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 but moving from friends house to my own place at start of May (depending on new kitchen being fitted in time) so hopefully bit more freedom on being able to accommodate will help. | |||
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"Coffee meets.. quite regularly, 2 weeks ago. Play meets.. not so regularly.. either no connection from either party or just time constraints. So last new (play) meet Feb, which was my last meet, and first (and second) meet of the year.. I’d say there might be a third and fourth when time allows.. "Time time time...   | |||
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 And of course the obnoxious Law of Distance. The hotter someone is and the better you get on the farther away they will be  | |||
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"And of course the obnoxious Law of Distance. The hotter someone is and the better you get on the farther away they will be "Truth! Definitely seems to be the case the majority of times... | |||
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 meant to last night. Looks like it'll hopefully change soon though, fingers crossed.. | |||
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"Oh gosh, it's been ages! I'm extremely picky, and I'm a pain in the ass, haha! I've had guys here and there that I will chat to for a while and think, yeah I need to meet this guy! And it's like I'm jinxed. The second I decide I'd like to meet they start acting like creeps or let me down in other ways. And of course the obnoxious Law of Distance. The hotter someone is and the better you get on the farther away they will be "I'm the very same. Hence I go to socials, better way of meeting loads in one night. | |||
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"About 2 and a half years ago, maybe? I dunno, not good at maths, it was just a long time ago.. Also, if you find yourself liking people far away more, you might be getting more comfortable with people you can't meet than people you could as a psychological block to meeting local." I think it's just a numbers game really. There is a much larger population in the UK to peruse. I understand what you're getting at though. And I'd say you're right in many cases. But for some I happily go over and they happily come here. But for obvious reasons, like I'm not a bazillionaire lol, I couldn't meet everyone I fancy from the UK. | |||
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"About 2 and a half years ago, maybe? I dunno, not good at maths, it was just a long time ago.. Also, if you find yourself liking people far away more, you might be getting more comfortable with people you can't meet than people you could as a psychological block to meeting local. I think it's just a numbers game really. There is a much larger population in the UK to peruse. I understand what you're getting at though. And I'd say you're right in many cases. But for some I happily go over and they happily come here. But for obvious reasons, like I'm not a bazillionaire lol, I couldn't meet everyone I fancy from the UK. " You and me kiddo.... Manchester in June...
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"I think it's just a numbers game really. There is a much larger population in the UK to peruse." Well yeah, I am very popular in the UK, every photo I post goes right to the number 1 spot in Ireland, and most have gone to the number 1 spot of all men on the site. But it was mainly uk men/women fabbing my pics, and maybe 3 or 4 Irish people that I talk to. But I don't talk to the UK people who like me, other than a polite hello when they message me and informing them I am in a different country. But if I was in the UK I would have exactly the same problem, because the people who message me are spread out over the whole of the UK and not all in one area like manchester. | |||
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was during the week, new play meet was Feb I tend to find what I want and keep going back for more | |||
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"I think it's just a numbers game really. There is a much larger population in the UK to peruse. Well yeah, I am very popular in the UK, every photo I post goes right to the number 1 spot in Ireland, and most have gone to the number 1 spot of all men on the site. But it was mainly uk men/women fabbing my pics, and maybe 3 or 4 Irish people that I talk to. But I don't talk to the UK people who like me, other than a polite hello when they message me and informing them I am in a different country. But if I was in the UK I would have exactly the same problem, because the people who message me are spread out over the whole of the UK and not all in one area like manchester." It would be much easier for them to get to you though! A bit of a car drive or an hour in a train I'm sure would be no big deal to them | |||
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"Oh gosh, it's been ages! I'm extremely picky, and I'm a pain in the ass, haha! I've had guys here and there that I will chat to for a while and think, yeah I need to meet this guy! And it's like I'm jinxed. The second I decide I'd like to meet they start acting like creeps or let me down in other ways. And of course the obnoxious Law of Distance. The hotter someone is and the better you get on the farther away they will be "Yep this is me. The minute i make an effort poof they not intetested | |||
