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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So you find a nice alluring profile. Seems to hit all the right angles. Bubbly. Witty. Intelligent. The right level of kink. Then....toward the end...the dreaded “face photos or no reply” which screams “I’m shallow and really don’t give a fiddlers about your privacy”. So close and yet so far.

Am I alone in my dislike?

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

You're on Fab... youre NEVER alone.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"So you find a nice alluring profile. Seems to hit all the right angles. Bubbly. Witty. Intelligent. The right level of kink. Then....toward the end...the dreaded “face photos or no reply” which screams “I’m shallow and really don’t give a fiddlers about your privacy”. So close and yet so far.

Am I alone in my dislike? "

Life's a bitch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're on Fab... youre NEVER alone. "

Is being on fab like being schizophrenic?

Roses are red.

Violets are blue.

I’m a schizophrenic.

And so am I.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Ah sure don't be so difficult. what's the big deal of sending a head shot of your willy in the first message?

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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid


"So you find a nice alluring profile. Seems to hit all the right angles. Bubbly. Witty. Intelligent. The right level of kink. Then....toward the end...the dreaded “face photos or no reply” which screams “I’m shallow and really don’t give a fiddlers about your privacy”. So close and yet so far.

Am I alone in my dislike?

Life's a bitch "

Naw, life sucks and the you might marry one who doesn’t

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah sure don't be so difficult. what's the big deal of sending a head shot of your willy in the first message? "

Panoramaroonie photo on its Mrs Hunter.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"So you find a nice alluring profile. Seems to hit all the right angles. Bubbly. Witty. Intelligent. The right level of kink. Then....toward the end...the dreaded “face photos or no reply” which screams “I’m shallow and really don’t give a fiddlers about your privacy”. So close and yet so far.

Am I alone in my dislike?

Life's a bitch

Naw, life sucks and the you might marry one who doesn’t "

That's a right bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you find a nice alluring profile. Seems to hit all the right angles. Bubbly. Witty. Intelligent. The right level of kink. Then....toward the end...the dreaded “face photos or no reply” which screams “I’m shallow and really don’t give a fiddlers about your privacy”. So close and yet so far.

Am I alone in my dislike? "

We don't ask for face pics on our profile, but we are going to definitely want to see one before we meet. What is so shallow about finding the person you want to play with attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you find a nice alluring profile. Seems to hit all the right angles. Bubbly. Witty. Intelligent. The right level of kink. Then....toward the end...the dreaded “face photos or no reply” which screams “I’m shallow and really don’t give a fiddlers about your privacy”. So close and yet so far.

Am I alone in my dislike?

We don't ask for face pics on our profile, but we are going to definitely want to see one before we meet. What is so shallow about finding the person you want to play with attractive? "

I think it's more so that she wants a face pic straight away. Before chats even happen. If it were me I wouldn't send a face pic right away without chatting first. If arranging to meet then a face pic is a must

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun


"Ah sure don't be so difficult. what's the big deal of sending a head shot of your willy in the first message? "

Well I usually find drawing a smiley face on himself is a good icebreaker. They either laugh and have a nice chat or they block you.

Nothing risked, nothing gained

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Someone has just said he does not send photos but, wants to meet. I say jog on

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

With a few meets under your belt you get to develop an abundance mentality that yes, there's more than enough fun for everyone here if you're friendly and sociable to other Fabbers

There is the dreaded pic swap for some and yes, it's not nice when there's crickets & tumbles after a pic is sent... but at least you realise they're not going to tag you along or waste more of your time...

Best thing to do is shout out "NEXT!" and move on!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone has just said he does not send photos but, wants to meet. I say jog on"

Wasn’t me was it?

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By *angerous Mind 87Man
over a year ago

Dublin 12

In fairness, I think it makes sense. I have a face pic on my public profile, and if I didn't I'd send it in the first message...No point in chatting for days, arranging a meet and then finding out you're not attracted to them...

Although I do find alot of women expect face pics but aren't keen on sending themselves, which annoys me..

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By *iroma2010Man
over a year ago

Blackrock


"So you find a nice alluring profile. Seems to hit all the right angles. Bubbly. Witty. Intelligent. The right level of kink. Then....toward the end...the dreaded “face photos or no reply” which screams “I’m shallow and really don’t give a fiddlers about your privacy”. So close and yet so far.

Am I alone in my dislike?

We don't ask for face pics on our profile, but we are going to definitely want to see one before we meet. What is so shallow about finding the person you want to play with attractive?

I think it's more so that she wants a face pic straight away. Before chats even happen. If it were me I wouldn't send a face pic right away without chatting first. If arranging to meet then a face pic is a must "

That is the problem, they want a face pic which I don't mind giving on the first message, however, they don't even have a face pic on their profile either.

I thought if we message and you wanna see then ask and I will be happy to send it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you find a nice alluring profile. Seems to hit all the right angles. Bubbly. Witty. Intelligent. The right level of kink. Then....toward the end...the dreaded “face photos or no reply” which screams “I’m shallow and really don’t give a fiddlers about your privacy”. So close and yet so far.

