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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In all the years you’ve been swinging.. has a rubber every burst on anyone and the ride continued until you/someone noticed?

Essentially you’ve both gone bareback for a period of time which is a nicht nicht verboten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully not....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had someone pretend to wear a condom and be caught out at a party. I've also seen the same person try it with someone else and say "it must have fallen off" when confronted about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had someone pretend to wear a condom and be caught out at a party. I've also seen the same person try it with someone else and say "it must have fallen off" when confronted about it. "

I think that can be classified as sexual assault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had someone pretend to wear a condom and be caught out at a party. I've also seen the same person try it with someone else and say "it must have fallen off" when confronted about it.

I think that can be classified as sexual assault. "

I have since seen that said on here but it's a while ago now and I'm not going to go down that road. The other person was as annoyed as me at the time but forgave him, I told him I'd never ever let him near me again. Our paths don't cross that often and I don't think he's on here anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ps I was tested after and all clear. I am tested regularly.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"I've had someone pretend to wear a condom and be caught out at a party. I've also seen the same person try it with someone else and say "it must have fallen off" when confronted about it.

I think that can be classified as sexual assault. "
stealthing oys called

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had someone pretend to wear a condom and be caught out at a party. I've also seen the same person try it with someone else and say "it must have fallen off" when confronted about it.

I think that can be classified as sexual assault. stealthing oys called "

Ya I couldn't think of the name it's given but its sexual assault as it was agreed and it has serious potential dangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn't agreed

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia


"I've had someone pretend to wear a condom and be caught out at a party. I've also seen the same person try it with someone else and say "it must have fallen off" when confronted about it. "
to me that’s a form of assault No excuses for it should be arrested

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Only ever had two condoms break, many years ago. I did know when the second one broke as I could feel it but not the first. Luckily she was also on the pill and everything was ok.

The irony is that both times it happened, I was using Durex Extra Safe

Needless to say that I changed brand/type since.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

them fucking rubbery things are a nuisance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only ever had two condoms break, many years ago. I did know when the second one broke as I could feel it but not the first. Luckily she was also on the pill and everything was ok.

The irony is that both times it happened, I was using Durex Extra Safe

Needless to say that I changed brand/type since."

yeah I've only had Durex condoms break switched brands and haven't had an issue since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only ever had two condoms break, many years ago. I did know when the second one broke as I could feel it but not the first. Luckily she was also on the pill and everything was ok.

The irony is that both times it happened, I was using Durex Extra Safe

Needless to say that I changed brand/type since.

yeah I've only had Durex condoms break switched brands and haven't had an issue since"

What brand do you use now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...let's just say what isn't sexual assault anymore..less people will be affected. ..God sake...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only ever had two condoms break, many years ago. I did know when the second one broke as I could feel it but not the first. Luckily she was also on the pill and everything was ok.

The irony is that both times it happened, I was using Durex Extra Safe

Needless to say that I changed brand/type since.

yeah I've only had Durex condoms break switched brands and haven't had an issue since

What brand do you use now?"

Skyn condoms and they're latex free so fine for people with allergies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only ever had two condoms break, many years ago. I did know when the second one broke as I could feel it but not the first. Luckily she was also on the pill and everything was ok.

The irony is that both times it happened, I was using Durex Extra Safe

Needless to say that I changed brand/type since.

yeah I've only had Durex condoms break switched brands and haven't had an issue since

What brand do you use now?

Skyn condoms and they're latex free so fine for people with allergies"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. We've had plenty of Durex break on us but haven't had any problems since we started using Skyn

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river

Lidl had a special offer,

1 bag of nappies free with every box of condoms

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Strange, I only ever had skyn condom break.

It was the girl who wanted me to wear them because she went on about durex bursting and latex blah blah blah..

Anyway the skyn burst, and I never knew. I felt it different, like the ring at the bottom was too tight, but the sensation was fine.

Anyway, it had burst and basically the only bit of my cock in the condom was the ring.

When I pulled out I just said "oh shit", and she turned around to see the condom burst.

Anyway she was my girlfriend and she was on the pill and we both got tested then and later. It was a few years ago.

The whole incident made me stop trusting her, like I stopped having sex. It was a bit weird she had gone on about condoms breaking and I thought maybe she was trying to get pregnant. The lack of sex made us break up like a month later.

Anyway, she got with another guy, and she must have done the same with him, cause just under a year later she was having his baby.

The baby was born without hiv/aids too, and I had been tested clean again in that time and had sex with no one.

So it all turned out good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strange, I only ever had skyn condom break.

It was the girl who wanted me to wear them because she went on about durex bursting and latex blah blah blah..

Anyway the skyn burst, and I never knew. I felt it different, like the ring at the bottom was too tight, but the sensation was fine.

Anyway, it had burst and basically the only bit of my cock in the condom was the ring.

When I pulled out I just said "oh shit", and she turned around to see the condom burst.

Anyway she was my girlfriend and she was on the pill and we both got tested then and later. It was a few years ago.

The whole incident made me stop trusting her, like I stopped having sex. It was a bit weird she had gone on about condoms breaking and I thought maybe she was trying to get pregnant. The lack of sex made us break up like a month later.

Anyway, she got with another guy, and she must have done the same with him, cause just under a year later she was having his baby.

The baby was born without hiv/aids too, and I had been tested clean again in that time and had sex with no one.

So it all turned out good."

lucky escape perhaps ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strange, I only ever had skyn condom break.

It was the girl who wanted me to wear them because she went on about durex bursting and latex blah blah blah..

Anyway the skyn burst, and I never knew. I felt it different, like the ring at the bottom was too tight, but the sensation was fine.

Anyway, it had burst and basically the only bit of my cock in the condom was the ring.

When I pulled out I just said "oh shit", and she turned around to see the condom burst.

Anyway she was my girlfriend and she was on the pill and we both got tested then and later. It was a few years ago.

The whole incident made me stop trusting her, like I stopped having sex. It was a bit weird she had gone on about condoms breaking and I thought maybe she was trying to get pregnant. The lack of sex made us break up like a month later.

Anyway, she got with another guy, and she must have done the same with him, cause just under a year later she was having his baby.