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"Last night! Started out as drinks but ended in a 10pm hotel booking! " Oh nice one! | |||
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. Granted only here a week or so, so not too surprising. Need to get some proper photo's up. But the issue is, I've no-one to take them ha. | |||
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"Its roughly a year for me... I've been to plenty of social events and met oodles of peeps at those, but its about a year since I had a 1-1 meet with anyone new from Fab. I'm terribly picky anyway, but a bad experience following a local Fab meet a couple of years ago, who turned possessive, nasty, and sent fake pics of 'us' to people who had verified me, who had verified my fwb, and even people who had verified those who had verified us, has made me even more cautious (he keeps coming back on new profiles and trying to contact me/meet me again). So I tend to stick to those I already know and trust "This 100%...^^ | |||
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"Single guy living in the west of Ireland that cannot accommodate... Odds are stacked against me getting anything unless anyone can tell me different " You're not on here long give it time... look on forums for socials/meet & greets. | |||
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"Single guy living in the west of Ireland that cannot accommodate... Odds are stacked against me getting anything unless anyone can tell me different " Maybe you're being a bit negative, your profile says you've had 2 meets. So it's definitely not impossible! | |||
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"Last night! Started out as drinks but ended in a 10pm hotel booking! " Like winning the lotto xxx | |||
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"A new meet from Fab? Are ya joking? Sure most guys are already in what appears to be a romantic relationship with their Sky remote/beer can, or cumming over the ass of some randomer, so no lady's going to entertain them. Ladies? Sure they're too busy replying individually to the few hundred emails they receive each day, so how could they have time to get out and meet. Let's be realistic here. I think this post is a piss take. Actually meet new people
"Well i dont get hundreds of mails and i would like to meet someone new | |||
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"A new meet from Fab? Are ya joking? Sure most guys are already in what appears to be a romantic relationship with their Sky remote/beer can, or cumming over the ass of some randomer, so no lady's going to entertain them. Ladies? Sure they're too busy replying individually to the few hundred emails they receive each day, so how could they have time to get out and meet. Let's be realistic here. I think this post is a piss take. Actually meet new people
Well i dont get hundreds of mails and i would like to meet someone new "April 7th M&G in Dublin  | |||
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"A new meet from Fab? Are ya joking? Sure most guys are already in what appears to be a romantic relationship with their Sky remote/beer can, or cumming over the ass of some randomer, so no lady's going to entertain them. Ladies? Sure they're too busy replying individually to the few hundred emails they receive each day, so how could they have time to get out and meet. Let's be realistic here. I think this post is a piss take. Actually meet new people
Well i dont get hundreds of mails and i would like to meet someone new
April 7th M&G in Dublin "Ill stick with the mingles. Dublins a bit far for a m&g. | |||
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"A new meet from Fab? Are ya joking? Sure most guys are already in what appears to be a romantic relationship with their Sky remote/beer can, or cumming over the ass of some randomer, so no lady's going to entertain them. Ladies? Sure they're too busy replying individually to the few hundred emails they receive each day, so how could they have time to get out and meet. Let's be realistic here. I think this post is a piss take. Actually meet new people
Well i dont get hundreds of mails and i would like to meet someone new
April 7th M&G in Dublin
Ill stick with the mingles. Dublins a bit far for a m&g. "Ah well, maybe meet you for a coffee if I'm ever half way there | |||
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"A new meet from Fab? Are ya joking? Sure most guys are already in what appears to be a romantic relationship with their Sky remote/beer can, or cumming over the ass of some randomer, so no lady's going to entertain them. Ladies? Sure they're too busy replying individually to the few hundred emails they receive each day, so how could they have time to get out and meet. Let's be realistic here. I think this post is a piss take. Actually meet new people
Well i dont get hundreds of mails and i would like to meet someone new
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Ill stick with the mingles. Dublins a bit far for a m&g.
