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And when we think we’ve cracked it and arrange a meet, the guy is a no show.... the mind boggles!
So I suppose what we want is two things ..... firstly reliable guys please reveal yourselves and let’s see if we can’t get some juices flowing and secondly what is your thoughts on what is it exactly that makes the guys bolt .....
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"I would not contact u as your profile says no single guys maybe if u changed that the good guys might contact u " Exactly this.... The only prople that are going to message you are A) People who dont read profiles B) People that do and ignore them, these are ons that are more likely to bolt or not to be of interest in the first place.. | |||
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"You're allowed one, maybe two of that criteria. But three? Best of luck.... "You could be right! Maybe that where we’ve been going wrong  | |||
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"I would not contact u as your profile says no single guys maybe if u changed that the good guys might contact u " That’s a fair point but not sure it would solve the problem... | |||
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"I read the profiles if something in it i do not like i move on if something u want and i am not i move on no single guys equals no interest in what i have to offer the only guys that would contact your are guys who do not know how fab works" I'm the same there are loads of couples on here I'd love to contact and meet but if they have no single guys I respect that and don't message them. | |||
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"I read the profiles if something in it i do not like i move on if something u want and i am not i move on no single guys equals no interest in what i have to offer the only guys that would contact your are guys who do not know how fab works I'm the same there are loads of couples on here I'd love to contact and meet but if they have no single guys I respect that and don't message them." Ditto  | |||
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"We here standing in the corner leaning against the wall looking out under thed rim of our fedora hats at the cpls and girls that aren't looking for guys whinging about not being abled to meet reliable guys " | |||
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"Highlighting the importance of social nights out. Loads of normal men and women here, it’s just a matter of sorting them from the weirdos, pic hunters and un verified loons looking to buy underwear or worse lol. " Social is what its all about... great starting point for what can develop into extra-social antics | |||
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"There are lots out there I can vouch from my single days
Geordie"But u left them rocking to and fro in the corner sucking their thumb afraid to move their arse from the safety and security of the concrete floor beneath them | |||
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"There are lots out there I can vouch from my single days
Geordie
But u left them rocking to and fro in the corner sucking their thumb afraid to move their arse from the safety and security of the concrete floor beneath them "Shurrup cj I may be hunting again - don't go scare them off | |||
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"There are lots out there I can vouch from my single days
Geordie
But u left them rocking to and fro in the corner sucking their thumb afraid to move their arse from the safety and security of the concrete floor beneath them
Shurrup cj
I may be hunting again - don't go scare them off "He certainly is looking for a strap on session, there's absolutely no doubt anymore. | |||
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"We are completely in agreement with the OP, we have for most part always had "looking for single guys" on our profile, I am pretty sure we have never been contacted by any of the single guys above that pointed out Mrs Neon had not "looking for single guys" on their profile. Unless of course Gemma doesnt interest you... In saying that, it might be the type of guy we are looking for - 30-40 years olds, not too tall, masculine, good fun to be around and most of all Good Looking. Last part is very important. We had a social a couple of months back, leading up to it, we were contacted my numerous single lads about would we be interested in meeting, these single lads all had veri's. Our response, if we liked the look of them would be that we generally dont meet through the site but like to hang out first, have a few drinks amongst other fabbers etc. We invited them to the social that we had coming up, out of nearly 20 lads only 1 of them actually agreed to come along. (I had the poor fellas head wrecked probably looking for reassurance that he would show up.) You may find this hard to believe only 1 out of 20 Single Lads but its the truth, the nonsense excuses that were given or the down right lack of interest in attending something like this makes me wonder why they are even on the site." The ratio of guys here against guys with silly excuses is pretty high... I don't know what their excuse are but definitely it's not worth been here if u ain't gotta be available to meet when asked | |||
