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By *ot Magic Hands OP   Man
over a year ago

Magic Place

So you get an invitation from one half of a fab couple on here without the other half knowing.

What do you do ?

Would you risk it ?

Is it worth it ?

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Highly unlikely that the other half doesn't know about it, regardless of what you are told.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Highly unlikely that the other half doesn't know about it, regardless of what you are told. "

You might be surprised John but there is extra-couple activity.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Highly unlikely that the other half doesn't know about it, regardless of what you are told.

You might be surprised John but there is extra-couple activity. "

I can guaranty there is....on there profile we only play together but I still get the odd message I won't tell if you don't....

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

No I wouldn't couples that swing together have trust in the lifestyle, why risk doing it without the others persons knowledge why not be honest and say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure why would u go near a cheat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cheated on a ex before and then a few later had it done to me and it felt fucken horrible,it was well deserved karma and I haven’t done it again.

And my opinion would be cheating if that went ahead ,it’s going behind someone’s back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand how the other half of the cpl wouldn't find out about it..wouldnt he or she be logging in too and see the mails.

I'd stay clear..sounds like drama to me..fab should be fun...

Maybe its a fantasy they are exploring..but if it is a case where one half of the doesn't know about it..then it's just wrong.

Mrs S x

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth


"I don't understand how the other half of the cpl wouldn't find out about it..wouldnt he or she be logging in too and see the mails.

I'd stay clear..sounds like drama to me..fab should be fun...

Maybe its a fantasy they are exploring..but if it is a case where one half of the doesn't know about it..then it's just wrong.

Mrs S x

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Could very well be a single profile belonging to someone whos in a couple. Myself and ann have single profiles from before we met.

That being said, this situation does seem like drama, stay away!!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I don't understand how the other half of the cpl wouldn't find out about it..wouldnt he or she be logging in too and see the mails.

I'd stay clear..sounds like drama to me..fab should be fun...

Maybe its a fantasy they are exploring..but if it is a case where one half of the doesn't know about it..then it's just wrong.

Mrs S x

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Messages can be deleted and once you take a conversation to kik/what's app etc it's out of your partner's sight. Also quite often it's only one one part of the couple managing the profile and I'm not talking about a single man hiding behind a couple profile. It's normally well verified ones you get those messages from, I even got a money offer once from the male part of a well verified couple.

Anyhow I wouldn't go near them for a whole catalogue of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ignore and block -too much drama !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd ignore and block -too much drama !"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand how the other half of the cpl wouldn't find out about it..wouldnt he or she be logging in too and see the mails.

I'd stay clear..sounds like drama to me..fab should be fun...

Maybe its a fantasy they are exploring..but if it is a case where one half of the doesn't know about it..then it's just wrong.

Mrs S x

Could very well be a single profile belonging to someone whos in a couple. Myself and ann have single profiles from before we met.

That being said, this situation does seem like drama, stay away!! "

Could be single profile..never thought of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand how the other half of the cpl wouldn't find out about it..wouldnt he or she be logging in too and see the mails.

I'd stay clear..sounds like drama to me..fab should be fun...

Maybe its a fantasy they are exploring..but if it is a case where one half of the doesn't know about it..then it's just wrong.

Mrs S x

Messages can be deleted and once you take a conversation to kik/what's app etc it's out of your partner's sight. Also quite often it's only one one part of the couple managing the profile and I'm not talking about a single man hiding behind a couple profile. It's normally well verified ones you get those messages from, I even got a money offer once from the male part of a well verified couple.

Anyhow I wouldn't go near them for a whole catalogue of reasons. "

That just sent a shiver down my back...deleting the message and switching to kik chat to keep it from their partners..do people really do this..thats so sneaky.

My mind boggles why people stay with people they are unhappy with and then cheat on them...

Sorry guys going off topic a bit..

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By *aidRXTV/TS
over a year ago

ashbourne

Ive seen this.... Guys messaging me without their partners knowlege.