Ah well, maybe meet you for a coffee if I'm ever half way there " | |||
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"A new meet from Fab? Are ya joking? Sure most guys are already in what appears to be a romantic relationship with their Sky remote/beer can, or cumming over the ass of some randomer, so no lady's going to entertain them. Ladies? Sure they're too busy replying individually to the few hundred emails they receive each day, so how could they have time to get out and meet. Let's be realistic here. I think this post is a piss take. Actually meet new people
"I don't agree with you on this! I mostly prefer new meets and I'm always on the look out But most men on here, you get chatting on kik, they send a random message every now and then, mostly late night dick pics, or a 'whats up' message at 2am, they don't even try to make plans to meet up.. basically timewasters who have absolutely no intentions of getting a chat going and meeting up!! | |||
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"they don't even try to make plans to meet up.." With you? that us a bit mental! Eejits | |||
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"they don't even try to make plans to meet up.. With you? that us a bit mental! Eejits "Think I scare them off lol | |||
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"they don't even try to make plans to meet up.. With you? that us a bit mental! Eejits
Think I scare them off lol"Ahhh she replied! *legs it* | |||
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"they don't even try to make plans to meet up.. With you? that us a bit mental! Eejits
Think I scare them off lol
Ahhh she replied!
*legs it*"See? Told you!! | |||
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" But most men on here, you get chatting on kik, they send a random message every now and then, mostly late night dick pics, or a 'whats up' message at 2am, they don't even try to make plans to meet up.. basically timewasters who have absolutely no intentions of getting a chat going and meeting up!! " Yep this happens and then you'll get a message out of the blue in 2 months time and you're expected to know who they are especially when their kik name is nothing like their fab username. When you ask who they are they get offended
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" But most men on here, you get chatting on kik, they send a random message every now and then, mostly late night dick pics, or a 'whats up' message at 2am, they don't even try to make plans to meet up.. basically timewasters who have absolutely no intentions of getting a chat going and meeting up!! Yep this happens and then you'll get a message out of the blue in 2 months time and you're expected to know who they are especially when their kik name is nothing like their fab username. When you ask who they are they get offended
"Soooo true!!! Then they answer with 'we were chatting a few months ago, you must be chatting to loads of blokes' .... yep..lol | |||
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" But most men on here, you get chatting on kik, they send a random message every now and then, mostly late night dick pics, or a 'whats up' message at 2am, they don't even try to make plans to meet up.. basically timewasters who have absolutely no intentions of getting a chat going and meeting up!! Yep this happens and then you'll get a message out of the blue in 2 months time and you're expected to know who they are especially when their kik name is nothing like their fab username. When you ask who they are they get offended
"This is exactly why I avoid adding anyone on kik until I am really 100% sure I want that person to have the ability to contact me away from Fab. 3am 'you awake?' messages when they want wank fodder to help them sleep, but you might never hear from them otherwise... or Sunday morning dick pics from every angle that they insist on sending because they're hungover and horny despite the fact you've told them its a bad time 20 pics ago because you're having brunch with your family...
I had a guy once who continued sending pics even though I told him I was on my way to a family funeral...
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" But most men on here, you get chatting on kik, they send a random message every now and then, mostly late night dick pics, or a 'whats up' message at 2am, they don't even try to make plans to meet up.. basically timewasters who have absolutely no intentions of getting a chat going and meeting up!! Yep this happens and then you'll get a message out of the blue in 2 months time and you're expected to know who they are especially when their kik name is nothing like their fab username. When you ask who they are they get offended
This is exactly why I avoid adding anyone on kik until I am really 100% sure I want that person to have the ability to contact me away from Fab.
3am 'you awake?' messages when they want wank fodder to help them sleep, but you might never hear from them otherwise...
or Sunday morning dick pics from every angle that they insist on sending because they're hungover and horny despite the fact you've told them its a bad time 20 pics ago because you're having brunch with your family...
I had a guy once who continued sending pics even though I told him I was on my way to a family funeral...