The baby was born without hiv/aids too, and I had been tested clean again in that time and had sex with no one.

So it all turned out good.

lucky escape perhaps ??"

More of a cool story

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Yea had a few of them, always with the same lovely man. A condom can only take that much friction. Anyhow two years on and we're both still alive, no baby was aborted or born and we didn't make the STI stats either.

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"Yea had a few of them, always with the same lovely man. A condom can only take that much friction. Anyhow two years on and we're both still alive, no baby was aborted or born and we didn't make the STI stats either. "

Think you’ve hit on something there. Do you watch F1...? You may need to start introducing pit stops into your sessions to change the rubber and cut down on the blow outs...

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By *indapeterCouple
over a year ago

northamption

Yes it happen quite often, with ladies and men with rings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea had a few of them, always with the same lovely man. A condom can only take that much friction. Anyhow two years on and we're both still alive, no baby was aborted or born and we didn't make the STI stats either.

Think you’ve hit on something there. Do you watch F1...? You may need to start introducing pit stops into your sessions to change the rubber and cut down on the blow outs... "

You're only saying that cos you need a sleep in the middle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...let's just say what isn't sexual assault anymore..less people will be affected. ..God sake... "

Horrible attitude.

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"Yea had a few of them, always with the same lovely man. A condom can only take that much friction. Anyhow two years on and we're both still alive, no baby was aborted or born and we didn't make the STI stats either.

Think you’ve hit on something there. Do you watch F1...? You may need to start introducing pit stops into your sessions to change the rubber and cut down on the blow outs...

You're only saying that cos you need a sleep in the middle "

That’s the LeMans 24-hr endurance you’re thinking of, where the drivers change every few hours and the resting driver gets to have a snooze.

Pardon the pun, but there might be some mileage in this idea... in future I just need to get two other male participants and I get me snooze when it’s not my turn..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're only saying that cos you need a sleep in the middle

That’s the LeMans 24-hr endurance you’re thinking of, where the drivers change every few hours"

No Joe, it's really not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...let's just say what isn't sexual assault anymore..less people will be affected. ..God sake... "

You have heard of a little thing called consent right....

A girl/guy consents to kissing not oral you do it assault.

They consent to oral not penetration you do it anyway assault.

They consent to protected sex... you see where this is going right

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"You're only saying that cos you need a sleep in the middle

That’s the LeMans 24-hr endurance you’re thinking of, where the drivers change every few hours

No Joe, it's really not "

I’m not shaking this “sleeper” tag now, am I..??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So when she says “no no no” and you stop but then she slaps you for stopping,who’s assaulted who?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"So when she says “no no no” and you stop but then she slaps you for stopping,who’s assaulted who? "

Top tip... Don't go through life thinking that people who say no don't actually mean it.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"You're only saying that cos you need a sleep in the middle

That’s the LeMans 24-hr endurance you’re thinking of, where the drivers change every few hours

No Joe, it's really not

I’m not shaking this “sleeper” tag now, am I..??! "

You could always try blaming the jet lag Joe....but nobody will believe you

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"You're only saying that cos you need a sleep in the middle

That’s the LeMans 24-hr endurance you’re thinking of, where the drivers change every few hours

No Joe, it's really not

I’m not shaking this “sleeper” tag now, am I..??!

You could always try blaming the jet lag Joe....but nobody will believe you "

Reputation in tatters... next stop viagra and Red Bull..!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In all the years you’ve been swinging.. has a rubber every burst on anyone and the ride continued until you/someone noticed?

Essentially you’ve both gone bareback for a period of time which is a nicht nicht verboten."

Not in my entire life and hopefully never will.

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By *ittyMissKittyWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I've had guys try to stealth me both at parties and at normal meets. It's not nice and it's not on. I think a lot of guys feel that because I'm a single girl that I won't say anything.

Condom broke once too, not a nice experience but thankfully all's well that ends well.

I make a point of getting tested regularly as you can't trust anyone but yourself

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon


"I've had guys try to stealth me both at parties and at normal meets. It's not nice and it's not on. I think a lot of guys feel that because I'm a single girl that I won't say anything.

Condom broke once too, not a nice experience but thankfully all's well that ends well.

I make a point of getting tested regularly as you can't trust anyone but yourself "

Happened here once too... aweful experience. I'd met the girl a few times before so we knew eachother a bit, but when it happens its always a worry. Spent next morning looking for a pharmacy open on a sunday in killarney

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"In all the years you’ve been swinging.. has a rubber every burst on anyone and the ride continued until you/someone noticed?

Essentially you’ve both gone bareback for a period of time which is a nicht nicht verboten."

If the guy doesn’t notice pretty much straight away there’s something wrong or perhaps he’s sandbagging on sharing the fact with the lady as the feeling is much better.

Rubber = little sensation, no rubber = sensation and much different feeling.

In summary, at least the guy should know very quickly and be able to raise the alarm.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


" lucky escape perhaps ??"

I'd say so.

Anyway enough talk about my ex, and some talk about my next, how you doing?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"In all the years you’ve been swinging.. has a rubber every burst on anyone and the ride continued until you/someone noticed?

Essentially you’ve both gone bareback for a period of time which is a nicht nicht verboten.

If the guy doesn’t notice pretty much straight away there’s something wrong or perhaps he’s sandbagging on sharing the fact with the lady as the feeling is much better.

Rubber = little sensation, no rubber = sensation and much different feeling.

In summary, at least the guy should know very quickly and be able to raise the alarm."

I don't really agree with this one Joe. Everyone's different and it also depends on the condoms you're using and finally there's the factor of the heat of the moment.

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


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Rubber = little sensation, no rubber = sensation and much different feeling.

In summary, at least the guy should know very quickly and be able to raise the alarm.

I don't really agree with this one Joe. Everyone's different and it also depends on the condoms you're using and finally there's the factor of the heat of the moment. "

Ok - so what we have is two different assertions here. The three things you mention are variables that no-one will likely agree on. My reference point is the feeling I get when covered vs uncovered. And it’s different. Markedly. For me.

