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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I'm just wondering if anyone else experienced fabbers trying to talk you into meeting someone else - not themselves? It obviously gives them a kick if you do, it doesn't work with me as I'm very stubborn regarding who I meet. Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost makes them sound like a pimp...enough trouble getting meets for myself without canvassing for others

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By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away

We've never experienced this situation and it's not something I'd be comfortable with. The other party should be the ones trying to arrange the meet not having someone else do it.

Sam

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Do they think you would fall for their stupidity . You have to be able to read between the lines . Tel them to go and piddle off ..lol

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By *alwaygirlpWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Oh I’ve had this happen. Couples asking guys to put them in touch with a bi girl. Now the couple profiles are usually fake so if they messaged themselves they would probably be ignored anyway.

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Maybe its just me but id be suspicious. That said I take people as I find them and trust my instincts but that's usually after messaging or chatting. I think you get a feeling for someone or at least youd like to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep had it a few times,one in particular was a couple wanting us to meet a woman friend of theirs who wasnt on here

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By *harlie141r42Man
over a year ago

galway


"I'm just wondering if anyone else experienced fabbers trying to talk you into meeting someone else - not themselves? It obviously gives them a kick if you do, it doesn't work with me as I'm very stubborn regarding who I meet. Thoughts? "

Did they give a reason as to why they were doing it for someone else ?

Shyness or something similar perhaps ?

Sounds very strange.

Was it a male or a female that was attempting to do the arranging ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DH so they are open with you about this? Ok let's think !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds dodgy to me, I'd suspect the profile doing the arranging is a fake to get around message filters or something

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

I've had a girl contact me a few times trying to get me dominate her partner while she watches. Trying to get you to meet someone else sounds dodgy..

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Yea it’s so weird I don’t understand why females need to get meets for there guy friends. Nearly got suckered myself by a verified female who presented a rather hot idea I may have been interested in but then what do you know it turned into will you have a one on one with him. Sad

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It's a kink, sometimes used in a Dom/sub arrangement or simply the fact of knowing you've been with someone else, someone with a bigger tool than they have themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we get it now!

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

So it's cuckolding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will you meet my friend? He's over there with the funny username?

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By *harlie141r42Man
over a year ago

galway


"It's a kink, sometimes used in a Dom/sub arrangement or simply the fact of knowing you've been with someone else, someone with a bigger tool than they have themselves. "

Sounds like a bit of a tool himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a girl contact me a few times trying to get me dominate her partner while she watches. Trying to get you to meet someone else sounds dodgy.. "

Sound a little like swinging no?

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"So it's cuckolding? "

I guess it goes in that direction.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Any time anyone's tried to 'set up' a meet for me it's been clearly a wind up. All the effort I've to go through myself it'd make a nice change to have someone else make some effort for a change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a female part of a couple asking me to meet her partner for sex. He could tell her all the details of the meet when he got home and they were having sex.

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By *harlie141r42Man
over a year ago

galway

Not as strange as the OP, but in the last hour I have been contacted by a verified couple in their 50s looking for 150 euro for a hour in a 3some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a kink, sometimes used in a Dom/sub arrangement or simply the fact of knowing you've been with someone else, someone with a bigger tool than they have themselves. "

I get the kink element but unless you're arranging a meet for a partner and anonymity is the goal it seems like an odd way to go about it. surely they'd preface the message explaining the situation, I mean seems better than asking ''will you meet my friend?'' like teenagers at a disco.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Not as strange as the OP, but in the last hour I have been contacted by a verified couple in their 50s looking for 150 euro for a hour in a 3some"

I am afraid it's all to common on here

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I have had a female part of a couple asking me to meet her partner for sex. He could tell her all the details of the meet when he got home and they were having sex. "

Yes, I had that too. Ain't going to happen with me.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"I've had a girl contact me a few times trying to get me dominate her partner while she watches. Trying to get you to meet someone else sounds dodgy..

Sound a little like swinging no?

"

No I think it was a sub working on behalf of a master . Most of what she said didn't make sense . So she was new to it or under pressure. . I declined the offer and told her she needed to like and or understand how these things work.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"It's a kink, sometimes used in a Dom/sub arrangement or simply the fact of knowing you've been with someone else, someone with a bigger tool than they have themselves.

I get the kink element but unless you're arranging a meet for a partner and anonymity is the goal it seems like an odd way to go about it. surely they'd preface the message explaining the situation, I mean seems better than asking ''will you meet my friend?'' like teenagers at a disco. "

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"So it's cuckolding?

