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By *trawberryCutie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Because of stress I've put on extra pounds . Do guys like that or do they all want skinny ladies ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love that more bigger more better ....love you all....

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

We all put on a few pounds here and there but that doesnt matter we all here to have fun and lots of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we like skinny women with a nice thigh gap

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By *andydevineMan
over a year ago

sligo


"No we like skinny women with a nice thigh gap"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you actually care strawberry?? If those men can be fussy enough over a few lbs they better be as hot as Bruce Willis and Jason statham all in one hot sexy horny combo! Being comfortable in your own skin is what matter's most. xXx

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By *hadowcookieCouple
over a year ago

Portlaoise

None of us are perfect.. We all carry extra lumps and bumps, even the slimmest can have spare parts.. I've got a mummy belly and can be conscious of it.. But as my partner (and a few guys said) it won't be my belly they're looking at.. Lol.. Sexy is how you carry it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pounds or not you are beautiful, and anyone that wants to meet you will do because your a special girl

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Doesmt matter what is on the outside its whats on the inside that counts beauty is only skin deep we all have things we dont like about ourselves but its those things that make us who we are i have had plenty of guys turn me down because im a bigger girl but i just think what a twit and that its there lost if they are a true man they wont care about a few extra pounds and as i always say sure its just more of me to love so get out there and enjoy yourself lifes to short lol

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Doesmt matter what is on the outside its whats on the inside that counts beauty is only skin deep we all have things we dont like about ourselves but its those things that make us who we are i have had plenty of guys turn me down because im a bigger girl but i just think what a twit and that its there lost if they are a true man they wont care about a few extra pounds and as i always say sure its just more of me to love so get out there and enjoy yourself lifes to short lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine there are some who do and others who don't, they're entitled to their preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am a big old fat submissive TV

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP some guys will prefer you with a few extra lbs, some won't and alot wont care either way. Just like any other preference like age or height. If your happy with yourself who cares and if your not well then good food and exercise are a great way to deal with stress so 2 birds with one cup and all that.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Errr no ....more important stuff going on in the world ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t suit everyone in this world some guys like a few extra pounds others don’t. It’s how you feel about yourself at the end of the day.

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By *rudenMan
over a year ago

dublin

If you are a nice person who cares But don’t lets the next few pounds go on for your sake. Dermot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly.... who cares?

There's enough blokes on here for everyone!!! Lol

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By *ailburkeMan
over a year ago

near you

Its not what your carrying but how you carry it thats what makes a girl sexy

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon

Weight gain from stress... wow who knew

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Perfect 10.(The Beautiful South)

She's a perfect 10, but she wears a 12 Baby keep a little 2 for me She could be sweet 16, bustin' out at the seams It's still love in the first degree

When he's at my gate, with a big fat 8 You want to see the smile on my face And even at my door, with a poor poor 4 There ain't no man can replace

'Cause we love our love, in different sizes I love her body, especially the lies Time takes it's toll, but not on the eyes Promise me this, take me tonight

If he's extra large well I'm in charge I can work this thing on top If he's XXL well what the hell Every penny don't fit the slot

The anorexic chicks, the model 6 They don't hold no weight with me Well 8 or 9, well that's just fine But I like to hold something I can see

'Cause we love our love, in different sizes I love her body, especially the lies Time takes it's toll, but not on the eyes Promise me this, take me tonight

I've bought a watch, to time your beauty But I've had to fit a second hand I've bought a calendar, and every month Is taken up by lover man

'Cause we love our love, in different sizes I love her body, especially the lies Time takes it's toll, but not on the eyes Promise me this, take me tonight

'Cause we love our love, in different sizes I love her body, especially the lies Time takes it's toll, but not on the e

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perfect 10.(The Beautiful South)

She's a perfect 10, but she wears a 12 Baby keep a little 2 for me She could be sweet 16, bustin' out at the seams It's still love in the first degree

When he's at my gate, with a big fat 8 You want to see the smile on my face And even at my door, with a poor poor 4 There ain't no man can replace

'Cause we love our love, in different sizes I love her body, especially the lies Time takes it's toll, but not on the eyes Promise me this, take me tonight

If he's extra large well I'm in charge I can work this thing on top If he's XXL well what the hell Every penny don't fit the slot

The anorexic chicks, the model 6 They don't hold no weight with me Well 8 or 9, well that's just fine But I like to hold something I can see

'Cause we love our love, in different sizes I love her body, especially the lies Time takes it's toll, but not on the eyes Promise me this, take me tonight

