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By *hebossman1 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin

Ok so I was chatting to a girl yesterday on this and she came back with sorry won’t be meeting you you’re to active on the forums. Whats that all about?

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Ok so I was chatting to a girl yesterday on this and she came back with sorry won’t be meeting you you’re to active on the forums. Whats that all about? "

Wouldn't sweat it dude she's probably like 95% on here that you wouldn't give a second glance if you passed her on the street. She's just playing games,whether you do or not is up to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I was chatting to a girl yesterday on this and she came back with sorry won’t be meeting you you’re to active on the forums. Whats that all about? "

That’s mad I like to see if someone is active here or not that way you get a sense of them and their personality

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By *hebossman1 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Ok so I was chatting to a girl yesterday on this and she came back with sorry won’t be meeting you you’re to active on the forums. Whats that all about?

That’s mad I like to see if someone is active here or not that way you get a sense of them and their personality "

I know that’s what I thought? And since I’ve put this thread up another girl has texted me saying it was childish and blocked me lol. Each for their own I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s one thing to be active on here but maybe they are worried you going to call them out on forum. Just saying as this post and last was about how individuals have engaged with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people want different things from different people here on fab and others are just plan bullshit

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By *hebossman1 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Some people want different things from different people here on fab and others are just plan bullshit"

Valid point but I never thought of been too active on forums would come in between meetings g someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she doesn't like the idea of being discussed with others on the forum?

Just a thought

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By *hebossman1 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Maybe she doesn't like the idea of being discussed with others on the forum?

Just a thought

"

But no one discussed her

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By *hebossman1 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin

One thing I’m not is a bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe she doesn't like the idea of being discussed with others on the forum?

Just a thought

But no one discussed her "

What's this thread then?

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By *hebossman1 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Maybe she doesn't like the idea of being discussed with others on the forum?

Just a thought

But no one discussed her

What's this thread then?"

I’m not discussing her I’m discussing how shocked I am that some one wouldn’t meet me cos I was too active on forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe she doesn't like the idea of being discussed with others on the forum?

Just a thought

But no one discussed her

What's this thread then?

I’m not discussing her I’m discussing how shocked I am that some one wouldn’t meet me cos I was too active on forums "

You're not, you're inviting others to speculate on someone's reasons for their decision, the only person who can tell you those is the individual themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe she doesn't like the idea of being discussed with others on the forum?

Just a thought

But no one discussed her

What's this thread then?

I’m not discussing her I’m discussing how shocked I am that some one wouldn’t meet me cos I was too active on forums

You're not, you're inviting others to speculate on someone's reasons for their decision, the only person who can tell you those is the individual themselves."

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By *igerclawsCouple
over a year ago

cork

Maybe the lady has a valid point!!

She gave you a reason why she wasn't interested in you and then you post your conversation in the forum

Has it not clicked yet?

Just our view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the lady has a valid point!!

She gave you a reason why she wasn't interested in you and then you post your conversation in the forum

Has it not clicked yet?

Just our view "
But sure the mas is only asking why people block for silly reasons.He isn't exactly running her down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say I would appreciate someone replying to me and giving a genuine reason rather than what is usually the case delete and block!I would say i would respect that person more and thank them for their honesty and wish them well!

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

that's women for you lad. you just have to accept it and move on. won't meet because you use the forums. women are confusing creatures at the best of times but that takes the biscuit.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Some peeps like their meets kept discreetly even on fab. With someone active on the forums there's a bigger chance that hints are being dropped about the debauchery having planned or had -which is in most cases rather cringeworthy IMO - or in this case that refusals/decisions are being discussed. You've actually proven her case while you could have phrased the thread in a neutral way.

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By *igerclawsCouple
over a year ago

cork


"Maybe the lady has a valid point!!

She gave you a reason why she wasn't interested in you and then you post your conversation in the forum

Has it not clicked yet?

Just our view But sure the mas is only asking why people block for silly reasons.He isn't exactly running her down."

We agree with you about being blocked we never said he was running the lady down..

We are just saying in a private conversation they had the lady had a reasonable reason why she was not interested in taking it any further next thing you know it is posted in the forum do you not think it was a valid reason ??