Any other guys care to help out here and comment on the feeling they have when covered or uncovered? Is is broadly the same or can you tell there’s a difference without looking?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"

Rubber = little sensation, no rubber = sensation and much different feeling.

In summary, at least the guy should know very quickly and be able to raise the alarm.

I don't really agree with this one Joe. Everyone's different and it also depends on the condoms you're using and finally there's the factor of the heat of the moment.

Ok - so what we have is two different assertions here. The three things you mention are variables that no-one will likely agree on. My reference point is the feeling I get when covered vs uncovered. And it’s different. Markedly. For me.

Any other guys care to help out here and comment on the feeling they have when covered or uncovered? Is is broadly the same or can you tell there’s a difference without looking?"

Well yes, I find covered feels very different to uncovered but there are still a lot of variables. The brand of condom, the partner's body and the heat of the moment. It's never happened! So I really don't know whether I'd notice or not. I think I would but I know that sometimes I manage to forget I'm wearing one at all.

It can be awkward enough at the breakfast table when that happens.

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor

What's worse than finding a hole in your condom?

Finding a condom in your hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heat of the moment can happen but to purposely trick someone is a totally different thing. Condom breaking and going unnoticed can happen (hasn't happened me) but that's just unfortunate. Stealthing is deliberately tricking someone into something they didn't consent to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Heat of the moment can happen but to purposely trick someone is a totally different thing. Condom breaking and going unnoticed can happen (hasn't happened me) but that's just unfortunate. Stealthing is deliberately tricking someone into something they didn't consent to. "

What's it called when you wake up to her on top of you

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"What's worse than finding a hole in your condom?

Finding a condom in your hole. "

I remember a lad in college 30 years ago who was complaining about his sock being uncomfortable on his foot one day. He took off his shoe and there was a used condom stuck to the inside of his shoe.

It wasn't his either

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

It has once or twice the rubber burst and did not know until afterwards . Got a bad fright thought she got pregnant and me had the snip years ago . Thank god all was well . I would not have ran away just she would have to have got checked bye a doc first before getting pregnant .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Heat of the moment can happen but to purposely trick someone is a totally different thing. Condom breaking and going unnoticed can happen (hasn't happened me) but that's just unfortunate. Stealthing is deliberately tricking someone into something they didn't consent to.

What's it called when you wake up to her on top of you "

Cowgirl or reverse cowgirl depending which direction she's facing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Heat of the moment can happen but to purposely trick someone is a totally different thing. Condom breaking and going unnoticed can happen (hasn't happened me) but that's just unfortunate. Stealthing is deliberately tricking someone into something they didn't consent to.

What's it called when you wake up to her on top of you

Cowgirl or reverse cowgirl depending which direction she's facing "

So it's OK if you were asleep and couldn't consent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Heat of the moment can happen but to purposely trick someone is a totally different thing. Condom breaking and going unnoticed can happen (hasn't happened me) but that's just unfortunate. Stealthing is deliberately tricking someone into something they didn't consent to.

What's it called when you wake up to her on top of you

Cowgirl or reverse cowgirl depending which direction she's facing

So it's OK if you were asleep and couldn't consent "

Obviously not, I assumed you already knew the answer to your question. It depends on how you react to it yourself. If you're happy and OK with it then it's a nice surprise if you're not then it's assault.

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon


"Heat of the moment can happen but to purposely trick someone is a totally different thing. Condom breaking and going unnoticed can happen (hasn't happened me) but that's just unfortunate. Stealthing is deliberately tricking someone into something they didn't consent to.

What's it called when you wake up to her on top of you

Cowgirl or reverse cowgirl depending which direction she's facing

So it's OK if you were asleep and couldn't consent "

Wasn't there an irish girl had her boyfriend locked up for having sex with her while she was asleep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Heat of the moment can happen but to purposely trick someone is a totally different thing. Condom breaking and going unnoticed can happen (hasn't happened me) but that's just unfortunate. Stealthing is deliberately tricking someone into something they didn't consent to.

What's it called when you wake up to her on top of you

Cowgirl or reverse cowgirl depending which direction she's facing

So it's OK if you were asleep and couldn't consent

Wasn't there an irish girl had her boyfriend locked up for having sex with her while she was asleep!"

I'm just trying to see people's views on consent obviously one can't consent when asleep, just because you had sex the night before doesn't automatically give you consent for the morning but do people perceive things differently if it's the woman who instigated the sex

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Heat of the moment can happen but to purposely trick someone is a totally different thing. Condom breaking and going unnoticed can happen (hasn't happened me) but that's just unfortunate. Stealthing is deliberately tricking someone into something they didn't consent to.

What's it called when you wake up to her on top of you "

A fairy tail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Heat of the moment can happen but to purposely trick someone is a totally different thing. Condom breaking and going unnoticed can happen (hasn't happened me) but that's just unfortunate. Stealthing is deliberately tricking someone into something they didn't consent to.

What's it called when you wake up to her on top of you

Cowgirl or reverse cowgirl depending which direction she's facing

So it's OK if you were asleep and couldn't consent

Wasn't there an irish girl had her boyfriend locked up for having sex with her while she was asleep!

I'm just trying to see people's views on consent obviously one can't consent when asleep, just because you had sex the night before doesn't automatically give you consent for the morning but do people perceive things differently if it's the woman who instigated the sex "

Funny enough a lad in college told someone I worked with before that be woke up to a girl on top of him and they never even had sex before. Everyone started laughing when they found out but he didn't think it was funny. They were roommates and he told her get off. She went back to her county for a week then came back and everything was forgotten. I do see the double standards.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"

Rubber = little sensation, no rubber = sensation and much different feeling.

In summary, at least the guy should know very quickly and be able to raise the alarm.

I don't really agree with this one Joe. Everyone's different and it also depends on the condoms you're using and finally there's the factor of the heat of the moment.

Ok - so what we have is two different assertions here. The three things you mention are variables that no-one will likely agree on. My reference point is the feeling I get when covered vs uncovered. And it’s different. Markedly. For me.

Any other guys care to help out here and comment on the feeling they have when covered or uncovered? Is is broadly the same or can you tell there’s a difference without looking?