I always ask a couple do they both know.... when they dont and you see they are deleting your messages so the other half doesnt know its screams trouble to me.

I personally stay well away from that.... No time for dramas or domestics...

There is plenty of other fish on the fab!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This type of sneaky shit is why I hate kik.

We use the site for everything because at any time it could be either of us or both that are online. And both see almost everything that goes on. Neither of us "run" the profile.

Why introduce an element like kik where you are basically hiding activity be it with consent or not.

I can see the appeal of it for group chats but they rarely have much going on.

Mr S.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This type of sneaky shit is why I hate kik.

We use the site for everything because at any time it could be either of us or both that are online. And both see almost everything that goes on. Neither of us "run" the profile.

Why introduce an element like kik where you are basically hiding activity be it with consent or not.

I can see the appeal of it for group chats but they rarely have much going on.

Mr S. "

I think it's entirely fair to blame kik for the shitty behaviour of people using it

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"This type of sneaky shit is why I hate kik.

We use the site for everything because at any time it could be either of us or both that are online. And both see almost everything that goes on. Neither of us "run" the profile.

Why introduce an element like kik where you are basically hiding activity be it with consent or not.

I can see the appeal of it for group chats but they rarely have much going on.

Mr S.

I think it's entirely fair to blame kik for the shitty behaviour of people using it "

what about what's app or snapchat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This type of sneaky shit is why I hate kik.

We use the site for everything because at any time it could be either of us or both that are online. And both see almost everything that goes on. Neither of us "run" the profile.

Why introduce an element like kik where you are basically hiding activity be it with consent or not.

I can see the appeal of it for group chats but they rarely have much going on.

Mr S.

I think it's entirely fair to blame kik for the shitty behaviour of people using it

what about what's app or snapchat? "

Can't trust those bastards either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha ha. I'm not blaming the app of course. I just don't like the app anyway.

But it does lend well to that sort of thing.

As for whatsapp. I seen somebody looking to set up whatsapp groups recently and thought they must be mad. We don't give out our numbers on here at all. so other apps are not an issue anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha ha ha. I'm not blaming the app of course. I just don't like the app anyway.

But it does lend well to that sort of thing.

As for whatsapp. I seen somebody looking to set up whatsapp groups recently and thought they must be mad. We don't give out our numbers on here at all. so other apps are not an issue anyway. "

Well, some use a separate phone specifically for swinging, but I couldn't be doing with that, kik works just fine for us. I do understand what you're getting at though, without care, it can be easy to develop an intimacy with someone other than your partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, if someone wants to cheat, they'll find a way.

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By *ot Magic Hands OP   Man
over a year ago

Magic Place


"This type of sneaky shit is why I hate kik.

We use the site for everything because at any time it could be either of us or both that are online. And both see almost everything that goes on. Neither of us "run" the profile.

Why introduce an element like kik where you are basically hiding activity be it with consent or not.

I can see the appeal of it for group chats but they rarely have much going on.

Mr S.

I think it's entirely fair to blame kik for the shitty behaviour of people using it

what about what's app or snapchat? "

Viber is another one.

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By *ot Magic Hands OP   Man
over a year ago

Magic Place


"Ive seen this.... Guys messaging me without their partners knowlege.

I always ask a couple do they both know.... when they dont and you see they are deleting your messages so the other half doesnt know its screams trouble to me.

I personally stay well away from that.... No time for dramas or domestics...

There is plenty of other fish on the fab!!! "

A very well verified people on here have done this. I could go on but site rules etc. Some people will be cheaters without remorse.

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By *ot Magic Hands OP   Man
over a year ago

Magic Place


"Ive seen this.... Guys messaging me without their partners knowlege.

I always ask a couple do they both know.... when they dont and you see they are deleting your messages so the other half doesnt know its screams trouble to me.

I personally stay well away from that.... No time for dramas or domestics...

There is plenty of other fish on the fab!!!

A very well verified people on here have done this. I could go on but site rules etc. Some people will be cheaters without remorse."

Couple not people.

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