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"We are completely in agreement with the OP, we have for most part always had "looking for single guys" on our profile, I am pretty sure we have never been contacted by any of the single guys above that pointed out Mrs Neon had not "looking for single guys" on their profile. Unless of course Gemma doesnt interest you... In saying that, it might be the type of guy we are looking for - 30-40 years olds, not too tall, masculine, good fun to be around and most of all Good Looking. Last part is very important. We had a social a couple of months back, leading up to it, we were contacted my numerous single lads about would we be interested in meeting, these single lads all had veri's. Our response, if we liked the look of them would be that we generally dont meet through the site but like to hang out first, have a few drinks amongst other fabbers etc. We invited them to the social that we had coming up, out of nearly 20 lads only 1 of them actually agreed to come along. (I had the poor fellas head wrecked probably looking for reassurance that he would show up.) You may find this hard to believe only 1 out of 20 Single Lads but its the truth, the nonsense excuses that were given or the down right lack of interest in attending something like this makes me wonder why they are even on the site. The ratio of guys here against guys with silly excuses is pretty high... I don't know what their excuse are but definitely it's not worth been here if u ain't gotta be available to meet when asked" The guy has to click with the couple as well i have meet couples i did not want to play with it works both ways | |||
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"We are completely in agreement with the OP, we have for most part always had "looking for single guys" on our profile, I am pretty sure we have never been contacted by any of the single guys above that pointed out Mrs Neon had not "looking for single guys" on their profile. Unless of course Gemma doesnt interest you... In saying that, it might be the type of guy we are looking for - 30-40 years olds, not too tall, masculine, good fun to be around and most of all Good Looking. Last part is very important. We had a social a couple of months back, leading up to it, we were contacted my numerous single lads about would we be interested in meeting, these single lads all had veri's. Our response, if we liked the look of them would be that we generally dont meet through the site but like to hang out first, have a few drinks amongst other fabbers etc. We invited them to the social that we had coming up, out of nearly 20 lads only 1 of them actually agreed to come along. (I had the poor fellas head wrecked probably looking for reassurance that he would show up.) You may find this hard to believe only 1 out of 20 Single Lads but its the truth, the nonsense excuses that were given or the down right lack of interest in attending something like this makes me wonder why they are even on the site. The ratio of guys here against guys with silly excuses is pretty high... I don't know what their excuse are but definitely it's not worth been here if u ain't gotta be available to meet when asked The guy has to click with the couple as well i have meet couples i did not want to play with it works both ways" James, of course they do but getting them to actually meet up is the problem. Also, its the certain single lad criteria that we are looking for that seems to be a problem. We have met plenty of single gentlemen of a certain demographic that are sound, attractive and reliable. | |||
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"We are completely in agreement with the OP, we have for most part always had "looking for single guys" on our profile, I am pretty sure we have never been contacted by any of the single guys above that pointed out Mrs Neon had not "looking for single guys" on their profile. Unless of course Gemma doesnt interest you... In saying that, it might be the type of guy we are looking for - 30-40 years olds, not too tall, masculine, good fun to be around and most of all Good Looking. Last part is very important. We had a social a couple of months back, leading up to it, we were contacted my numerous single lads about would we be interested in meeting, these single lads all had veri's. Our response, if we liked the look of them would be that we generally dont meet through the site but like to hang out first, have a few drinks amongst other fabbers etc. We invited them to the social that we had coming up, out of nearly 20 lads only 1 of them actually agreed to come along. (I had the poor fellas head wrecked probably looking for reassurance that he would show up.) You may find this hard to believe only 1 out of 20 Single Lads but its the truth, the nonsense excuses that were given or the down right lack of interest in attending something like this makes me wonder why they are even on the site. The ratio of guys here against guys with silly excuses is pretty high... I don't know what their excuse are but definitely it's not worth been here if u ain't gotta be available to meet when asked The guy has to click with the couple as well i have meet couples i did not want to play with it works both waysJames, of course they do but getting them to actually meet up is the problem. Also, its the certain single lad criteria that we are looking for that seems to be a problem. We have met plenty of single gentlemen of a certain demographic that are sound, attractive and reliable." Sorry understand now. that post sounded like couples shout jump and single guys should ask how high which is the way some couples approach single guys .respect all round i say. | |||
