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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

I know this has been covered but I just need to vent!!

I was out with my son's and one of their friends on Saturday. Sitting having coffee when a "male " I met over a year ago came over and said remember me we met off FAB.(We only had coffee. ) To say I was in shock is an understatement. I couldn't even deny him as he said my name. I am very discreet and this side of my life is shared with a very select few. What I want to try get across here is....

If you see someone you've met off any site don't approach them and out them especially if they are with kids. Have some cope on.

Ok ....rant over.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

A very valid rant.

Sorry to hear this happened to you. Hope there isn’t much fallout from it in your real life.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awful thing to happen to anyone..

But you can't fix stupid

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"A very valid rant.

Sorry to hear this happened to you. Hope there isn’t much fallout from it in your real life.

Xx "

Thanks . Nothing much said but my eldest is not stupid and he saw that I was shocked. Some people are just wankers...

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

What a fkn asshole! Maybe because hes single doesnt care who knows he assumes we all are the same! Id have stood up said yes thats my name but u dont know me so fuck off!!!! And just say to ur son ive no idea what that was about! Id have booted him square in the balls! Crazy nutbag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my God what an idiot. No wonder it went no further than coffee. Why do some people get so excited and inappropriate...grrr.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

What an idiotic thing to do! Sorry this happened to you BBD, it's such a shitty thing.

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"What a fkn asshole! Maybe because hes single doesnt care who knows he assumes we all are the same! Id have stood up said yes thats my name but u dont know me so fuck off!!!! And just say to ur son ive no idea what that was about! Id have booted him square in the balls! Crazy nutbag!"

I'm taking you with me next time I go out lol. X

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Oh my God what an idiot. No wonder it went no further than coffee. Why do some people get so excited and inappropriate...grrr."

That's exactly why it was only coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is fucking awful, OP. Xx

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"What an idiotic thing to do! Sorry this happened to you BBD, it's such a shitty thing."

Thanks chick... I didn't think I'd need to tell someone not to mention in public that we met off a sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is purely the reason i dont put a face picture on the site.I have one incase im asked.You just cant take chances with people like this especially after meeting for coffee.Who knows he could have been ticked off that it did not go further.Seriously in need of a kick alright.

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"This is fucking awful, OP. Xx"

Thanks chick. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry that happened....

Then there's the other sort of absolute scum who expose people on PURPOSE.

(I was writing what sort of fate I personally believe should befall such people but it'll get me banned! Suffice to say it's... inventive!)

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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago

north cork

Almost every day i see the female half of a couple off here. Ive met her in parties a few times and spoken in chat a few times. Never once have i been stupid enough to approach her outside of swinging.

A discrete nod and keep going about my business.

Youd want to be fairly thick to approach someone, especially when they're with other people.

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By *angerous Mind 87Man
over a year ago

Dublin 12

..ugh, hope your son isn't old enough to know exactly what it was...It's bad enough if you were on your own, but with children it's not only low but kinda sickening to do...I wonder what he thought he was gonna achieve??..

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Sorry that happened....

Then there's the other sort of absolute scum who expose people on PURPOSE.

(I was writing what sort of fate I personally believe should befall such people but it'll get me banned! Suffice to say it's... inventive!)"

I think "on purpose" are the key words here. Adult site my fat arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear you were put in that situation, A guy I met for a drink on another swinger site came up to me while I was in a date,

He tried to kiss my cheek and kept calling me his fab girl and why didn't I wanna meet, I was shocked heart in my stomach as my date just looked so confused and angry,

Needless to say that date never went anywhere after that.

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Sorry to hear you were put in that situation, A guy I met for a drink on another swinger site came up to me while I was in a date,

He tried to kiss my cheek and kept calling me his fab girl and why didn't I wanna meet, I was shocked heart in my stomach as my date just looked so confused and angry,

Needless to say that date never went anywhere after that. "

It's like a kind of emotional black#ail... they think they have something on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

Ya cant fix stupid...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a prick.id of knocked him clean out

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary


"What a prick.id of knocked him clean out"

Exactely....how did ya manage to be calm about it...

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Exactly in front of your family . You don't ever approach anyone off fab unless they want you to do . Dopey prick .

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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

was it not the case of old friends saying hello OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to hear you were put in that situation, A guy I met for a drink on another swinger site came up to me while I was in a date,

He tried to kiss my cheek and kept calling me his fab girl and why didn't I wanna meet, I was shocked heart in my stomach as my date just looked so confused and angry,

Needless to say that date never went anywhere after that.

It's like a kind of emotional black#ail... they think they have something on you. "

Name the prick on here. Let us all know who the wanker is! Take the ban in the name all all decent fabbers.

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"What a prick.id of knocked him clean out

Exactely....how did ya manage to be calm about it..."

My kids were there. I was trying to keep calm...

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary


"What a prick.id of knocked him clean out

Exactely....how did ya manage to be calm about it...

My kids were there. I was trying to keep calm..."

You could have kept calm...while you had your 2 hands around his neck

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Sorry to hear you were put in that situation, A guy I met for a drink on another swinger site came up to me while I was in a date,

He tried to kiss my cheek and kept calling me his fab girl and why didn't I wanna meet, I was shocked heart in my stomach as my date just looked so confused and angry,

Needless to say that date never went anywhere after that.

It's like a kind of emotional black#ail... they think they have something on you.

Name the prick on here. Let us all know who the wanker is! Take the ban in the name all all decent fabbers. "

He's not on here anymore. Well not under the name I knew him. Otherwise is would be my status on capitals.