As we said this is just our view

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By *igerclawsCouple
over a year ago

cork


"Some peeps like their meets kept discreetly even on fab. With someone active on the forums there's a bigger chance that hints are being dropped about the debauchery having planned or had -which is in most cases rather cringeworthy IMO - or in this case that refusals/decisions are being discussed. You've actually proven her case while you could have phrased the thread in a neutral way. "

Couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some peeps like their meets kept discreetly even on fab. With someone active on the forums there's a bigger chance that hints are being dropped about the debauchery having planned or had -which is in most cases rather cringeworthy IMO - or in this case that refusals/decisions are being discussed. You've actually proven her case while you could have phrased the thread in a neutral way. "

Totally agree.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

we could all make up stupid reasons not to meet people thinking oh they could do this they could do that if we meet. best off just go with the flow and not to be thinking so negatively all the time. there is valid reasons used to not meet people and then there are stupid reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we could all make up stupid reasons not to meet people thinking oh they could do this they could do that if we meet. best off just go with the flow and not to be thinking so negatively all the time. there is valid reasons used to not meet people and then there are stupid reasons. "

People's reasons are presumably valid from their own perspective.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"we could all make up stupid reasons not to meet people thinking oh they could do this they could do that if we meet. best off just go with the flow and not to be thinking so negatively all the time. there is valid reasons used to not meet people and then there are stupid reasons.

People's reasons are presumably valid from their own perspective. "
of course they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we could all make up stupid reasons not to meet people thinking oh they could do this they could do that if we meet. best off just go with the flow and not to be thinking so negatively all the time. there is valid reasons used to not meet people and then there are stupid reasons.

People's reasons are presumably valid from their own perspective. of course they are "

Then why refer to them as stupid? Nobody has to justify their decision to not meet someone, nor do they deserve to be ridiculed on the forum for giving a reason.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Ok so I was chatting to a girl yesterday on this and she came back with sorry won’t be meeting you you’re to active on the forums. Whats that all about? "
she used a silly reason but I'd take it with a pinch of salt. I'd say she had no intention to meet at all

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"we could all make up stupid reasons not to meet people thinking oh they could do this they could do that if we meet. best off just go with the flow and not to be thinking so negatively all the time. there is valid reasons used to not meet people and then there are stupid reasons.

People's reasons are presumably valid from their own perspective. of course they are

Then why refer to them as stupid? Nobody has to justify their decision to not meet someone, nor do they deserve to be ridiculed on the forum for giving a reason. "
if I said I won't meet a person because they eat a particular food? is that valid from my own perspective or is it a stupid reason? the answer is it's a stupid reason hence my response some reasons are understandable but some don't make any sense. it goes back to the most highlighted point on fab, discretion. people, more and more are terrified of been outed and imo if you come online with that mindset you will struggle to meet at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we could all make up stupid reasons not to meet people thinking oh they could do this they could do that if we meet. best off just go with the flow and not to be thinking so negatively all the time. there is valid reasons used to not meet people and then there are stupid reasons.

People's reasons are presumably valid from their own perspective. of course they are

Then why refer to them as stupid? Nobody has to justify their decision to not meet someone, nor do they deserve to be ridiculed on the forum for giving a reason. if I said I won't meet a person because they eat a particular food? is that valid from my own perspective or is it a stupid reason? the answer is it's a stupid reason hence my response some reasons are understandable but some don't make any sense. it goes back to the most highlighted point on fab, discretion. people, more and more are terrified of been outed and imo if you come online with that mindset you will struggle to meet at all "

It's not that difficult to tell who gets the concept of discretion and who doesn't, particularly from forum behaviour.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"we could all make up stupid reasons not to meet people thinking oh they could do this they could do that if we meet. best off just go with the flow and not to be thinking so negatively all the time. there is valid reasons used to not meet people and then there are stupid reasons.

People's reasons are presumably valid from their own perspective. of course they are

Then why refer to them as stupid? Nobody has to justify their decision to not meet someone, nor do they deserve to be ridiculed on the forum for giving a reason. if I said I won't meet a person because they eat a particular food? is that valid from my own perspective or is it a stupid reason? the answer is it's a stupid reason hence my response some reasons are understandable but some don't make any sense. it goes back to the most highlighted point on fab, discretion. people, more and more are terrified of been outed and imo if you come online with that mindset you will struggle to meet at all

It's not that difficult to tell who gets the concept of discretion and who doesn't, particularly from forum behaviour."
I'm discrete. i could say it a million and one times on fab but at the end of the day it means Jack shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the lady has a valid point!!