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"We are completely in agreement with the OP, we have for most part always had "looking for single guys" on our profile, I am pretty sure we have never been contacted by any of the single guys above that pointed out Mrs Neon had not "looking for single guys" on their profile. Unless of course Gemma doesnt interest you... In saying that, it might be the type of guy we are looking for - 30-40 years olds, not too tall, masculine, good fun to be around and most of all Good Looking. Last part is very important. We had a social a couple of months back, leading up to it, we were contacted my numerous single lads about would we be interested in meeting, these single lads all had veri's. Our response, if we liked the look of them would be that we generally dont meet through the site but like to hang out first, have a few drinks amongst other fabbers etc. We invited them to the social that we had coming up, out of nearly 20 lads only 1 of them actually agreed to come along. (I had the poor fellas head wrecked probably looking for reassurance that he would show up.) You may find this hard to believe only 1 out of 20 Single Lads but its the truth, the nonsense excuses that were given or the down right lack of interest in attending something like this makes me wonder why they are even on the site." Is give gemma one hell I'd give her the full length just saying
I don't think ye are the only ones to notice this and like you said there's a type ye are after and a characteristic of that person must be that they are into the social side which not every one is. I know from meeting ye once or twice at different events that ye enjoy the social which is a great way of picking out victims but remember ye are into the lifestyle a lot of guys are not and are only here for dial a ride which like the other preferences will limit your choices
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"There are lots out there I can vouch from my single days
Geordie
But u left them rocking to and fro in the corner sucking their thumb afraid to move their arse from the safety and security of the concrete floor beneath them
Shurrup cj
I may be hunting again - don't go scare them off
He certainly is looking for a strap on session, there's absolutely no doubt anymore. "She had her chance twice | |||
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"We are completely in agreement with the OP, we have for most part always had "looking for single guys" on our profile, I am pretty sure we have never been contacted by any of the single guys above that pointed out Mrs Neon had not "looking for single guys" on their profile. Unless of course Gemma doesnt interest you... In saying that, it might be the type of guy we are looking for - 30-40 years olds, not too tall, masculine, good fun to be around and most of all Good Looking. Last part is very important. We had a social a couple of months back, leading up to it, we were contacted my numerous single lads about would we be interested in meeting, these single lads all had veri's. Our response, if we liked the look of them would be that we generally dont meet through the site but like to hang out first, have a few drinks amongst other fabbers etc. We invited them to the social that we had coming up, out of nearly 20 lads only 1 of them actually agreed to come along. (I had the poor fellas head wrecked probably looking for reassurance that he would show up.) You may find this hard to believe only 1 out of 20 Single Lads but its the truth, the nonsense excuses that were given or the down right lack of interest in attending something like this makes me wonder why they are even on the site." I was one of the people that posted above and I wouldnt have contacted ye as at the moment dont have an interest in meeting couples. Gemma looks stunning cant speak for the others. I think most of us were pointing out that it would make sense not to have that up if you want to attact the type of person who actually reads and respects profiles. You obviously have a better view of this as a couple and not having no single males specified. I would make no argument in relation to it being hard to find people to match your preferences if you are anyway selective regardless of what you are looking for. | |||
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"Ok boys where are you hiding ..... us and many of our fabber friends, couples and single females alike are really struggling to find good guys on here..
And when we think we’ve cracked it and arrange a meet, the guy is a no show.... the mind boggles!
So I suppose what we want is two things ..... firstly reliable guys please reveal yourselves and let’s see if we can’t get some juices flowing and secondly what is your thoughts on what is it exactly that makes the guys bolt .....
Mr & Mrs Neon, xx"It's okay I'm back | |||
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"Guys have u tried vanilla sites ? " Why try vanilla sites if the lifestyle u want to lead is a swingers lifestyle ? Its easier to get sex on tinder but people can and will get hurt if u pretend you want something else just to get sex . | |||
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"Guys have u tried vanilla sites ? " Yes i have | |||
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"Guys have u tried vanilla sites ? " have you any suggestions? | |||
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"Guys have u tried vanilla sites ? have you any suggestions?" Tinder and POF would be the most popular two I think | |||
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"With you on this Neons. Men who are reliable,trustworthy a gentleman outside of the bedroom and a devil between the sheets is hard to find. Don't give up. "Ah they're around | |||
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"With you on this Neons. Men who are reliable,trustworthy a gentleman outside of the bedroom and a devil between the sheets is hard to find. Don't give up.
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"With you on this Neons. Men who are reliable,trustworthy a gentleman outside of the bedroom and a devil between the sheets is hard to find. Don't give up.
