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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The thing is, there are more single girls in Ireland then single guys looking for love. And there is Way more single guys trying to meet kinky girls for NSA.

Girls on here are fab open confident bombs. But the group sex fantasies I hoped for don’t seam to be possible. I think I might have to leave here soon. The constant hope of a reply from an introduction text with no luck I’s not good for de ould confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing is, there are more single girls in Ireland then single guys looking for love. And there is Way more single guys trying to meet kinky girls for NSA.

Girls on here are fab open confident bombs. But the group sex fantasies I hoped for don’t seam to be possible. I think I might have to leave here soon. The constant hope of a reply from an introduction text with no luck I’s not good for de ould confidence

"

I dont get it! Are you only looking for group sex fantasies?

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I can't understand it. He's the best oral given ever! Surely there should be a queue forming. Perhaps the lack of verification has something to do with it

Only here less than two months, which is a blink for a Newbie Fabber.

Give it time OP and get your ass to a social!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate 7 weeks your in here.. if you are looking for verification I can meet ya for a pint!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well of it is that hard is it worth the effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your only here 7 weeks!! And your profile description is very repetative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone is cut out for this life, fairwell OP

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By *isterMisterCoolMan
over a year ago

Secret side of the street


"The thing is, there are more single girls in Ireland then single guys looking for love. And there is Way more single guys trying to meet kinky girls for NSA.

Girls on here are fab open confident bombs. But the group sex fantasies I hoped for don’t seam to be possible. I think I might have to leave here soon. The constant hope of a reply from an introduction text with no luck I’s not good for de ould confidence

"
Profile says Straight yet you love giving "head" and your looking for a bi experience

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal


"The thing is, there are more single girls in Ireland then single guys looking for love. And there is Way more single guys trying to meet kinky girls for NSA.

Girls on here are fab open confident bombs. But the group sex fantasies I hoped for don’t seam to be possible. I think I might have to leave here soon. The constant hope of a reply from an introduction text with no luck I’s not good for de ould confidence

"

Don't bleat about it. If you want to leave just go and don't post on the forum looking for sympathy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing is, there are more single girls in Ireland then single guys looking for love. And there is Way more single guys trying to meet kinky girls for NSA.

Girls on here are fab open confident bombs. But the group sex fantasies I hoped for don’t seam to be possible. I think I might have to leave here soon. The constant hope of a reply from an introduction text with no luck I’s not good for de ould confidence

Don't bleat about it. If you want to leave just go and don't post on the forum looking for sympathy. "

You get out of it as much as you put in.

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

Bye bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did you think was gonna happen..Women falling over themselves to get to you!!!. You could be here 6 months and not have it happen. Get off your ass and go to a few m and g's.Join in the forums and get chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Farewell

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

site is not easy unless you jump through hoops lad. you realise that very quickly. you won't get sympathy here like a woman who posts on the forum would if she said she was leaving. good luck

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By *ugarandKandiCouple
over a year ago

dub


"The thing is, there are more single girls in Ireland then single guys looking for love. And there is Way more single guys trying to meet kinky girls for NSA.

Girls on here are fab open confident bombs. But the group sex fantasies I hoped for don’t seam to be possible. I think I might have to leave here soon. The constant hope of a reply from an introduction text with no luck I’s not good for de ould confidence

"

Letting people online dictate you confidence is very bad for mental health.

Theres no validation like self validation , once you get that you wont be phased by the way people percieve you.

If rejection is affecting your confidence , it means that you arent as confident in yourself as you should be.

Confidence is sexy. When you are living a life and striving for your goals it cant be shaken.

Best of luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and copy and paste job messages aren’t going to work either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sympathy isnt a good enough reason to meet.

Very few women post a thread they they leaving

They usally just go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All good things come to those who wait, This is a site for the swinger community to interact with like minded people not a sex addiction site that you can just pop on and throw the leg over, just because people swing doesn't mean they gave up on sexual connections and the art of the flirt

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Sympathy isnt a good enough reason to meet.

