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By *atrick Smith OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Just wondering if people find it harder to meet people here than the outside world ?

Personally I dont have a problem meeting ladies but couples are impossible to meet outside here.

I know I might get more interest with photos etc (working on it)

I am hoping Fab will be good for meeting couples and ladies with specific kinks etc but on reading some of the profiles it seems the ladies hold all the power which is fine but something about here seems distorted in some way , I am new so time will tell.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Just wondering if people find it harder to meet people here than the outside world ?

Personally I dont have a problem meeting ladies but couples are impossible to meet outside here.

I know I might get more interest with photos etc (working on it)

I am hoping Fab will be good for meeting couples and ladies with specific kinks etc but on reading some of the profiles it seems the ladies hold all the power which is fine but something about here seems distorted in some way , I am new so time will tell.

"
meeting In the real world is far easier. go to a pub club, immediate face to face interaction. it's completely different. on here, it's an interview.

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"Just wondering if people find it harder to meet people here than the outside world ?

Personally I dont have a problem meeting ladies but couples are impossible to meet outside here.

I know I might get more interest with photos etc (working on it)

I am hoping Fab will be good for meeting couples and ladies with specific kinks etc but on reading some of the profiles it seems the ladies hold all the power which is fine but something about here seems distorted in some way , I am new so time will tell.

meeting In the real world is far easier. go to a pub club, immediate face to face interaction. it's completely different. on here, it's an interview. "

Really? meeting couples in real world is easier?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Just wondering if people find it harder to meet people here than the outside world ?

Personally I dont have a problem meeting ladies but couples are impossible to meet outside here.

I know I might get more interest with photos etc (working on it)

I am hoping Fab will be good for meeting couples and ladies with specific kinks etc but on reading some of the profiles it seems the ladies hold all the power which is fine but something about here seems distorted in some way , I am new so time will tell.

meeting In the real world is far easier. go to a pub club, immediate face to face interaction. it's completely different. on here, it's an interview.

Really? meeting couples in real world is easier?"
I'm speaking about myself. I never have nor ever will go out with the intention of meeting couples in the real world

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By *atrick Smith OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Yes certainly seems so. In fairness to the guys on here lots of them are in great shape, much better shape than me. I recon they would have no problem picking up women in the real world so why slog it out here in the hope of getting a some fun.

For fetish people I get it you cant just ask someone when you meet are you into xyz etc

Im here for meeting couples but would meet single females if they interested me but I am picky.

If I was strictly looking to hook up with single females for a run of the mill encounter I would not be here.

I am hoping for some kinky women and friendly couples so hopefully I wont be disappointed.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Just wondering if people find it harder to meet people here than the outside world ?

Personally I dont have a problem meeting ladies but couples are impossible to meet outside here.

I know I might get more interest with photos etc (working on it)

I am hoping Fab will be good for meeting couples and ladies with specific kinks etc but on reading some of the profiles it seems the ladies hold all the power which is fine but something about here seems distorted in some way , I am new so time will tell.

meeting In the real world is far easier. go to a pub club, immediate face to face interaction. it's completely different. on here, it's an interview.

Really? meeting couples in real world is easier? I'm speaking about myself. I never have nor ever will go out with the intention of meeting couples in the real world "
meeting women is far far easier in the real world

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

If youre into something specific..kink..couples..older..bdsm then id say fab is a good place to look..

.for one to one sex..fwb or fb..deffo real world and other sites..

.but lets face it..its a swingers site..not a dating site..

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By *atrick Smith OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Seems impossible.... certainly in Ireland.

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By *he socialistsCouple
over a year ago

dublin

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Just wondering if people find it harder to meet people here than the outside world ?

Personally I dont have a problem meeting ladies but couples are impossible to meet outside here.

I know I might get more interest with photos etc (working on it)

I am hoping Fab will be good for meeting couples and ladies with specific kinks etc but on reading some of the profiles it seems the ladies hold all the power which is fine but something about here seems distorted in some way , I am new so time will tell.

"

Your profile reads well and covers a lot about yourself and what you're looking for. You definitely need to get some photos up but leave the face and cock pics on private. Try and get to a M&G/ Social and you'll meet lots of couples and singles there..

Best of luck to you.

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"Just wondering if people find it harder to meet people here than the outside world ?

Personally I dont have a problem meeting ladies but couples are impossible to meet outside here.

I know I might get more interest with photos etc (working on it)

I am hoping Fab will be good for meeting couples and ladies with specific kinks etc but on reading some of the profiles it seems the ladies hold all the power which is fine but something about here seems distorted in some way , I am new so time will tell.

Your profile reads well and covers a lot about yourself and what you're looking for. You definitely need to get some photos up but leave the face and cock pics on private. Try and get to a M&G/ Social and you'll meet lots of couples and singles there..

