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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone, I’ve been on Fab for a few weeks now. I’ve had three very enjoyable meets, mind blowing in fact!! However, I don’t seem to be getting much success in general.

I was hoping you guys could have a look at my profile and tell me what I need to do to make it better.

I’m a big boy, so criticism in whatever form is welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lose the irrelevant and useless bacefook warning - otherwise you're Grand!


"Hi everyone, I’ve been on Fab for a few weeks now. I’ve had three very enjoyable meets, mind blowing in fact!! However, I don’t seem to be getting much success in general.

I was hoping you guys could have a look at my profile and tell me what I need to do to make it better.

I’m a big boy, so criticism in whatever form is welcome."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Done. Thanks you.

Any other ideas guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Done. Thanks you.

Any other ideas guys?"

Your batting above average really.

But if you want to meet more people look into a meet and greet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweet lamb of God. Here six weeks and three meets and you don’t seem to be having much luck. God help you!!!! It’s not a knocking shop and you are doing extremely well in your short time here compared to the hundreds of others that post in the forums that their not having much luck. Be happy with your lot and keep going, your obviously doing something right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He’s trying to make up for lost time that’s all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn’t have any idea what the average is! Lol

I suppose I was referring to the messages I send that never get replied to etc. I just felt there must be something wrong with how I’m being perceived.

Thanks for the feedback lads.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You better believe it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You better believe it!"

A monk in the previous life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, I would say your doing very well to have 3 meets in a few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn’t have any idea what the average is! Lol

I suppose I was referring to the messages I send that never get replied to etc. I just felt there must be something wrong with how I’m being perceived.

Thanks for the feedback lads."

Your doing really well. An average of a meet every two weeks. I’ve had three since October and I’m here a lot longer than you. Go figure that one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not quite but a sexless couple of married years towards the end!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not quite but a sexless couple of married years towards the end!"

The joys OP so from the frying pan into the fire fair play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not quite but a sexless couple of married years towards the end!

The joys OP so from the frying pan into the fire fair play "

More like the freezer into the fire

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

I think you’ve a good profile and you’ve done well with 3 meets in 6wks! Just keep chatting and go to socials, they are the best way of meeting people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not quite but a sexless couple of married years towards the end!

The joys OP so from the frying pan into the fire fair play

More like the freezer into the fire "

Nah he’s been getting warmed up nicely past few weeks ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I want the fire to rage!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep doing what you're doing, it's working

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you Sally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone, I’ve been on Fab for a few weeks now. I’ve had three very enjoyable meets, mind blowing in fact!! However, I don’t seem to be getting much success in general.

I was hoping you guys could have a look at my profile and tell me what I need to do to make it better.

I’m a big boy, so criticism in whatever form is welcome."

Ur here six wks vertified by four people allready and one only in the recent few hrs.i dont see the problem.most guys takes months to get vertified.

Are ur expectations of what u expect out of fab realistic as in meets and how many.

Dont expect ur mail box to be over flooded with mail given the proportion of male to women here.

As others say maybe socials .join in forum chats or start threads as ur doing

Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you Miss Fab. Perhaps my expectations are unrealistic. There’s certainly a massive difference in the number of men and ladies!!

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

Nice profile and reads well...and now 4 meets in 6 weeks...some guys have no meets in a year..you have to remember the ratio of men to women on here....I really don't think you are having any problems

Best way to meet people is to get to a social/meet & greet they are great fun and worth attending

Happy Fabbing!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Your profile is fine although more pics would be nice. Also are you really willing to meet 18 to 99year olds???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I draw the line at 97! Lol

Thanks for the comments ladies. Love your profiles too.

What sort of pics would be best to put up?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I draw the line at 97! Lol

Thanks for the comments ladies. Love your profiles too.

What sort of pics would be best to put up?"

Mature, classy, enticing pics. Nothing rude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ll get to it tonight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you build it “they will come”

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

. I’ll make sure of that!!!

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