always room for u laura

Think we should have a trial run on Saturday

trial run my room its the biggest

You reckon?

ill have to see for myself so "

It's getting hot in here...

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By *lavemale66Man
over a year ago

Carlow

"I’ve seen a few threads that love bi guys which is great. But I’ve also seen a few pretty negative ones. Which makes me wonder does it make bi guys nervous about telling women here that they are bi?

I for one love bi guys. So message away. xx

I can't message you because I'm outside your age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I for one love bi guys. So message away. xx

No we're not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me Fab gave me the confidence to be open - before Fab I just assumed most ladies would run a mile - turned out I was wrong!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mind who I chat too..

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By *oodbuddy 51Man
over a year ago

Puerto Rico Gran Canaria

I am bi guy and am friends and message with women and couples all the time. The problem for some is not been bi but been single, the majority of couples and ladies on here dont seem to be looking for a single guy whether he is bi or straight but looking for other couples or women.

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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago

Waterford City

"For me Fab gave me the confidence to be open - before Fab I just assumed most ladies would run a mile - turned out I was wrong!!"

Delighted to hear it. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd definitely be up for bi guys group meet. I'm free this sat ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting mel Gibson was wrong about what women talk about ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me Fab gave me the confidence to be open - before Fab I just assumed most ladies would run a mile - turned out I was wrong!!

Delighted to hear it. Xx"

Thanks Lady!

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"For me Fab gave me the confidence to be open - before Fab I just assumed most ladies would run a mile - turned out I was wrong!!

Delighted to hear it. Xx

Thanks Lady!"

But all is forgiven

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By *iver80Man
over a year ago

south side ,

"For me Fab gave me the confidence to be open - before Fab I just assumed most ladies would run a mile - turned out I was wrong!!

Delighted to hear it. Xx

Thanks Lady!

Some ladys dont like a bi lad most do which is great for meeting

But all is forgiven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well Im bi and tbanks to fab, I have been able to explore more on here.Also havent found it a hindrance meeting ladies and couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Opps misread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi guys are a big turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liking this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s much easier for men to be bisexual in an environment like here on fab where there’s a more open attitude to sex and sexuality.

After I separated from my ex, for which my bisexuality was an issue in us separating, I was decided come out to friends and family, but more importantly anyone I started to date outside the fab world. Although there’s a major risk of rejection in the vanilla , It’s actually a great litmus test to see how a woman reacts. One lady broke down in tears when I told her after our first social meet, I knew then that it was not worth pursuing any further.

The lady I am currently dating asked me “Does that mean I have to be too?”, when I told her. With that I I knew she had potential.

Happy to join the room of bi guys, but My other have would want to join me. We are going to the M&G in Dublin this weekend so say hi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi here and most ladies don't want from what I see in their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a bi party is in order ..

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By *alskinMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I,ve seen on a lot of womens and bi couples profiles that they,ll contact a man first so I tend not to message or wink them,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a bi party is in order ..

Well overdue, I’d say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a bi party is overdue . It's hard to chat to a guy in a pub and ask the question. So if only bi guys went too a party then they would not have ask.ok when and where

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By *ublinerrrMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Young bi guy here at ur service

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By *onathan kMan
over a year ago

sligo ballymote

yes it does make me nervous I had a situation a few days ago where I was planning to meet a couple and it was nearly arranged but the husband seen I was bi and that was the end of it

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Well they will lie to a girl that says "Straight only", there was a thread up laughing at the girls cause most had been verified by bi guys without knowing.

On the fourm women fawn over bi guys all the time and I cant see why they would hide it from forum women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely a bi party is overdue . It's hard to chat to a guy in a pub and ask the question. So if only bi guys went too a party then they would not have ask.ok when and where

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good idea

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

There are more and more bi nights appearing at all the clubs now, so it can only get better for bi guys to meet women that enjoy them. We find that bi guys are more open to messaging as they are more comfortable accepting who they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion bi is utterly in vogue... have met the dirtiest fuckers going on the bi scene, the last thing I’d describe them as is scared!

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By *eise68Man
over a year ago

newcastle

I'm happy with being bi .

It's fun to act out fantasies in a safe environment.

But I'm only bi on here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is difficult for bi guys to get trust with couples especial within Fab .... can take some work... It does happen sometimes with right couples, but trust is the big thing.

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

Everyone has a bi side sometime in life whether its fantasising or preforming. Its just some are afraid to admit it! Says us with a stray profile lol

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By *he Kinky KinksCouple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

We don’t care who is bi once ground rules are laid out, but we were texting a guy, and he wouldn’t meet people who only met bi guys (not even played) - irrespective of whether they themselves were bi.