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"Guys I have arranged to meet have shown up in saying that I mostly arrange meets after I have met them at a social. Guys their out there so don't give up the one that didn't show up well it's their loss as u both r sexy sexy people with fantastic personality xx "Who would not turn up to meet such a sexy lady as ypurself have to be brain dead !! Counting down the days to donegal xx | |||
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"Guys I have arranged to meet have shown up in saying that I mostly arrange meets after I have met them at a social. Guys their out there so don't give up the one that didn't show up well it's their loss as u both r sexy sexy people with fantastic personality xx " can never understand the logic of guys not turning up... such a waste in so many ways!! Let's reclaim the reputation of the sincere males on here | |||
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"Guys I have arranged to meet have shown up in saying that I mostly arrange meets after I have met them at a social. Guys their out there so don't give up the one that didn't show up well it's their loss as u both r sexy sexy people with fantastic personality xx
Who would not turn up to meet such a sexy lady as ypurself have to be brain dead !! Counting down the days to donegal xx"Aww thank u, also counting down the days | |||
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"With you on this Neons. Men who are reliable,trustworthy a gentleman outside of the bedroom and a devil between the sheets is hard to find. Don't give up.
Ah they're around where?"Where oh where can they be? Ive been wondering for a while too | |||
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"Ok boys where are you hiding ..... us and many of our fabber friends, couples and single females alike are really struggling to find good guys on here..
And when we think we’ve cracked it and arrange a meet, the guy is a no show.... the mind boggles!
So I suppose what we want is two things ..... firstly reliable guys please reveal yourselves and let’s see if we can’t get some juices flowing and secondly what is your thoughts on what is it exactly that makes the guys bolt .....
Mr & Mrs Neon, xx"hello neon couple definitely wouldn't mind hooking with you both if your looking for guy but I can't message you because your not looking for men on your profile? | |||
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"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles... "I know, im totally confused. They’re everywhere! | |||
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"I give up in looking "Well I am not surprised. I said a friendly hello today and sent my photo. The reply I got was. Desgostic pict Have no idea what that is meant to mean and then you blocked me. Now I have no problem with rejection and everyone has a right to say no, but it cost nothing to be polite and nice to someone. A reply with not my type or no thanks would be fine but to send a reply like you did and block me, Made me feel like I did something wrong. I just said hello. Anyone that knows me here, knows my photos are real and me. I wish you all the best on fab. | |||
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"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...
I know, im totally confused. They’re everywhere! "Must be a different Mayo to me than | |||
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"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...
I know, im totally confused. They’re everywhere! "Let's call it 'the can't see the fab wood for the trees' | |||
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"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles... "Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective | |||
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"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...
Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective"Of course it is but there's a pretty good choice and variety IMO. | |||
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"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...
Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective"I'm sure a lot of the guys get the "your not my type " more than a hello. All looking for some model or something | |||
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"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...
Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective
I'm sure a lot of the guys get the "your not my type " more than a hello. All looking for some model or something "Why assume it's always about looks? | |||
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"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...
Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective
I'm sure a lot of the guys get the "your not my type " more than a hello. All looking for some model or something
Why assume it's always about looks?"Because they don't chat to know anything about you. What you like or what you do . If they get on with you or don't. If people can tell that from one message that's awesome and I'm shit | |||
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"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...
Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective
I'm sure a lot of the guys get the "your not my type " more than a hello. All looking for some model or something
Why assume it's always about looks?
Because they don't chat to know anything about you. What you like or what you do . If they get on with you or don't. If people can tell that from one message that's awesome and I'm shit "Perhaps it's your profile, your forum interactions, or they just aren't interested in meets at the time. | |||
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"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...
Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective
I'm sure a lot of the guys get the "your not my type " more than a hello. All looking for some model or something
Why assume it's always about looks?
Because they don't chat to know anything about you. What you like or what you do . If they get on with you or don't. If people can tell that from one message that's awesome and I'm shit
Perhaps it's your profile, your forum interactions, or they just aren't interested in meets at the time.
"So someone has meet now up. They aren't in any forum you have seen. Or not interacted with them there. You are nice genuine and want to actually chat then you get not my type. They then post status saying they don't want a model but someone who wants to chat ? So no win lol | |||
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"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...
Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective
I'm sure a lot of the guys get the "your not my type " more than a hello. All looking for some model or something
Why assume it's always about looks?
Because they don't chat to know anything about you. What you like or what you do . If they get on with you or don't. If people can tell that from one message that's awesome and I'm shit
Perhaps it's your profile, your forum interactions, or they just aren't interested in meets at the time.