I guess it goes in that direction. "

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By *harlie141r42Man
over a year ago

galway


"Not as strange as the OP, but in the last hour I have been contacted by a verified couple in their 50s looking for 150 euro for a hour in a 3some

I am afraid it's all to common on here "

There must be a rule against it here surely ?

If not then every escort in the country will be at it I imagine.

It wouldn`t be that difficult for escorts to compete with them tbh for what they were offering at the peice

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Not as strange as the OP, but in the last hour I have been contacted by a verified couple in their 50s looking for 150 euro for a hour in a 3some

I am afraid it's all to common on here

There must be a rule against it here surely ?

If not then every escort in the country will be at it I imagine.

It wouldn`t be that difficult for escorts to compete with them tbh for what they were offering at the peice "

There's is and there's a report button on the profile

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"It's a kink, sometimes used in a Dom/sub arrangement or simply the fact of knowing you've been with someone else, someone with a bigger tool than they have themselves.

I get the kink element but unless you're arranging a meet for a partner and anonymity is the goal it seems like an odd way to go about it. surely they'd preface the message explaining the situation, I mean seems better than asking ''will you meet my friend?'' like teenagers at a disco. "

It's not about meeting a friend, it's picking a profile/fabber they like you to meet because it gives them a kick knowing he's a pounder or has a huge cock etc.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"It's a kink, sometimes used in a Dom/sub arrangement or simply the fact of knowing you've been with someone else, someone with a bigger tool than they have themselves.

I get the kink element but unless you're arranging a meet for a partner and anonymity is the goal it seems like an odd way to go about it. surely they'd preface the message explaining the situation, I mean seems better than asking ''will you meet my friend?'' like teenagers at a disco.

It's not about meeting a friend, it's picking a profile/fabber they like you to meet because it gives them a kick knowing he's a pounder or has a huge cock etc. "

Oh... I thought it was someone trying to get you to meet someone they know. Jeeze that scenario is a weird one.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"It's a kink, sometimes used in a Dom/sub arrangement or simply the fact of knowing you've been with someone else, someone with a bigger tool than they have themselves.

I get the kink element but unless you're arranging a meet for a partner and anonymity is the goal it seems like an odd way to go about it. surely they'd preface the message explaining the situation, I mean seems better than asking ''will you meet my friend?'' like teenagers at a disco.

It's not about meeting a friend, it's picking a profile/fabber they like you to meet because it gives them a kick knowing he's a pounder or has a huge cock etc.

Oh... I thought it was someone trying to get you to meet someone they know. Jeeze that scenario is a weird one. "

Almost as weird as a guy wanting u to step on his balls in ur six inch heels

For some some it's the control of getting the sub to follow instruction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had a number of males try the "me and a couple are looking for an extra couple to meet" line.

Needless to say they were asked who the couple were and we mailed them str8 away. They were given the same line and knew it was bull too obviously.

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By *harlie141r42Man
over a year ago

galway


"Not as strange as the OP, but in the last hour I have been contacted by a verified couple in their 50s looking for 150 euro for a hour in a 3some

I am afraid it's all to common on here

There must be a rule against it here surely ?

If not then every escort in the country will be at it I imagine.

It wouldn`t be that difficult for escorts to compete with them tbh for what they were offering at the peice

There's is and there's a report button on the profile "

Yanks for that. Gonna report them. Crap carry on on a swiner site.

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"It's a kink, sometimes used in a Dom/sub arrangement or simply the fact of knowing you've been with someone else, someone with a bigger tool than they have themselves.

I get the kink element but unless you're arranging a meet for a partner and anonymity is the goal it seems like an odd way to go about it. surely they'd preface the message explaining the situation, I mean seems better than asking ''will you meet my friend?'' like teenagers at a disco.

It's not about meeting a friend, it's picking a profile/fabber they like you to meet because it gives them a kick knowing he's a pounder or has a huge cock etc.

Oh... I thought it was someone trying to get you to meet someone they know. Jeeze that scenario is a weird one. "

No, they might have chatted/texted or knowing someone else meeting them but not nothing more.

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"It's a kink, sometimes used in a Dom/sub arrangement or simply the fact of knowing you've been with someone else, someone with a bigger tool than they have themselves.

I get the kink element but unless you're arranging a meet for a partner and anonymity is the goal it seems like an odd way to go about it. surely they'd preface the message explaining the situation, I mean seems better than asking ''will you meet my friend?'' like teenagers at a disco.

