FabSwingers.com forum: Stalker alert!

By *ilder OP Man
over a year ago

dublin

Does anyone else have one or two profiles that check out their profile at least once a day? That is to say that shows up on the list of last people to view you (this may only be for paid members). I could have more than that checking me out while they're in 'stealth mode'

I'm not saying this is against site rules, I doubt if it is. I'm not being harassed here or anything. I've had this happen a bit over the years and usually the person stops after a while, sometimes they make contact, sometimes they don't.

Just wondered if others have similar experiences? Why is it never a hottie?

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I’ve s few profiles that check me out multiple times a day..every day.

one in particular was 20-30 times (yes I went and counted) each time he was online. Could be two or three bouts a day of this..

I messaged him to say hi.. I see you’ve been checking me out etc.. no reply so blocked him.

It’s the nature of the beast on here isn’t it?

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By *ilder OP Man
over a year ago

dublin

Nature of the beast indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make absolutely no apologies for my gawking of top notch pics on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I could be guilty of that on some profiles

But I also get at least 1 view every day from the same profile........pity they’re not female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve s few profiles that check me out multiple times a day..every day.

one in particular was 20-30 times (yes I went and counted) each time he was online. Could be two or three bouts a day of this. "

I've had this also which kinda freaks me out. And I never understand when a fem watches my profile alot as I'm straight......'ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's part and parcel of the site! Pubic profile with public pics! Have to take the rough with the smooth! I'm guilty of this from time to time if someone catches my eye!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ummmmm no never check hot profiles muktiple times what a silly comment....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's part and parcel of the site! Pubic profile with public pics! Have to take the rough with the smooth! I'm guilty of this from time to time if someone catches my eye!"

*public profile! Fuckin autocorrect

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

I have a few who are out of my age range who could be on a couple times a day

also have a hot couple who check me out once a day I think they are looking to see if I change to bi-curious

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By *otwife Stag CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Waterford

We would have multiple people who would just view our profile everyday same people/person

sometimes we would message see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this a lot with older fellas. They will look at my profiles few times a day. If it’s someone clearly outside my age range and they are looking a lot I will block. Just creeps me out a bit. If I notice someone looking a lot I will msg to say hi. If no response then I will block.

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth

Certainly guilty of repeat perving ! It isnt stalking though, its usually people who are consistantly in the nearby/local updates/hot pics.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

I like being nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see who is viewing mine.

But I just hope there are no 40+ females prowling around my page and snooping on me, that'd be terrible and I don't know how I'd cope at all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, the same guys look at our profile every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possiblty of even more views after this thread

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By *ilder OP Man
over a year ago

dublin

"Possiblty of even more views after this thread

The possibility and irony of that hasn't escaped me

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

"I’ve s few profiles that check me out multiple times a day..every day.

one in particular was 20-30 times (yes I went and counted) each time he was online. Could be two or three bouts a day of this..

I messaged him to say hi.. I see you’ve been checking me out etc.. no reply so blocked him.

It’s the nature of the beast on here isn’t it? "

Its was only 15 times jeeezzz

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

"Possiblty of even more views after this thread

Def....and what a view it is

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

"Does anyone else have one or two profiles that check out their profile at least once a day? That is to say that shows up on the list of last people to view you (this may only be for paid members). I could have more than that checking me out while they're in 'stealth mode'

Just wondered if others have similar experiences? Why is it never a hottie?

Okay ...okay i'll stop ....but I always thought of myself as a bit of a hottie....

Ollie

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

Just wondered if others have similar experiences? Why is it never a hottie?

Okay ...okay i'll stop ....but I always thought of myself as a bit of a hottie....

Ollie "

I will do my best to quit also,cant promise anything tho

Apples

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By *ilder OP Man
over a year ago

dublin

Just wondered if others have similar experiences? Why is it never a hottie?

Okay ...okay i'll stop ....but I always thought of myself as a bit of a hottie....

Ollie "

I'm more attracted to your personality if I'm honest, you're just lacking in the boobage department

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By *ilder OP Man
over a year ago

dublin

Just wondered if others have similar experiences? Why is it never a hottie?

Okay ...okay i'll stop ....but I always thought of myself as a bit of a hottie....

Ollie

I will do my best to quit also,cant promise anything tho

Apples

Stalk away

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By *atthewsundriMan
over a year ago

dundrum

Hands up im guilty as charged!! If Ur gonna put sexy pics up im gonna check you out simple as!!

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By *onerrrMan
over a year ago

Northsideee

I'm definitely guilty of this and must say I hope I don't scare anyone I'm just a sucker for sexy pics and women that catches my eyes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Possiblty of even more views after this thread

The possibility and irony of that hasn't escaped me

Ur loving it lol

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By *ilder OP Man
over a year ago

dublin

"Possiblty of even more views after this thread

The possibility and irony of that hasn't escaped me

Ur loving it lol

Most of the 'interest' I receive I don't unfortunately reciprocate but none the less the search continues....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering its the internet and a sex site and your ass is out Wilder

or else usually reading verifications.

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Jeez sorry _ilder just need my daily perve is all

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By *ilder OP Man
over a year ago

dublin

"Jeez sorry _ilder just need my daily perve is all"

That's ok, I just forget how obsessed you are with me, it's understandable I guess....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve one guy. Has a peek every two hours. I don’t mind really. It beats being lonely.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

often check and I'm sure others check mine. no big deal at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's a nightmare being watched ... Oh wait, no actually that's why we post mucky pics

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By *ilder OP Man
over a year ago

dublin

"Yes it's a nightmare being watched ... Oh wait, no actually that's why we post mucky pics

Sadly though it's more often than not the wrong people 'watching'

. That's the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (yes me) had a stalker once...I should have feckin kept her

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By *ilder OP Man
over a year ago

dublin

"I (yes me) had a stalker once...I should have feckin kept her

The one that got away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't see who is viewing mine.