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"was it not the case of old friends saying hello OP?"

He's not an old friend. I met him for half an hour for a coffee.

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"What a prick.id of knocked him clean out

Exactely....how did ya manage to be calm about it...

My kids were there. I was trying to keep calm...

You could have kept calm...while you had your 2 hands around his neck"

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a moron thon guy is.

If I'd been you I would have said "Who the fuck are you and how do you know my name?" and no matter how many times he mentioned Fab I'd have told him he's imagining things and has gotten mixed up with someone or something else and to go do one.

I just can't for the life of me understand how anybody could be so stupid or ignorant.

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"What a moron thon guy is.

If I'd been you I would have said "Who the fuck are you and how do you know my name?" and no matter how many times he mentioned Fab I'd have told him he's imagining things and has gotten mixed up with someone or something else and to go do one.

I just can't for the life of me understand how anybody could be so stupid or ignorant.

"

I'll give you a shout next time I'm going out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No amount of banging his head against a wall would fix him but it would be great fun .....dickhead

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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15


"was it not the case of old friends saying hello OP?

He's not an old friend. I met him for half an hour for a coffee. "

now I get you OP

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

cc hotel


"I know this has been covered but I just need to vent!!

I was out with my son's and one of their friends on Saturday. Sitting having coffee when a "male " I met over a year ago came over and said remember me we met off FAB.(We only had coffee. ) To say I was in shock is an understatement. I couldn't even deny him as he said my name. I am very discreet and this side of my life is shared with a very select few. What I want to try get across here is....

If you see someone you've met off any site don't approach them and out them especially if they are with kids. Have some cope on.

Ok ....rant over."

What a complete jerk....not the ounce of sense he was born with complete dipstick.

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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15


"What a prick.id of knocked him clean out

Exactely....how did ya manage to be calm about it...

My kids were there. I was trying to keep calm..."

OP i guess he was an ass hole without cop on

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

Is he still on fab ?

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Is he still on fab ?

"

Nope. Well that I know of.. could be lurking

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"Is he still on fab ?

Nope. Well that I know of.. could be lurking "

Cunt should be named

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my God what an idiot. No wonder it went no further than coffee. Why do some people get so excited and inappropriate...grrr.

That's exactly why it was only coffee. "

He may have outed you because it was only coffe and nothing more. He probably feels he’s getting back at you. What a wanker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is purely the reason i dont put a face picture on the site."

I second that!

Most people, myself included, want to keep their private life private. It's sad some people don't understand/respect that

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Is he still on fab ?

Nope. Well that I know of.. could be lurking

Cunt should be named "

If i knew he was back on here and I knew his profile name , I put it up as my status. I'm not one for tit for tat but involve my kids and you see a different side to me.

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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

Op did he abuse you in anyway, apart from saying Hi

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Op did he abuse you in anyway, apart from saying Hi"

Define abuse. He did enough damage by saying he knew me off FAB. My kids and one of their friend were there. !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have just played it down and said hello back, just to get rid of him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had our fair share of privacy issues on here, it pains me to say it, but it is predominantly with single guys. Most recently something very simalir to your predicament OP. Why our profile is set to hidden at the moment.

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By *ubFunHuntersCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Wtf, how f’Ing thick was that guy. I hope it was that level of intelligence why you only met him for the coffee.

Have some cop on people we all have private lives and for some keep kink and regular private is part of the fun

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"We have had our fair share of privacy issues on here, it pains me to say it, but it is predominantly with single guys. Most recently something very simalir to your predicament OP. Why our profile is set to hidden at the moment. "

Makes you question everyone. Takes the fun out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Makes you question everyone. Takes the fun out of it. "

As if us single guys don't have it hard enough

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


" Makes you question everyone. Takes the fun out of it.

As if us single guys don't have it hard enough "

I'm in no way getting at single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Makes you question everyone. Takes the fun out of it.

As if us single guys don't have it hard enough

I'm in no way getting at single guys. "

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a arsehole.

No mater what if you see someone from here when your out with other people .

Last thing you should do is go out and try and talk and never say the fab word.

I have seen a few and either just nodded or said a hello in passing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He outed you outside of fab then you should out him on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a stupid prick. Even if i seen someone id met from fab on there own never mind with family members id still of said nothing .Maybe a litle smile but in no way would i want to make anyone feel uncomfortable. Sorry this happened to you OP & hope it doesnt put you off in future xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God what a prick....

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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15


"Op did he abuse you in anyway, apart from saying Hi

Define abuse. He did enough damage by saying he knew me off FAB. My kids and one of their friend were there. !!"

I understand now..it's very clear OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a fucking ball bag.

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By *addubMan
over a year ago

dublin. 12

Castration would be to good for a total dickhead

Like that. I know a few people who swing around but I would never approach them in a bar or anywere else for that matter a nod to acknowledge them if they know you that's it. If I meet them in the future I would let them bring it up I'd stay stum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this has been covered but I just need to vent!!

I was out with my son's and one of their friends on Saturday. Sitting having coffee when a "male " I met over a year ago came over and said remember me we met off FAB.(We only had coffee. ) To say I was in shock is an understatement. I couldn't even deny him as he said my name. I am very discreet and this side of my life is shared with a very select few. What I want to try get across here is....

If you see someone you've met off any site don't approach them and out them especially if they are with kids. Have some cope on.

Ok ....rant over."
yeah not cool sounds like he hasn't much common sense to approach you when your with your kids

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By *ralSurpriseMan
over a year ago

Meath

What an arsehole!!

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Yep... that's on the list...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Furious on your behalf!