I found this very unusual..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi and open about it on my profile. I have found no issue when chatting and meeting people. I think if you're open about it you'll find like minded people on here. I am also on here as part of a couple and find it is much the same on that profile. More importantly though, when is this bi party happening ?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

There are more and more bi nights ..its awesome.

There's one Friday, sat and sun all within an hour of me, and all at different venues.

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

Well I'll have to say no they are not afraid at all but I know that's down to my kink

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By *astardly DickMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Not frightened but it certainly seems to put a lot of women off. So I tend to be more cautious than frightened. I mean they can ignore me or block me but hopefully won't hunt me down and kill me. Would be nice to be openly bi in the company of a woman though. Lol perseverance.

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

"Would be nice to be openly bi in the company of a woman though. Lol perseverance. "

Read my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I for one love bi guys. So message away. xx

Why don't more women instigate messaging. The number of posts that have been up about women not wanting to message first for fear of rejection is probably far more common. Some just fab pics to suggest interest or just wink. Many don't look at winks I know I rarely do and fabbing pics is just ... Nice pic but not necessarily interested.

A message from a woman goes a long way too. What's the worst that can happen? Deleted message. ..Most unlikely and most likely a nice response. Just throwing it out there ladies. X

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

I for one love bi guys. So message away. xx

A message from a woman goes a long way too. What's the worst that can happen? Deleted message. ..Most unlikely and most likely a nice response. Just throwing it out there ladies. X"

From a guy that was openly against meeting women who have met bi guys that's a very mature turnaround...I applaud you in your evolvement

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By *astardly DickMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

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By *astardly DickMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

"Would be nice to be openly bi in the company of a woman though. Lol perseverance.

Read my profile

I read and I like your thoughts and those pics. Feel free to mail me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be very excited about the thought of ladies watching me with a guy.

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By *iver80Man
over a year ago

south side ,

I for one love bi guys. So message away. xx

Some women tend not to , some like bi guys id be smilling all night if i was in a room full of girls and bi guys , ive chatted to some couples but no meets ad of yet xx

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By *iver80Man
over a year ago

south side ,

I reckon a bi party should be in the pipe lines , would any guys girls and couples be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I reckon a bi party should be in the pipe lines , would any guys girls and couples be interested

Erm.... you know Manc/Blackpool has a bi party for circa 200 every few months?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is fabulous to read the comments from all, however either bi straight or gay there needs to be a connection or an attraction for the individuals if not it will not happen.

I love a relaxed couple who enjoy good company and a social connection... This can help to charge the atmosphere..

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By *uriouscpl3536Couple
over a year ago

kildare

Orally bi count ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you all in Ireland

Shoots off to look at Ryan air flights

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By *rishgstarMan
over a year ago

the neighbourhood

I think majority of us are on the younger side, its not as accepted for older guys to bat on both teams

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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago

Waterford City

"I think majority of us are on the younger side, its not as accepted for older guys to bat on both teams

You might have a point there.

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By *iver80Man
over a year ago

south side ,

Most people dont contact bi guys

Been bi has all the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have read a good few profiles, locally to me, and they don't really want bi guys.

Might be that these girls are a bit greedy and want all the attention to themselves lol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I for one love bi guys. So message away. xx

I wouldn't say that being a bi guy i was nervous about messaging women but then i usually message couples who are bi as then i can enjoy both

However if a woman is interested or this bi orgy discussed in this thread becomes a thing then i would love to be part of that!

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By *oinfc188Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I hope to one day find a lady who would accept my bisexual side.

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By *iver80Man
over a year ago

south side ,

Id love to lick some cum of some guys cock dripping from a juicy puzzy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so is it guys that you find a turn on playing together or does it extend to tv/cd's as well?

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

No..it's on my profile and I've quite a few women friends here so they can like it or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I for one love bi guys. So message away. xx

A message from a woman goes a long way too. What's the worst that can happen? Deleted message. ..Most unlikely and most likely a nice response. Just throwing it out there ladies. X

From a guy that was openly against meeting women who have met bi guys that's a very mature turnaround...I applaud you in your evolvement

In what way have I evolved?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last two women I have wrote to have said they dont meet bi guys, have to say it has put me off writing to women.

it's annoying because I well prefer pussy

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By *addyhorn1Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Orally bi count ?"

Orally bi is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal I just love forward girls so message me first if you want to make me interested. I like to chat to any one.

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