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By *al2001 OP   Man
over a year ago

kildare

Behind your back would you want to know?

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Absolutely YES

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Behind your back would you want to know?"

Oh hell yeah!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are u trying to tell me something Hal

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Do u know something I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely that’s a no brainer!

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

it's like saying if you're friend is been cheated on and you know, do you stay out of it or get involved?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"it's like saying if you're friend is been cheated on and you know, do you stay out of it or get involved? "
I have heard people in the past on here say stay out of it, it's none of your business only opening a can of worms

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Yes I’d like to know but only because we could have fun together on here not to cause drama..

I’m allergic to drama.

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By *al2001 OP   Man
over a year ago

kildare

That's what I thought. It's just the person being cheated on is an ex of mine and it was complicated and very messy with us. Still would be.

Under those circumstances I wouldn't get involved but feel like I'm doing bad on her by not saying. Which I am. So I'll tell her.

Thanks that was actually very helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dangerous territory ... be prepared to loose her as a friend . Good luck

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I'd stay away from that one....

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Oh I'd keep my mouth shut. I wouldn't go there. Dangerous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would want to know, that doesn't mean I would tell someone else if I saw their partner here.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

If it was a friend of mine I'd tell them as I'd want to know if it was me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happened to me several years ago.

I wish someone had told me at the time. It only came out after his death.

Never did find the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely yes !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's what I thought. It's just the person being cheated on is an ex of mine and it was complicated and very messy with us. Still would be.

Under those circumstances I wouldn't get involved but feel like I'm doing bad on her by not saying. Which I am. So I'll tell her.

Thanks that was actually very helpful"

Obviously I know hun that this situation isn’t so black and white, just have a good think about it before you make any decisions and just do what you feel is right x

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By *exy Saucy SocialsCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Behind your back would you want to know?"

Yes definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend's husband mail me few weeks ago, face pics and all, my fab friends adviced to delete and block and forget.

I feel bad for her and I'll break her heart in pieces, I really feel I should... But it's complicated to be in this position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friend's husband mail me few weeks ago, face pics and all, my fab friends adviced to delete and block and forget.

I feel bad for her and I'll break her heart in pieces, I really feel I should... But it's complicated to be in this position. "

Jesus thats tough on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a tough call. I think it's impossible to know what goes on in other people's relationships and it's best not to judge.

Nobody benefits from someone sticking their oar in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also what are repercussions for u once he finds out u spilt the beans ....

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By *efinitely SteveMan
over a year ago

Laytown near Dublin


"Yes I’d like to know but only because we could have fun together on here not to cause drama..

I’m allergic to drama. "

This is true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friend's husband mail me few weeks ago, face pics and all, my fab friends adviced to delete and block and forget.

I feel bad for her and I'll break her heart in pieces, I really feel I should... But it's complicated to be in this position. "

If you don't mind me asking, did know he was mailing his wife's friend? Or was he just unlucky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friend's husband mail me few weeks ago, face pics and all, my fab friends adviced to delete and block and forget.

I feel bad for her and I'll break her heart in pieces, I really feel I should... But it's complicated to be in this position.

If you don't mind me asking, did know he was mailing his wife's friend? Or was he just unlucky? "

I think he was unlucky...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to get a different view

You caught ur partner paying away - kissing and planning a hotel meet

What would you do

1 stay

2 seperate ?

They were caught and you have his details -

Name and his mobile

Would you if it broke up ur relationship

Would you ?

1 make contact with his wife to tell

2 Or just leave be

So what would you do ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to get a different view

You caught ur partner paying away - kissing and planning a hotel meet

What would you do

1 stay

2 seperate ?

They were caught and you have his details -

Name and his mobile

Would you if it broke up ur relationship

Would you ?

1 make contact with his wife to tell

2 Or just leave be

So what would you do ??? "

I’d say unless you’re in the situation it’s impossible to answer, for me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friend's husband mail me few weeks ago, face pics and all, my fab friends adviced to delete and block and forget.

I feel bad for her and I'll break her heart in pieces, I really feel I should... But it's complicated to be in this position.

If you don't mind me asking, did know he was mailing his wife's friend? Or was he just unlucky?

I think he was unlucky... "

Fancy that.. small little country Ireland..but if he's randomly sending face pics to people from the the same county he deserves to get caught

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

No one knows what is going on in other people’s relationships why would you go running and telling in them. That’s their business. And no I wouldn’t want someone else to tell me if it was me. Firstly if they are on here there is something missing in the relationship or they wouldn’t be looking elsewhere.

I’d never butt into another persons relationship and tell the other half on them

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By *efinitely SteveMan
over a year ago

Laytown near Dublin

Maybe he wanted to be caught here on this site so he could open a dialogue with his wife about changing their sexual activities. Maybe he felt he just couldn't come out with it.

I've seen a case of it before, in fact 2 cases. Both were women and hoped it would encourage their husbands to be more adventurous & open minded.

It happens.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

It's a hard one to call and one I would hate to be in that decision, part of me would tell and the other part would choose to ignore it the best I can. Op would you not comfort the person before telling the partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really difficult to answer as there is no clear cut way to go about it as you know they are being cheated on. if you decide to tell them you risk loosing a friendship as effectively you are the messenger who would be bringing potentially the most awful news, on the other hand if you keep quiet whether you like it or not it will fester with you as you cannot forget what you know & maybe a sense of bitterness will overcome you to the point where you have to tell.

All in all I definetly don’t know the answer & I hope I’m never put in that position but maybe try & imagine a year or 2 down the line with both scenarios might help you out

Then again there could be full agreement from the partner to be on fab, who knows

Jesus....what an essay

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