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"I’m in a catch 22. Seems people won’t meet unless I am verified but how am I to get one without a meet!! Any suggestions. "Try go to the socials, meet and greet great way to meet people.. always on the forum | |||
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"Every pic is your cock how would anyone even know they be interested in meeting u "Show my face in chat all the time. I actually attach it to most of my first messages I send. | |||
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"Every pic is your cock how would anyone even know they be interested in meeting u
Show my face in chat all the time. I actually attach it to most of my first messages I send. "That's fair enough and it's just an observation and no one expects u to put your face public but maybe try some nice pics of yourself from the neck down its just more appealing to most ladies if that's your thing of course | |||
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Get yourself to socials too.. a lot of the chats start there! | |||
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not 100% on the name but think starts with fab too might help you.  | |||
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It’s really not that difficult
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"Theres allways dating sites if fab isnt working out.plenty of people seem to use dating sites for nsa fun" Yeah. I don’t get them there either. Terrible at all this really haha.
I kinda prefer the idea of this cause of the verifications. Too many fakes/time wasters on the other dating apps. It’s just frustrating trying to get that all important first one so your doors are opened to more possibilities!  | |||
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"Have you tried FabGuys? Might be more what you're looking for than here. I can only give you a woman's perspective on why we don't meet unverified men, but I don't think that's much use to you. Good luck OP! "Well I’m Bi. So I’d meet women too. I’m on both but in all honesty, fabguys is just a more complicated Grindr. Like I said above, I like the idea of the whole verifications, just need that elusive first one. | |||
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"Have you tried FabGuys? Might be more what you're looking for than here. I can only give you a woman's perspective on why we don't meet unverified men, but I don't think that's much use to you. Good luck OP! "Where is this mens support group you speak of?  | |||
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"Theres allways dating sites if fab isnt working out.plenty of people seem to use dating sites for nsa fun Yeah. I don’t get them there either. Terrible at all this really haha.
I kinda prefer the idea of this cause of the verifications. Too many fakes/time wasters on the other dating apps. It’s just frustrating trying to get that all important first one so your doors are opened to more possibilities! "I hate to tell you.while in time u will eventally get that first vertication with patience. A vertication is not going to guarnthee u the meets u want given the ratio of men to women.i suggest u relax chill out get involved in forums chat room chats enjoy the chats and banter but threads about not been able to get vertified of the lack of meets aint going to appeal to a lot of people | |||
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"Have you tried FabGuys? Might be more what you're looking for than here. I can only give you a woman's perspective on why we don't meet unverified men, but I don't think that's much use to you. Good luck OP!
Well I’m Bi. So I’d meet women too. I’m on both but in all honesty, fabguys is just a more complicated Grindr. Like I said above, I like the idea of the whole verifications, just need that elusive first one. "Ah! See to me, reading your profile, its very much geared towards meeting men... women barely get a mention as part of an MMF threesome. Others might also view it that way... As so many have already suggested... get yourself along to an organised Social event. Most hosts are happy to welcome anyone as long as they've been photo verified by Fab | |||
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"Theres allways dating sites if fab isnt working out.plenty of people seem to use dating sites for nsa fun Yeah. I don’t get them there either. Terrible at all this really haha.
I kinda prefer the idea of this cause of the verifications. Too many fakes/time wasters on the other dating apps. It’s just frustrating trying to get that all important first one so your doors are opened to more possibilities!
I hate to tell you.while in time u will eventally get that first vertication with patience. A vertication is not going to guarnthee u the meets u want given the ratio of men to women.i suggest u relax chill out get involved in forums chat room chats enjoy the chats and banter but threads about not been able to get vertified of the lack of meets aint going to appeal to a lot of people "Of course! But getting it breaks that barrier of people who simply will not engage unless verified! Being honest i came into the forums today properly for the first time so I’m gonna stick with chatting away in this for a while. Some of the threads are quite interesting. I had clicked into it before when I started but didn’t think much of it because it just seemed like posts for meets but was clearly wrong! | |||
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"Have you tried FabGuys? Might be more what you're looking for than here. I can only give you a woman's perspective on why we don't meet unverified men, but I don't think that's much use to you. Good luck OP!
Well I’m Bi. So I’d meet women too. I’m on both but in all honesty, fabguys is just a more complicated Grindr. Like I said above, I like the idea of the whole verifications, just need that elusive first one.
Ah! See to me, reading your profile, its very much geared towards meeting men... women barely get a mention as part of an MMF threesome. Others might also view it that way...
As so many have already suggested... get yourself along to an organised Social event. Most hosts are happy to welcome anyone as long as they've been photo verified by Fab "Thanks. Gonna keep an eye out for them. Saw one today but it’s on when I’m in work. Got myself photo verified the other day too so that’s a start I suppose! | |||
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"Theres allways dating sites if fab isnt working out.plenty of people seem to use dating sites for nsa fun Yeah. I don’t get them there either. Terrible at all this really haha.
I kinda prefer the idea of this cause of the verifications. Too many fakes/time wasters on the other dating apps. It’s just frustrating trying to get that all important first one so your doors are opened to more possibilities!
I hate to tell you.while in time u will eventally get that first vertication with patience. A vertication is not going to guarnthee u the meets u want given the ratio of men to women.i suggest u relax chill out get involved in forums chat room chats enjoy the chats and banter but threads about not been able to get vertified of the lack of meets aint going to appeal to a lot of people
Of course! But getting it breaks that barrier of people who simply will not engage unless verified!
Being honest i came into the forums today properly for the first time so I’m gonna stick with chatting away in this for a while. Some of the threads are quite interesting. I had clicked into it before when I started but didn’t think much of it because it just seemed like posts for meets but was clearly wrong! "Best of luck op .maybe try a social.great way of meeting people | |||
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"it is a problem here, at the same time i have lots meeting with people from fab and still have no verification, we chat on kik, meet and who cares after about verification? i mean people who want fun will get fun, who want verification will get verification "You do realise your picture is all over the net? | |||
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"i have lots of my pictures over the net, even face ones, welcome to my internet! "It's straight out of a porn film pretty fake picture | |||
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"i have lots of my pictures over the net, even face ones, welcome to my internet!
It's straight out of a porn film pretty fake picture "Haha true!!! | |||
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" oh don’t be jealous pls  "Jealous of your fake pictures? | |||
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" oh don’t be jealous pls
Jealous of your fake pictures?"Over a year and no veris | |||
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" oh don’t be jealous pls
Jealous of your fake pictures?
Over a year and no veris "I'm totally jealous like lol | |||
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as i said, i have fun without them, so you shouldn’t worry, but you are, so don’t be jealous  | |||
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