She gave you a reason why she wasn't interested in you and then you post your conversation in the forum

Has it not clicked yet?

Just our view But sure the mas is only asking why people block for silly reasons.He isn't exactly running her down.

We agree with you about being blocked we never said he was running the lady down..

We are just saying in a private conversation they had the lady had a reasonable reason why she was not interested in taking it any further next thing you know it is posted in the forum do you not think it was a valid reason ??

As we said this is just our view "
What use are the forums if you can't ask a simple question.He mentioned no names so how could anyone but the lady in question know who he is talking about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we could all make up stupid reasons not to meet people thinking oh they could do this they could do that if we meet. best off just go with the flow and not to be thinking so negatively all the time. there is valid reasons used to not meet people and then there are stupid reasons.

People's reasons are presumably valid from their own perspective. of course they are

Then why refer to them as stupid? Nobody has to justify their decision to not meet someone, nor do they deserve to be ridiculed on the forum for giving a reason. if I said I won't meet a person because they eat a particular food? is that valid from my own perspective or is it a stupid reason? the answer is it's a stupid reason hence my response some reasons are understandable but some don't make any sense. it goes back to the most highlighted point on fab, discretion. people, more and more are terrified of been outed and imo if you come online with that mindset you will struggle to meet at all

It's not that difficult to tell who gets the concept of discretion and who doesn't, particularly from forum behaviour.I'm discrete. i could say it a million and one times on fab but at the end of the day it means Jack shit. "

That's right, saying it means Jack shit.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"we could all make up stupid reasons not to meet people thinking oh they could do this they could do that if we meet. best off just go with the flow and not to be thinking so negatively all the time. there is valid reasons used to not meet people and then there are stupid reasons.

People's reasons are presumably valid from their own perspective. of course they are

Then why refer to them as stupid? Nobody has to justify their decision to not meet someone, nor do they deserve to be ridiculed on the forum for giving a reason. if I said I won't meet a person because they eat a particular food? is that valid from my own perspective or is it a stupid reason? the answer is it's a stupid reason hence my response some reasons are understandable but some don't make any sense. it goes back to the most highlighted point on fab, discretion. people, more and more are terrified of been outed and imo if you come online with that mindset you will struggle to meet at all

It's not that difficult to tell who gets the concept of discretion and who doesn't, particularly from forum behaviour.I'm discrete. i could say it a million and one times on fab but at the end of the day it means Jack shit.

That's right, saying it means Jack shit."
there is no 100 % full proof way to know if somebody is what they say they are, discrete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we could all make up stupid reasons not to meet people thinking oh they could do this they could do that if we meet. best off just go with the flow and not to be thinking so negatively all the time. there is valid reasons used to not meet people and then there are stupid reasons.

People's reasons are presumably valid from their own perspective. of course they are

Then why refer to them as stupid? Nobody has to justify their decision to not meet someone, nor do they deserve to be ridiculed on the forum for giving a reason. if I said I won't meet a person because they eat a particular food? is that valid from my own perspective or is it a stupid reason? the answer is it's a stupid reason hence my response some reasons are understandable but some don't make any sense. it goes back to the most highlighted point on fab, discretion. people, more and more are terrified of been outed and imo if you come online with that mindset you will struggle to meet at all

It's not that difficult to tell who gets the concept of discretion and who doesn't, particularly from forum behaviour.I'm discrete. i could say it a million and one times on fab but at the end of the day it means Jack shit.

That's right, saying it means Jack shit.there is no 100 % full proof way to know if somebody is what they say they are, discrete "

Of course not, but observing forum behaviour goes a long way

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By *igerclawsCouple
over a year ago

cork


"Maybe the lady has a valid point!!

She gave you a reason why she wasn't interested in you and then you post your conversation in the forum

Has it not clicked yet?

Just our view But sure the mas is only asking why people block for silly reasons.He isn't exactly running her down.

We agree with you about being blocked we never said he was running the lady down..