Well yes, I find covered feels very different to uncovered but there are still a lot of variables. The brand of condom, the partner's body and the heat of the moment. It's never happened! So I really don't know whether I'd notice or not. I think I would but I know that sometimes I manage to forget I'm wearing one at all.

It can be awkward enough at the breakfast table when that happens. "

breakfast table.

First time, I didn't notice, due to heat of the moment probably.

Second time, I did notice that the base/ring of condom felt tighter and sensation further up was definitely better, obviously.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"

Rubber = little sensation, no rubber = sensation and much different feeling.

In summary, at least the guy should know very quickly and be able to raise the alarm.

I don't really agree with this one Joe. Everyone's different and it also depends on the condoms you're using and finally there's the factor of the heat of the moment.

Ok - so what we have is two different assertions here. The three things you mention are variables that no-one will likely agree on. My reference point is the feeling I get when covered vs uncovered. And it’s different. Markedly. For me.

Any other guys care to help out here and comment on the feeling they have when covered or uncovered? Is is broadly the same or can you tell there’s a difference without looking?"

When a condom rips, you're normally still at least partly covered, especially the bottom end of the condom sits still tight at the end of the shaft. So already from that point of view it might not be immediately noticeable by the wearer. To say that the man is holding back the info seems to me a rather harsh accusation. I'm sure there's the odd chancer and I'm not saying it doesn't happen at all, but you can tell when someone is a genuine condom user, has no issue with wearing a condom and regards wearing a condom as a protection for himself and the partner but also to avoid pregnancy.

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


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When a condom rips, you're normally still at least partly covered, especially the bottom end of the condom sits still tight at the end of the shaft. So already from that point of view it might not be immediately noticeable by the wearer. To say that the man is holding back the info seems to me a rather harsh accusation. I'm sure there's the odd chancer and I'm not saying it doesn't happen at all, but you can tell when someone is a genuine condom user, has no issue with wearing a condom and regards wearing a condom as a protection for himself and the partner but also to avoid pregnancy. "

That’s slightly mischievous DH - I didn’t *say* that’s what the guy did, I suggested it was a possibility when trying to suggest reasons as to why the guy didn’t raise the alarm. There’s a difference.

Regarding the condom breaking: if it rips, it’s gone. kaput. The only thing left is the ring. Therefore the mans head (glans) are exposed and that’s where all our sensitivity is. From my experience once the head is uncovered I’ll know pretty much staight away as it’s a much better feeling. So the presence of the ring is in my view a red herring.

I’m not a woman and can’t speak for how it feels for a lady (condom vs no condom), but I sure as hell know how it feels for me, covered or uncovered.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


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When a condom rips, you're normally still at least partly covered, especially the bottom end of the condom sits still tight at the end of the shaft. So already from that point of view it might not be immediately noticeable by the wearer. To say that the man is holding back the info seems to me a rather harsh accusation. I'm sure there's the odd chancer and I'm not saying it doesn't happen at all, but you can tell when someone is a genuine condom user, has no issue with wearing a condom and regards wearing a condom as a protection for himself and the partner but also to avoid pregnancy.

That’s slightly mischievous DH - I didn’t *say* that’s what the guy did, I suggested it was a possibility when trying to suggest reasons as to why the guy didn’t raise the alarm. There’s a difference.

Regarding the condom breaking: if it rips, it’s gone. kaput. The only thing left is the ring. Therefore the mans head (glans) are exposed and that’s where all our sensitivity is. From my experience once the head is uncovered I’ll know pretty much staight away as it’s a much better feeling. So the presence of the ring is in my view a red herring.

I’m not a woman and can’t speak for how it feels for a lady (condom vs no condom), but I sure as hell know how it feels for me, covered or uncovered. "

Did it ever happen to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but have had a few chancers in our time .

Apart from our family there is nothing more important than our health and that includes our sexual health !!

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"

Regarding the condom breaking: if it rips, it’s gone. kaput. The only thing left is the ring. Therefore the mans head (glans) are exposed and that’s where all our sensitivity is. From my experience once the head is uncovered I’ll know pretty much staight away as it’s a much better feeling. So the presence of the ring is in my view a red herring.

I’m not a woman and can’t speak for how it feels for a lady (condom vs no condom), but I sure as hell know how it feels for me, covered or uncovered.

Did it ever happen to you? "

Of course; by my recollection at least on 3 occasions - I suspect it’s happened to most people, although in my case not for a number of years.

When it did, I recall in the moment thinking ‘Wow, this feels so much better’, followed a few strokes of ecstasy later by ‘This is much better....Wait a minute, sh*t, has the condom ripped..??’ And the ensuing mid stroke pause and diagnostics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Heat of the moment can happen but to purposely trick someone is a totally different thing. Condom breaking and going unnoticed can happen (hasn't happened me) but that's just unfortunate. Stealthing is deliberately tricking someone into something they didn't consent to.

What's it called when you wake up to her on top of you

Cowgirl or reverse cowgirl depending which direction she's facing

So it's OK if you were asleep and couldn't consent

Wasn't there an irish girl had her boyfriend locked up for having sex with her while she was asleep!

I'm just trying to see people's views on consent obviously one can't consent when asleep, just because you had sex the night before doesn't automatically give you consent for the morning but do people perceive things differently if it's the woman who instigated the sex

Funny enough a lad in college told someone I worked with before that be woke up to a girl on top of him and they never even had sex before. Everyone started laughing when they found out but he didn't think it was funny. They were roommates and he told her get off. She went back to her county for a week then came back and everything was forgotten. I do see the double standards. "

It's never really addressed sure even by this countries archaic laws a woman can't sexually assault a man

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Heat of the moment can happen but to purposely trick someone is a totally different thing. Condom breaking and going unnoticed can happen (hasn't happened me) but that's just unfortunate. Stealthing is deliberately tricking someone into something they didn't consent to.

What's it called when you wake up to her on top of you

Cowgirl or reverse cowgirl depending which direction she's facing

So it's OK if you were asleep and couldn't consent

Wasn't there an irish girl had her boyfriend locked up for having sex with her while she was asleep!