Am I alone in my dislike?

We don't ask for face pics on our profile, but we are going to definitely want to see one before we meet. What is so shallow about finding the person you want to play with attractive?

I think it's more so that she wants a face pic straight away. Before chats even happen. If it were me I wouldn't send a face pic right away without chatting first. If arranging to meet then a face pic is a must

That is the problem, they want a face pic which I don't mind giving on the first message, however, they don't even have a face pic on their profile either.

I thought if we message and you wanna see then ask and I will be happy to send it"

I’ve no issue taking that first tentative step but not when face photos are demanded by an account that has zero photos. Public or otherwise. I’m sorry but you want me to give up my privacy to bow to your shallow, image dependent self? Never going to happen.

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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

One gets all gets too used to rejection on fab...it's just the way it is,unlike the real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With a few meets under your belt you get to develop an abundance mentality that yes, there's more than enough fun for everyone here if you're friendly and sociable to other Fabbers

There is the dreaded pic swap for some and yes, it's not nice when there's crickets & tumbles after a pic is sent... but at least you realise they're not going to tag you along or waste more of your time...

Best thing to do is shout out "NEXT!" and move on!! "

I agree. For me looks are not as important as personality but I ask for a face pic early on in the chat. If the face pic shows someone I will never be attracted then no point in wasting each others time if it will go no where!

I always sent my pic in return so the same applies both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you find a nice alluring profile. Seems to hit all the right angles. Bubbly. Witty. Intelligent. The right level of kink. Then....toward the end...the dreaded “face photos or no reply” which screams “I’m shallow and really don’t give a fiddlers about your privacy”. So close and yet so far.

Am I alone in my dislike? "

I don't see the issue if the profile seems genuine and is verified. If someone simply isn't attracted to you aesthetically just accept it, no amount of humour and personality will make them sleep with you on a sex site! They're not looking a life partner where they may compromise on some things. I would however expect a face pic in return. It's the law of the jungle lad, guys outnumber women on here and if you don't want to send your pic someone else will.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

If someone asks for a face pic they should have theirs attached.

But if in the course of conversation someone sends theirs, I’m not obligated to return mine.

I’m not keen on giving my face pic to unverified, on 5 mins kinda profiles for various reasons.

I would never expect or demand a face pic on first contact, but definitely need to see one before a social meet, how else willl I know who to look for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone asks for a face pic they should have theirs attached.

But if in the course of conversation someone sends theirs, I’m not obligated to return mine.

I’m not keen on giving my face pic to unverified, on 5 mins kinda profiles for various reasons.

I would never expect or demand a face pic on first contact, but definitely need to see one before a social meet, how else willl I know who to look for? "

I had this problem once walked up to the wrong person in fairness saw a face pic but we didn't meet until a long time later

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

Shallow? What a load of bull. Hiring you for a job or asking your opinion I’ll not give a fig what you look like.

Interested in fucking? Yeah, I’m going to want to see you because if I don’t find you attractive we won’t be fucking.

I have the love of my life, my best friend and companion and we add to our fun by fucking people that will in no other way impact our lives.

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By *imeoutaloneMan
over a year ago

Dublin to Westmeath


"Ah sure don't be so difficult. what's the big deal of sending a head shot of your willy in the first message? "

I've got a picture of my cock and face in the same shot so I'll send em that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shallow? What a load of bull. Hiring you for a job or asking your opinion I’ll not give a fig what you look like.

Interested in fucking? Yeah, I’m going to want to see you because if I don’t find you attractive we won’t be fucking.

I have the love of my life, my best friend and companion and we add to our fun by fucking people that will in no other way impact our lives."

I respect your views. Shallow is my opinion. I’d rather spend my free time around people that stimulate more than my sexuality. Everyone has sexual organs. All interconnect. Fewer personalities click. Everyone’s approach to life on here is different.

My original post referred to a message I got demanding a face photo from a female profile, well verified, very little text and no photos. Now that’s a shallow person you must admit.

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By *hortfuseWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Someone has just said he does not send photos but, wants to meet. I say jog on"

I've been told a couple of times by individuals they don't share face pics usually followed by it's because of my job/discretion etc etc excuses.

It's not blind date!

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"So you find a nice alluring profile. Seems to hit all the right angles. Bubbly. Witty. Intelligent. The right level of kink. Then....toward the end...the dreaded “face photos or no reply” which screams “I’m shallow and really don’t give a fiddlers about your privacy”. So close and yet so far.

Am I alone in my dislike?

We don't ask for face pics on our profile, but we are going to definitely want to see one before we meet. What is so shallow about finding the person you want to play with attractive? "

Exactly

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Imagine that, wanting to be attracted to someone you get physical with. So shallow

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Imagine that, wanting to be attracted to someone you get physical with. So shallow "

Isn't it just? You should just want to bump uglies regardless

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