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

Jaysus Ohhh theres some absolute bell ends about , hopefully you can avoid such pricks in the future

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

With kids present?

What a dickhead!

No understanding of social notes.

Sorry this happened and hope you were able to cover. Haven't read anything above, other than original post.

Shameful behaviour from other!

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

This sickens me. I had a guy I met come over to me in a group of friends once and say I hope you’re not perving on fab cos I had my phone in my hand. Idiots!!!

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"This sickens me. I had a guy I met come over to me in a group of friends once and say I hope you’re not perving on fab cos I had my phone in my hand. Idiots!!!"

Oh the temptation to stand up and smack him must have been immense!

The ability to sit down and play dumb even better

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City


"This sickens me. I had a guy I met come over to me in a group of friends once and say I hope you’re not perving on fab cos I had my phone in my hand. Idiots!!!

Oh the temptation to stand up and smack him must have been immense!

The ability to sit down and play dumb even better "

Haha. Exactly. I just looked at him as if he was an idiot. He ended up walking off embarrassed. But I was just lucky. Could have been worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think maybe mountain out of molehill springs to mind with some of the post's on this thread.

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By *ordjeffMan
over a year ago

around and about ,as travel.

My sentiments there exactly

just a few that spoil it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think maybe mountain out of molehill springs to mind with some of the post's on this thread."
really?

How so?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I'm discrete and I'm single. fam or friends dont know I'm on fab. now I am discrete but I have nothing to hide. I'm on a site to have sex and I'm single. no crime been committed. some people here say "that's why I have no face pic ". would you honestly meet somebody without seen their face first? discretion is liked by most but at the end of the day if your not cheating you realistically have nothing to hide and shouldn't need to worry. us Irish at times can be very taboo when it comes to casual sex. would it bother me if somebody came over to me and said I know you, we met on fab? I wouldn't like it but at the same time I'd get over it. as I said I'm doing nothing wrong and it's not the end of the world

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By *r tayt2Man
over a year ago

Trim


"I'm discrete and I'm single. fam or friends dont know I'm on fab. now I am discrete but I have nothing to hide. I'm on a site to have sex and I'm single. no crime been committed. some people here say "that's why I have no face pic ". would you honestly meet somebody without seen their face first? discretion is liked b

If

y most but at the end of the day if your not cheating you realistically have nothing to hide and shouldn't need to worry. us Irish at times can be very taboo when it comes to casual sex. would it bother me if somebody came over to me and said I know you, we met on fab? I wouldn't like it but at the same time I'd get over it. as I said I'm doing nothing wrong and it's not the end of the world "
seriously if you are out with family I think it's a given

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I'm discrete and I'm single. fam or friends dont know I'm on fab. now I am discrete but I have nothing to hide. I'm on a site to have sex and I'm single. no crime been committed. some people here say "that's why I have no face pic ". would you honestly meet somebody without seen their face first? discretion is liked b

If

y most but at the end of the day if your not cheating you realistically have nothing to hide and shouldn't need to worry. us Irish at times can be very taboo when it comes to casual sex. would it bother me if somebody came over to me and said I know you, we met on fab? I wouldn't like it but at the same time I'd get over it. as I said I'm doing nothing wrong and it's not the end of the world seriously if you are out with family I think it's a given "
I'm not saying it's not and the chap should have more cop on. I'm on about discretion in general

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

A smile or a nod, perfectly acceptable, then you have the choice whether to engage or not. Anything else, no. Having been harassed by a single male in my local swimming pool when he was with his kids, anything else is not acceptable. I often get messages saying saw you in town etc, but they've had the decency not to approach.

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By *imerickboyMan
over a year ago

city

You should tell us all who he was. What an asshole he was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think maybe mountain out of molehill springs to mind with some of the post's on this thread. really?

How so?"
Look we all do things we shouldn't do but on a scale of 1 to 10 not very high Certainly not a castration offence.

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By *ornybarMan
over a year ago

clonmel

What an idiot he is. A nod and maybe a wink is all should be done while in company. Especially with kids around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What an idiot he is. A nod and maybe a wink is all should be done while in company. Especially with kids around. "
Says the guy that has been mailing me on fb wit a fake fb profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What an idiot he is. A nod and maybe a wink is all should be done while in company. Especially with kids around. Says the guy that has been mailing me on fb wit a fake fb profile "

Yikes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think maybe mountain out of molehill springs to mind with some of the post's on this thread. really?

How so? Look we all do things we shouldn't do but on a scale of 1 to 10 not very high Certainly not a castration offence."

I guess that would depend on how much you value your privacy. I imagine the majority would be horrified by something like this happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think maybe mountain out of molehill springs to mind with some of the post's on this thread. really?

How so? Look we all do things we shouldn't do but on a scale of 1 to 10 not very high Certainly not a castration offence.

I guess that would depend on how much you value your privacy. I imagine the majority would be horrified by something like this happening.

"
Well it's a sex site no one forced anyone of us to join.We all know the risks on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it doesnt bother me my family and friends know im here. So guys txting on other social media sites if i dont talk here not goin do on other sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it doesnt bother me my family and friends know im here. So guys txting on other social media sites if i dont talk here not goin do on other sites. "
okay that is proper weird but how did he find you on Facebook would had to know your real name etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it doesnt bother me my family and friends know im here. So guys txting on other social media sites if i dont talk here not goin do on other sites. okay that is proper weird but how did he find you on Facebook would had to know your real name etc "

If you swap phone numbers and your number is registered on facebook a quick search on fb and up you pop.