We are just saying in a private conversation they had the lady had a reasonable reason why she was not interested in taking it any further next thing you know it is posted in the forum do you not think it was a valid reason ??

As we said this is just our view What use are the forums if you can't ask a simple question.He mentioned no names so how could anyone but the lady in question know who he is talking about."

The point being how quickly the conversation they had is suddenly up for topic hence the ladies reasoning??

This topic could have been posted in numerous different ways but the op decided to bring a private conversation to the forum..

Names have nothing to do with the view we are talking so we really don't understand what you mean

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

op where discretion is against you is your face is on public display for all to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion for people u meet is totally different than if u want to put up your face pic his profile he can put up what he wants

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Discretion for people u meet is totally different than if u want to put up your face pic his profile he can put up what he wants "
again my whole point. people could jump to the conclusion because his face is on display, then he's not discrete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People should not worry what others who have never meet u think of u be true to yourself some will like some will not the great thing about fab u can choose who you talk to and who to avoid

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"People should not worry what others who have never meet u think of u be true to yourself some will like some will not the great thing about fab u can choose who you talk to and who to avoid "
lol that applies In all forms of life. difference here is you don't have that immediate aspect of face to face so could get a very different interpretation of somebody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People should not worry what others who have never meet u think of u be true to yourself some will like some will not the great thing about fab u can choose who you talk to and who to avoid lol that applies In all forms of life. difference here is you don't have that immediate aspect of face to face so could get a very different interpretation of somebody "
:-

Thats why i make an effort to go to m&gs and talk face to face with people i might want to play with in the future

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By *iroma2010Man
over a year ago

Blackrock


"Maybe the lady has a valid point!!

She gave you a reason why she wasn't interested in you and then you post your conversation in the forum

Has it not clicked yet?

Just our view But sure the mas is only asking why people block for silly reasons.He isn't exactly running her down.

We agree with you about being blocked we never said he was running the lady down..

We are just saying in a private conversation they had the lady had a reasonable reason why she was not interested in taking it any further next thing you know it is posted in the forum do you not think it was a valid reason ??

As we said this is just our view What use are the forums if you can't ask a simple question.He mentioned no names so how could anyone but the lady in question know who he is talking about.

The point being how quickly the conversation they had is suddenly up for topic hence the ladies reasoning??

This topic could have been posted in numerous different ways but the op decided to bring a private conversation to the forum..

Names have nothing to do with the view we are talking so we really don't understand what you mean "

%100

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the lady has a valid point!!

She gave you a reason why she wasn't interested in you and then you post your conversation in the forum

Has it not clicked yet?

Just our view But sure the mas is only asking why people block for silly reasons.He isn't exactly running her down.

We agree with you about being blocked we never said he was running the lady down..

We are just saying in a private conversation they had the lady had a reasonable reason why she was not interested in taking it any further next thing you know it is posted in the forum do you not think it was a valid reason ??

As we said this is just our view What use are the forums if you can't ask a simple question.He mentioned no names so how could anyone but the lady in question know who he is talking about.

The point being how quickly the conversation they had is suddenly up for topic hence the ladies reasoning??

This topic could have been posted in numerous different ways but the op decided to bring a private conversation to the forum..

Names have nothing to do with the view we are talking so we really don't understand what you mean "
So what exactly are the forums for if you can't ask a simple question without people taking offence on other people's behalf.

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By *hebossman1 OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Maybe the lady has a valid point!!

She gave you a reason why she wasn't interested in you and then you post your conversation in the forum

Has it not clicked yet?

Just our view But sure the mas is only asking why people block for silly reasons.He isn't exactly running her down.

We agree with you about being blocked we never said he was running the lady down..

We are just saying in a private conversation they had the lady had a reasonable reason why she was not interested in taking it any further next thing you know it is posted in the forum do you not think it was a valid reason ??

As we said this is just our view What use are the forums if you can't ask a simple question.He mentioned no names so how could anyone but the lady in question know who he is talking about.

The point being how quickly the conversation they had is suddenly up for topic hence the ladies reasoning??

This topic could have been posted in numerous different ways but the op decided to bring a private conversation to the forum..

Names have nothing to do with the view we are talking so we really don't understand what you mean So what exactly are the forums for if you can't ask a simple question without people taking offence on other people's behalf."

