FabSwingers.com forum: What to wear to Vanilla Club

By *wingingwest OP Couple
over a year ago

Galway

Hey guys.

So we are finally going to our first club night on the 14th in Vanilla

We can’t wait.

Just looking for advice, I am wondering what to wear. I’ve never been so really don’t know what the norm is, for me or for my partner (male)

I have a few sexy lingerie sets, like corsets and stockings etc, is this appropriate? And do I wear something over (jeans and heels) and then undress when needed into the corset etc?

And what does the male wear?

Would really love some advice on this, and esstentials that we should bring.

Thanks in advance x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey guys.

So we are finally going to our first club night on the 14th in Vanilla

We can’t wait.

Just looking for advice, I am wondering what to wear. I’ve never been so really don’t know what the norm is, for me or for my partner (male)

I have a few sexy lingerie sets, like corsets and stockings etc, is this appropriate? And do I wear something over (jeans and heels) and then undress when needed into the corset etc?

And what does the male wear?

Would really love some advice on this, and esstentials that we should bring.

Thanks in advance x"

male half dress smartly shirt shoes . Ladies Wear what you would wear on a normal night out with something for play underneath can’t go wrong really enjoy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy lace lingerie or corset under a L b d should work fine for you , and smart casual for himself !! Enjoy ??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear something smart casual/ dressy then bring something sexy to change in to in the changing room, you don’t need to wear it underneath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wear something smart casual/ dressy then bring something sexy to change in to in the changing room, you don’t need to wear it underneath

Is there a changing room in the new venue ? There wasn’t in the last one

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Wear something smart casual/ dressy then bring something sexy to change in to in the changing room, you don’t need to wear it underneath

Is there a changing room in the new venue ? There wasn’t in the last one "

Yes there is, with a shower and lockers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wear something smart casual/ dressy then bring something sexy to change in to in the changing room, you don’t need to wear it underneath

Is there a changing room in the new venue ? There wasn’t in the last one

Yes there is, with a shower and lockers

Wow fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey guys.

So we are finally going to our first club night on the 14th in Vanilla

We can’t wait.

Just looking for advice, I am wondering what to wear. I’ve never been so really don’t know what the norm is, for me or for my partner (male)

I have a few sexy lingerie sets, like corsets and stockings etc, is this appropriate? And do I wear something over (jeans and heels) and then undress when needed into the corset etc?

And what does the male wear?

Would really love some advice on this, and esstentials that we should bring.

Thanks in advance x"

Our two latest pics in our public gallery is what we wore there on their "Go Green party" on the 18th of March .

We are fully aware that nothing is green

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear what you're comfortable in to start with.

Bring other items that you think you might wear.

There are changing facilities upstairs.

We have seen jeans, trousers on men and everything on the ladies.

Don't stress to much over what to wear, focus on enjoying the venue.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Hey guys.

So we are finally going to our first club night on the 14th in Vanilla

We can’t wait.

Just looking for advice, I am wondering what to wear. I’ve never been so really don’t know what the norm is, for me or for my partner (male)

I have a few sexy lingerie sets, like corsets and stockings etc, is this appropriate? And do I wear something over (jeans and heels) and then undress when needed into the corset etc?

And what does the male wear?

Would really love some advice on this, and esstentials that we should bring.

Thanks in advance x

Our two latest pics in our public gallery is what we wore there on their "Go Green party" on the 18th of March .

We are fully aware that nothing is green

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Wear something smart casual/ dressy then bring something sexy to change in to in the changing room, you don’t need to wear it underneath

Is there a changing room in the new venue ? There wasn’t in the last one

Yes there is, with a shower and lockers

Wow fancy

Yes you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wear something smart casual/ dressy then bring something sexy to change in to in the changing room, you don’t need to wear it underneath

Is there a changing room in the new venue ? There wasn’t in the last one "
Yes there is a small changing room with small lockers but the lockers get used up very quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wear something smart casual/ dressy then bring something sexy to change in to in the changing room, you don’t need to wear it underneath

Is there a changing room in the new venue ? There wasn’t in the last one

Yes there is, with a shower and lockers

Wow fancy

Yes you are

I have my moments xx

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By *wingingwest OP Couple
over a year ago

Galway

Thanks so much for all the responses and advice guys

Hopefully see some of ye there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See you all there

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By *ajobMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"Wear something smart casual/ dressy then bring something sexy to change in to in the changing room, you don’t need to wear it underneath

Thats what i did lol oh and ny wife had sexy clothes underneath her sexy outfit too

Dont be shy getting changed upstairs..tbh no one bothers you othrr than a wee compliment or two...all a bit of fun and a new experiance

all the best and have fun...its a night out

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.