So someone has meet now up. They aren't in any forum you have seen. Or not interacted with them there. You are nice genuine and want to actually chat then you get not my type. They then post status saying they don't want a model but someone who wants to chat ? So no win lol"But it's still not necessarily about looks, your profile says very little and perhaps your message didn't hit the right note either. And lots of people read the forums without posting btw. | |||
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"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...
Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective
I'm sure a lot of the guys get the "your not my type " more than a hello. All looking for some model or something
Why assume it's always about looks?
Because they don't chat to know anything about you. What you like or what you do . If they get on with you or don't. If people can tell that from one message that's awesome and I'm shit
Perhaps it's your profile, your forum interactions, or they just aren't interested in meets at the time.
So someone has meet now up. They aren't in any forum you have seen. Or not interacted with them there. You are nice genuine and want to actually chat then you get not my type. They then post status saying they don't want a model but someone who wants to chat ? So no win lol
But it's still not necessarily about looks, your profile says very little and perhaps your message didn't hit the right note either. And lots of people read the forums without posting btw."I know it's not always about looks. I know not everyone's interacts and just read as sometimes I do. What is the right note as you don't wanna be the generic how are you. I try a hello, compliment as that's what has drawn me to profile and actually want to get to know them. The other thing is if looks don't matter then why is everyone so funny about having face pics infirat message ? | |||
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Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective
I'm sure a lot of the guys get the "your not my type " more than a hello. All looking for some model or something
Why assume it's always about looks?
Because they don't chat to know anything about you. What you like or what you do . If they get on with you or don't. If people can tell that from one message that's awesome and I'm shit
Perhaps it's your profile, your forum interactions, or they just aren't interested in meets at the time.
So someone has meet now up. They aren't in any forum you have seen. Or not interacted with them there. You are nice genuine and want to actually chat then you get not my type. They then post status saying they don't want a model but someone who wants to chat ? So no win lol"Hot is def subjective. Any message i get even the ones with dick pics i reply too. If they havent read my profile i thank them for the message and refer them to my profile. I have chatted guys than swapped pictures and not been attracted to them and im def not getting messages from models i will say straight up if im not interested in meeting. Not wasting anyones time. Than the nasty messages will start and again i will b polite and say thanks but no thanks. I dont consider myself hot. Ive an average body. But im good fun and i get on with most people. Also been stood up more than once or twice so yes im on the lookout for single reliable and my type of hot guy | |||
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And when we think we’ve cracked it and arrange a meet, the guy is a no show.... the mind boggles!
So I suppose what we want is two things ..... firstly reliable guys please reveal yourselves and let’s see if we can’t get some juices flowing and secondly what is your thoughts on what is it exactly that makes the guys bolt .....
Mr & Mrs Neon, xx hello neon couple definitely wouldn't mind hooking with you both if your looking for guy but I can't message you because your not looking for men on your profile?"That has been rectified, thx | |||
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"I truly can't believe that so many ladies and couples complain of being short in good meets respectively finding a reliable HOT guy. The mind boggles...
Let's not forget that "hot" is entirely subjective
I'm sure a lot of the guys get the "your not my type " more than a hello. All looking for some model or something
Why assume it's always about looks?
Because they don't chat to know anything about you. What you like or what you do . If they get on with you or don't. If people can tell that from one message that's awesome and I'm shit
Perhaps it's your profile, your forum interactions, or they just aren't interested in meets at the time.
So someone has meet now up. They aren't in any forum you have seen. Or not interacted with them there. You are nice genuine and want to actually chat then you get not my type. They then post status saying they don't want a model but someone who wants to chat ? So no win lol
But it's still not necessarily about looks, your profile says very little and perhaps your message didn't hit the right note either. And lots of people read the forums without posting btw.
I know it's not always about looks. I know not everyone's interacts and just read as sometimes I do. What is the right note as you don't wanna be the generic how are you. I try a hello, compliment as that's what has drawn me to profile and actually want to get to know them. The other thing is if looks don't matter then why is everyone so funny about having face pics infirat message ? "Everyone? We never ask for face pics. | |||
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And when we think we’ve cracked it and arrange a meet, the guy is a no show.... the mind boggles!
So I suppose what we want is two things ..... firstly reliable guys please reveal yourselves and let’s see if we can’t get some juices flowing and secondly what is your thoughts on what is it exactly that makes the guys bolt .....
