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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was wondering what is the adverage age around here ? And does being too young put you off a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think anyone wit kids same age as yourself is off putting . Iv a son ur age i wouldnt meet u for that reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started off at 20 myself. So I'd not say too young however you need to prove you're serious, I found going to events really helped. If you really want to get into this lifestyle stick with it no matter how hard it gets

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Yes you're too young.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some cock on ye for a 21yr old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All down to personal preference. Some prefer older and some prefer younger and we all have our own type so be yourself and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone. Nice to know some opinions. Il keep trying anyway I hope to get to rvc in cork this month so might get a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hope that means good haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think anyone wit kids same age as yourself is off putting . Iv a son ur age i wouldnt meet u for that reason "

That totally make a sence I understand that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I might take some new pics tonight and help revitalise my profile and see how it goes

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

21? you should be shagging all around you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"21? you should be shagging all around you. "

I hoped so on this site but I must just be undesirable hahaha

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"21? you should be shagging all around you.

I hoped so on this site but I must just be undesirable hahaha "

the fact you're from cork city you should have a decent pick anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"21? you should be shagging all around you.

I hoped so on this site but I must just be undesirable hahaha the fact you're from cork city you should have a decent pick anyway "

You would be amazed by the amount of single guys in cork haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All down to personal preferences. Some people have more of an age bracket than others. For me, once it is legal, I am not hugely bothered.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"21? you should be shagging all around you.

I hoped so on this site but I must just be undesirable hahaha the fact you're from cork city you should have a decent pick anyway

You would be amazed by the amount of single guys in cork haha"

i can imagine but it's a big city and a large proportion of people on here from there

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"All down to personal preferences. Some people have more of an age bracket than others. For me, once it is legal, I am not hugely bothered. "
yep. once legal all is good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All down to personal preferences. Some people have more of an age bracket than others. For me, once it is legal, I am not hugely bothered. yep. once legal all is good "

Legal is definalty a requirement

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"I think anyone wit kids same age as yourself is off putting . Iv a son ur age i wouldnt meet u for that reason "

Exactly this ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah it just depends..I like a man with a good 20 years experience

But loads of ladies on here are into younger men..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're 21 so definitely not too young. You might be for some with kids but that's it. I'd like even more younger people to join, especially women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're 21 so definitely not too young. You might be for some with kids but that's it. I'd like even more younger people to join, especially women. "

Plenty young people on here, actually a great mix of all ages

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Just grow thick skin.

You can be the right age like me and have them say "I don't like your face”, not even sugar coat it that they think you're ugly.

You can be too tall, too short. Cock too big, too small, too fat, too skinny. I mean they can even say no cause you have a beard, or don't have a beard.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Depends on your maturity levels as much as your age. How you handle the lifestyle and your attitude to it influences how people view you and helps them see beyond your age. Best of luck on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're 21 so definitely not too young. You might be for some with kids but that's it. I'd like even more younger people to join, especially women.

Plenty young people on here, actually a great mix of all ages"

Could always do with more women haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're 21 so definitely not too young. You might be for some with kids but that's it. I'd like even more younger people to join, especially women.

Plenty young people on here, actually a great mix of all ages

Could always do with more women haha"

Ya limericks not the best place if you're only looking for young single women. However it is great for events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on your maturity levels as much as your age. How you handle the lifestyle and your attitude to it influences how people view you and helps them see beyond your age. Best of luck on here"

This is probably the best reply and the most honest, really is down to how you as a person behave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're 21 so definitely not too young. You might be for some with kids but that's it. I'd like even more younger people to join, especially women.

Plenty young people on here, actually a great mix of all ages

Could always do with more women haha

Ya limericks not the best place if you're only looking for young single women. However it is great for events "

I'm not an events person though. I set my sights on someone and don't want to know their fab friends or to socialise with people I don't care for haha

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Just grow thick skin.

You can be the right age like me and have them say "I don't like your face”, not even sugar coat it that they think you're ugly.

You can be too tall, too short. Cock too big, too small, too fat, too skinny. I mean they can even say no cause you have a beard, or don't have a beard."

While I get that fantasies for people can require certain aspects and preferences, not all people are ignorant in their handling of it...life requires a thick skin and especially on social media as it tends to bring out certain behaviours that people wouldn't normally reveal about themselves. You will get the overly pc and the ignorant in all walks of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a regular in his late 30's and his amazing!!. We get on great. Makes me feel young again.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"Just grow thick skin.

You can be the right age like me and have them say "I don't like your face”, not even sugar coat it that they think you're ugly.

You can be too tall, too short. Cock too big, too small, too fat, too skinny. I mean they can even say no cause you have a beard, or don't have a beard.

While I get that fantasies for people can require certain aspects and preferences, not all people are ignorant in their handling of it...life requires a thick skin and especially on social media as it tends to bring out certain behaviours that people wouldn't normally reveal about themselves. You will get the overly pc and the ignorant in all walks of life.

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I don't think its bad to say outright you don't like someone. But I have thick skin. I'd just wish them look finding someone they find attractive.

My point is, sometimes people get refused for reason "a", and they think if that reason was gone, all the women would be with them. But in reality, if reason "a" was removed, reason "b","c","d" would still exist, cause there are a million reasons not to have sex with someone.

So in reality all you can do is wait for someone who wants your a-z.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some cock on ye for a 21yr old

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Pretty sure most have maxed out by 21

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Just grow thick skin.

You can be the right age like me and have them say "I don't like your face”, not even sugar coat it that they think you're ugly.