I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AS little as possible lol comfy sexy is what I usually go for it gets very hot in there lol x

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By *ajobMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.

I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy."

Nice pics

Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort sure

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By *ajobMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.

I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.

Nice pics

Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort sure

;-)"

Who doesnt^^^^ ooops

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.

I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.

Nice pics

Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort sure

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nothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.

I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.

Nice pics

Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort sure

nothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude"

a shirt just gets crumpled when it's been cast on the floor a couple of times anyway

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By *ajobMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.

I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.

Nice pics

Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort sure

nothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude"

Doesnt say much though does it lol...the girls get done up big time...nails done...hair done....make up done...then clothes sorted...lol i'll personally put a smidge of effort into it myself but hey...thats what your comfortable with...dead on bud

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By *ajobMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.

I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.

Nice pics

Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort sure

nothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude

a shirt just gets crumpled when it's been cast on the floor a couple of times anyway

The shirt gets stowed awsy in a locker sure

folded neatly off course lol

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.

I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.

Nice pics

Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort sure

nothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude

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ahh yea but because i am so f**kin good looking i can wear whatever i like and look amazing...

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By *ajobMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.

I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.

Nice pics

Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort sure

nothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude

ahh yea but because i am so f**kin good looking i can wear whatever i like and look amazing...

Modesty is a virtue there handsome lol i havent had complaints myself..but thats not the question....its a matter of the occasion mate...you wouldnt get into some joints in a t shirt and jeans lol nowt wrong with jeans...but t shirt...come on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.

I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.

Nice pics

Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort sure

nothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude

Loads of guys wear jeans and t-shirts including jack and look just as hot as a guy in shirt etc ... Personally guys in jeans and t-shirts appeal more to me so I thinks it's unfair to imply jeans t-shirt is is showing less of an effort

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By *ajobMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.

I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.

Nice pics

Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort sure

nothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude

Thats just my opinion on this...personally i do dress up more...but yes ususlly jeans t-shirt/shirt is the usual attire

all is cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.

I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.

Nice pics

Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort sure

nothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude

Thats just my opinion on this...personally i do dress up more...but yes ususlly jeans t-shirt/shirt is the usual attire

all is cool

You say dress up more thou .. I've seen guys in what they think is smartly dressed and look like fuck all standing beside a guy in nice jeans and a t-shirt ... It's personal choice but I think it's not the clothes its the person in them

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.

I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.

Nice pics

Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort sure

nothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude

Thats just my opinion on this...personally i do dress up more...but yes ususlly jeans t-shirt/shirt is the usual attire

all is cool

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i have magnificent hair, i dont need to wear anything other than a t shirt to look cool as fook, and besides who do i need impress, i have Gemma and shes a fookin goddess and she likes me in a t shirt so thats enough for me.

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By *ajobMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.

I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.

Nice pics

Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort sure

nothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude

Thats just my opinion on this...personally i do dress up more...but yes ususlly jeans t-shirt/shirt is the usual attire

all is cool

i have magnificent hair, i dont need to wear anything other than a t shirt to look cool as fook, and besides who do i need impress, i have Gemma and shes a fookin goddess and she likes me in a t shirt so thats enough for me."

Btw im married too so i hear ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lads lads lol claws away just wear fook all arguements solved

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By *ajobMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Meowwwww lol

just a bit of harmless banter sure

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By *ajobMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"Meowwwww lol

just a bit of harmless banter sure

Ps...you wont get having a drink in the nip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meowwwww lol

just a bit of harmless banter sure

Love a good cock fight I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meowwwww lol

just a bit of harmless banter sure

Ps...you wont get having a drink in the nip

Many a drink I've had naked

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By *ajobMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"Meowwwww lol

just a bit of harmless banter sure

Love a good cock fight I do

Wooo wooo wooo no crossing the streams(sword touching no) ffs lol

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By *ajobMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"Meowwwww lol

just a bit of harmless banter sure

Ps...you wont get having a drink in the nip

Many a drink I've had naked

In vanilla?lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meowwwww lol

just a bit of harmless banter sure

Ps...you wont get having a drink in the nip

Many a drink I've had naked

In vanilla?lol"

Yes

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By *ajobMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Downstairs

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

"Downstairs

Yes

Gemma

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By *ajobMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Naughty lol very good guys

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

I always wear a sexy dress and then use the changing area to slip into something shexier and pull on my thigh highs. Lots of men wear jeans and t-shirts or jeans and shirts. It's a casual environment so no need to worry. Come say hi when you get there xx

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By *ajobMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

As i stated before yes its all cool..just a matter of personal taste...nothing to worry about..