Some people’s life’s are boring

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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago

north cork


"Maybe the lady has a valid point!!

She gave you a reason why she wasn't interested in you and then you post your conversation in the forum

Has it not clicked yet?

Just our view But sure the mas is only asking why people block for silly reasons.He isn't exactly running her down.

We agree with you about being blocked we never said he was running the lady down..

We are just saying in a private conversation they had the lady had a reasonable reason why she was not interested in taking it any further next thing you know it is posted in the forum do you not think it was a valid reason ??

As we said this is just our view What use are the forums if you can't ask a simple question.He mentioned no names so how could anyone but the lady in question know who he is talking about.

The point being how quickly the conversation they had is suddenly up for topic hence the ladies reasoning??

This topic could have been posted in numerous different ways but the op decided to bring a private conversation to the forum..

Names have nothing to do with the view we are talking so we really don't understand what you mean So what exactly are the forums for if you can't ask a simple question without people taking offence on other people's behalf.

Some people’s life’s are boring "

And here lies your problem.

You!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet again people going off the forum topic and getting personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the lady has a valid point!!

She gave you a reason why she wasn't interested in you and then you post your conversation in the forum

Has it not clicked yet?

Just our view But sure the mas is only asking why people block for silly reasons.He isn't exactly running her down.

We agree with you about being blocked we never said he was running the lady down..

We are just saying in a private conversation they had the lady had a reasonable reason why she was not interested in taking it any further next thing you know it is posted in the forum do you not think it was a valid reason ??

As we said this is just our view What use are the forums if you can't ask a simple question.He mentioned no names so how could anyone but the lady in question know who he is talking about.

The point being how quickly the conversation they had is suddenly up for topic hence the ladies reasoning??

This topic could have been posted in numerous different ways but the op decided to bring a private conversation to the forum..

Names have nothing to do with the view we are talking so we really don't understand what you mean So what exactly are the forums for if you can't ask a simple question without people taking offence on other people's behalf.

Some people’s life’s are boring

And here lies your problem.

You!"
Says the joker to the theif.

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By *igerclawsCouple
over a year ago

cork


"Maybe the lady has a valid point!!

She gave you a reason why she wasn't interested in you and then you post your conversation in the forum

Has it not clicked yet?

Just our view But sure the mas is only asking why people block for silly reasons.He isn't exactly running her down.

We agree with you about being blocked we never said he was running the lady down..

We are just saying in a private conversation they had the lady had a reasonable reason why she was not interested in taking it any further next thing you know it is posted in the forum do you not think it was a valid reason ??

As we said this is just our view What use are the forums if you can't ask a simple question.He mentioned no names so how could anyone but the lady in question know who he is talking about.

The point being how quickly the conversation they had is suddenly up for topic hence the ladies reasoning??

This topic could have been posted in numerous different ways but the op decided to bring a private conversation to the forum..

Names have nothing to do with the view we are talking so we really don't understand what you mean So what exactly are the forums for if you can't ask a simple question without people taking offence on other people's behalf."

Taking offence on other people's behalf !!!!!

We clearly have no idea what you are talking about

How does our view be interpreted as talking offence for what the op has posted in this thread ??

We have clearly stated in posts we have made it was just our view no more no less so if you feel the need to interpret our commentsa as something they are not by all means feel free that's your prerogative it's a free world

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By *pontaneous fun boyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary, Dublin.


"

Maybe the lady has a valid point!!

She gave you a reason why she wasn't interested in you and then you post your conversation in the forum

Has it not clicked yet?

Just our view But sure the mas is only asking why people block for silly reasons.He isn't exactly running her down.

We agree with you about being blocked we never said he was running the lady down..

We are just saying in a private conversation they had the lady had a reasonable reason why she was not interested in taking it any further next thing you know it is posted in the forum do you not think it was a valid reason ??

As we said this is just our view What use are the forums if you can't ask a simple question.He mentioned no names so how could anyone but the lady in question know who he is talking about.

The point being how quickly the conversation they had is suddenly up for topic hence the ladies reasoning??

This topic could have been posted in numerous different ways but the op decided to bring a private conversation to the forum..