It happened to us and it was an eye opener.. the couple we met knew everything about us.

As for the dickhead trying to out someone when they were with the kids.. lets just say a good kick in the balls was well deserved..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it doesnt bother me my family and friends know im here. So guys txting on other social media sites if i dont talk here not goin do on other sites. okay that is proper weird but how did he find you on Facebook would had to know your real name etc

If you swap phone numbers and your number is registered on facebook a quick search on fb and up you pop.

It happened to us and it was an eye opener.. the couple we met knew everything about us.

As for the dickhead trying to out someone when they were with the kids.. lets just say a good kick in the balls was well deserved.. "
Jesus that is scary didn't know people can check your Facebook account through your number

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Kind of same thing happened to me in tesco's. Was with my daughter and someone from fab said hello . Of course my daughter asked whos that. Than started following us around the shop. In the end we left cause it wss getting awkward. Tham the numpty mails me saying I only wanted a chat you seemed quite rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What an idiot he is. A nod and maybe a wink is all should be done while in company. Especially with kids around. Says the guy that has been mailing me on fb wit a fake fb profile "

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I've bumped into or seen fabbers that I'd know quite well and I don't approach them if they see me and nod I do the same other than that I ignore them people's personal lives are just that personal the last thing they need is some randomer from the Internet whether you've fucked or not coming up to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ya cant fix stupid... "

You really really can't. How moronic

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Think maybe mountain out of molehill springs to mind with some of the post's on this thread. really?

How so? Look we all do things we shouldn't do but on a scale of 1 to 10 not very high Certainly not a castration offence.

I guess that would depend on how much you value your privacy. I imagine the majority would be horrified by something like this happening.

Well it's a sex site no one forced anyone of us to join.We all know the risks on here."

And then....theres common sense.

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"What an idiot he is. A nod and maybe a wink is all should be done while in company. Especially with kids around. Says the guy that has been mailing me on fb wit a fake fb profile "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a asshole should of knowing better sorry that happen to you

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Sounds like he was in full fab mode thinking with his dick in his hand. Your rant is fully understandable, I'd be fuming too and fire spitting on top of it.

Anyhow look at it from a positive angle, at least he didn't say: hi BigBlondeDomme, remember me, we met of fab, my username was HornySubDick*

*username is fully invented by DH

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Sounds like he was in full fab mode thinking with his dick in his hand. Your rant is fully understandable, I'd be fuming too and fire spitting on top of it.

Anyhow look at it from a positive angle, at least he didn't say: hi BigBlondeDomme, remember me, we met of fab, my username was HornySubDick*

*username is fully invented by DH

"

Now that made me giggle. You should be in charge of profile names.. such talent... love it.

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By *harlie141r42Man
over a year ago

galway


"Oh my God what an idiot. No wonder it went no further than coffee. Why do some people get so excited and inappropriate...grrr.

That's exactly why it was only coffee. "

A moronic single guy who does not care who knows he is on this site, who was pissed off it never went beyond coffee perhaps ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think maybe mountain out of molehill springs to mind with some of the post's on this thread. really?

How so? Look we all do things we shouldn't do but on a scale of 1 to 10 not very high Certainly not a castration offence.

I guess that would depend on how much you value your privacy. I imagine the majority would be horrified by something like this happening.

Well it's a sex site no one forced anyone of us to join.We all know the risks on here.

And then....theres common sense. "

not something everyone has it seems

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By *lba2022Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"What a fkn asshole! Maybe because hes single doesnt care who knows he assumes we all are the same! Id have stood up said yes thats my name but u dont know me so fuck off!!!! And just say to ur son ive no idea what that was about! Id have booted him square in the balls! Crazy nutbag!"

Well said Jessica

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By *lba2022Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"This is purely the reason i dont put a face picture on the site.I have one incase im asked.You just cant take chances with people like this especially after meeting for coffee.Who knows he could have been ticked off that it did not go further.Seriously in need of a kick alright."

More like a brick on his fisk.

Whst a pratt.

BBD we are not all idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this has been covered but I just need to vent!!

I was out with my son's and one of their friends on Saturday. Sitting having coffee when a "male " I met over a year ago came over and said remember me we met off FAB.(We only had coffee. ) To say I was in shock is an understatement. I couldn't even deny him as he said my name. I am very discreet and this side of my life is shared with a very select few. What I want to try get across here is....

If you see someone you've met off any site don't approach them and out them especially if they are with kids. Have some cope on.

Ok ....rant over."

What was he thinking!!! I would go nuts!! Really really stupid thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a prick there is no need to say that on front of your kids that's just pure Bad

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By *ittyMissKittyWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

This absolutely drives me insane. I'm lucky enough to call some fabbers friends and we always have a back story of how we met when introducing to others. But I have been in situations with my own friends and have spotted someone from the site and it's become extremely uncomfortable. From openly staring to trying to chat when there was no way to explain the "friendship". I totally agree with a nod and a smile but as 99 percent of profiles state, discretion is a must. We all have lives and careers outside Fab!

OP I hope this is your last unfortunate encounter... next time grab a tuft of hair and make a voodoo doll!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pure feckin eejit to do that in front of anyone , let alone your kids...He must be one of the finest Gobshites in the history of gobshites.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you


"I know this has been covered but I just need to vent!!

I was out with my son's and one of their friends on Saturday. Sitting having coffee when a "male " I met over a year ago came over and said remember me we met off FAB.(We only had coffee. ) To say I was in shock is an understatement. I couldn't even deny him as he said my name. I am very discreet and this side of my life is shared with a very select few. What I want to try get across here is....