I'm just trying to see people's views on consent obviously one can't consent when asleep, just because you had sex the night before doesn't automatically give you consent for the morning but do people perceive things differently if it's the woman who instigated the sex

Funny enough a lad in college told someone I worked with before that be woke up to a girl on top of him and they never even had sex before. Everyone started laughing when they found out but he didn't think it was funny. They were roommates and he told her get off. She went back to her county for a week then came back and everything was forgotten. I do see the double standards.

It's never really addressed sure even by this countries archaic laws a woman can't sexually assault a man "

One could argue your cock consented because it's not possible to ride a flaccid one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Heat of the moment can happen but to purposely trick someone is a totally different thing. Condom breaking and going unnoticed can happen (hasn't happened me) but that's just unfortunate. Stealthing is deliberately tricking someone into something they didn't consent to.

What's it called when you wake up to her on top of you

Cowgirl or reverse cowgirl depending which direction she's facing

So it's OK if you were asleep and couldn't consent

Wasn't there an irish girl had her boyfriend locked up for having sex with her while she was asleep!

I'm just trying to see people's views on consent obviously one can't consent when asleep, just because you had sex the night before doesn't automatically give you consent for the morning but do people perceive things differently if it's the woman who instigated the sex

Funny enough a lad in college told someone I worked with before that be woke up to a girl on top of him and they never even had sex before. Everyone started laughing when they found out but he didn't think it was funny. They were roommates and he told her get off. She went back to her county for a week then came back and everything was forgotten. I do see the double standards.

It's never really addressed sure even by this countries archaic laws a woman can't sexually assault a man

One could argue your cock consented because it's not possible to ride a flaccid one. "

The mind and cock are separate entities.... The fact a man was able to sustain erection is not a sign of consent

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Heat of the moment can happen but to purposely trick someone is a totally different thing. Condom breaking and going unnoticed can happen (hasn't happened me) but that's just unfortunate. Stealthing is deliberately tricking someone into something they didn't consent to.

What's it called when you wake up to her on top of you

Cowgirl or reverse cowgirl depending which direction she's facing

So it's OK if you were asleep and couldn't consent

Wasn't there an irish girl had her boyfriend locked up for having sex with her while she was asleep!

I'm just trying to see people's views on consent obviously one can't consent when asleep, just because you had sex the night before doesn't automatically give you consent for the morning but do people perceive things differently if it's the woman who instigated the sex

Funny enough a lad in college told someone I worked with before that be woke up to a girl on top of him and they never even had sex before. Everyone started laughing when they found out but he didn't think it was funny. They were roommates and he told her get off. She went back to her county for a week then came back and everything was forgotten. I do see the double standards.

It's never really addressed sure even by this countries archaic laws a woman can't sexually assault a man

One could argue your cock consented because it's not possible to ride a flaccid one.

The mind and cock are separate entities.... The fact a man was able to sustain erection is not a sign of consent "

I'm only messing. However it leads me to the next question. If they are separate entities, are you saying a man can get an erection despite his mind isn't up for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Heat of the moment can happen but to purposely trick someone is a totally different thing. Condom breaking and going unnoticed can happen (hasn't happened me) but that's just unfortunate. Stealthing is deliberately tricking someone into something they didn't consent to.

What's it called when you wake up to her on top of you

Cowgirl or reverse cowgirl depending which direction she's facing

So it's OK if you were asleep and couldn't consent

Wasn't there an irish girl had her boyfriend locked up for having sex with her while she was asleep!

I'm just trying to see people's views on consent obviously one can't consent when asleep, just because you had sex the night before doesn't automatically give you consent for the morning but do people perceive things differently if it's the woman who instigated the sex

Funny enough a lad in college told someone I worked with before that be woke up to a girl on top of him and they never even had sex before. Everyone started laughing when they found out but he didn't think it was funny. They were roommates and he told her get off. She went back to her county for a week then came back and everything was forgotten. I do see the double standards.

It's never really addressed sure even by this countries archaic laws a woman can't sexually assault a man

One could argue your cock consented because it's not possible to ride a flaccid one.

The mind and cock are separate entities.... The fact a man was able to sustain erection is not a sign of consent

I'm only messing. However it leads me to the next question. If they are separate entities, are you saying a man can get an erection despite his mind isn't up for it? "

Ya the mind doesn't necessarily have to be stimulated for a man to become erect, erections can randomly happen when unwanted

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon


"

Ya the mind doesn't necessarily have to be stimulated for a man to become erect, erections can randomly happen when unwanted "

Tell me about it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ya the mind doesn't necessarily have to be stimulated for a man to become erect, erections can randomly happen when unwanted

Tell me about it!! "

Why does it happen at the most awkward moments

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"

One could argue your cock consented because it's not possible to ride a flaccid one.

The mind and cock are separate entities.... The fact a man was able to sustain erection is not a sign of consent

I'm only messing. However it leads me to the next question. If they are separate entities, are you saying a man can get an erection despite his mind isn't up for it?

Ya the mind doesn't necessarily have to be stimulated for a man to become erect, erections can randomly happen when unwanted "

Oh I know erections can happen randomly and unwanted but normally there's some stimulus involved which must do a loop over the mind before sending the impulse down. No?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

One could argue your cock consented because it's not possible to ride a flaccid one.

The mind and cock are separate entities.... The fact a man was able to sustain erection is not a sign of consent

I'm only messing. However it leads me to the next question. If they are separate entities, are you saying a man can get an erection despite his mind isn't up for it?

Ya the mind doesn't necessarily have to be stimulated for a man to become erect, erections can randomly happen when unwanted

Oh I know erections can happen randomly and unwanted but normally there's some stimulus involved which must do a loop over the mind before sending the impulse down. No? "

Nope well not with younger men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can get a boner anytime. In fact the majority of lads wake up with them.

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"You can get a boner anytime. In fact the majority of lads wake up with them. "

Boy are you in for an unwelcome surprise in about 15 years...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can get a boner anytime. In fact the majority of lads wake up with them.

Boy are you in for an unwelcome surprise in about 15 years... "

I'll have a cyborg titanium Penis by then. Sexual technology is taking off big time.