Names have nothing to do with the view we are talking so we really don't understand what you mean So what exactly are the forums for if you can't ask a simple question without people taking offence on other people's behalf.

Taking offence on other people's behalf !!!!!

We clearly have no idea what you are talking about

How does our view be interpreted as talking offence for what the op has posted in this thread ??

We have clearly stated in posts we have made it was just our view no more no less so if you feel the need to interpret our commentsa as something they are not by all means feel free that's your prerogative it's a free world "

Just reading tru the comments for the past 20 mins. But all in fairness he should not take it personally that she didn't want to meet him. Get on with life lad.

N all in fairness u obviously don't give a shit about ur own discretion because u have ur own face plastered up. So if u don't care about ur own discretion u probably won't care about anyone else's. And then because u got rejected u take it to heart n put up this. I know he u didn't mention names. But by doing this what else are you capable of doing after the next rejection. U might told to "fuck right off" n then because you got rejected in a mean way ul probably sulk like a child n then name and shame them on a forum thread. Like seriously get over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Maybe the lady has a valid point!!

She gave you a reason why she wasn't interested in you and then you post your conversation in the forum

Has it not clicked yet?

Just our view But sure the mas is only asking why people block for silly reasons.He isn't exactly running her down.

We agree with you about being blocked we never said he was running the lady down..

We are just saying in a private conversation they had the lady had a reasonable reason why she was not interested in taking it any further next thing you know it is posted in the forum do you not think it was a valid reason ??

As we said this is just our view What use are the forums if you can't ask a simple question.He mentioned no names so how could anyone but the lady in question know who he is talking about.

The point being how quickly the conversation they had is suddenly up for topic hence the ladies reasoning??

This topic could have been posted in numerous different ways but the op decided to bring a private conversation to the forum..

Names have nothing to do with the view we are talking so we really don't understand what you mean So what exactly are the forums for if you can't ask a simple question without people taking offence on other people's behalf.

Taking offence on other people's behalf !!!!!

We clearly have no idea what you are talking about

How does our view be interpreted as talking offence for what the op has posted in this thread ??

We have clearly stated in posts we have made it was just our view no more no less so if you feel the need to interpret our commentsa as something they are not by all means feel free that's your prerogative it's a free world

Just reading tru the comments for the past 20 mins. But all in fairness he should not take it personally that she didn't want to meet him. Get on with life lad.

N all in fairness u obviously don't give a shit about ur own discretion because u have ur own face plastered up. So if u don't care about ur own discretion u probably won't care about anyone else's. And then because u got rejected u take it to heart n put up this. I know he u didn't mention names. But by doing this what else are you capable of doing after the next rejection. U might told to "fuck right off" n then because you got rejected in a mean way ul probably sulk like a child n then name and shame them on a forum thread. Like seriously get over it.

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That's a hell of a lot of assumptions.

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By *oinfc188Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Likewise, I probably wouldn't meet someone who was very active on the forums or had public face pics up here. Fairplay to those who do that but I guess we all have different comfortable levels. I wouldn't take it personally though lol.

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By *pontaneous fun boyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary, Dublin.

Ye it is a lot of assumptions but that's opinion from what I gathered from the fact that this thread up on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's new one and haven't clue as women are crazy most time so trying figure out what there thinking is near on impossible

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"That's new one and haven't clue as women are crazy most time so trying figure out what there thinking is near on impossible "
you will never figure out women's reasoning behind something that seems hard to understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's new one and haven't clue as women are crazy most time so trying figure out what there thinking is near on impossible you will never figure out women's reasoning behind something that seems hard to understand "

Things are often only difficult to understand for those who lack empathy.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"That's new one and haven't clue as women are crazy most time so trying figure out what there thinking is near on impossible you will never figure out women's reasoning behind something that seems hard to understand

Things are often only difficult to understand for those who lack empathy."
empathy has nothing to do with some of the reasoning on fab. what fab is, is a place of nervousness, often leading to people been judgemental and thinking "what if" "will they do this or will they do that". i think more and more on here are not meeting with fear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's new one and haven't clue as women are crazy most time so trying figure out what there thinking is near on impossible you will never figure out women's reasoning behind something that seems hard to understand