Yes i fully get that...thats cool

And yeah..you never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Downstairs

Yip lol much to Jorge's disgust

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By *ajobMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Your naughty too i see

lol

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By *wingingwest OP Couple
over a year ago

Galway

"I always wear a sexy dress and then use the changing area to slip into something shexier and pull on my thigh highs. Lots of men wear jeans and t-shirts or jeans and shirts. It's a casual environment so no need to worry. Come say hi when you get there xx"
likewise, Incase we are shy :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.

I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.

Nice pics

Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort sure

nothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude

ahh yea but because i am so f**kin good looking i can wear whatever i like and look amazing...

I dunno, maybe a mankini on a few of would suffice lol can you imagine!

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.

I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.

Nice pics

Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort sure

nothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude

ahh yea but because i am so f**kin good looking i can wear whatever i like and look amazing...

I dunno, maybe a mankini on a few of would suffice lol can you imagine!

Only speaking about myself but personally I have found that the sight of me in a mankini has made ladies in the vicinity much lighter, after they've lost their lunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some nice underwear and a dress to slip in and out of!You may pop in and out of the bar area so its nice to be wearing something easy to take on and off. Guys usually wear a shirt and jeans. Its up to yourself really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey guys.

So we are finally going to our first club night on the 14th in Vanilla

We can’t wait.

Just looking for advice, I am wondering what to wear. I’ve never been so really don’t know what the norm is, for me or for my partner (male)

I have a few sexy lingerie sets, like corsets and stockings etc, is this appropriate? And do I wear something over (jeans and heels) and then undress when needed into the corset etc?

And what does the male wear?

Would really love some advice on this, and esstentials that we should bring.

Thanks in advance x"

So glad you asked this, we're going on the 7th and we're wondering the same .. never thought to bring a change

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By *ittyMissKittyWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Downstairs

Yip lol much to Jorge's disgust

Jeez Jilly that wouldn't be like you at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Downstairs

Yip lol much to Jorge's disgust

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Downstairs

Yip lol much to Jorge's disgust

Me too

Haha both at same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Downstairs

Yip lol much to Jorge's disgust

Jeez Jilly that wouldn't be like you at all"

You know how shy I am

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Downstairs

Yip lol much to Jorge's disgust

Jeez Jilly that wouldn't be like you at all

You know how shy I am

Suuuuuure

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By *ittyMissKittyWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Downstairs

Yip lol much to Jorge's disgust

Jeez Jilly that wouldn't be like you at all

You know how shy I am

Suuuuuure

See, even Wilder knows! Jilly doesn't do clothes! Even in the hills on snowy mornings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like already said, no need to wear it underneath. Gemma always changes into something but generally wears a dress first.

I am a jean/t shirt kinda guy.

Nice pics

Who idnt bud but come on lol woman appreciate a bit of effort sure

nothing wrong with jeans and t shirt for a dude

It’s as much effort putting on a shirt as a t-shirt lol in my opinion t shirts are better on some people. Wearing a shirt is not making more of an effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Downstairs

Yip lol much to Jorge's disgust

Jeez Jilly that wouldn't be like you at all

You know how shy I am

Suuuuuure

See, even Wilder knows! Jilly doesn't do clothes! Even in the hills on snowy mornings

Clothes hurt my skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Downstairs

Yip lol much to Jorge's disgust

Jeez Jilly that wouldn't be like you at all

You know how shy I am

Suuuuuure

See, even Wilder knows! Jilly doesn't do clothes! Even in the hills on snowy mornings

Clothes hurt my skin

They burn

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By *ittyMissKittyWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Downstairs

Yip lol much to Jorge's disgust

Jeez Jilly that wouldn't be like you at all

You know how shy I am

Suuuuuure

See, even Wilder knows! Jilly doesn't do clothes! Even in the hills on snowy mornings

Clothes hurt my skin

Oh yeah? Must be all that special cream making you super sensitive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Downstairs

Yip lol much to Jorge's disgust

Jeez Jilly that wouldn't be like you at all

You know how shy I am

Suuuuuure

See, even Wilder knows! Jilly doesn't do clothes! Even in the hills on snowy mornings

Clothes hurt my skin

Oh yeah? Must be all that special cream making you super sensitive "

It must be I'm a sensitive soul me

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia

Just wear what ever your comfortable in last time I was there I wore jeans and a top try relax and have fun we were a bag of nerves our first time but everyone is just lovely

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