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"You can get a boner anytime. In fact the majority of lads wake up with them.

Boy are you in for an unwelcome surprise in about 15 years...

I'll have a cyborg titanium Penis by then. Sexual technology is taking off big time. "

Well if they can incorporate self-sterilization (cleaning) technology then it will render this thread obsolete..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can get a boner anytime. In fact the majority of lads wake up with them.

Boy are you in for an unwelcome surprise in about 15 years... "

To be fair I'll probably be well burned out by then so if I'm even alive it'll be a miracle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when she says “no no no” and you stop but then she slaps you for stopping,who’s assaulted who?

Top tip... Don't go through life thinking that people who say no don't actually mean it. "

Thanks Michael your a star and so wise

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"So when she says “no no no” and you stop but then she slaps you for stopping,who’s assaulted who?

Top tip... Don't go through life thinking that people who say no don't actually mean it.

Thanks Michael your a star and so wise"

I know. I'm good like that. I'm still curious though as to who slapped you for stopping and did you enjoy it or not?

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By *elly1012Woman
over a year ago

houston

I've had several experiences of getting the cream unintentionally. A few times condoms have broken because they where to small and tight for the guys shaft.

On another occasion the condom was to big and it slipped off.

Similarly to the above, once a guy came in the condom, but kept it inside me until he went limp, so when he pulled out the condom stayed inside me.

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

Yep happened once she freaked out got morning after pill and got tested too..kinda put me off sex for a while tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In all the years you’ve been swinging.. has a rubber every burst on anyone and the ride continued until you/someone noticed?

Essentially you’ve both gone bareback for a period of time which is a nicht nicht verboten."

Bump in the night.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I have had a condom come off and one burst on me . When you are in the Trows of sex it's kinda hard to stop ain't it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With fuck buddy. Fucking then condom split just as I was about to cum and I came a lot. She freaked out as she had a bf and if she got knocked up it would be obvious, I'm black and she is Chinese. In the clear though.

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

Once it broke on us and we continued on when it was just the both of us many years ago. When swinging, once the other male wanted to not use one. It was a straight no-no even though we were very horny at the time. One can't take chances playing without them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a Durex extra long break ( during anal )... and had a few come off over the years . But get regularly tested ( 6 weeks ago )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many guys don't realise that condoms come in different sizes. And sometimes they seldom check the dates on them. Or they have them on the wrong way.

Or if they are using a lub and it's oil Base it's interferes with the latex.

So condoms break when not used properly. Doesn't matter the brand.

Yes it has happened while in the process of swinging with a couple the condom came off and was still inside my pussy,his wife flip the lid thinking that he was riding me bareback,Which wasn't the case, she gave him such a wallop over his head,I then had to explain and show her by fishing the condom out of my pussy,Plus Also I had the femidom (female condom) in any ways. So I do be double protected as ya cnt take chances. And always get checked regardless if you are only with your partner doing bareback.

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By *ralius ExperticusMan
over a year ago

Birmingham, London , Manchester

My partner's first meet with a guy off here after webcamming a few times, was a car meet. She said she was only going to wank him off at the first meet. Arranged a meet in a quiet car park I was already there in my car to discreetly watch without him knowing.On meeting they chatted briefly outside, she wore a very short skirt black seamed stockings and very high heels, then my partner got in his passenger seat. I couldn't see much , but saw him climb over her and he went down on her. I thought after his head reappeared she would give him a quick wank and that was it. But then I could see he was on top of her and her legs came up on the dashboard, so he was clearly inside her. After a couple of minutes I could see they were kissing and then he climbed back in his own seat. Then she was soon in her car and I followed her back home. As soon as we got in she wanked me off as I was so aroused , she showed me her sodden knickers. She said after he had gone down on her he got on top and just teased her with the tip of his rockk hard cock, she said she was so aroused and so close to cumming that everytime his cock rubbed over her pussy lips and clit it kept virtually slipping inside her. Eventually his whole length just slid right inside her and she said, " I just thought I would let him have a few long strokes inside me and then pull him out and finish him over my stomach and suspender belt, but after 3 strokes he just groaned and said shit I'm gonna cum". She said she didn't want to ruin his orgasm so she put her heels on his arse and just let him explode inside her.Hence her knickers were full of his cum when she got back. The next day she had to go to the chemist and get a morning after pill.After that she quickly got a coil fitted , as she said fucking a stranger and letting him explode in her was the most erotic feeling. We do vet partners carefully and only play at the premium end of the market!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner's first meet with a guy off here after webcamming a few times, was a car meet. She said she was only going to wank him off at the first meet. Arranged a meet in a quiet car park I was already there in my car to discreetly watch without him knowing.On meeting they chatted briefly outside, she wore a very short skirt black seamed stockings and very high heels, then my partner got in his passenger seat. I couldn't see much , but saw him climb over her and he went down on her. I thought after his head reappeared she would give him a quick wank and that was it. But then I could see he was on top of her and her legs came up on the dashboard, so he was clearly inside her. After a couple of minutes I could see they were kissing and then he climbed back in his own seat. Then she was soon in her car and I followed her back home. As soon as we got in she wanked me off as I was so aroused , she showed me her sodden knickers. She said after he had gone down on her he got on top and just teased her with the tip of his rockk hard cock, she said she was so aroused and so close to cumming that everytime his cock rubbed over her pussy lips and clit it kept virtually slipping inside her. Eventually his whole length just slid right inside her and she said, " I just thought I would let him have a few long strokes inside me and then pull him out and finish him over my stomach and suspender belt, but after 3 strokes he just groaned and said shit I'm gonna cum". She said she didn't want to ruin his orgasm so she put her heels on his arse and just let him explode inside her.Hence her knickers were full of his cum when she got back. The next day she had to go to the chemist and get a morning after pill.After that she quickly got a coil fitted , as she said fucking a stranger and letting him explode in her was the most erotic feeling. We do vet partners carefully and only play at the premium end of the market! "

No issues with how you choose to conduct your sex life but I'm not sure "the premium end of the market" is immune from STDs, unplanned pregnancies or telling porkies about their previous encounters. But what do I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a premium end of the market here

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"There's a premium end of the market here "

You have to pay extra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a premium end of the market here

You have to pay extra "

Jesus I can't give it away for free lol

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"There's a premium end of the market here "

It's a multi storey carpark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a premium end of the market here "

Unless your profile has the following 3 phrases in it you don't qualify.