Things are often only difficult to understand for those who lack empathy.empathy has nothing to do with some of the reasoning on fab. what fab is, is a place of nervousness, often leading to people been judgemental and thinking "what if" "will they do this or will they do that". i think more and more on here are not meeting with fear. "

It's hardly unreasonable to be nervous of anonymous strangers on the internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of us know what goes on in someone's head and whatever a person decides it's their decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's new one and haven't clue as women are crazy most time so trying figure out what there thinking is near on impossible you will never figure out women's reasoning behind something that seems hard to understand

Things are often only difficult to understand for those who lack empathy.empathy has nothing to do with some of the reasoning on fab. what fab is, is a place of nervousness, often leading to people been judgemental and thinking "what if" "will they do this or will they do that". i think more and more on here are not meeting with fear.

It's hardly unreasonable to be nervous of anonymous strangers on the internet. "

We are all cautious as is only right but not to meet out of fear

......well fab would not be right for that person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's new one and haven't clue as women are crazy most time so trying figure out what there thinking is near on impossible you will never figure out women's reasoning behind something that seems hard to understand

Things are often only difficult to understand for those who lack empathy.empathy has nothing to do with some of the reasoning on fab. what fab is, is a place of nervousness, often leading to people been judgemental and thinking "what if" "will they do this or will they do that". i think more and more on here are not meeting with fear.

It's hardly unreasonable to be nervous of anonymous strangers on the internet.

We are all cautious as is only right but not to meet out of fear

......well fab would not be right for that person"

Clearly not, but a level of caution is advisable and hardly deserves to be dismissed so casually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's new one and haven't clue as women are crazy most time so trying figure out what there thinking is near on impossible you will never figure out women's reasoning behind something that seems hard to understand

Things are often only difficult to understand for those who lack empathy.empathy has nothing to do with some of the reasoning on fab. what fab is, is a place of nervousness, often leading to people been judgemental and thinking "what if" "will they do this or will they do that". i think more and more on here are not meeting with fear.

It's hardly unreasonable to be nervous of anonymous strangers on the internet.

We are all cautious as is only right but not to meet out of fear

......well fab would not be right for that person

Clearly not, but a level of caution is advisable and hardly deserves to be dismissed so casually."

I agree, everyone is cautious and I would be as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although when I first joined I didn’t quite know the etiquette of the forum and might have said the wrong thing from time to time

I think it’s a good place to get to know people and them to know you

But it’s also a bit of craic

So I totally disagree with her statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The important thing to realise on Fab is that it doesn't matter the person's reason for not meeting. It could be for the most ridiculous reason such as your favourite colour isn't the same as her's or whatever. People have the right to not meet regardless of the reason.

She has decided she is not going to meet you and that is all you really need to know. Best to focus your energies on other things than on something you have no control over.

There are other women on here who might meet you though and I wish you luck with you that.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"That's new one and haven't clue as women are crazy most time so trying figure out what there thinking is near on impossible you will never figure out women's reasoning behind something that seems hard to understand

Things are often only difficult to understand for those who lack empathy.empathy has nothing to do with some of the reasoning on fab. what fab is, is a place of nervousness, often leading to people been judgemental and thinking "what if" "will they do this or will they do that". i think more and more on here are not meeting with fear.

It's hardly unreasonable to be nervous of anonymous strangers on the internet. "
item of particularly nervous of them. it all stems back to discretion. people are terrified hence not meeting

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"The important thing to realise on Fab is that it doesn't matter the person's reason for not meeting. It could be for the most ridiculous reason such as your favourite colour isn't the same as her's or whatever. People have the right to not meet regardless of the reason.

She has decided she is not going to meet you and that is all you really need to know. Best to focus your energies on other things than on something you have no control over.

There are other women on here who might meet you though and I wish you luck with you that. "
absolutely people have the right to not meet even over the most silliest of things but it doesn't mean the reasoning behind it can't be discussed as a forum topic if somebody wants to. any topic can be discussed

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"That's new one and haven't clue as women are crazy most time so trying figure out what there thinking is near on impossible you will never figure out women's reasoning behind something that seems hard to understand

Things are often only difficult to understand for those who lack empathy.empathy has nothing to do with some of the reasoning on fab. what fab is, is a place of nervousness, often leading to people been judgemental and thinking "what if" "will they do this or will they do that". i think more and more on here are not meeting with fear.