Very few women post a thread they they leaving

They usally just go"
whether alot do it is not the point. the point is it has been done

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

the biggest thing people run out of on here is patience. "oh you're only here 8 weeks, you're only here 10 weeks". if you're using the site actively that's along time and you would want patience. if you're mailing women in or around your area it shouldn't take that long unless you're a person whose up to their eyeballs and has little time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"site is not easy unless you jump through hoops lad. you realise that very quickly. you won't get sympathy here like a woman who posts on the forum would if she said she was leaving. good luck "
How very true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sympathy isnt a good enough reason to meet.

Very few women post a thread they they leaving

They usally just gowhether alot do it is not the point. the point is it has been done "

I must be reading a different irish forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can have the best personality in the world, but it can be difficult to get that across in one paragraph of text in an opening line. Also, even for "popular" people here, organising parties and meets is difficult even when you know everybody involved. Your best bet is go to a social meet and greet and get verified. There are plenty that allow newbies. Then try going to vanilla club or other parties.

Best of luck

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Sympathy isnt a good enough reason to meet.

Very few women post a thread they they leaving

They usally just gowhether alot do it is not the point. the point is it has been done

I must be reading a different irish forum "
you must be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can have the best personality in the world, but it can be difficult to get that across in one paragraph of text in an opening line. Also, even for "popular" people here, organising parties and meets is difficult even when you know everybody involved. Your best bet is go to a social meet and greet and get verified. There are plenty that allow newbies. Then try going to vanilla club or other parties.

Best of luck"

Brilliant advice from brilliant people I'd listen if I was you OP

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"You can have the best personality in the world, but it can be difficult to get that across in one paragraph of text in an opening line. Also, even for "popular" people here, organising parties and meets is difficult even when you know everybody involved. Your best bet is go to a social meet and greet and get verified. There are plenty that allow newbies. Then try going to vanilla club or other parties.

Best of luck"
see this is the norm response from alot. go to parties go to meets and greets. what if a person signed up here for one to one meets not mingling in a party type situation with loads of others. the issue is some may be shy (very understandable) but very few women will take a chance on here so often falls back to the line "go to a meet and greet". it's like I already said, try local or in or around the locality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can have the best personality in the world, but it can be difficult to get that across in one paragraph of text in an opening line. Also, even for "popular" people here, organising parties and meets is difficult even when you know everybody involved. Your best bet is go to a social meet and greet and get verified. There are plenty that allow newbies. Then try going to vanilla club or other parties.

Best of luck

see this is the norm response from alot. go to parties go to meets and greets. what if a person signed up here for one to one meets not mingling in a party type situation with loads of others. the issue is some may be shy (very understandable) but very few women will take a chance on here so often falls back to the line "go to a meet and greet". it's like I already said, try local or in or around the locality. "

Well its a site for swinging though if you only signed up to get the ride one on one and not participate in the community it probably isn't the best site for you, tinder, bumble, POF etc.. are more suited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can have the best personality in the world, but it can be difficult to get that across in one paragraph of text in an opening line. Also, even for "popular" people here, organising parties and meets is difficult even when you know everybody involved. Your best bet is go to a social meet and greet and get verified. There are plenty that allow newbies. Then try going to vanilla club or other parties.

Best of luck

see this is the norm response from alot. go to parties go to meets and greets. what if a person signed up here for one to one meets not mingling in a party type situation with loads of others. the issue is some may be shy (very understandable) but very few women will take a chance on here so often falls back to the line "go to a meet and greet". it's like I already said, try local or in or around the locality.

Well its a site for swinging though if you only signed up to get the ride one on one and not participate in the community it probably isn't the best site for you, tinder, bumble, POF etc.. are more suited "
A ride is a ride no matter what way you dress it up.Tinder pof Fab no difference just a ride.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"You can have the best personality in the world, but it can be difficult to get that across in one paragraph of text in an opening line. Also, even for "popular" people here, organising parties and meets is difficult even when you know everybody involved. Your best bet is go to a social meet and greet and get verified. There are plenty that allow newbies. Then try going to vanilla club or other parties.

