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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been very lucky to meet a lovely lady first for a social coffee n after lots of naughty messages and what was to be just a coffee turn into a fantasic meet. But as she was my first meet off here how do i ask for a veri without her thinking she was just a notch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try by sending her one first maybe

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Thread lighty with that one nothing is as bad as asking straight away mabey just say would ye mind verifying me when ye get a chance no rush.......id be ok with that.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try by sending her one first maybe "

Unverified can send a veri can they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd give it a little while b4 asking her. Maybe just drop it in to conversation and ask can she do it whenever she gets the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thread lighty with that one nothing is as bad as asking straight away mabey just say would ye mind verifying me when ye get a chance no rush.......id be ok with that....... "

I thought about that but its been a week since the meet and have chatted since so i'm a bit nervous about bringing it up now.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Ah I’d always veri a guy I met that was unverified. It kinda goes without saying.

I’m sure she will, unless she wants to keep you for herself!

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thread lighty with that one nothing is as bad as asking straight away mabey just say would ye mind verifying me when ye get a chance no rush.......id be ok with that.......

I thought about that but its been a week since the meet and have chatted since so i'm a bit nervous about bringing it up now."

If you still chatting you cant have been that bad just ask her to give you a veri.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Thread lighty with that one nothing is as bad as asking straight away mabey just say would ye mind verifying me when ye get a chance no rush.......id be ok with that.......

I thought about that but its been a week since the meet and have chatted since so i'm a bit nervous about bringing it up now."

Oh right that was a while ago!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing wrong in asking politely for a veri, she may have forgotten

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

If you are still chatting that’s a good sign just drop into convo would ya mind when you get a chance leaving me a ver

I’d always do them straight away sometimes you can just genuinely forget !!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Write a really nice kinky veri for her and post it in a message to her, saying this is my veri for you, I'd love to verify you properly but unfortunately I can't as I'm not verified myself.

And take it from there....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Write a really nice kinky veri for her and post it in a message to her, saying this is my veri for you, I'd love to verify you properly but unfortunately I can't as I'm not verified myself.

And take it from there...."

This right here. Brilliant thinking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Write a really nice kinky veri for her and post it in a message to her, saying this is my veri for you, I'd love to verify you properly but unfortunately I can't as I'm not verified myself.

And take it from there...."

Now thats a cunning plan

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Write a really nice kinky veri for her and post it in a message to her, saying this is my veri for you, I'd love to verify you properly but unfortunately I can't as I'm not verified myself.

And take it from there....

Now thats a cunning plan "

Hope it works fingers crossed for ye xx!!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

It's amazing what hunger can do to you... I read that as "had meat but no veg"

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Ah I’d always veri a guy I met that was unverified. It kinda goes without saying.

I’m sure she will, unless she wants to keep you for herself!

;-) "

This! If someone was unverified I'd always make sure to verify them straight away so people know they're genuine and they can continue on their Fab journey

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Write a really nice kinky veri for her and post it in a message to her, saying this is my veri for you, I'd love to verify you properly but unfortunately I can't as I'm not verified myself.

And take it from there....

Now thats a cunning plan

Hope it works fingers crossed for ye xx!! "

Well if that fails i may have to jump in the car to meet you for a veri . Xxx

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Met a guy at a club a few month's ago and didnt veri him straight away......lost count how many times he asked and it wasnt as if it was his first. Very off putting. As a rule i would veri a newbie even if i had no intention of playing after the meet. But doghunters idea is a great way to approach it

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I would imagine it goes without question, you meet somebody, you veri them especially if it's a newbie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been very lucky to meet a lovely lady first for a social coffee n after lots of naughty messages and what was to be just a coffee turn into a fantasic meet. But as she was my first meet off here how do i ask for a veri without her thinking she was just a notch."

Ahem.. where’s me god dam veri

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I would imagine it goes without question, you meet somebody, you veri them especially if it's a newbie. "

You should know by now dbswyw that fab ticks differently, there's bends and curves and not everything is straight that appears to be straight, so never take anything for granted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Write a really nice kinky veri for her and post it in a message to her, saying this is my veri for you, I'd love to verify you properly but unfortunately I can't as I'm not verified myself.

And take it from there...."

Smooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As suggested by a few next time ur chatting say ud love to leave a verification for her but can't as u haven't one yet...if after that she doesn't like some have said ..she may want u to herself ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As suggested by a few next time ur chatting say ud love to leave a verification for her but can't as u haven't one yet...if after that she doesn't like some have said ..she may want u to herself .. "

It was a good meet . Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As suggested by a few next time ur chatting say ud love to leave a verification for her but can't as u haven't one yet...if after that she doesn't like some have said ..she may want u to herself ..