It's not about meeting a friend, it's picking a profile/fabber they like you to meet because it gives them a kick knowing he's a pounder or has a huge cock etc.

Oh... I thought it was someone trying to get you to meet someone they know. Jeeze that scenario is a weird one.

Almost as weird as a guy wanting u to step on his balls in ur six inch heels

For some some it's the control of getting the sub to follow instruction "

Yeah there is this and I know of one case it didn't end well. It's just crazy!

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"It's a kink, sometimes used in a Dom/sub arrangement or simply the fact of knowing you've been with someone else, someone with a bigger tool than they have themselves.

I get the kink element but unless you're arranging a meet for a partner and anonymity is the goal it seems like an odd way to go about it. surely they'd preface the message explaining the situation, I mean seems better than asking ''will you meet my friend?'' like teenagers at a disco.

It's not about meeting a friend, it's picking a profile/fabber they like you to meet because it gives them a kick knowing he's a pounder or has a huge cock etc.

Oh... I thought it was someone trying to get you to meet someone they know. Jeeze that scenario is a weird one.

Almost as weird as a guy wanting u to step on his balls in ur six inch heels

For some some it's the control of getting the sub to follow instruction "

It would be bye bye balls if I stood on them.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"It's a kink, sometimes used in a Dom/sub arrangement or simply the fact of knowing you've been with someone else, someone with a bigger tool than they have themselves.

I get the kink element but unless you're arranging a meet for a partner and anonymity is the goal it seems like an odd way to go about it. surely they'd preface the message explaining the situation, I mean seems better than asking ''will you meet my friend?'' like teenagers at a disco.

It's not about meeting a friend, it's picking a profile/fabber they like you to meet because it gives them a kick knowing he's a pounder or has a huge cock etc.

Oh... I thought it was someone trying to get you to meet someone they know. Jeeze that scenario is a weird one.

Almost as weird as a guy wanting u to step on his balls in ur six inch heels

For some some it's the control of getting the sub to follow instruction

It would be bye bye balls if I stood on them. "

Sadist as well I see

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"It's a kink, sometimes used in a Dom/sub arrangement or simply the fact of knowing you've been with someone else, someone with a bigger tool than they have themselves.

I get the kink element but unless you're arranging a meet for a partner and anonymity is the goal it seems like an odd way to go about it. surely they'd preface the message explaining the situation, I mean seems better than asking ''will you meet my friend?'' like teenagers at a disco.

It's not about meeting a friend, it's picking a profile/fabber they like you to meet because it gives them a kick knowing he's a pounder or has a huge cock etc.

Oh... I thought it was someone trying to get you to meet someone they know. Jeeze that scenario is a weird one.

Almost as weird as a guy wanting u to step on his balls in ur six inch heels

For some some it's the control of getting the sub to follow instruction

It would be bye bye balls if I stood on them.

Sadist as well I see "

Brings me back to a bit of strap on fun CJ.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"It's a kink, sometimes used in a Dom/sub arrangement or simply the fact of knowing you've been with someone else, someone with a bigger tool than they have themselves.

I get the kink element but unless you're arranging a meet for a partner and anonymity is the goal it seems like an odd way to go about it. surely they'd preface the message explaining the situation, I mean seems better than asking ''will you meet my friend?'' like teenagers at a disco.

It's not about meeting a friend, it's picking a profile/fabber they like you to meet because it gives them a kick knowing he's a pounder or has a huge cock etc.

Oh... I thought it was someone trying to get you to meet someone they know. Jeeze that scenario is a weird one.

Almost as weird as a guy wanting u to step on his balls in ur six inch heels

For some some it's the control of getting the sub to follow instruction

It would be bye bye balls if I stood on them.

Sadist as well I see

Brings me back to a bit of strap on fun CJ. "

Awe DH that's just idle day dreaming by some

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"It's a kink, sometimes used in a Dom/sub arrangement or simply the fact of knowing you've been with someone else, someone with a bigger tool than they have themselves.

I get the kink element but unless you're arranging a meet for a partner and anonymity is the goal it seems like an odd way to go about it. surely they'd preface the message explaining the situation, I mean seems better than asking ''will you meet my friend?'' like teenagers at a disco.

It's not about meeting a friend, it's picking a profile/fabber they like you to meet because it gives them a kick knowing he's a pounder or has a huge cock etc.

Oh... I thought it was someone trying to get you to meet someone they know. Jeeze that scenario is a weird one.

Almost as weird as a guy wanting u to step on his balls in ur six inch heels

For some some it's the control of getting the sub to follow instruction

It would be bye bye balls if I stood on them.

