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Meant no offense by on friending

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By *lurrynfee OP   Couple
over a year ago

donegal

would you be offended if you were on-friended by some one u dont keep in touch with ???

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By *ony8054Man
over a year ago

Cork

I don't know what that means but being un-friended sucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here? Nope.

Social media? Nope.

Real life? Nope.

I am who I am. Take it or leave it. If someone is in my life, great. If they leave? Great. Would I get upset? Nope. It’s life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done a few 'clearouts' before, and I've managed to accidentally unfriend people a few times too. I'd be offended if it was someone I'd actually met and got on with, but less so with people I haven't met. There was one person though who unfriended me out of the blue, after we'd been in constant contact and we were planning to meet, and I admit that stung quite a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've done a few 'clearouts' before, and I've managed to accidentally unfriend people a few times too. I'd be offended if it was someone I'd actually met and got on with, but less so with people I haven't met. There was one person though who unfriended me out of the blue, after we'd been in constant contact and we were planning to meet, and I admit that stung quite a lot. "

Just checked did i by mistake not me roll on the 9 th of june lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you want to remain on the friends list of someone with whom you have no contact?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, unless there was an intention to meet in the future...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No especially if you haven't talked to them in ages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've done a few 'clearouts' before, and I've managed to accidentally unfriend people a few times too. I'd be offended if it was someone I'd actually met and got on with, but less so with people I haven't met. There was one person though who unfriended me out of the blue, after we'd been in constant contact and we were planning to meet, and I admit that stung quite a lot.

Just checked did i by mistake not me roll on the 9 th of june lol"

Lol, if you had I'd have been on to you straight away to check if you meant it or not. I'm not one to sit and wonder when I can ask outright

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

I see no point in having people on your friends list if you don't chat/meet, so no, I wouldn't be offended as I clear mine up frequently x

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I've unfriended people on here for different reasons unless I'm chatting or planning on meeting someone don't see the point of having them as friends especially one's I've not spoken to in mts....

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

It happens. Can't see why anyone who isn't ultra-thin-skinned would take offence.

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By *andaCouple
over a year ago

co down

If it’s so long since you’ve chatted and you’ve forgotten why you’re friends then go for it. We have regular culls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t send or accept friends request, she’s not Facebook hi ... if you wanna see me privates then we can share privately via a message

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Nope... I cull every month or two... if I haven't heard from someone in that length of time without any explanation as to why, I just assume they've moved on and unfriend. So needless to say, I wouldn't be upset over someone unfriending me for the same reason

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By *lurrynfee OP   Couple
over a year ago

donegal


"would you be offended if you were on-friended by some one u dont keep in touch with ???"

Thanks for all your comments and taking time to reply ...

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Kinda. Would miss their pics and possibly the odd random chat. I suppose they could each happen independently regardless but, yeah, I'd probably whimper a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope... I cull every month or two... if I haven't heard from someone in that length of time without any explanation as to why, I just assume they've moved on and unfriend. So needless to say, I wouldn't be upset over someone unfriending me for the same reason "

Yep totally agree.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Nope... I cull every month or two... if I haven't heard from someone in that length of time without any explanation as to why, I just assume they've moved on and unfriend. So needless to say, I wouldn't be upset over someone unfriending me for the same reason

Yep totally agree. "

Ye're a bunch of callous feckers!

Careful or I may even cull.my Hotlist

Oh! That's reminded me of my annual hippy love in Cull your Blocklist. Must do that now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t send or accept friends request, she’s not Facebook hi ... if you wanna see me privates then we can share privately via a message "

Liar!

Show us your bits though.

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

My fab friends list is quite small. A couple or two who are a good laugh. A few single males I keep in contact with. Most requests are usually from pic hunters.

But no I wouldn't be offended if I was removed. Especially if we didn't talk anymore.

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By *hortfuseWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I don’t send or accept friends request, she’s not Facebook hi ... if you wanna see me privates then we can share privately via a message "

Exactly this!

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