It was a good meet . Lol"
With that profile pic I can see why...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As suggested by a few next time ur chatting say ud love to leave a verification for her but can't as u haven't one yet...if after that she doesn't like some have said ..she may want u to herself ..

It was a good meet . LolWith that profile pic I can see why... "

Why thank you

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By *he Kinky KinksCouple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

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By *he Kinky KinksCouple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

I think she should of verified you near straight away. She obviously knew were unverified, and it is important to have a veri.

I think it’s bad manners on her behalf, and very unfair to you.

Takes 2 minutes to write a verification, so not having the time is no excuse.

My tuppence worth (Mr)

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By *at-cWoman
over a year ago

Ballyshannon


"I think she should of verified you near straight away. She obviously knew were unverified, and it is important to have a veri.

I think it’s bad manners on her behalf, and very unfair to you.

Takes 2 minutes to write a verification, so not having the time is no excuse.

My tuppence worth (Mr)"

Does she realise you can’t verify her as you’re not verified yourself. She might be wondering the same thing you are: ‘where’s my veri?’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask, no reason whatsoever why a sane person would take offence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just ask, no reason whatsoever why a sane person would take offence."

Prob right will be chatting later today so will work it into convo . And if not sure i know ive had a great meet. So not a bad start for a almost newbie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *he Kinky KinksCouple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare


"Just ask, no reason whatsoever why a sane person would take offence."

This is fab the word “sane” is overly used at times

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"As suggested by a few next time ur chatting say ud love to leave a verification for her but can't as u haven't one yet...if after that she doesn't like some have said ..she may want u to herself ..

It was a good meet . LolWith that profile pic I can see why...

Why thank you "

2nd meet?

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

Ask her to read this thread

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"I have been very lucky to meet a lovely lady first for a social coffee n after lots of naughty messages and what was to be just a coffee turn into a fantasic meet. But as she was my first meet off here how do i ask for a veri without her thinking she was just a notch."

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LAW OF RECIPROCITY MAN!

Send her a genuine veri and if she has class she'll veri you back...

If she doesn't... well. you'll just gonna have to go out there and do it all over again big man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been very lucky to meet a lovely lady first for a social coffee n after lots of naughty messages and what was to be just a coffee turn into a fantasic meet. But as she was my first meet off here how do i ask for a veri without her thinking she was just a notch.

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LAW OF RECIPROCITY MAN!

Send her a genuine veri and if she has class she'll veri you back...

If she doesn't... well. you'll just gonna have to go out there and do it all over again big man

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He can't since he is not already verified.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"I have been very lucky to meet a lovely lady first for a social coffee n after lots of naughty messages and what was to be just a coffee turn into a fantasic meet. But as she was my first meet off here how do i ask for a veri without her thinking she was just a notch.

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LAW OF RECIPROCITY MAN!

Send her a genuine veri and if she has class she'll veri you back...

If she doesn't... well. you'll just gonna have to go out there and do it all over again big man

He can't since he is not already verified. "

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"Where there's a will...

...there's a relative"

Bite the bullet so and ask for a veri so

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been very lucky to meet a lovely lady first for a social coffee n after lots of naughty messages and what was to be just a coffee turn into a fantasic meet. But as she was my first meet off here how do i ask for a veri without her thinking she was just a notch.

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LAW OF RECIPROCITY MAN!

Send her a genuine veri and if she has class she'll veri you back...

If she doesn't... well. you'll just gonna have to go out there and do it all over again big man

He can't since he is not already verified.

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"Where there's a will...

...there's a relative"

Bite the bullet so and ask for a veri so "

Thanks tim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If u do not get your verification from that lady i will meet verify u in wexford and it would be enough to allow u to attend most meet and greets

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By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda

I have met a few great couples on here but they don't want veries published on here that is their choice and I respect it so if somebody dosnt want a veri it is their choice alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If u do not get your verification from that lady i will meet verify u in wexford and it would be enough to allow u to attend most meet and greets "

Fair play, that's a decent offer

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I would imagine it goes without question, you meet somebody, you veri them especially if it's a newbie.

You should know by now dbswyw that fab ticks differently, there's bends and curves and not everything is straight that appears to be straight, so never take anything for granted "
oh complication is the god send of fab

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

i still owe u a coffee. i can veri u friday if ur about in town

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i still owe u a coffee. i can veri u friday if ur about in town "

Your on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i still owe u a coffee. i can veri u friday if ur about in town

Your on "
Good to see this thread has worked in ur favor..

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