If you see someone you've met off any site don't approach them and out them especially if they are with kids. Have some cope on.

Ok ....rant over."

What an absolute cretin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a prick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell guy's....reading some of the story's on this thread has me thinking do we want to reach out to single guy's after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg, what a dickhead. Talk about being totally indiscrete. My sympathies. Hope it hasn't done too much harm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an idiot report him and get Fab to remove him off the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry that happened....

Then there's the other sort of absolute scum who expose people on PURPOSE.

(I was writing what sort of fate I personally believe should befall such people but it'll get me banned! Suffice to say it's... inventive!)

I think "on purpose" are the key words here. Adult site my fat arse. "

Sad but true, isn’t the first and no doubt it won’t be the last. There are some vindictive nasty people about who choose to take no control over their reactions in relation to others. Deliberate upheaval to another humans everyday life, is unforgivable. But ignorance is not an excuse either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this has been covered but I just need to vent!!

I was out with my son's and one of their friends on Saturday. Sitting having coffee when a "male " I met over a year ago came over and said remember me we met off FAB.(We only had coffee. ) To say I was in shock is an understatement. I couldn't even deny him as he said my name. I am very discreet and this side of my life is shared with a very select few. What I want to try get across here is....

If you see someone you've met off any site don't approach them and out them especially if they are with kids. Have some cope on.

Ok ....rant over."

He broke the Golden Rule about FAB You do NOT talk about FAB. I do not acknowledge anyone I know from clubs outside of FAB or clubs, nor do I respond to anyone who identifies me. I hope he is no longer on FAB!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disgraceful behaviour.

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

I just wanted to add something to the thread.

This is not about single guys. It concerns everyone. Anyone could have done this. Male, female, single or attached. Use your common sense.

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary


"I just wanted to add something to the thread.

This is not about single guys. It concerns everyone. Anyone could have done this. Male, female, single or attached. Use your common sense. "

Common sense is a lot like deodorant...those that need it the most...dont use it

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"I just wanted to add something to the thread.

This is not about single guys. It concerns everyone. Anyone could have done this. Male, female, single or attached. Use your common sense.

Common sense is a lot like deodorant...those that need it the most...dont use it "

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By *hubbydub21Woman
over a year ago

dublin


"I know this has been covered but I just need to vent!!

I was out with my son's and one of their friends on Saturday. Sitting having coffee when a "male " I met over a year ago came over and said remember me we met off FAB.(We only had coffee. ) To say I was in shock is an understatement. I couldn't even deny him as he said my name. I am very discreet and this side of my life is shared with a very select few. What I want to try get across here is....

If you see someone you've met off any site don't approach them and out them especially if they are with kids. Have some cope on.

Ok ....rant over."
that is an absolute disgrace the fuckin neck of him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this has been covered but I just need to vent!!

I was out with my son's and one of their friends on Saturday. Sitting having coffee when a "male " I met over a year ago came over and said remember me we met off FAB.(We only had coffee. ) To say I was in shock is an understatement. I couldn't even deny him as he said my name. I am very discreet and this side of my life is shared with a very select few. What I want to try get across here is....

If you see someone you've met off any site don't approach them and out them especially if they are with kids. Have some cope on.

Ok ....rant over."

Ballbag springs to mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear that

That's absolutely terrible

What an ass whole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wanted to add something to the thread.

This is not about single guys. It concerns everyone. Anyone could have done this. Male, female, single or attached. Use your common sense. "

Makes u wonder how many have common sense or social cop on. Sorry to hear what happened. Xx

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By *andsomeman100Man
over a year ago

Ah sure now...

Gobshite.

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Gobshite."

Me or him.

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"I just wanted to add something to the thread.

This is not about single guys. It concerns everyone. Anyone could have done this. Male, female, single or attached. Use your common sense.

Makes u wonder how many have common sense or social cop on. Sorry to hear what happened. Xx"

There's always a few

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"So sorry to hear that

That's absolutely terrible

What an ass whole"

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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15


"Gobshite.

Me or him. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So sorry to hear that

That's absolutely terrible

What an ass whole"

Aahh "ass whole": I see what you did there. Excellent.??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly this happened to us last night and is around the place I used to work. It's a sad state and gives dare I say it the single men a bad name. The scene is that a scene full of fun and socialising. If people don't get it then why don't they stick to POF or tinder. Sorry rant over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disgraceful that should never happen to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly this happened to us last night and is around the place I used to work. It's a sad state and gives dare I say it the single men a bad name. The scene is that a scene full of fun and socialising. If people don't get it then why don't they stick to POF or tinder. Sorry rant over. "
Thats guys thinking with their dicks and not their brain....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Disgraceful that should never happen to anyone "
no it shouldn't

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By *iiboyMan
over a year ago

Tankardstown


"I know this has been covered but I just need to vent!!

I was out with my son's and one of their friends on Saturday. Sitting having coffee when a "male " I met over a year ago came over and said remember me we met off FAB.(We only had coffee. ) To say I was in shock is an understatement. I couldn't even deny him as he said my name. I am very discreet and this side of my life is shared with a very select few. What I want to try get across here is....

If you see someone you've met off any site don't approach them and out them especially if they are with kids. Have some cope on.

Ok ....rant over."

Some people just have nothing but space between the ears , il bet he was surprised when you didnt fall at his feet grrrrrr ther are some muppets out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunatly a common enough occurance ... & it alweays seems to be women getting "outed"... i know of a guy going to the womans work place... i have a friend that was recognised by her college lecturer ... he approached her explaining he could help with her college work, & as a mature student make sure she got her degree ... it initially rattled her .. needless to say she turned the tables on him ... but being outed in a supermarket or shop its difficult to think fast or quick...