It's hardly unreasonable to be nervous of anonymous strangers on the internet. item of particularly nervous of them. it all stems back to discretion. people are terrified hence not meeting "
it's not instead of item of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The important thing to realise on Fab is that it doesn't matter the person's reason for not meeting. It could be for the most ridiculous reason such as your favourite colour isn't the same as her's or whatever. People have the right to not meet regardless of the reason.

She has decided she is not going to meet you and that is all you really need to know. Best to focus your energies on other things than on something you have no control over.

There are other women on here who might meet you though and I wish you luck with you that. absolutely people have the right to not meet even over the most silliest of things but it doesn't mean the reasoning behind it can't be discussed as a forum topic if somebody wants to. any topic can be discussed "

Yes, of course. People are entitled to discuss whatever they wish on the forums (so long as it doesn't break any Fab rules or regulations) and he's entitled to discuss the reasoning behind it, everybody is entitled to an opinion but was just saying that maybe better to spend time focusing on getting a meet rather than pondering over a meet that didn't transpire.

If this thread helps him in any way though then so be it, that's not a bad thing.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"The important thing to realise on Fab is that it doesn't matter the person's reason for not meeting. It could be for the most ridiculous reason such as your favourite colour isn't the same as her's or whatever. People have the right to not meet regardless of the reason.

She has decided she is not going to meet you and that is all you really need to know. Best to focus your energies on other things than on something you have no control over.

There are other women on here who might meet you though and I wish you luck with you that. absolutely people have the right to not meet even over the most silliest of things but it doesn't mean the reasoning behind it can't be discussed as a forum topic if somebody wants to. any topic can be discussed

Yes, of course. People are entitled to discuss whatever they wish on the forums (so long as it doesn't break any Fab rules or regulations) and he's entitled to discuss the reasoning behind it, everybody is entitled to an opinion but was just saying that maybe better to spend time focusing on getting a meet rather than pondering over a meet that didn't transpire.

If this thread helps him in any way though then so be it, that's not a bad thing."
true but for single men on here find it v hard most times to obtain a meet. I'd imagine it becomes frustrating when actively looking and then when reason for not meeting doesnt make sense to you it probably becomes more frustrating. just have to keep plugging away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We could discuss this until blue in the face but it rarely changes and yes forum is a place to freely discuss

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Tbh I don't understand why peeps even give a reason why they wouldn't meet someone. I never elaborate on the why not. There's absolutely no point to do so and it saves a lot of hassle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh I don't understand why peeps even give a reason why they wouldn't meet someone. I never elaborate on the why not. There's absolutely no point to do so and it saves a lot of hassle. "
true lot guys and some ladies can't take rejection tho very rare a women would get rejected if shes offering sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I was chatting to a girl yesterday on this and she came back with sorry won’t be meeting you you’re to active on the forums. Whats that all about? "

So she wouldn’t meet you because you interact with fellow humans far too much?

Fake profile?

Narcissistic control freak who fears you’ll talk about something other than her?

Possessive?

Consider yourself lucky man. Your well shut.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Jayus there's a cracking lady on here great fun to chat with and after similar as I myself am but she won't meet me as i am attached what ever will i do

Here's what I did I pulled up my big boys pants thanked her for the conversation and asked her not to be a stranger. We chat on and off and have a laugh i am sure if we ever meet at a social we have a drink

U never know when circumstance will change never burn it bridges

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh I don't understand why peeps even give a reason why they wouldn't meet someone. I never elaborate on the why not. There's absolutely no point to do so and it saves a lot of hassle. "

I never get why people ask. Which part of "I have no interest in having sex with you" don't they understand?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

most give a reason. whether it's the truth or not you'll never know

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

most women on here aren't worth the hassle dude wouldn't sweat it to be honest same goes for a shit load of couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people want different things from different people here on fab and others are just plan bullshit"

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

And I'm thinking I'm (not) screwed if that's the attitude. All they have to do is press that little green right arrow and they'll think I'm an automated response machine

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By *twasntme11Woman
over a year ago

dublin

This is the abuse I am getting now from the OP.

(life mst be boring)

what can I say!!!

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