"I'm not looking to meet half the site"

"Quality over quantity"

"I'm clean smooth and expect the same"

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I put a condom on backwards once. I didn't even notice until I went.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a premium end of the market here

Unless your profile has the following 3 phrases in it you don't qualify.

"I'm not looking to meet half the site"

"Quality over quantity"

"I'm clean smooth and expect the same""

Scurries off to see what's in my profile

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"There's a premium end of the market here

Unless your profile has the following 3 phrases in it you don't qualify.

"I'm not looking to meet half the site"

"Quality over quantity"

"I'm clean smooth and expect the same""

Well, at least we're honest in our profile

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.


"My partner's first meet with a guy off here after webcamming a few times, was a car meet. She said she was only going to wank him off at the first meet. Arranged a meet in a quiet car park I was already there in my car to discreetly watch without him knowing.On meeting they chatted briefly outside, she wore a very short skirt black seamed stockings and very high heels, then my partner got in his passenger seat. I couldn't see much , but saw him climb over her and he went down on her. I thought after his head reappeared she would give him a quick wank and that was it. But then I could see he was on top of her and her legs came up on the dashboard, so he was clearly inside her. After a couple of minutes I could see they were kissing and then he climbed back in his own seat. Then she was soon in her car and I followed her back home. As soon as we got in she wanked me off as I was so aroused , she showed me her sodden knickers. She said after he had gone down on her he got on top and just teased her with the tip of his rockk hard cock, she said she was so aroused and so close to cumming that everytime his cock rubbed over her pussy lips and clit it kept virtually slipping inside her. Eventually his whole length just slid right inside her and she said, " I just thought I would let him have a few long strokes inside me and then pull him out and finish him over my stomach and suspender belt, but after 3 strokes he just groaned and said shit I'm gonna cum". She said she didn't want to ruin his orgasm so she put her heels on his arse and just let him explode inside her.Hence her knickers were full of his cum when she got back. The next day she had to go to the chemist and get a morning after pill.After that she quickly got a coil fitted , as she said fucking a stranger and letting him explode in her was the most erotic feeling. We do vet partners carefully and only play at the premium end of the market! "

Cool story. Life on the edge. The only fault i have , is the guy didnt spot you watching him.

Time spent on reconnaissance is never wasted.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

I often had problems with the condoms bursting but not so bad now I've bought bigger ones. If I wear them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3........2.......1.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner's first meet with a guy off here after webcamming a few times, was a car meet. She said she was only going to wank him off at the first meet. Arranged a meet in a quiet car park I was already there in my car to discreetly watch without him knowing.On meeting they chatted briefly outside, she wore a very short skirt black seamed stockings and very high heels, then my partner got in his passenger seat. I couldn't see much , but saw him climb over her and he went down on her. I thought after his head reappeared she would give him a quick wank and that was it. But then I could see he was on top of her and her legs came up on the dashboard, so he was clearly inside her. After a couple of minutes I could see they were kissing and then he climbed back in his own seat. Then she was soon in her car and I followed her back home. As soon as we got in she wanked me off as I was so aroused , she showed me her sodden knickers. She said after he had gone down on her he got on top and just teased her with the tip of his rockk hard cock, she said she was so aroused and so close to cumming that everytime his cock rubbed over her pussy lips and clit it kept virtually slipping inside her. Eventually his whole length just slid right inside her and she said, " I just thought I would let him have a few long strokes inside me and then pull him out and finish him over my stomach and suspender belt, but after 3 strokes he just groaned and said shit I'm gonna cum". She said she didn't want to ruin his orgasm so she put her heels on his arse and just let him explode inside her.Hence her knickers were full of his cum when she got back. The next day she had to go to the chemist and get a morning after pill.After that she quickly got a coil fitted , as she said fucking a stranger and letting him explode in her was the most erotic feeling. We do vet partners carefully and only play at the premium end of the market! "

Great story this should be in the stories and fantasy section

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I'm really glad this thread that was started more than a year ago, and resurrected a few weeks back so a guy could make a story up, and then 2 weeks later be called out and have the thread resurrected again.

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By *otass and scorpioCouple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford

My man thinks he is writing an erotic fantasy novel lol #bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm really glad this thread that was started more than a year ago, and resurrected a few weeks back so a guy could make a story up, and then 2 weeks later be called out and have the thread resurrected again. "

I'm really glad there are people like you around to point out the obvious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one come off during a fairly hard pounding session...i straight away said re fit one an kept going... Bit of dampener but best be safe than sorry

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

That happened to me . The rubber came off and got stuck up so far . She had a job getting it out . Bit of a fright .

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By *ralius ExperticusMan
over a year ago

Birmingham, London , Manchester

Sorry to upset you sad blokes on here, but the story is 100% true, it's actually happened more than once in similar scenario.Dont know why people post saying obvious fantasy?

Anyway, love and let live.

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By *alted!Man
over a year ago

Cork

More than once unfortunately.

1st time I can remember, I felt it snap. she was as dry as one of gandhi s flip-flops. It snapped right below the head and hurt like a mother fucker.

Another time it was our fault. Vasoline is not compatible as a lube. Felt it split.

Other times I've had the condom come off and had no idea till I've looked down and spotted it missing.

But I think that was more down poor technique putting it on in my younger years. Thankfully has not happened in years.

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By *amieLDN22Man
over a year ago

London

Thankfully nothing burst on me. I only use one particular thicker than usual condom - the real feel durex kind. Its the most comfortable for me since I'm bigger than average and latex free.

Most accidents happen due to incorrect usage and basically too much water or lube. Therefore, keep lube to a minimum and only apply to vagina lightly and not on the condom. And make sure you buy the correct fit and practice using it before you bang someone.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Thankfully nothing burst on me. I only use one particular thicker than usual condom - the real feel durex kind. Its the most comfortable for me since I'm bigger than average and latex free.

