FabSwingers.com forum: Ingnorance on fab??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it me or is there an ignorance on fab.maybe im wrong and going to get destroyed but i feel that women on this can be a little ignorant.yes i understand you get hundreds of messages and delete them all and complain about the pest that wont stop messaging you.maybe its my profile im not sure tbh or the way im wording my messages (new so not great at chatting people up).all i get is read delete read delete any help would be greatful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me or is there an ignorance on fab.maybe im wrong and going to get destroyed but i feel that women on this can be a little ignorant.yes i understand you get hundreds of messages and delete them all and complain about the pest that wont stop messaging you.maybe its my profile im not sure tbh or the way im wording my messages (new so not great at chatting people up).all i get is read delete read delete any help would be greatful"

Only reason I'd read and delete is because your attached and that's just a no no for me (when made aware of it) but not everyone has my preferences. So good luck and chin up your only here a few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Calling women ignorant,that should get their attention

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

be careful, you can't say one negative word about women on here, not one. the big bad wolf will be out to get you. turn it around and jump through hoops like a lap dog instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little attention to grammar and punctuation goes a long way. Poorly written messages are a turn-off for me, so have a look at what and how you write an opening message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus there’s a lot of hair goin on down there! That’s a turn off for me but everyone is different! Attached also is a turn off makes it doubly hard to meet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the help.I suppose i should have put in updated pictures after shaving lol.would someone not ask too find out as i am available daytime or would it be worth putting down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plus there’s a lot of hair goin on down there! That’s a turn off for me but everyone is different! Attached also is a turn off makes it doubly hard to meet!"
Jesus what's wrong with a little bit of hair.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ahh i see well thats okay then.I want too be honest so i had too put it there.thanks for the reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Calling women ignorant,that should get their attention

Sorry if i offended you i didnt mean that.poor choice of words but on the other side i got more help and ideas than i ever have lol.sorry again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A little attention to grammar and punctuation goes a long way. Poorly written messages are a turn-off for me, so have a look at what and how you write an opening message."

Noted.Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"be careful, you can't say one negative word about women on here, not one. the big bad wolf will be out to get you. turn it around and jump through hoops like a lap dog instead

Lol poor choice of words on my behalf.I have appologised.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If i have offended anyone i appologise.Poor choice of words on my behalf.On the upside i appreciate all the tips and info

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not getting a reply is an answer it means not interested getting an answer is rare but does happen u have to accept that your message has to stand out and be relevant read status update and profile and send something witty and funny what time u send is also important first thing in morning better chance of reply stay positive op good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not getting a reply is an answer it means not interested getting an answer is rare but does happen u have to accept that your message has to stand out and be relevant read status update and profile and send something witty and funny what time u send is also important first thing in morning better chance of reply stay positive op good luck "

I have tried all types of different messages from the hello nice pictures your profile etc too the paragraphs lol.Ill get there just waiting on new girls so i dont double message by accident.Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your 3 public pics are cock pics not to every ladys taste more neutral pics will include more ladys same for your profile pic you need to work on a coffee meet and get verified

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

*grabs popcorn*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you read the ops update status i am only given him a few tips how he might get a few more responses on here no need for popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your 3 public pics are cock pics not to every ladys taste more neutral pics will include more ladys same for your profile pic you need to work on a coffee meet and get verified "
I actually love cock pics and believe you me I'm all woman.just saying like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your 3 public pics are cock pics not to every ladys taste more neutral pics will include more ladys same for your profile pic you need to work on a coffee meet and get verified "

Will have too sort all this so thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your 3 public pics are cock pics not to every ladys taste more neutral pics will include more ladys same for your profile pic you need to work on a coffee meet and get verified I actually love cock pics and believe you me I'm all woman.just saying like."

U sure are all women

put if u read forums over the years its commonly stated that a lot do not like straight away each to their own

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"*grabs popcorn*"

Dont grab the popcorn lol i have said sorry for my choice of words

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you read the ops update status i am only given him a few tips how he might get a few more responses on here no need for popcorn"

Appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think i will include a few non cock pics just too be safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shouldn’t need to apologize a lot of us can be a little ignorant at times including myself!! But sometimes it’s difficult to answer all messages people are very busy with real life so it’s important to go with the people that catch your attention first off!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U sure are all women

put if u read forums over the years its commonly stated that a lot do not like straight away each to their own"
But your not a woman so how can you answer what they like or dislike?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think i will include a few non cock pics just too be safe"
Let it all hangout man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Calling women ignorant,that should get their attention

Sorry if i offended you i didnt mean that.poor choice of words but on the other side i got more help and ideas than i ever have lol.sorry again"

Didn't offend me my friend,I just know from reading the many many threads like this on the forums,calling the women ignorant isn't going to help your cause.

