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"I can't really help.. I don't think there was anything wrong with my ex husband's lack of erection... he just didn't fancy me ![]() ![]() ![]() . Did he have to use a white stick to get around by any chance? | |||
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"I can't really help.. I don't think there was anything wrong with my ex husband's lack of erection... he just didn't fancy me ![]() ![]() ![]() Not sure why you're as sexy as hell! | |||
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"Exactly...if you suffer from it..talk to your GP. Get something prescribed for it...it happens to most men over a certain age. Nothing a couple of mycoxaflopin won't sort ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"That's the problem, I am and it's a bummer being with a man and working my magic and nothing happens and he feels bad too,just think it should be talked about, guys don't generally so I'm hoping this might spark something off " Don't take it personally! It's happened to me and it's embarressing so it must be as bad for them too. | |||
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"That's the problem, I am and it's a bummer being with a man and working my magic and nothing happens and he feels bad too,just think it should be talked about, guys don't generally so I'm hoping this might spark something off " I was in a similar situation where medical intervention helped one guy but another guy I was dating just refused to go to the doctor... | |||
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"Exactly...if you suffer from it..talk to your GP. Get something prescribed for it...it happens to most men over a certain age. Nothing a couple of mycoxaflopin won't sort ![]() This is a ridiculously ill informed comment. ED can affect guys at all ages - not just over a certain age - and the prescription of mycoxaflopin certainty isn’t a 100% guarantee of success. | |||
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" Truth be told there’s a high amount of sexually dysfunctional men on here , whether it’s erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation , what puzzles me is why join a swing site for sexually confident people when you know you this ![]() And give it loads about how good they are... and then you meet them ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Truth be told there’s a high amount of sexually dysfunctional men on here , whether it’s erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation , what puzzles me is why join a swing site for sexually confident people when you know you this ![]() Over the years I've met some very sexually confident swingers but sometimes group play or certain situations can throw them off, were all human at the end of the day and the swinging lifestyle is for all levels of sexually confident or less sexually confident people. | |||
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"Returned one in Limerick that was a mega comment and I hope lots of guys see it " I don't have ED btw people ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Truth be told there’s a high amount of sexually dysfunctional men on here , whether it’s erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation , what puzzles me is why join a swing site for sexually confident people when you know you this ![]() Yes of course your right , use be just my bad luck I only meet single guys ....and quickly discover why they are still single ![]() | |||
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" Truth be told there’s a high amount of sexually dysfunctional men on here , whether it’s erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation , what puzzles me is why join a swing site for sexually confident people when you know you this ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Exactly...if you suffer from it..talk to your GP. Get something prescribed for it...it happens to most men over a certain age. Nothing a couple of mycoxaflopin won't sort ![]() Humour....not a fan? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Belfast d there's nothing sexier in a man that opens up and talks about issues like this and more, men are not robots just to be used for sex,even though it's fun, we are all human underneath the sexier exterior " Marry me ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Truth be told there’s a high amount of sexually dysfunctional men on here , whether it’s erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation , what puzzles me is why join a swing site for sexually confident people when you know you this ![]() ![]() Very understanding comment on a well meaning thread. Can see why your still single too | |||
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"It’s still hard to open up for a lot of men As much as it’s hard for some women to break through and challenge the dinosaur men, there is now the opposing side where it’s hard for men to break through and challenge the years of stereotyping hard knocks men who are seen to be “real” men and laugh in the face of men who are much more emotionally intelligent" This is very true. I remember going through a bit spout of depression. I just wanted my bed all the time and when I was in work or in town etc... I was getting the urge to start crying all the time, it was wierd. I said nothing to anyone besides making jokes about it to friends. They knew I was a bit depressed but not to that level. No one did. Joking about it got some of the pressure off my back and eventually depression left me but I was going for walks that lasted hours, hitting the gym, listening to music, googling depression etc... Some might not get away so easy. I felt I couldn't talk about it but now I feel better I feel I can. Strange. | |||