Most accidents happen due to incorrect usage and basically too much water or lube. Therefore, keep lube to a minimum and only apply to vagina lightly and not on the condom. And make sure you buy the correct fit and practice using it before you bang someone. "

Only use one condom? Do I need to rinse it off or something?

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By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago

galway


"Thankfully nothing burst on me. I only use one particular thicker than usual condom - the real feel durex kind. Its the most comfortable for me since I'm bigger than average and latex free.

Most accidents happen due to incorrect usage and basically too much water or lube. Therefore, keep lube to a minimum and only apply to vagina lightly and not on the condom. And make sure you buy the correct fit and practice using it before you bang someone. "

I would have thought more lube would be more beneficial to stop them from ripping.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

The wrong kind of lube can MAKE them rip. Oil based lube will weaken latex.

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth


"My partner's first meet with a guy off here after webcamming a few times, was a car meet. She said she was only going to wank him off at the first meet. Arranged a meet in a quiet car park I was already there in my car to discreetly watch without him knowing.On meeting they chatted briefly outside, she wore a very short skirt black seamed stockings and very high heels, then my partner got in his passenger seat. I couldn't see much , but saw him climb over her and he went down on her. I thought after his head reappeared she would give him a quick wank and that was it. But then I could see he was on top of her and her legs came up on the dashboard, so he was clearly inside her. After a couple of minutes I could see they were kissing and then he climbed back in his own seat. Then she was soon in her car and I followed her back home. As soon as we got in she wanked me off as I was so aroused , she showed me her sodden knickers. She said after he had gone down on her he got on top and just teased her with the tip of his rockk hard cock, she said she was so aroused and so close to cumming that everytime his cock rubbed over her pussy lips and clit it kept virtually slipping inside her. Eventually his whole length just slid right inside her and she said, " I just thought I would let him have a few long strokes inside me and then pull him out and finish him over my stomach and suspender belt, but after 3 strokes he just groaned and said shit I'm gonna cum". She said she didn't want to ruin his orgasm so she put her heels on his arse and just let him explode inside her.Hence her knickers were full of his cum when she got back. The next day she had to go to the chemist and get a morning after pill.After that she quickly got a coil fitted , as she said fucking a stranger and letting him explode in her was the most erotic feeling. We do vet partners carefully and only play at the premium end of the market! "

the "Premium end of the market".........is there a Harrods for swingers?

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By *ralius ExperticusMan
over a year ago

Birmingham, London , Manchester

Certainly is, and it's quite exclusive but you are talking 4 figures to join yearly, and sign confidentiality clauses and proof of identity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened me last year, condom split, never happened before, and hasn't happened after. Just bad luck and a bad brand of condoms.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Only twice and both times it was Durex Extra Safe

Never used them again, though most of my condoms are out of date now anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms sometimes break on me too, does that mean I have a small willy

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By *o_Poseidon_o0Man
over a year ago

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Happened to me a few times, regularly enough condoms would split during the intercourse.

I also had difficulty to put them on.

One day, a partner of mine brought a condom the size above of standard, and I finally realised they were a better fit! I felt dumb, but I was brought up to think the bigger fits were only for massively bigger willies - they are not.

The right size matter, it’s like gloves, dont forget to measure your girth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only twice and both times it was Durex Extra Safe

Never used them again, though most of my condoms are out of date now anyway "

Most condoms that burst are usually the wrong size, although durex is shite.. if it’s to tight on the base it’s likely gonna burst.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne


"Only twice and both times it was Durex Extra Safe

Never used them again, though most of my condoms are out of date now anyway

Most condoms that burst are usually the wrong size, although durex is shite.. if it’s to tight on the base it’s likely gonna burst. "

Wrong size?

Oh I wish that was a problem I had

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


"I've had someone pretend to wear a condom and be caught out at a party. I've also seen the same person try it with someone else and say "it must have fallen off" when confronted about it. "

I'm totally FOR bareback. It's a choice and that's my choice and it's consensual with my sex partners. However, someone pretending to wear a condom or deliberately splitting a condom is ASSAULTING you.

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By *ogerdubccMan
over a year ago

Temple Bar


"I've had someone pretend to wear a condom and be caught out at a party. I've also seen the same person try it with someone else and say "it must have fallen off" when confronted about it.

I think that can be classified as sexual assault. stealthing oys called "

It's actually r a p e, legally punishable and also punch punishable!

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By *ogerdubccMan
over a year ago

Temple Bar


"I've had someone pretend to wear a condom and be caught out at a party. I've also seen the same person try it with someone else and say "it must have fallen off" when confronted about it.

I'm totally FOR bareback. It's a choice and that's my choice and it's consensual with my sex partners. However, someone pretending to wear a condom or deliberately splitting a condom is ASSAULTING you. "

nope, a stranger grabbing your ass on the street is assault, this is actually classified as r a p e

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

While I agree with this moraly, legally this isn't correct . It's (stealthing) currently classed as.assualt via a technically

This is just as shocking... a woman cannot be convicted of r#pe in ireland or uk as the definition

Is penatration with penis

Wtf are we in the stone age or what .

Also nothing legally stopping a woman from lying about contraception...

Holy shit this is ridiculous

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


"I've had someone pretend to wear a condom and be caught out at a party. I've also seen the same person try it with someone else and say "it must have fallen off" when confronted about it.

I'm totally FOR bareback. It's a choice and that's my choice and it's consensual with my sex partners. However, someone pretending to wear a condom or deliberately splitting a condom is ASSAULTING you.

nope, a stranger grabbing your ass on the street is assault, this is actually classified as r a p e "

Legally speaking, no it isn't. Morally, perhaps you're right but don't forget the sex is/was consensual so a theoretical risk (albeit very small with a condom) was accepted right at the outset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had someone pretend to wear a condom and be caught out at a party. I've also seen the same person try it with someone else and say "it must have fallen off" when confronted about it. It's called stealthing. Seen it sprayed on a wall in Belfast and looked the term up on the urban dictionary.

I think that can be classified as sexual assault. "

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