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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you ever look back at the people you fucked and think, sweet jesus, what was I thinking?

I look at whole relationships I've had and just can't believe I did that.

I'm quite sure these men feel the same about me, I'm not a nut in that respect.

Just the absolute self shame of fucking some absolute eejit, I look back at my past me and think- what a knob you were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhh all the time!!!

I went through a phase of meeting really low on the scale guys.. if I googled their name and they had made the newspapers.. I was all over that

But yeah.. serious shame lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you- I was beginning to think it was just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah there are two I look back at and think

.... Yuggggghhhhhhhh what were you doing woman??!!!

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

My whole sex life

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

There are a few. All a long time ago, when I was early 20's, so young, dumb and full of beer goggles and a second brain that seemed to be in charge 90% of the time.

Ah sure, we learn by our mistakes, I guess, which means that some of us are experts now

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"There are a few. All a long time ago, when I was early 20's, so young, dumb and full of beer goggles and a second brain that seemed to be in charge 90% of the time.

Ah sure, we learn by our mistakes, I guess, which means that some of us are experts now

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I should say, in fairness, there's quite possibly even more that are looking back and thinking of me in the same light. I did score above my league on a few occasions. Just for balance and fairness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far for me I'd say no, even if I don't like them or fell out with them (I have with some) I don't really regret it and hope that continues haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So far for me I'd say no, even if I don't like them or fell out with them (I have with some) I don't really regret it and hope that continues haha "

Very diplomatic of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So far for me I'd say no, even if I don't like them or fell out with them (I have with some) I don't really regret it and hope that continues haha

Very diplomatic of you

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I don't talk to two and blocked them off everything I could haha but it wasn't nasty. I felt there wasn't a mutual respect so didn't want to interact but even at that i have to admit they're impressive girls and there was never drama even when I blocked them and I definitely don't regret the sex so maybe not too diplomatic haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have regrets you just live and learn I guess, gotta keep the bar raised high!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if any of you are one of my past fucks...hi...now how about future ones?

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Not really. I've always had quite high standards and am still on good terms with most people I've dated or met... most...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rings a bell with me too ..

Thankfully the regrets are far outweighed by good memories and a healthy spankbank!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure we're all allowed a few mistakes when we're young, it's when you're 40 or 50 plus and still making the same mistakes that you need to take a good look at yourself...

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

There's been one or two relationships that I'm sure I had an undiagnosed head injury as for women I just fucked most of the 90s and 00s where a bit of a blur so I can't remember a lot of them but d*unk laid is a liability that's why I don't get d*unk much anymore

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central

Oh all the time, and still woe the ones that got away

but in reflection the weirder the woman the better or freakier the sex is what I found! Just can't find anything else we had in common other than the sex and some of my ex's should be in an institution!

But all said I wouldn't change any of it as it made me the person I am today.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Sure there's some I could have skipped or certainly not worth mentioning or repeating but there's no regrets or even shame, no pas de tout, I regard it as part of my journey, part of the learning curve to bring me up to this very day, contributions to a big puzzle of who and how I am, where I stand and in which direction I will heading to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly!! What's done is done! I've nó regrets either and this is the way it will stay everything Was just right at that moment in time! Maybe wouldn't be right now but then yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sure there's some I could have skipped or certainly not worth mentioning or repeating but there's no regrets or even shame, no pas de tout, I regard it as part of my journey, part of the learning curve to bring me up to this very day, contributions to a big puzzle of who and how I am, where I stand and in which direction I will heading to.

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I believe you learn something from every experience, even if just "don't do that again"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My relationships, that have only ever been non fab related, have thankfully been with men that to this day I could sit in the company of and enjoy a drink with, bar one person.

Fab though has been a different experience. There are some I have no desire to hear from again. The amount of drama, tantrums and utter cuntish behaviour has made me question why I'm here sometimes. Only recently another account opened by someone I've no intention of talking to again. That's 18 profiles that I know about in 12 months, different kik accounts and phone numbers.

So yeah there are time's I think wtf were you thinking.

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central

"My relationships, that have only ever been non fab related, have thankfully been with men that to this day I could sit in the company of and enjoy a drink with, bar one person.

Fab though has been a different experience. There are some I have no desire to hear from again. The amount of drama, tantrums and utter cuntish behaviour has made me question why I'm here sometimes. Only recently another account opened by someone I've no intention of talking to again. That's 18 profiles that I know about in 12 months, different kik accounts and phone numbers.