I've bought a watch, to time your beauty But I've had to fit a second hand I've bought a calendar, and every month Is taken up by lover man

'Cause we love our love, in different sizes I love her body, especially the lies Time takes it's toll, but not on the eyes Promise me this, take me tonight

'Cause we love our love, in different sizes I love her body, especially the lies Time takes it's toll, but not on the e"

I sang every word of that

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth


"Perfect 10.(The Beautiful South)

She's a perfect 10, but she wears a 12 Baby keep a little 2 for me She could be sweet 16, bustin' out at the seams It's still love in the first degree

When he's at my gate, with a big fat 8 You want to see the smile on my face And even at my door, with a poor poor 4 There ain't no man can replace

'Cause we love our love, in different sizes I love her body, especially the lies Time takes it's toll, but not on the eyes Promise me this, take me tonight

If he's extra large well I'm in charge I can work this thing on top If he's XXL well what the hell Every penny don't fit the slot

The anorexic chicks, the model 6 They don't hold no weight with me Well 8 or 9, well that's just fine But I like to hold something I can see

'Cause we love our love, in different sizes I love her body, especially the lies Time takes it's toll, but not on the eyes Promise me this, take me tonight

I've bought a watch, to time your beauty But I've had to fit a second hand I've bought a calendar, and every month Is taken up by lover man

'Cause we love our love, in different sizes I love her body, especially the lies Time takes it's toll, but not on the eyes Promise me this, take me tonight

'Cause we love our love, in different sizes I love her body, especially the lies Time takes it's toll, but not on the e"

Brilliant i started singing this outta nowhere last week after not hearing it for years!

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By *ighighdrawMan
over a year ago

Dublin border

I find if a woman is confident in her body then it is a huge attraction regardless of size! Flaunt it, enjoy it, show it off! We love it don't worry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone likes different and if people dont like ya for who you are.well fuck em.will be plenty more nuts bout ya

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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago

athenry

Don't let a few pounds gained get you down. Personality is more important and plenty of men like a few extra pounds. I would be more concerned about the stress that you were under to cause the weight gain. It can be easier lose weight than get out of a stressful situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't let a few pounds gained get you down. Personality is more important and plenty of men like a few extra pounds. I would be more concerned about the stress that you were under to cause the weight gain. It can be easier lose weight than get out of a stressful situation "

Yes deal with your stress first and the few pounds after that.

There is a lot more to a person than their size xxx

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By *iroma2010Man
over a year ago

Blackrock

Only self centered guys will give a shit about a lady's size. It's about the person and you should not be worrying about what one thinks as you are a beautiful lady.

Deal with the stress and you will feel great about ur self.

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By *lba2022Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Because of stress I've put on extra pounds . Do guys like that or do they all want skinny ladies ????"

Its whats inside that matters.

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon


"Because of stress I've put on extra pounds . Do guys like that or do they all want skinny ladies ????

Its whats inside that matters."

Exactly... it's all about whats 'inside' StrawberryCutie

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

I personally like curves on a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same op but I'm not worried about it. People will like u or they won't. Embrace your body! u will or won't loose they pounds when and if u decide yourself !

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By *ealOne74Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Do you actually care strawberry?? If those men can be fussy enough over a few lbs they better be as hot as Bruce Willis and Jason statham all in one hot sexy horny combo! Being comfortable in your own skin is what matter's most. xXx"

So one must be perfect to prefer perfect bodied women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only self centered guys will give a shit about a lady's size. It's about the person and you should not be worrying about what one thinks as you are a beautiful lady.

Deal with the stress and you will feel great about ur self. "

Just because someone has a physical preference doesnt make them self centered...

Someone who wants a thin/curvy/tall/short or what ever else type of meet is more than entitled to look for that as long as they are respectful about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because of stress I've put on extra pounds . Do guys like that or do they all want skinny ladies ????"
no not all men...I love a curvy lady..as the boss lol and if guy's don't take you as you are then fk em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's a personal preference job, for me curves are good but I don't go for rolls. sure they'll be guys who aren't interested because of superficial reasons but that's not your problem.

sounds to me like you're not happy with the extra pounds and to be fair you're the only person you should change yourself for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be urself doesn't matter what others think as long as ur happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh gods not that old chestnut again. There's something for everybody on here.

I've undergone WLS so I can speak from both sides of the spectrum.

If you're searching for Mr. Perfect then this isn't the site for you. Guys (and girls) on here are searching for their horn - fat or thin it would depend on a variety of mitigating factors. If what turns them on disagrees with you, ignore them.