But I just hope there are no 40+ females prowling around my page and snooping on me, that'd be terrible and I don't know how I'd cope at all...

I know of a 37 year old who just looked.

I’m far too young for you though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't see who is viewing mine.

But I just hope there are no 40+ females prowling around my page and snooping on me, that'd be terrible and I don't know how I'd cope at all...

I know of a 37 year old who just looked.

I’m far too young for you though!

Anything slightly under the threshold is taken on a case by case basis of course.

Delighted to inform you you've passed

With flying colours at that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't see who is viewing mine.

But I just hope there are no 40+ females prowling around my page and snooping on me, that'd be terrible and I don't know how I'd cope at all...

I know of a 37 year old who just looked.

I’m far too young for you though!

Anything slightly under the threshold is taken on a case by case basis of course.

Delighted to inform you you've passed

With flying colours at that..."

Happy days, I rarely pass anything!

Nice happy trail, btw!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't see who is viewing mine.

But I just hope there are no 40+ females prowling around my page and snooping on me, that'd be terrible and I don't know how I'd cope at all...

I know of a 37 year old who just looked.

I’m far too young for you though!

Anything slightly under the threshold is taken on a case by case basis of course.

Delighted to inform you you've passed

With flying colours at that...

Happy days, I rarely pass anything!

Nice happy trail, btw!"

Ah cheers... in return I have no shame admitting I am a long time massive admirer of pretty much every pic you've put up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The "Looked @ me infinite loop"

You've seen a someone has looked at your profile so you have a cheeky look at theirs, they've seen you looked at theirs and they view yours one more time, you see more people have checked you out, no wait I've already seen that profile, they now see you've checked them out again, so they have another look at yoirs, Mrs logs on has a look at the Looked @ me page. Boom!!! One more view at them and the cycle continues.

The struggle is real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't see who is viewing mine.

But I just hope there are no 40+ females prowling around my page and snooping on me, that'd be terrible and I don't know how I'd cope at all...

I know of a 37 year old who just looked.

I’m far too young for you though!

Anything slightly under the threshold is taken on a case by case basis of course.

Delighted to inform you you've passed

With flying colours at that...

Happy days, I rarely pass anything!

Nice happy trail, btw!

Ah cheers... in return I have no shame admitting I am a long time massive admirer of pretty much every pic you've put up

Thank you

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Ahhhh stop.. a woman has got to get her kicks somewhere

and I'm nosey

And there's loads of hotties on here

I've played peek-a-boo with folks that visit my profile regularly.. every time they look at my profile I'll look at theirs

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Why is looking at profiles stalking??

Isn't that what they're there for? I probably look at my hotlist profiles most days if they've new pics up...

I dunno you guys.... you complain if you get no views... you complain when you get views.... and they say women are contrary?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is looking at profiles stalking??

Isn't that what they're there for? I probably look at my hotlist profiles most days if they've new pics up...

I dunno you guys.... you complain if you get no views... you complain when you get views.... and they say women are contrary?!?

It’s the watching with assertiveness that gets me. Every two hours. Regular as clockwork. I’d break the ice but it’s a member of my own sex. Or gender if you want to be PC.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wondered if others have similar experiences? Why is it never a hottie?

And ur last sentence answers some of ur question there is one r 2 profiles i check out, fab pics etc but never in a million years would i text or wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone needs a wank bank!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it a form of flattery never thought of it as stalking (some people r very shy)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone care to stalk my profile?

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By *ilder OP Man
over a year ago

dublin

"The "Looked @ me infinite loop"

The struggle is real

I don't have it visible when I check profiles myself as I find I'm often opening profiles by accident while jumping in and out of forums etc so I find it easier in stealth mode. I'm not checking any profiles daily myself but I can see how a loop could start alright. I can't blame my 'daily lookers' on any loop though

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Anyone care to stalk my profile?

Maybe.... You might have to wait until one if my other stalking victims goes unlos though.... there's only so many people a girl can stalk at one time!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone care to stalk my profile?

Maybe.... You might have to wait until one if my other stalking victims goes unlos though.... there's only so many people a girl can stalk at one time!!!

waiting patiently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a hard time remembering faceless people so when I see an interesting comment on the forums I usually check out the profile, male or female. Only with the extra information I remember who the person is and what they're like so I would definitely be viewing the forumites multiple times regardless of gender or attraction haha

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I don't do stealth mode, as I think it goes against the raison d'etre of the site.

There is a lady who checks me out at least once a month, from Dun Laoghaoire and I'm kinda looking forward to hitting the big 50 in June and being able to message her

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By *ony8054Man
over a year ago

Cork

"I have a few who are out of my age range who could be on a couple times a day

also have a hot couple who check me out once a day I think they are looking to see if I change to bi-curious

I was checking you out daily for a bit to see if you were still alive lol.

Hadn't heard from ya in ages and had feared for your concern.

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

No longer a site supporter so cant see...but i generally hit forum users and hot pics ppl as a matter of habit so it might look like ive been checking them out multiple times...sometimes someone looking at a profile is very innocent..

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Yes happens us on a regular basis

. Sometimes we will message them to say hello and and they never reply

haha

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS
over a year ago

Midlands

Probably just a workmate or neighbor lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I just checked out everyone on this thread...so who can see me and who can't see I've checked them out.. .??

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