So yeah there are time's I think wtf were you thinking. "

There are all ways idiots like that on web sites as they can pretend to be anyone and just mess with people's heads. My earlier comment wasn't anything to do with fab meets they were women I selected all by myself

I have to say if the people I have net from here I have being very lucky with. But then past experience has made me selective!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My relationships, that have only ever been non fab related, have thankfully been with men that to this day I could sit in the company of and enjoy a drink with, bar one person.

Fab though has been a different experience. There are some I have no desire to hear from again. The amount of drama, tantrums and utter cuntish behaviour has made me question why I'm here sometimes. Only recently another account opened by someone I've no intention of talking to again. That's 18 profiles that I know about in 12 months, different kik accounts and phone numbers.

So yeah there are time's I think wtf were you thinking.

There are all ways idiots like that on web sites as they can pretend to be anyone and just mess with people's heads. My earlier comment wasn't anything to do with fab meets they were women I selected all by myself

I have to say if the people I have net from here I have being very lucky with. But then past experience has made me selective!"

I'd like to think I'm selective but I'm sure lot's would think that's debatable

The point I'm making is it's far easier to sell yourself as something you are not on here. It can be quite difficult to out people who are very good at selling themselves and portraying a completely different persona. The mask soon begins to slip in the end.

Obviously I have met truly amazing people on fab and I wouldn't change a thing about those experiences.

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central

"My relationships, that have only ever been non fab related, have thankfully been with men that to this day I could sit in the company of and enjoy a drink with, bar one person.

Fab though has been a different experience. There are some I have no desire to hear from again. The amount of drama, tantrums and utter cuntish behaviour has made me question why I'm here sometimes. Only recently another account opened by someone I've no intention of talking to again. That's 18 profiles that I know about in 12 months, different kik accounts and phone numbers.

So yeah there are time's I think wtf were you thinking.

There are all ways idiots like that on web sites as they can pretend to be anyone and just mess with people's heads. My earlier comment wasn't anything to do with fab meets they were women I selected all by myself

I have to say if the people I have net from here I have being very lucky with. But then past experience has made me selective!

I'd like to think I'm selective but I'm sure lot's would think that's debatable

The point I'm making is it's far easier to sell yourself as something you are not on here. It can be quite difficult to out people who are very good at selling themselves and portraying a completely different persona. The mask soon begins to slip in the end.

Obviously I have met truly amazing people on fab and I wouldn't change a thing about those experiences.

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The mask only slips cause they are worried about getting caught out

Face to face meets are how to Aus someone out that may have sparked an interest. But for vanilla folks that may be on a premise that it's leading somewhere into a relationship! That's when things start getting complicated! Life is complicated enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look back on most of them and think "wtf were they thinking "

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"I look back on most of them and think "wtf were they thinking "

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Errrr changed my mind bout our meet now lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My relationships, that have only ever been non fab related, have thankfully been with men that to this day I could sit in the company of and enjoy a drink with, bar one person.

Fab though has been a different experience. There are some I have no desire to hear from again. The amount of drama, tantrums and utter cuntish behaviour has made me question why I'm here sometimes. Only recently another account opened by someone I've no intention of talking to again. That's 18 profiles that I know about in 12 months, different kik accounts and phone numbers.

So yeah there are time's I think wtf were you thinking.

There are all ways idiots like that on web sites as they can pretend to be anyone and just mess with people's heads. My earlier comment wasn't anything to do with fab meets they were women I selected all by myself

I have to say if the people I have net from here I have being very lucky with. But then past experience has made me selective!

I'd like to think I'm selective but I'm sure lot's would think that's debatable

The point I'm making is it's far easier to sell yourself as something you are not on here. It can be quite difficult to out people who are very good at selling themselves and portraying a completely different persona. The mask soon begins to slip in the end.

Obviously I have met truly amazing people on fab and I wouldn't change a thing about those experiences.

The mask only slips cause they are worried about getting caught out

Face to face meets are how to Aus someone out that may have sparked an interest. But for vanilla folks that may be on a premise that it's leading somewhere into a relationship! That's when things start getting complicated! Life is complicated enough!"

Fab is definitely not the place to actively seek a relationship in my opinion. In saying that we are human and sometimes feelings creep in that we have no control over. The majority of people here are able to handle those situations extremely well I think and then move on.

As for the mask slipping, it's usually because the pretence is exhausting or they can't remember the lies they've spun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look back on most of them and think "wtf were they thinking "

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All the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know they weren’t all perfect, but they felt great at the time, and I hope the lovely ladies involved at the time felt the same way, as said earlier, it’s all part of the journey... and let’s hope it keeps getting better

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