Best of luck

see this is the norm response from alot. go to parties go to meets and greets. what if a person signed up here for one to one meets not mingling in a party type situation with loads of others. the issue is some may be shy (very understandable) but very few women will take a chance on here so often falls back to the line "go to a meet and greet". it's like I already said, try local or in or around the locality.

Well its a site for swinging though if you only signed up to get the ride one on one and not participate in the community it probably isn't the best site for you, tinder, bumble, POF etc.. are more suited "
I know of men in the past who said they were successful on here and never attended a party or meet and greet. it's not hard to believe either here that alot of men sign up for just sex, one to one interaction with the hope of leading to something. might I add, nothing wrong with that either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can have the best personality in the world, but it can be difficult to get that across in one paragraph of text in an opening line. Also, even for "popular" people here, organising parties and meets is difficult even when you know everybody involved. Your best bet is go to a social meet and greet and get verified. There are plenty that allow newbies. Then try going to vanilla club or other parties.

Best of lucksee this is the norm response from alot. go to parties go to meets and greets. what if a person signed up here for one to one meets not mingling in a party type situation with loads of others. the issue is some may be shy (very understandable) but very few women will take a chance on here so often falls back to the line "go to a meet and greet". it's like I already said, try local or in or around the locality. "

Well OP specifically talked about group situations, thats why i mentioned parties. Where people are openly having group play and its easier to organise, rather than mailing loads of people trying to arrange times and hotels etc. But if you are too shy to go out and mingle with people in public, you're pretty fucked, not just in Fab, but in life in general. All the advice in the world from random strangers on internet forums isn't gonna help you.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"You can have the best personality in the world, but it can be difficult to get that across in one paragraph of text in an opening line. Also, even for "popular" people here, organising parties and meets is difficult even when you know everybody involved. Your best bet is go to a social meet and greet and get verified. There are plenty that allow newbies. Then try going to vanilla club or other parties.

Best of lucksee this is the norm response from alot. go to parties go to meets and greets. what if a person signed up here for one to one meets not mingling in a party type situation with loads of others. the issue is some may be shy (very understandable) but very few women will take a chance on here so often falls back to the line "go to a meet and greet". it's like I already said, try local or in or around the locality.

Well OP specifically talked about group situations, thats why i mentioned parties. Where people are openly having group play and its easier to organise, rather than mailing loads of people trying to arrange times and hotels etc. But if you are too shy to go out and mingle with people in public, you're pretty fucked, not just in Fab, but in life in general. All the advice in the world from random strangers on internet forums isn't gonna help you."
I'm generally hitting at the main response to people (newbies) looking for meets. meeting one to one is very diff then going to a party/club setting. the big problem is very few women are willing to take a chance, well as far as I can see anyway. luck has a huge part to play on fab anyway for men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sympathy isnt a good enough reason to meet.

Very few women post a thread they they leaving

They usally just gowhether alot do it is not the point. the point is it has been done

I must be reading a different irish forum you must be. "

Or ur seing posts that arent there at all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can have the best personality in the world, but it can be difficult to get that across in one paragraph of text in an opening line. Also, even for "popular" people here, organising parties and meets is difficult even when you know everybody involved. Your best bet is go to a social meet and greet and get verified. There are plenty that allow newbies. Then try going to vanilla club or other parties.

Best of lucksee this is the norm response from alot. go to parties go to meets and greets. what if a person signed up here for one to one meets not mingling in a party type situation with loads of others. the issue is some may be shy (very understandable) but very few women will take a chance on here so often falls back to the line "go to a meet and greet". it's like I already said, try local or in or around the locality.

Well OP specifically talked about group situations, thats why i mentioned parties. Where people are openly having group play and its easier to organise, rather than mailing loads of people trying to arrange times and hotels etc. But if you are too shy to go out and mingle with people in public, you're pretty fucked, not just in Fab, but in life in general. All the advice in the world from random strangers on internet forums isn't gonna help you.I'm generally hitting at the main response to people (newbies) looking for meets. meeting one to one is very diff then going to a party/club setting. the big problem is very few women are willing to take a chance, well as far as I can see anyway. luck has a huge part to play on fab anyway for men "

Well you're right there. It's pure luck for a lot of it. A lot of women/couples here are pretty busy so wouldn't even bother give mails the time of day if they know they won't be able to meet anyone for a few weeks. Your have to be lucky and mail the right person at the right time

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Sympathy isnt a good enough reason to meet.