That being said, I can't help but be irked by "bbwlovers" who exclusively seek out larger women to abuse, take advantage of and/or humiliate in a non-consensual or risky fashion... I can't help but think they target larger women because they think a big woman will put up with shit most slim women would not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all guys do. Personally I like women comfortable with their body whatever the size. Speaking as an overweight man, I am comfortable with my body, unless I see it in the mirror

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Because of stress I've put on extra pounds . Do guys like that or do they all want skinny ladies ????"

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As a not so wise Fabber once said (me)

"Sexy is more an attitude than a dress size or numbers on a scale"

I've met you at a party before and with those eyes you'll have more than enough guys to keep you company

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By *agle Eye PMan
over a year ago

meath, drogheda

Don't be worrying and adding stress.

Maintain a good state of mind and change whatever it is you truly feel you want to - but whenever is best suited for YOU.

Me personally, I prefer to find someone who is easy going and without drama etc.

A level head can make a rockin' bed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it so shocking to discover that some men genuinely like bigger built women . .?

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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15


"Is it so shocking to discover that some men genuinely like bigger built women . .? "

it's not shocking at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it so shocking to discover that some men genuinely like bigger built women . .? "

Was anyone shocked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it so shocking to discover that some men genuinely like bigger built women . .?

Was anyone shocked?"

No

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By *z2goTV/TS
over a year ago

london

Wow no !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't let a few pounds gained get you down. Personality is more important and plenty of men like a few extra pounds. I would be more concerned about the stress that you were under to cause the weight gain. It can be easier lose weight than get out of a stressful situation

Yes deal with your stress first and the few pounds after that.

There is a lot more to a person than their size xxx"

to both of the above posters. Absolutely agree, don't let a few pounds get u down. Mind yourself first and foremost x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because of stress I've put on extra pounds . Do guys like that or do they all want skinny ladies ????"
doesn't really matter to me. If the spark or connection is there, that's what i look for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because of stress I've put on extra pounds . Do guys like that or do they all want skinny ladies ????"

Do you like it? That's the only question there is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perfect 10.(The Beautiful South)

She's a perfect 10, but she wears a 12 Baby keep a little 2 for me She could be sweet 16, bustin' out at the seams It's still love in the first degree

When he's at my gate, with a big fat 8 You want to see the smile on my face And even at my door, with a poor poor 4 There ain't no man can replace

'Cause we love our love, in different sizes I love her body, especially the lies Time takes it's toll, but not on the eyes Promise me this, take me tonight

If he's extra large well I'm in charge I can work this thing on top If he's XXL well what the hell Every penny don't fit the slot

The anorexic chicks, the model 6 They don't hold no weight with me Well 8 or 9, well that's just fine But I like to hold something I can see

'Cause we love our love, in different sizes I love her body, especially the lies Time takes it's toll, but not on the eyes Promise me this, take me tonight

I've bought a watch, to time your beauty But I've had to fit a second hand I've bought a calendar, and every month Is taken up by lover man

'Cause we love our love, in different sizes I love her body, especially the lies Time takes it's toll, but not on the eyes Promise me this, take me tonight

'Cause we love our love, in different sizes I love her body, especially the lies Time takes it's toll, but not on the e

I sang every word of that "

so did i!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesmt matter what is on the outside its whats on the inside that counts beauty is only skin deep we all have things we dont like about ourselves but its those things that make us who we are i have had plenty of guys turn me down because im a bigger girl but i just think what a twit and that its there lost if they are a true man they wont care about a few extra pounds and as i always say sure its just more of me to love so get out there and enjoy yourself lifes to short lol"

100% This

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By *iroma2010Man
over a year ago

Blackrock


"Is it so shocking to discover that some men genuinely like bigger built women . .? "

No it's not

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

I like 36c cups...

..27 inch waist..

..34 inch hips..

...like tanned skin beautiful teeth and dark sultry eyes with long hair....

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...delicate hands, confident demeanor, good sense of humour and ladies that accomodate...

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......non smoker, prepared to travel..love oral(giving..i mean like...come on..you dont expect me to lick that..you wee out of it.. )...and very unselfish lovers..