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

Hard to believe this actually happened. Some guys are either cruel/immature or just buck stupid.

Feel really sorry for you. Feckin awful

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I was harassed in a public swimming pool once, I was on my own he was with his kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, after looking at your pics, if I saw you in a public swimming pool Id want to perform mouth to mouth and more??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just been indirectly threatened on kik by a guy from fab.

Seriously what is wrong with people?

This is the message. Am i wromg is it a indirect threat.

"Yea and u can only take my word your pics wont end up in wrong place"

I replied "true"

Reply i got was

"Be terror if ended up in sons messages"

I am actually sick with worry now. This guy doesnt think he has done anyhing wrong.

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Sadly this happened to us last night and is around the place I used to work. It's a sad state and gives dare I say it the single men a bad name. The scene is that a scene full of fun and socialising. If people don't get it then why don't they stick to POF or tinder. Sorry rant over. "

Scary and annoying when it happens, but I now think they do it for a cheap thrill and attention.. sorry this happened you.

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"I was harassed in a public swimming pool once, I was on my own he was with his kids "

What a twat.... imagine doing that, but with "his" kids there ...

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Just been indirectly threatened on kik by a guy from fab.

Seriously what is wrong with people?

This is the message. Am i wromg is it a indirect threat.

"Yea and u can only take my word your pics wont end up in wrong place"

I replied "true"

Reply i got was

"Be terror if ended up in sons messages"

I am actually sick with worry now. This guy doesnt think he has done anyhing wrong.

"

I hope you're ok. Pm me if you want. X

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By *organosMan
over a year ago

city centre

I agree totally inappropriate discretion is a key word here and what happens stays where it should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been indirectly threatened on kik by a guy from fab.

Seriously what is wrong with people?

This is the message. Am i wromg is it a indirect threat.

"Yea and u can only take my word your pics wont end up in wrong place"

I replied "true"

Reply i got was

"Be terror if ended up in sons messages"

I am actually sick with worry now. This guy doesnt think he has done anyhing wrong.

I hope you're ok. Pm me if you want. X"

Im actually not ok. So im going to delete my profile on here and on kik. I will sit my son down and tell him what has happened just in case he gets a message. Thank god we have a very good

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Just been indirectly threatened on kik by a guy from fab.

Seriously what is wrong with people?

This is the message. Am i wromg is it a indirect threat.

"Yea and u can only take my word your pics wont end up in wrong place"

I replied "true"

Reply i got was

"Be terror if ended up in sons messages"

I am actually sick with worry now. This guy doesnt think he has done anyhing wrong.

I hope you're ok. Pm me if you want. X

Im actually not ok. So im going to delete my profile on here and on kik. I will sit my son down and tell him what has happened just in case he gets a message. Thank god we have a very good "

I'm so sorry you feel like this.. but dont do something you'll regret. That piece of pond scum is not worth it. They are usually full of bull shit... xx

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Btw.... what he's done is a threat. Tell him you're going to report him to the Gardai.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Btw.... what he's done is a threat. Tell him you're going to report him to the Gardai. "

He is a garda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been indirectly threatened on kik by a guy from fab.

Seriously what is wrong with people?

This is the message. Am i wromg is it a indirect threat.

"Yea and u can only take my word your pics wont end up in wrong place"

I replied "true"

Reply i got was

"Be terror if ended up in sons messages"

I am actually sick with worry now. This guy doesnt think he has done anyhing wrong.

I hope you're ok. Pm me if you want. X

Im actually not ok. So im going to delete my profile on here and on kik. I will sit my son down and tell him what has happened just in case he gets a message. Thank god we have a very good

I'm so sorry you feel like this.. but dont do something you'll regret. That piece of pond scum is not worth it. They are usually full of bull shit... xx"

Personally I’d hide the profile here (done already). Take screen grabs of what was said on Kik. Don’t delete Kik. Doing so leaves you forever wondering did the guy try to make amends and retract the warning. Don’t have that talk with your son until you have no choice. If the talk needs to be done don’t name any site. Refer to it as a dating site. No point fanning the flames. It’s worrying times but if nothing happens in the next 24hours I don’t think anything will. If you are compelled to delete then I’d name the fab and Kik accounts.

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Btw.... what he's done is a threat. Tell him you're going to report him to the Gardai.

He is a garda"

Makes no difference.... not all are the same. "Veracity" gave some good advice there. Most of these men are bullies all mouth. That's how they get their kicks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Btw.... what he's done is a threat. Tell him you're going to report him to the Gardai.

He is a garda

Makes no difference.... not all are the same. "Veracity" gave some good advice there. Most of these men are bullies all mouth. That's how they get their kicks... "

Tried to pm you but cant

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Btw.... what he's done is a threat. Tell him you're going to report him to the Gardai.

He is a garda

Makes no difference.... not all are the same. "Veracity" gave some good advice there. Most of these men are bullies all mouth. That's how they get their kicks...

Tried to pm you but cant"

Don't know why you can't..

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

[Removed by poster at 17/06/18 12:53:49]

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

This is why we never meet local! All it takes is for some idiot to start a few Chinese whispers then next thing you know, your kids hear them and it'll mess with their head.

Some men can be right assholes. Even our profile states don't msg us but every day we have to delete at least 30msgs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why we never meet local! All it takes is for some idiot to start a few Chinese whispers then next thing you know, your kids hear them and it'll mess with their head.