Very few women post a thread they they leaving

They usally just gowhether alot do it is not the point. the point is it has been done

I must be reading a different irish forum you must be.

Or ur seing posts that arent there at all lol "
a woman up above you just agreed with what I said. men and women in the past have put up threads saying they're leaving. an awful leave (nothing to do with forums) and are back again very quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sympathy isnt a good enough reason to meet.

Very few women post a thread they they leaving

They usally just gowhether alot do it is not the point. the point is it has been done

I must be reading a different irish forum you must be.

Or ur seing posts that arent there at all lol a woman up above you just agreed with what I said. men and women in the past have put up threads saying they're leaving. an awful leave (nothing to do with forums) and are back again very quickly "

Maybe i am not reading forums enough so and not seen theese particular threads.one or two established profiles have left and posted to bid farewell to all because they have met a lot throught socials and partys.

As for the threads i think its time to go and farwell fab

They still here and proof is above

My point is if ur not happy go .

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Sympathy isnt a good enough reason to meet.

Very few women post a thread they they leaving

They usally just gowhether alot do it is not the point. the point is it has been done

I must be reading a different irish forum you must be.

Or ur seing posts that arent there at all lol a woman up above you just agreed with what I said. men and women in the past have put up threads saying they're leaving. an awful leave (nothing to do with forums) and are back again very quickly

Maybe i am not reading forums enough so and not seen theese particular threads.one or two established profiles have left and posted to bid farewell to all because they have met a lot throught socials and partys.

As for the threads i think its time to go and farwell fab

They still here and proof is above

My point is if ur not happy go .

"
a good few reularls have even left and signed back up again relatively quickly. i don't know why men look for advice on here. it's generally women who give it and let's face it, the site is a world of difference for men to women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and copy and paste job messages aren’t going to work either"

Oh he didn't did he????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and copy and paste job messages aren’t going to work either

Oh he didn't did he????"
Well would you Adam and Eve it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and copy and paste job messages aren’t going to work either

Oh he didn't did he????"

Yes multiple times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and copy and paste job messages aren’t going to work either

Oh he didn't did he????

Yes multiple times"

Tut tut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm leaving Fab to.... ( Mr Snicker's here )....will I be missed I bloody bet I won't ...boohoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I said meet me for a pint and I'll verify you as a non play innocent meet!! And stop your moaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I said meet me for a pint and I'll verify you as a non play innocent meet!! And stop your moaning"
who or the op ?

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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago

north cork


"You can have the best personality in the world, but it can be difficult to get that across in one paragraph of text in an opening line. Also, even for "popular" people here, organising parties and meets is difficult even when you know everybody involved. Your best bet is go to a social meet and greet and get verified. There are plenty that allow newbies. Then try going to vanilla club or other parties.

Best of luck

see this is the norm response from alot. go to parties go to meets and greets. what if a person signed up here for one to one meets not mingling in a party type situation with loads of others. the issue is some may be shy (very understandable) but very few women will take a chance on here so often falls back to the line "go to a meet and greet". it's like I already said, try local or in or around the locality.

Well its a site for swinging though if you only signed up to get the ride one on one and not participate in the community it probably isn't the best site for you, tinder, bumble, POF etc.. are more suited "

That usual line "it's a site for swinging"

Its a sex site, swinging is about sex. The vast majority on here dont give a shite about someone's social life and rightly so. Some users seem to think they have a moral high ground on here over other sites like tinder and so on. "The olde copy and paste" digs. You hardly expect men to type out an individual message to each one of you/us when for the best part every profile on here looks more or less the same with a few exceptions. Maybe change a few words and add a little humour to your messages but that would be about it. If falling around after women and chasing them like a puppy is your thing then go for it. Just remember that your not the issue in most cases, they are! They have so much to choose from.

One commenter hit the nail on the head "jumping through hoops". Fuck that. Its only a ride or sex or swinging or whatever you want to call it.

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