FabSwingers.com forum: Veris- would you expect one?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So another post about veris!

If a potential meet told you they were not going to verify you and did not want you to verify them, would it make a difference? Would you still go ahead with the meet or would you pull out based on the lack of veri?

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Verfies don't bother me if I liked the person id still meet I wouldn't see it as a turn off but I know some are verfie collector's and it's like a badge of honour for then.. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I donr meet alot so if I arrange a meet it because we have chatted, gotten to know each other a bit and obviously have an attraction. So at that point no a verification would make no difference to me

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

I would meet of course and have done it before I never meet for a veri. I meet for intense sexually experience with someone I am attracted too so veris mean nothing after you get one at the start.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I can give or take a veri. Wouldnt bother me. Nice to get ones from people you really enjoyed their company but not essential. I hate and can be very off putting when people bug you for a veri though which has happened to me before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we're not particularly worried about getting them or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My own view would be that the first one is important, after that I couldn't care less. I'd actually prefer not to bother with them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you imagine if veris were compulsory..and you had to tell it like it was...

Example.

Jaysus he was an insufferable bollix but I got a good 5 mins out of him.

The hottest part of it was the coffee.

Twas like throwing a sausage up O'Connell st.

I had to run away.

They could have done with a wash.

He went watching the match so myself and the missus had an awkward fumble in the kitchen.

The little prick (literally) fell asleep and the only thing he ate out was the fridge.

I'm easy going about the veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t bother me now at this stage

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Can you imagine if veris were compulsory..and you had to tell it like it was...

Example.

Jaysus he was an insufferable bollix but I got a good 5 mins out of him.

The hottest part of it was the coffee.

Twas like throwing a sausage up O'Connell st.

I had to run away.

They could have done with a wash.

He went watching the match so myself and the missus had an awkward fumble in the kitchen.

The little prick (literally) fell asleep and the only thing he ate out was the fridge.

I'm easy going about the veris

And you had no choice...the site automatically displayed them

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Nope... generally speaking if someone takes the time to write me one, I'll write one back. I'm verified... I'm real... more verifications won't make me more real.

I have, however, stopped re-verifying people who come back on new profiles. I get people I met once for coffee, or spoke to briefly at an event 2-3 years ago asking if I can reverify them... and tbh if I only met them once or spoke to them briefly, it probably wasn't terribly memorable.

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By *ustforfun90777Man
over a year ago

Enfield

"My own view would be that the first one is important, after that I couldn't care less. I'd actually prefer not to bother with them!"

The first one can be the problem ????

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I'm not fixed on veris but it depends entirely on the reason. If they want to meet me but don't want anyone to know that I've met them for whatever peculiar reasons and ominous repercussions, it would actually put me off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not fixed on veris but it depends entirely on the reason. If they want to meet me but don't want anyone to know that I've met them for whatever peculiar reasons and ominous repercussions, it would actually put me off. "

That's what I was getting at, if someone specifically said before a meet, I'm not verifying you and I dont want you to verify me, without giving a reason, would you think differently?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

That's what I was getting at, if someone specifically said before a meet, I'm not verifying you and I dont want you to verify me, without giving a rleason, would you think differently? "

Well it's about having a bit of backbone and being able to stand to the peeps you meet. If I'm good enough for sex I should be good enough for a veri. Unless they've a damn good reason.

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By *oxminxCouple
over a year ago

NaughtyVille *×* Laois

Didn't join up for veris and not bothered with them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've probably met more people who didn't do veris either way. Funny enough, they probably would not have met me if I wasn't already verified.

They were more important in the beginning to get established but now they are just the icing on the cake.

Having said that it's always lovely to receive a nice verification.

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By *ohnjoe888Man
over a year ago

cork

Feel like the unwashed on here if you're not verified

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

"Can you imagine if veris were compulsory..and you had to tell it like it was...

Example.

Jaysus he was an insufferable bollix but I got a good 5 mins out of him.

The hottest part of it was the coffee.

Twas like throwing a sausage up O'Connell st.

I had to run away.

They could have done with a wash.

He went watching the match so myself and the missus had an awkward fumble in the kitchen.

The little prick (literally) fell asleep and the only thing he ate out was the fridge.

I'm easy going about the veris

You forgot he turned up on the tractor with just his wellies on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would meet of course and have done it before I never meet for a veri. I meet for intense sexually experience with someone I am attracted too so veris mean nothing after you get one at the start."

Glad to see you have got over it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what I was getting at, if someone specifically said before a meet, I'm not verifying you and I dont want you to verify me, without giving a rleason, would you think differently?

Well it's about having a bit of backbone and being able to stand to the peeps you meet. If I'm good enough for sex I should be good enough for a veri. Unless they've a damn good reason. "

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

"I would meet of course and have done it before I never meet for a veri. I meet for intense sexually experience with someone I am attracted too so veris mean nothing after you get one at the start.

Glad to see you have got over it lol

You finally admit to it publicly

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Couldn't be arsed!

If I've gotten to the point where I'm meeting someone for fun, not a coffee/social/m&g, the last thing on my mind is the verification.

At that point, I'm meeting them for them and nothing else. What's written afterwards is not a concern, though I guess it could turn out to be. Though I don't have to show it on my profile but can perhaps use it to change something about my next meet.

Obviously I would prefer if that was discussed between us and improved upon in a repeat meet but that's kinda up to the other person to determine.