Some men can be right assholes. Even our profile states don't msg us but every day we have to delete at least 30msgs. "

He not local but we have chatted for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im going to post his profile name and kik on here but the post will be deleted quick enough. It will prob only poke the hornets nest more but think its extremely unfair and nasty to make threats on here. At end of day we are here to have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Btw.... what he's done is a threat. Tell him you're going to report him to the Gardai.

He is a garda"

I had a similar experience a few years ago , he is a bully, guy happened to know a very close personnel friend of mine . I told her , and then told him to knock him self out nothing he could tell her she didn’t already know .

He did threaten you , passive but still a threat .

As it’s your son I wouldn’t suggest the same approach.

Tell him you will go to the Gardai if he makes good on his threat or threatens you again .

It does not matter what he does for a living.

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Im going to post his profile name and kik on here but the post will be deleted quick enough. It will prob only poke the hornets nest more but think its extremely unfair and nasty to make threats on here. At end of day we are here to have fun."

I hate when the bad guy wins.. if you post it , it will be taken down fairly quickly... STAY dont let him win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Btw.... what he's done is a threat. Tell him you're going to report him to the Gardai.

He is a garda"

Oh bunny, that's just shit. I'm not sure what age your son is, but if he's old enough, I completely agree with you telling him. As veracity said above me, nothing specific, not the site name or your profile name. Tell him you're on 'a' site and someone has threatened to out you. It gives you back the power and once that was knows he has nothing over you, he's fucked. Preferably up the arse with a steel brush.

Keep a screenshot of all messages. You never know when you'll need them. And personally, I wouldn't delete, you've done nothing wrong, you have every right to be here. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Btw.... what he's done is a threat. Tell him you're going to report him to the Gardai.

He is a garda

Oh bunny, that's just shit. I'm not sure what age your son is, but if he's old enough, I completely agree with you telling him. As veracity said above me, nothing specific, not the site name or your profile name. Tell him you're on 'a' site and someone has threatened to out you. It gives you back the power and once that was knows he has nothing over you, he's fucked. Preferably up the arse with a steel brush.

Keep a screenshot of all messages. You never know when you'll need them. And personally, I wouldn't delete, you've done nothing wrong, you have every right to be here. Xx"

Thanks sally have screenshotted all. And my son is an adult so i will chat to him. Xx

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.


"This is why we never meet local! All it takes is for some idiot to start a few Chinese whispers then next thing you know, your kids hear them and it'll mess with their head.

Some men can be right assholes. Even our profile states don't msg us but every day we have to delete at least 30msgs.

He not local but we have chatted for a while."

Be creative in future so any of your pics are recognizable. For him to be a gardi, he will know to stop once you say you'll take it further or he could lose his job.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Btw.... what he's done is a threat. Tell him you're going to report him to the Gardai.

He is a garda"

He has more to lose then.....go to his work place and report him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Btw.... what he's done is a threat. Tell him you're going to report him to the Gardai.

He is a garda

Oh bunny, that's just shit. I'm not sure what age your son is, but if he's old enough, I completely agree with you telling him. As veracity said above me, nothing specific, not the site name or your profile name. Tell him you're on 'a' site and someone has threatened to out you. It gives you back the power and once that was knows he has nothing over you, he's fucked. Preferably up the arse with a steel brush.

Keep a screenshot of all messages. You never know when you'll need them. And personally, I wouldn't delete, you've done nothing wrong, you have every right to be here. Xx

Thanks sally have screenshotted all. And my son is an adult so i will chat to him. Xx"

Now give that bully a taste of his own medicine Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been indirectly threatened on kik by a guy from fab.

Seriously what is wrong with people?

This is the message. Am i wromg is it a indirect threat.

"Yea and u can only take my word your pics wont end up in wrong place"

I replied "true"

Reply i got was

"Be terror if ended up in sons messages"

I am actually sick with worry now. This guy doesnt think he has done anyhing wrong.

I hope you're ok. Pm me if you want. X

Im actually not ok. So im going to delete my profile on here and on kik. I will sit my son down and tell him what has happened just in case he gets a message. Thank god we have a very good

I'm so sorry you feel like this.. but dont do something you'll regret. That piece of pond scum is not worth it. They are usually full of bull shit... xx

Personally I’d hide the profile here (done already). Take screen grabs of what was said on Kik. Don’t delete Kik. Doing so leaves you forever wondering did the guy try to make amends and retract the warning. Don’t have that talk with your son until you have no choice. If the talk needs to be done don’t name any site. Refer to it as a dating site. No point fanning the flames. It’s worrying times but if nothing happens in the next 24hours I don’t think anything will. If you are compelled to delete then I’d name the fab and Kik accounts. "

Veracity advice is sound, hold for 24hrs ... as for being a Garda, there are good & bad in all walks of life ... currently a trainee garda is suspended pending investigation about a porno he did while still a civilian ... if threatened by a garda go to GSOC, although prob preferable to go via your solicitor, there is nothing you are dkibg that is illegal ... however a verbal threat & by a serving guard would not be looked kindly on ... there are garda on the site & some may be happy to advise you on a course of action ... & possibly arrange someone has a quiet word in his ear

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Btw.... what he's done is a threat. Tell him you're going to report him to the Gardai.

He is a garda

Oh bunny, that's just shit. I'm not sure what age your son is, but if he's old enough, I completely agree with you telling him. As veracity said above me, nothing specific, not the site name or your profile name. Tell him you're on 'a' site and someone has threatened to out you. It gives you back the power and once that was knows he has nothing over you, he's fucked. Preferably up the arse with a steel brush.