Sadist as well I see

Brings me back to a bit of strap on fun CJ.

Awe DH that's just idle day dreaming by some "

You have to have some fantasies. Deep in my heart I know I'm no good at it.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"It's a kink, sometimes used in a Dom/sub arrangement or simply the fact of knowing you've been with someone else, someone with a bigger tool than they have themselves.

I get the kink element but unless you're arranging a meet for a partner and anonymity is the goal it seems like an odd way to go about it. surely they'd preface the message explaining the situation, I mean seems better than asking ''will you meet my friend?'' like teenagers at a disco.

It's not about meeting a friend, it's picking a profile/fabber they like you to meet because it gives them a kick knowing he's a pounder or has a huge cock etc.

Oh... I thought it was someone trying to get you to meet someone they know. Jeeze that scenario is a weird one.

Almost as weird as a guy wanting u to step on his balls in ur six inch heels

For some some it's the control of getting the sub to follow instruction

It would be bye bye balls if I stood on them.

Sadist as well I see

Brings me back to a bit of strap on fun CJ.

Awe DH that's just idle day dreaming by some

You have to have some fantasies. Deep in my heart I know I'm no good at it. "

At fantasy I am sure u have some deep within

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"It's a kink, sometimes used in a Dom/sub arrangement or simply the fact of knowing you've been with someone else, someone with a bigger tool than they have themselves.

I get the kink element but unless you're arranging a meet for a partner and anonymity is the goal it seems like an odd way to go about it. surely they'd preface the message explaining the situation, I mean seems better than asking ''will you meet my friend?'' like teenagers at a disco.

It's not about meeting a friend, it's picking a profile/fabber they like you to meet because it gives them a kick knowing he's a pounder or has a huge cock etc.

Oh... I thought it was someone trying to get you to meet someone they know. Jeeze that scenario is a weird one.

Almost as weird as a guy wanting u to step on his balls in ur six inch heels

For some some it's the control of getting the sub to follow instruction

It would be bye bye balls if I stood on them.

Sadist as well I see

Brings me back to a bit of strap on fun CJ.

Awe DH that's just idle day dreaming by some

You have to have some fantasies. Deep in my heart I know I'm no good at it.

At fantasy I am sure u have some deep within "

You could teach me...

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"It's a kink, sometimes used in a Dom/sub arrangement or simply the fact of knowing you've been with someone else, someone with a bigger tool than they have themselves.

I get the kink element but unless you're arranging a meet for a partner and anonymity is the goal it seems like an odd way to go about it. surely they'd preface the message explaining the situation, I mean seems better than asking ''will you meet my friend?'' like teenagers at a disco.

It's not about meeting a friend, it's picking a profile/fabber they like you to meet because it gives them a kick knowing he's a pounder or has a huge cock etc.

Oh... I thought it was someone trying to get you to meet someone they know. Jeeze that scenario is a weird one.

Almost as weird as a guy wanting u to step on his balls in ur six inch heels

For some some it's the control of getting the sub to follow instruction

It would be bye bye balls if I stood on them.

Sadist as well I see

Brings me back to a bit of strap on fun CJ.

Awe DH that's just idle day dreaming by some

You have to have some fantasies. Deep in my heart I know I'm no good at it.

At fantasy I am sure u have some deep within

You could teach me... "

There u go see a roll play u as the school girl me as the head master I knew u had it in u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Common enough between the fantasists here. Borders on pimping though.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I've had a certain local couple contact me numerous times looking to see if i knew younger lads that I could put them in contact with about meeting up when they contact the couple they get blocked...... strange people......

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dublin


"I've had a certain local couple contact me numerous times looking to see if i knew younger lads that I could put them in contact with about meeting up when they contact the couple they get blocked...... strange people......"

That is really weird

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I had a "woman" contact me ages ago randomly saying I should meet this man gave me the profile name. But this woman never got verified by him and didn't have any veries she told me he was her best meet and I should meet him....I told her thanks but no thanks, a few hours later he mailed me. My conclusion it was the same person, happened to a few others too till he got caught out he was sending the mails out on a fake profile

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last week a woman contacted me to say she had been chatting to a guy who worked in the same building as me. When I asked who she said he had hidden his profile and she forgot his name!!!!

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Last week a woman contacted me to say she had been chatting to a guy who worked in the same building as me. When I asked who she said he had hidden his profile and she forgot his name!!!! "

Hahaha brilliant and mind boggling at the same time. That's fab!

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