Good luck with your search.

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By *lim shady500Man
over a year ago

dublin

It's pretty tough to get replies most women don't even read the messages but some do and over time you should make a few genuine friends and yes there are loads of ignorant stuck up ladies and guys to I'm sure, it's just like everything in life good and bad everywhere. Get a nice ass pic. And patience is the key god knows you will need it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The few girls that I have texted always seem to go offline a few minutes later and don't come back online for two months haha by that time I assume they have 2,623 messages to get through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

End well this will not ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U sure are all women

put if u read forums over the years its commonly stated that a lot do not like straight away each to their own But your not a woman so how can you answer what they like or dislike?"

Because i listen to what they tell me when we discuss fab at partys and m&gs

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By *aradiselost747Couple
over a year ago

dundonald

"A little attention to grammar and punctuation goes a long way. Poorly written messages are a turn-off for me, so have a look at what and how you write an opening message."
I completely agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U sure are all women

put if u read forums over the years its commonly stated that a lot do not like straight away each to their own But your not a woman so how can you answer what they like or dislike?

Because i listen to what they tell me when we discuss fab at partys and m&gs "
So your the the chosen one to speak for them very cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U sure are all women

put if u read forums over the years its commonly stated that a lot do not like straight away each to their own But your not a woman so how can you answer what they like or dislike?

Because i listen to what they tell me when we discuss fab at partys and m&gs So your the the chosen one to speak for them very cool."

Nope i am sticking to what the ops thread is about and giving him a few ideas of what works for me its nothing to do with speaking for anybody only what i have learned worked for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U sure are all women

put if u read forums over the years its commonly stated that a lot do not like straight away each to their own But your not a woman so how can you answer what they like or dislike?

Because i listen to what they tell me when we discuss fab at partys and m&gs So your the the chosen one to speak for them very cool.

Nope i am sticking to what the ops thread is about and giving him a few ideas of what works for me its nothing to do with speaking for anybody only what i have learned worked for me"
Sorry my mistake I got it wrong. I thought you were speaking for the ladies of Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Site rules - no reply equals no interest.

What broadly happens if I reply saying “Thanks but I’m not interested” is the person will either declare their determination to win you over or turn pure nasty. Nobody can be arsed with abuse in their inbox. It’s very very very rare that a guy will reply to a no interest saying thanks and good luck.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I'll sum it up. women are the circus controllers telling the performing monkeys (men) what to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U sure are all women

put if u read forums over the years its commonly stated that a lot do not like straight away each to their own But your not a woman so how can you answer what they like or dislike?

Because i listen to what they tell me when we discuss fab at partys and m&gs So your the the chosen one to speak for them very cool.

Nope i am sticking to what the ops thread is about and giving him a few ideas of what works for me its nothing to do with speaking for anybody only what i have learned worked for me Sorry my mistake I got it wrong. I thought you were speaking for the ladies of Fab. "

Nope the update status on the ops profile asked for hints on how to improve his chances on fab i was just telling him what i have learned on my fab journey to date and still learning can i add

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll sum it up. women are the circus controllers telling the performing monkeys (men) what to do.

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Sit down and don't say another word monkey.joking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the tips and advice people but can we now stop bumping the thread as im waiting for the abuse too start ???? also greatly appreciated everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Site rules - no reply equals no interest.

I must be one of those rare breed then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll sum it up. women are the circus controllers telling the performing monkeys (men) what to do.

Sit down and don't say another word monkey.joking."

I'll gladly sit for you…anything else you might like me to do (housework excluded)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think i will include a few non cock pics just too be safe"
definitely a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to reply to all messages I get and as I have lots of filters on I dont get hundreds thankfully

If a message is lacking in thought and effort, I will prob just delete it

Likewise if its crude etc

The best tip is to read the profile and ensure you meet the womans age, likes etc.

As for pictures, less is more for me.

Cock pics are fine but classy ones and taken over the loo or against the remote is a no no! Lol

Unbuttoned shirt or trousers or tight white boxers...hinting at whats beneath is more appealing.

A pushy guy is a turnoff. Sexual attraction begins in the mind.....

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Site rules - no reply equals no interest.

I must be one of those rare breed then!

We should frame you lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I try to reply to all messages I get and as I have lots of filters on I dont get hundreds thankfully

If a message is lacking in thought and effort, I will prob just delete it

Likewise if its crude etc

Perfect.Thanks shall start some changes.

The best tip is to read the profile and ensure you meet the womans age, likes etc.

As for pictures, less is more for me.

Cock pics are fine but classy ones and taken over the loo or against the remote is a no no! Lol

Unbuttoned shirt or trousers or tight white boxers...hinting at whats beneath is more appealing.

A pushy guy is a turnoff. Sexual attraction begins in the mind.....

Good luck

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