I currently have maybe 10 people who can contact me on kik... and 5 of those are women "You know that you can close/quit kik, turn off kik notifications and you can even block people.... | |||
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" But most men on here, you get chatting on kik, they send a random message every now and then, mostly late night dick pics, or a 'whats up' message at 2am, they don't even try to make plans to meet up.. basically timewasters who have absolutely no intentions of getting a chat going and meeting up!! Yep this happens and then you'll get a message out of the blue in 2 months time and you're expected to know who they are especially when their kik name is nothing like their fab username. When you ask who they are they get offended
This is exactly why I avoid adding anyone on kik until I am really 100% sure I want that person to have the ability to contact me away from Fab.
3am 'you awake?' messages when they want wank fodder to help them sleep, but you might never hear from them otherwise...
or Sunday morning dick pics from every angle that they insist on sending because they're hungover and horny despite the fact you've told them its a bad time 20 pics ago because you're having brunch with your family...
I had a guy once who continued sending pics even though I told him I was on my way to a family funeral...
I currently have maybe 10 people who can contact me on kik... and 5 of those are women
You know that you can close/quit kik, turn off kik notifications and you can even block people.... "On my phone I can only block people (which I did) or mute group notifications. Other options aren't available. So I've simply become more selective about who I add. | |||
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A coffee meet is on the cards this week...i hope | |||
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"I actually had a new coffee meet a few weeks ago It took us so long to arrange that she had left fab before we got around to meeting "I know the feeling sometimes it's the distance or work ye just think it's not worth the effort anymore time to move on.....x | |||
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"Its roughly a year for me... I've been to plenty of social events and met oodles of peeps at those, but its about a year since I had a 1-1 meet with anyone new from Fab. I'm terribly picky anyway, but a bad experience following a local Fab meet a couple of years ago, who turned possessive, nasty, and sent fake pics of 'us' to people who had verified me, who had verified my fwb, and even people who had verified those who had verified us, has made me even more cautious (he keeps coming back on new profiles and trying to contact me/meet me again). So I tend to stick to those I already know and trust
This 100%...^^"We are all not so bad and this also stops genuine guys from getting a meet!!! Shame | |||
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"I actually had a new coffee meet a few weeks ago It took us so long to arrange that she had left fab before we got around to meeting
I know the feeling sometimes it's the distance or work ye just think it's not worth the effort anymore time to move on.....x"The snow might have delayed people from meeting as well nearly all melted now | |||
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"I actually had a new coffee meet a few weeks ago It took us so long to arrange that she had left fab before we got around to meeting
I know the feeling sometimes it's the distance or work ye just think it's not worth the effort anymore time to move on.....x
The snow might have delayed people from meeting as well nearly all melted now "Coffee time sooooooooooo...lol xx | |||
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"I actually had a new coffee meet a few weeks ago It took us so long to arrange that she had left fab before we got around to meeting
I know the feeling sometimes it's the distance or work ye just think it's not worth the effort anymore time to move on.....x"This is def my problem. Coffee meet goes well but i work shift work and my hours are silly so hard to get time and because i dont do random hook ups thd interest wanes off | |||
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"A new meet from Fab? Are ya joking? Sure most guys are already in what appears to be a romantic relationship with their Sky remote/beer can, or cumming over the ass of some randomer, so no lady's going to entertain them. Ladies? Sure they're too busy replying individually to the few hundred emails they receive each day, so how could they have time to get out and meet. Let's be realistic here. I think this post is a piss take. Actually meet new people
Well i dont get hundreds of mails and i would like to meet someone new "Have car can travel, coffe with cream sounds lovely. | |||
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"I actually had a new coffee meet a few weeks ago It took us so long to arrange that she had left fab before we got around to meeting
I know the feeling sometimes it's the distance or work ye just think it's not worth the effort anymore time to move on.....x"Yeah distance and work did make it awkward but we’ve always been I touch so it was just a matter of time | |||
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"When is everyone's next new fab meet?
Ours is this weekend "Well into 2nd week of leave and no fun so cant see it happening between now and friday. Thank god for online shopping lol | |||
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