Keep a screenshot of all messages. You never know when you'll need them. And personally, I wouldn't delete, you've done nothing wrong, you have every right to be here. Xx

Thanks sally have screenshotted all. And my son is an adult so i will chat to him. Xx

Now give that bully a taste of his own medicine Xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to leave Fab a few years ago because three ladies from Fab started spreading rumours about me for no other reason except I was friends in life with a girl who they had a problem with. Because I stood up to their bullshit, they outed me to anyone on Fab that would listen to them. Gave out details of where I lived, where I worked and my private mobile and work mobile number. I received a report on my work record and was suspended for two days without pay and it affected my first promotion as I was past over because of what happened. Some people just go a bit psycho on things and can’t just leave it and others just like to help them along with gossip and blabbering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mz bunny as promised has left the building

This shite should not be happening on any site

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"I had to leave Fab a few years ago because three ladies from Fab started spreading rumours about me for no other reason except I was friends in life with a girl who they had a problem with. Because I stood up to their bullshit, they outed me to anyone on Fab that would listen to them. Gave out details of where I lived, where I worked and my private mobile and work mobile number. I received a report on my work record and was suspended for two days without pay and it affected my first promotion as I was past over because of what happened. Some people just go a bit psycho on things and can’t just leave it and others just like to help them along with gossip and blabbering. "

That's awful. But I'm curious to know what grounds they had to suspend you?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had to leave Fab a few years ago because three ladies from Fab started spreading rumours about me for no other reason except I was friends in life with a girl who they had a problem with. Because I stood up to their bullshit, they outed me to anyone on Fab that would listen to them. Gave out details of where I lived, where I worked and my private mobile and work mobile number. I received a report on my work record and was suspended for two days without pay and it affected my first promotion as I was past over because of what happened. Some people just go a bit psycho on things and can’t just leave it and others just like to help them along with gossip and blabbering. "

My experience on another was similar ... a friend the ladies felt was too popular they started rumours about ... we both stood up to them but they turned other against us ... & as 1 of the ladied was a site moderator & party planner the other mods also sided with her ... we left ... our true site friends stayed friends ... the rest like Facebook friends ... straws in the wind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had to leave Fab a few years ago because three ladies from Fab started spreading rumours about me for no other reason except I was friends in life with a girl who they had a problem with. Because I stood up to their bullshit, they outed me to anyone on Fab that would listen to them. Gave out details of where I lived, where I worked and my private mobile and work mobile number. I received a report on my work record and was suspended for two days without pay and it affected my first promotion as I was past over because of what happened. Some people just go a bit psycho on things and can’t just leave it and others just like to help them along with gossip and blabbering.

That's awful. But I'm curious to know what grounds they had to suspend you?. "

Bringing my profession into disrepute and also for allowing certain work communication into the public arena, notably my work mobile number. A two day suspension was actually me getting off lightly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could someone pm me if they know who the garda is? Was chatting to one before

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By *verready32Man
over a year ago

omagh


"I know this has been covered but I just need to vent!!

I was out with my son's and one of their friends on Saturday. Sitting having coffee when a "male " I met over a year ago came over and said remember me we met off FAB.(We only had coffee. ) To say I was in shock is an understatement. I couldn't even deny him as he said my name. I am very discreet and this side of my life is shared with a very select few. What I want to try get across here is....

If you see someone you've met off any site don't approach them and out them especially if they are with kids. Have some cope on.

Ok ....rant over."

I couldn't agree more, that was an awful position he put you in. And like you say even worse when you had your children with you

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"I had to leave Fab a few years ago because three ladies from Fab started spreading rumours about me for no other reason except I was friends in life with a girl who they had a problem with. Because I stood up to their bullshit, they outed me to anyone on Fab that would listen to them. Gave out details of where I lived, where I worked and my private mobile and work mobile number. I received a report on my work record and was suspended for two days without pay and it affected my first promotion as I was past over because of what happened. Some people just go a bit psycho on things and can’t just leave it and others just like to help them along with gossip and blabbering.

That's awful. But I'm curious to know what grounds they had to suspend you?.

Bringing my profession into disrepute and also for allowing certain work communication into the public arena, notably my work mobile number. A two day suspension was actually me getting off lightly. "

Low life's....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard of similar stuff happening before, people being badmouthed to others because of who they've met or other petty stuff. It's ridiculous behaviour anywhere, and the last few posts have clearly shown it can happen to anyone and by anyone, male or female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a 2nd phone for Fab & never use work Pc, tablet or phone to check up on the site ... keep work & play seperate

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By *lue TopazWoman
over a year ago

dublin

We were on hols in Gran Canaria in May with our family. While having a drink at the pool one of the waitresses said she recognised us from La Mirage. Thankfully she said name in spanish. Could have been awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy's profile is now gone.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Just been indirectly threatened on kik by a guy from fab.

Seriously what is wrong with people?

This is the message. Am i wromg is it a indirect threat.

"Yea and u can only take my word your pics wont end up in wrong place"

I replied "true"

Reply i got was

"Be terror if ended up in sons messages"

I am actually sick with worry now. This guy doesnt think he has done anyhing wrong.

"

This why I don't take things off fab.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I was harassed in a public swimming pool once, I was on my own he was with his kids

What a twat.... imagine doing that, but with "his" kids there ... "

I know, that's what shocked me.

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By *igBlondeDomme OP   Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"The guy's profile is now gone.

"

I hope she named him.. I didn't see it.

Hope she's doin ok.

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