So, no, versus aren't important for serious meets, in my opinion.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

I’ve met quite a few who haven’t ver’d me that is fine but if I have them I think it’s only fair they do back. A lot of guys don’t do it back which pee’s me off

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"I’ve met quite a few who haven’t ver’d me that is fine but if I have them I think it’s only fair they do back. A lot of guys don’t do it back which pee’s me off

Well yes, agreed, if one given, especially when shown on their profile, only fair that you write one also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"I’ve met quite a few who haven’t ver’d me that is fine but if I have them I think it’s only fair they do back. A lot of guys don’t do it back which pee’s me off

Well yes, agreed, if one given, especially when shown on their profile, only fair that you write one also

Then again, do you need to care?

You've hopefully had a nice time,so whether they think so or not, regardless of them putting it in print, shouldn't really matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That cuppa tea cost me badly

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

"I’ve met quite a few who haven’t ver’d me that is fine but if I have them I think it’s only fair they do back. A lot of guys don’t do it back which pee’s me off

Well yes, agreed, if one given, especially when shown on their profile, only fair that you write one also

I’ve had a lot who show on there’s and don’t give one back

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"I’ve met quite a few who haven’t ver’d me that is fine but if I have them I think it’s only fair they do back. A lot of guys don’t do it back which pee’s me off

Well yes, agreed, if one given, especially when shown on their profile, only fair that you write one also

I’ve had a lot who show on there’s and don’t give one back

Now they're mean.

Perhaps wait a few days before giving any more

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

"I’ve met quite a few who haven’t ver’d me that is fine but if I have them I think it’s only fair they do back. A lot of guys don’t do it back which pee’s me off

Well yes, agreed, if one given, especially when shown on their profile, only fair that you write one also

I’ve had a lot who show on there’s and don’t give one back

Now they're mean.

Perhaps wait a few days before giving any more

Knew plan don’t veri first

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"I’ve met quite a few who haven’t ver’d me that is fine but if I have them I think it’s only fair they do back. A lot of guys don’t do it back which pee’s me off

Well yes, agreed, if one given, especially when shown on their profile, only fair that you write one also

I’ve had a lot who show on there’s and don’t give one back

Now they're mean.

Perhaps wait a few days before giving any more

Knew plan don’t veri first

Exactly! Along with a more reasoned appraisal of the Fabber concerned. Obviously in the best light, with lots of Ladies don't let this one pass, goes for hours, can lick you clean, fingers of a piano player with a tongue that won't quit, etc.

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By *nalcumslutWoman
over a year ago

navan

I would never say I'm not going to verify them...

I would just say I'm not here for the veri- I don't want one.

Would definitely go ahead with the meet regardless..

Is someone gonna say your shite in the sack??!

I've yet to see that..

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"I would never say I'm not going to verify them...

I would just say I'm not here for the veri- I don't want one.

Would definitely go ahead with the meet regardless..

Is someone gonna say your shite in the sack??!

I've yet to see that.."

Oh it's happened to many, I'm sure but, when have you ever seen a bad Veri? People aren't going to publish bad veris, so that's why some people contact others that have met folks, asking them about the experience, before they meet the intended meet. No harm in that.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I should add, if my profile isn't clear enough, I'm shite in the sack

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By *nalcumslutWoman
over a year ago

navan

"I would never say I'm not going to verify them...

I would just say I'm not here for the veri- I don't want one.

Would definitely go ahead with the meet regardless..

Is someone gonna say your shite in the sack??!

I've yet to see that..

That is exactly what I meant- a bad veri!!!

I take it your in the bar

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By *nalcumslutWoman
over a year ago

navan

"I should add, if my profile isn't clear enough, I'm shite in the sack

Done ..lets go

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Of course I'm in the bar!

Pick me up on your way out and get ready for a night of unfulfilled promises, unless you let me open your toy drawer

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By *nalcumslutWoman
over a year ago

navan

"Of course I'm in the bar!

Pick me up on your way out and get ready for a night of unfulfilled promises, unless you let me open your toy drawer

You pick me up...i heard you were a gentleman...were they lying too??

I'll be asleep before you...

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Of course I'm in the bar!

Pick me up on your way out and get ready for a night of unfulfilled promises, unless you let me open your toy drawer

You pick me up...i heard you were a gentleman...were they lying too??

I'll be asleep before you..."

Unfortunately I am a gentleman, so can't drive after these drinks right now. No, they weren't lying but if you allow me access to your toy drawer and bring mine, I can't guarantee gentlemanly behaviour for the whole time

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Who are "they"?

Should I be worried?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve met quite a few who haven’t ver’d me that is fine but if I have them I think it’s only fair they do back. A lot of guys don’t do it back which pee’s me off

Well yes, agreed, if one given, especially when shown on their profile, only fair that you write one also

I’ve had a lot who show on there’s and don’t give one back

Now they're mean.

Perhaps wait a few days before giving any more

I always let them do mine first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a woman on this and she didn't want us to verify each other because I'm bi??? I found it a bit mad didn't get it really but didn't stop me meeting her.... twice

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet verifications hold different value depending on the profile.

They are far more valuable to a single guy.

Single ladies and couples do not nearly depend on them as much because we all know how much traffic ye get. This can be seen in the amount of 'likes' single ladies and couples pictures get.

Plus, meet verification's help a single guy stand out in a vast and competitive crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if I did do a meet and no veri thats no big deal unless I see them veri other people I'd want to know why I'm not good enough to veri cos let's be honest it's like saying I don't want people knowing I've been with u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met a few single ladies who didnt want verifications for certain reasons and some couples...the politics of fab...lol... But no I wouldn't be bothered if I got one or not.

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I've met and played with guys and no veris were exchanged and it's not an issue for me as I'm not here for the veris....

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"I've met and played with guys and no veris were exchanged and it's not an issue for me as I'm not here for the veris...."
spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no.. we had sex , shit no verication... Does it even count

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By *on DraperMan
over a year ago

East of Eden

"Oh no.. we had sex , shit no verication... Does it even count

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