Best of luck to you. "

Pmsl you really have to stop doing that loosey

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"If youre into something specific..kink..couples..older..bdsm then id say fab is a good place to look..

.for one to one sex..fwb or fb..deffo real world and other sites..

.but lets face it..its a swingers site..not a dating site.."

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Just wondering if people find it harder to meet people here than the outside world ?

Personally I dont have a problem meeting ladies but couples are impossible to meet outside here.

I know I might get more interest with photos etc (working on it)

I am hoping Fab will be good for meeting couples and ladies with specific kinks etc but on reading some of the profiles it seems the ladies hold all the power which is fine but something about here seems distorted in some way , I am new so time will tell.

Your profile reads well and covers a lot about yourself and what you're looking for. You definitely need to get some photos up but leave the face and cock pics on private. Try and get to a M&G/ Social and you'll meet lots of couples and singles there..

Best of luck to you. "
in fairness lad this is what most regulars will tell you.

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Just wondering if people find it harder to meet people here than the outside world ?

Personally I dont have a problem meeting ladies but couples are impossible to meet outside here.

I know I might get more interest with photos etc (working on it)

I am hoping Fab will be good for meeting couples and ladies with specific kinks etc but on reading some of the profiles it seems the ladies hold all the power which is fine but something about here seems distorted in some way , I am new so time will tell.

Your profile reads well and covers a lot about yourself and what you're looking for. You definitely need to get some photos up but leave the face and cock pics on private. Try and get to a M&G/ Social and you'll meet lots of couples and singles there..

Best of luck to you.

Pmsl you really have to stop doing that loosey "

I know I forget where I am and which profile I'm using

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

OP if you are interested in specific kinks, I suggest you try Fetlife also. May be more of the specifics you are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems impossible.... certainly in Ireland."

U have to verts allready

A lot are here far longer cant get a social meet in that length.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

I cant believe you managed to get two veris with no pics on your page

We are always on the look out for reliable single lads but ones that are good looking and fit rather than well endowed.

Not many on here like that unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant believe you managed to get two veris with no pics on your page

We are always on the look out for reliable single lads but ones that are good looking and fit rather than well endowed.

Not many on here like that unfortunately "

Are they all usually too well endowed?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I wouldn't have problems to pull in 'real life' despite my wrinkles but for me it's too much hit and miss, you've no idea what you're getting. Plus there's normally (too much) alcohol involved and I don't like d*unk sex. So the best outcome is -if you're lucky - mediocre sex with someone you've no idea whatsoever who he/she is.

That fab accommodates for specific kinks is just a welcomed side effect IMO. What I like is the straight forward nature of it. I don't have any specific kinks but I like good sex with a nice gent (or two or three). I'm not looking for a relationship, therefore fab is for me a great hunting ground. Here you can target prime prey, plan a meet carefully and have a feast.

While I agree that it can be much harder for men on here just alone because of the men-women ratio, I believe the above applies to male and female.

By the end of the day it depends what you want, if it's just a quick leg over going out on the pull might be the best way to go. If you want to explore and enhance your sexual experience you most likely are better of on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes where is this real world

Good morning cock trainer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Use other sites and the "real world". Once you're having regular sex you won't care too much about how you're being reacted to on here.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Meeting here is much easier for me.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"I cant believe you managed to get two veris with no pics on your page

We are always on the look out for reliable single lads but ones that are good looking and fit rather than well endowed.

Not many on here like that unfortunately

Are they all usually too well endowed? "
believe it or not having a big cock is not that important to a lot of ladies, looks and and charm are a far more desired attribute to a lot women..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant believe you managed to get two veris with no pics on your page

We are always on the look out for reliable single lads but ones that are good looking and fit rather than well endowed.

Not many on here like that unfortunately

Are they all usually too well endowed? believe it or not having a big cock is not that important to a lot of ladies, looks and and charm are a far more desired attribute to a lot women.."

Which part of my comment suggested it was?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes where is this real world

Good morning cock trainer "

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By *agle Eye PMan
over a year ago

meath, drogheda

I love to play a little game in my d*unken head when I see or talk to couples, where I guess whether or not they're swingers.

I was propositioned once, a long time ago when the thoughts of it scared me a bit, and there was this one woman who would NOT stop giving me a look as if I was on to something, like she almost wanted to smirk at me, when I had mentioned the term 'Swingers' among the group.

Overall, it's definitely easier to meet in real life, because you can see and detect a lot more.

There's so much open to interpretation here and given that it's in our nature to expect the worst in people sometimes, it all adds up for a 'harder' time

It seems like the Meet & Greet type of events would probably be the best scenario for everyone, since its basically like going out, only everyone there doesnt have to play pretend in their head like I do.

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