You can be too tall, too short. Cock too big, too small, too fat, too skinny. I mean they can even say no cause you have a beard, or don't have a beard.

While I get that fantasies for people can require certain aspects and preferences, not all people are ignorant in their handling of it...life requires a thick skin and especially on social media as it tends to bring out certain behaviours that people wouldn't normally reveal about themselves. You will get the overly pc and the ignorant in all walks of life.

I don't think its bad to say outright you don't like someone. But I have thick skin. I'd just wish them look finding someone they find attractive.

My point is, sometimes people get refused for reason "a", and they think if that reason was gone, all the women would be with them. But in reality, if reason "a" was removed, reason "b","c","d" would still exist, cause there are a million reasons not to have sex with someone.

So in reality all you can do is wait for someone who wants your a-z."

Well said patience is a virtue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have well over 108 views today so I hope my patience will pay off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U seem like a decent guy ... respect & patience go a long way ...enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have well over 108 views today so I hope my patience will pay off "

Why not say over 100? 108 seems a strange number to pick haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on your maturity levels as much as your age. How you handle the lifestyle and your attitude to it influences how people view you and helps them see beyond your age. Best of luck on here"
I lolled at this maturity levels? Says herself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op I started off as a young gun and I'm still here just have to keep the head up get yourself out there and be yourself. Easiest and also the hardest way is to try and get the first social meet. And what ever you do don't be a no show that's like a death penalty on here

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Op I started off as a young gun and I'm still here just have to keep the head up get yourself out there and be yourself. Easiest and also the hardest way is to try and get the first social meet. And what ever you do don't be a no show that's like a death penalty on here "
a no show is fine with a reason before hand

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I really appreciate the advice and your own stories it makes me want to keep the profile going

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By *ivelifeMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Who cares what age you are everyone has there own interests . We are all here for one thing so ask explore and respect everyone’s preferences.

Have fun

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By *ussybangMan
over a year ago

ML3

Poor fella, don't worry maturity is the main thing and your ability to perform. If I were to be a lady, even if am 60 yrs old and I am able to lay a young fella of your age waooooo, I will love it. So long you are not a minor and you are classified as adult by the society, who gives to fuck. Fuck it.

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By *ussybangMan
over a year ago

ML3

Fantastic when I was 18yrs old, I was having a great time fucking a lady in her late 40th and it is great fucking an older woman as it is to some cougar ladies that loves fucking young guys. Go for it lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're 21 so definitely not too young. You might be for some with kids but that's it. I'd like even more younger people to join, especially women.

Plenty young people on here, actually a great mix of all ages

Could always do with more women haha

Ya limericks not the best place if you're only looking for young single women. However it is great for events

I'm not an events person though. I set my sights on someone and don't want to know their fab friends or to socialise with people I don't care for haha "

Ah right well there's something for everyone here I guess, best of luck with it anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone have some preferences in looks, body sizes, ages. So lets say for some you too young for some you wont be. I think I first time joined site when was 20..So dont let few "you are too young" msgs put you away from site;)

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Depends on your maturity levels as much as your age. How you handle the lifestyle and your attitude to it influences how people view you and helps them see beyond your age. Best of luck on here I lolled at this maturity levels? Says herself "

I didn't say how mature

Cheeky brat

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Everyone have some preferences in looks, body sizes, ages. So lets say for some you too young for some you wont be. I think I first time joined site when was 20..So dont let few "you are too young" msgs put you away from site;) "

And she has been in charge since

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

We would never consider meeting anyone your age however there will be others that will.

It's been said above, at 21 you have the potential to have multiple partners at the drop of a hat. Esp in these days with the smart phones. Wish they where about when we were Young.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the rest is as nice as the cock you'll be ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on your maturity levels as much as your age. How you handle the lifestyle and your attitude to it influences how people view you and helps them see beyond your age. Best of luck on here I lolled at this maturity levels? Says herself

I didn't say how mature

Cheeky brat"

Kears in trouble

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If anyone in cork wants to help me get verified feel free to hit me up it would be very appreciated!

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By *artinaAndrewCouple
over a year ago

mountmellick


"I think anyone wit kids same age as yourself is off putting . Iv a son ur age i wouldnt meet u for that reason "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"21? you should be shagging all around you.

I hoped so on this site but I must just be undesirable hahaha "

In our less than humble opinion, it is the attitude that because this is a site for swingers, it must be a free for all for any swinging dick. Unfortunately this is not the place to ,as it was so eloquently put "Shag all around you"

For us this is a life style, it is as much about the social as it is about the physical. We can can only speak for ourselves, but for us, this is a way of meeting like minded, social, sexy people who know how to have fun, a lot of fun and we don't just mean in the bedroom either.

And Yes. You are too young for us, way too young, or maybe we are just too old but that is just our preference, come here with the right attitude and expectations, trust us, you will have some trully amazing experiences on here and you will meet some wonderful and very kinky people who will blow your young mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on your maturity levels as much as your age. How you handle the lifestyle and your attitude to it influences how people view you and helps them see beyond your age. Best of luck on here I lolled at this maturity levels? Says herself

I didn't say how mature

Cheeky brat"

love ya too miss boo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone have some preferences in looks, body sizes, ages. So lets say for some you too young for some you wont be. I think I first time joined site when was 20..So dont let few "you are too young" msgs put you away from site;) "

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Depends on your maturity levels as much as your age. How you handle the lifestyle and your attitude to it influences how people view you and helps them see beyond your age. Best of luck on here I lolled at this maturity levels? Says herself

I didn't say how mature

Cheeky brat love ya too miss boo "

Kiss it Kearman

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