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.oh aye...and sarcasm..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure us men have the same hang up ,so you are not alone on this site ,so we just have to meet the people who see something else in us ,

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By *ubblyeveWoman
over a year ago

thurles


"Do you actually care strawberry?? If those men can be fussy enough over a few lbs they better be as hot as Bruce Willis and Jason statham all in one hot sexy horny combo! Being comfortable in your own skin is what matter's most. xXx"

Well said

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By *imerickboyMan
over a year ago

city

Got to prefer ladies with something to grab on to

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"Weight gain from stress... wow who knew "

Yes it does happen ....moron !!!!!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"Perfect 10.(The Beautiful South)

She's a perfect 10, but she wears a 12 Baby keep a little 2 for me She could be sweet 16, bustin' out at the seams It's still love in the first degree

When he's at my gate, with a big fat 8 You want to see the smile on my face And even at my door, with a poor poor 4 There ain't no man can replace

'Cause we love our love, in different sizes I love her body, especially the lies Time takes it's toll, but not on the eyes Promise me this, take me tonight

If he's extra large well I'm in charge I can work this thing on top If he's XXL well what the hell Every penny don't fit the slot

The anorexic chicks, the model 6 They don't hold no weight with me Well 8 or 9, well that's just fine But I like to hold something I can see

'Cause we love our love, in different sizes I love her body, especially the lies Time takes it's toll, but not on the eyes Promise me this, take me tonight

I've bought a watch, to time your beauty But I've had to fit a second hand I've bought a calendar, and every month Is taken up by lover man

'Cause we love our love, in different sizes I love her body, especially the lies Time takes it's toll, but not on the eyes Promise me this, take me tonight

'Cause we love our love, in different sizes I love her body, especially the lies Time takes it's toll, but not on the e"

Exactly this ..... thankyou ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm the same op but I'm not worried about it. People will like u or they won't. Embrace your body! u will or won't loose they pounds when and if u decide yourself ! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind a cuddly lady mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My weight has gone up and down since I was a teen and now keep all range of clothing lol but remember op your not alone and so many other women are the same including me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to agree men have the same problem and they find it hard to meet women on the site! I still have to find a chubby chaser! Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is gone up due too my menoupause starting, I'm trying too exercise when I can, but not easy as I am a full-time carer for my mom. Only exercise when I get free time, and I'm going away too Bulgaria for my 50th and want to get into my bikini, so Op your not alone on that one, more of us too love I always say

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By *agiceyesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

You would need all of Dublin city council workers to digg me out of the OP .......cracker !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because of stress I've put on extra pounds . Do guys like that or do they all want skinny ladies ????"

Surely by now you know everyone will have different preferences when it comes to size.

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By *lba2022Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

If you can't accept a person as they are then you are not worth their valuable time and effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is gone up due too my menoupause starting, I'm trying too exercise when I can, but not easy as I am a full-time carer for my mom. Only exercise when I get free time, and I'm going away too Bulgaria for my 50th and want to get into my bikini, so Op your not alone on that one, more of us too love I always say "

You should worry about only one thing before going away....the color of your new bikini! You're sexy as hell as you are! Let me know if you need help picking some sexy beech wear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is gone up due too my menoupause starting, I'm trying too exercise when I can, but not easy as I am a full-time carer for my mom. Only exercise when I get free time, and I'm going away too Bulgaria for my 50th and want to get into my bikini, so Op your not alone on that one, more of us too love I always say "
and what's not to love..your as I tell my other half ,perfect as you are sure your pic's are great.

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By *iver80Man
over a year ago

south side ,


"Because of stress I've put on extra pounds . Do guys like that or do they all want skinny ladies ????"
...

I love a woman with curves , ive always had a thing for the curvy girls , its the ass and hips that do it for me ..dont ever be ashamed of who you are , make sure your just happy with you thays the main xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is gone up due too my menoupause starting, I'm trying too exercise when I can, but not easy as I am a full-time carer for my mom. Only exercise when I get free time, and I'm going away too Bulgaria for my 50th and want to get into my bikini, so Op your not alone on that one, more of us too love I always say thanks, that's a big boost too my confidence

You should worry about only one thing before going away....the color of your new bikini! You're sexy as hell as you are! Let me know if you need help picking some sexy beech wear "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, one of the sexiest attributes a woman can have is confidence. Regardless of shape or size, if she’s rocking what she has with confidence I’m all in!! Good luck, and stop doubting yourself. You look great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is gone up due too my menoupause starting, I'm trying too exercise when I can, but not easy as I am a full-time carer for my mom. Only exercise when I get free time, and I'm going away too Bulgaria for my 50th and want to get into my bikini, so Op your not alone on that one, more of us too love I always say and what's not to love..your as I tell my other half ,perfect as you are sure your pic's are great."

That's a big boost too my confidence. Appreciate the compliment. Roll on for the hols

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