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"Hey its great to see the changes to your profile and I have sent you a pm. The only comment I would have is that some males have been burnt in the past with people abusing there face pics when they are sent. I know I have and I am reluctant to send them certainly within the first few messages." Why would someone give abuse when having sent face pics ??  | |||
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"Hey its great to see the changes to your profile and I have sent you a pm. The only comment I would have is that some males have been burnt in the past with people abusing there face pics when they are sent. I know I have and I am reluctant to send them certainly within the first few messages. Why would someone give abuse when having sent face pics ??
I know and have heard of fave pics doing the rounds off fab people sharing them with others. Handy feature that let's you removed attached photos after mail is read helps prevent that "Once you send a pic youve lost it forever that is a given. Not many you can or should trust. | |||
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"Hey its great to see the changes to your profile and I have sent you a pm. The only comment I would have is that some males have been burnt in the past with people abusing there face pics when they are sent. I know I have and I am reluctant to send them certainly within the first few messages. Why would someone give abuse when having sent face pics ??
I know and have heard of fave pics doing the rounds off fab people sharing them with others. Handy feature that let's you removed attached photos after mail is read helps prevent that
Once you send a pic youve lost it forever that is a given.
Not many you can or should trust."I'd like to think I'm somewhat trust worthy anyway and anyone I chose to engage with is as well but you can never be sure | |||
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This guy always delivers ... I’m here all week"Interesting. Send us a message if you like | |||
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This guy always delivers ... I’m here all week
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Can I send you a message too?
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This guy always delivers ... I’m here all week
Interesting. Send us a message if you like
Can I send you a message too?
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And when we think we’ve cracked it and arrange a meet, the guy is a no show.... the mind boggles!
So I suppose what we want is two things ..... firstly reliable guys please reveal yourselves and let’s see if we can’t get some juices flowing and secondly what is your thoughts on what is it exactly that makes the guys bolt .....
Mr & Mrs Neon, xx"Hi guys im sure it is very hard to find the right guy so many lads on this , me i joined to meet like minded couples , i was on this before and met some great honest fun people maybe a chat sometime see how the juices flow | |||
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So I suppose what we want is two things ..... firstly reliable guys please reveal yourselves and let’s see if we can’t get some juices flowing and secondly what is your thoughts on what is it exactly that makes the guys bolt .....
Mr & Mrs Neon, xx"Guys are bolting from an in-sustainable marketplace. Too much competition for too few high quality women and a serious reduction in the attitude of the average female swinger (marketplace power corrupts). | |||
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"We've just given up on single guys It's gone ridiculous . Nothing but boys left on the site all the men seem to have gone . They talk a good game build themselves to be the best thing since slice bread but when it comes down to it they wet themselves and run . Well that's our experience of late anyway . " Haha poor feckers | |||
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"A harsh critism of single males here. Yes no doubt there are pretenders here but a bit of common sense would tell you that from a profile weather genuine or not. I find the worst part of fab is the behaviour of some men who look at women as a piece of meet and No respect which causes all of us men to be painted with the one brush but if given a chance can prove our worth. I can safely say I have never ever cancelled a meet or not shown of arranged 110% guaranteed of my presence." How is it harsh when its the truth? How would you know? Are you actively looking for 30 something single men! | |||
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looking for hot reliable fellas
Lads/lassies from my experience of ‘dating’ sites like this being stood up is a regular thing so it’s to be expected. The internet allows people to have a look talk a good game then disappear. That needs to be factored in. Hell im on tinder with over a year. Match loads chat to a few and no date yet. Sounds like here. The only expectation you should have on sites like this is your gonna have to work your ass off to meet someone and 80% of the time you will be let down, then go enjoy the 20% | |||
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So I suppose what we want is two things ..... firstly reliable guys please reveal yourselves and let’s see if we can’t get some juices flowing and secondly what is your thoughts on what is it exactly that makes the guys bolt .....
Mr & Mrs Neon, xx"Well my opinion would be that the o shows and the unreliables are hiding something, then when and if what there hiding clashes with an arranged meet the meet is what suffers. I for one am straight upfront about everything i may have going on, that way if I need to change things there's no surprises and everyone can be honest! Oh by the way I certainly wouldn't have been a no show lol | |||
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