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"There’s a lot to be said about talking therapy (I haven’t got personal experience but I have very close friends who swear by it) The biggest step to make is the first step and if this is talking to someone, anyone, friend, boss, doc, random stranger on a swinging website, this could be the best step someone makes If anyone reads this and is feeling like they can’t talk to anyone, just send a simple message to anyone Otherwise message Kinky Dee and chat about how you can’t get it up ![]() And there was I thinking h were a caring soul u have just dammed kinky to tools of mail with limp cock pics ![]() | |||
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"I just hope that I have opened up a subject that can be spoken about, whatever about how I feel it must be torture for the guy and I just feel that guys,you are allowed to open up too,most women love that xx" You have and it's interesting to see the difference in some of the responses. We take from that what we can. I'd also like to not White Knight in any respect but say well done for raising it, as I don't recall a guy doing so. International Women's Day seems to have been extended ![]() | |||
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"Well done for taking the time to respond for your fellow mates xx it's important to speak up guys " Thanks. Yes it is important. Why not make the most of your fun with a little help from Dr Pfizer lol. | |||
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"Curious to know, does the blue pill help premature ejaculation, along with keeping you harder for longer? " Sorry I can't answer that for you. If anything I struggle to cum at all LOL. But yes you will stay hard after or recover for more very quickly. | |||
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"Curious to know, does the blue pill help premature ejaculation, along with keeping you harder for longer? " First round you'll still come as normal if you have PE but then there no down time after you come or very little, a minute tops and you're back having sex until you come again and again there's no down time or very little. Eventually with viagra you'll be fucking but won't be able to come (that's if you've the stamina) and you'll tire yourself out but the Penis will still be hard. I only ever took it once and it was fantastic but prefer to not use it since I'm not medical required to. | |||
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"Curious to know, does the blue pill help premature ejaculation, along with keeping you harder for longer? Sorry I can't answer that for you. If anything I struggle to cum at all LOL. But yes you will stay hard after or recover for more very quickly." Good to know. Thanks for replying ![]() | |||
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"Curious to know, does the blue pill help premature ejaculation, along with keeping you harder for longer? First round you'll still come as normal if you have PE but then there no down time after you come or very little, a minute tops and you're back having sex until you come again and again there's no down time or very little. Eventually with viagra you'll be fucking but won't be able to come (that's if you've the stamina) and you'll tire yourself out but the Penis will still be hard. I only ever took it once and it was fantastic but prefer to not use it since I'm not medical required to. " Excellent details. Much appreciated. Also not required to use it for medical reasons, though some ladies may beg to differ ![]() | |||
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"Curious to know, does the blue pill help premature ejaculation, along with keeping you harder for longer? First round you'll still come as normal if you have PE but then there no down time after you come or very little, a minute tops and you're back having sex until you come again and again there's no down time or very little. Eventually with viagra you'll be fucking but won't be able to come (that's if you've the stamina) and you'll tire yourself out but the Penis will still be hard. I only ever took it once and it was fantastic but prefer to not use it since I'm not medical required to. Excellent details. Much appreciated. Also not required to use it for medical reasons, though some ladies may beg to differ ![]() I think it's safe to say that most guys don't use it because it is prescribed - they use it because it's awesome haha | |||
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"The way it is that you need to treat the cause before you can cure it so a guy might be an undiagnosed diabetic for example so best thing is be the real man and get it sorted, go to Dr for all thee horny babes out there xx" Spot on OP. Could be other factors yet to be diagnosed. Always refer to doctor ![]() | |||
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"Curious to know, does the blue pill help premature ejaculation, along with keeping you harder for longer? First round you'll still come as normal if you have PE but then there no down time after you come or very little, a minute tops and you're back having sex until you come again and again there's no down time or very little. Eventually with viagra you'll be fucking but won't be able to come (that's if you've the stamina) and you'll tire yourself out but the Penis will still be hard. I only ever took it once and it was fantastic but prefer to not use it since I'm not medical required to. Excellent details. Much appreciated. Also not required to use it for medical reasons, though some ladies may beg to differ ![]() It really is amazing, I'm afraid to take anything, even pain killers haha I'm odd but my friend swore to me about viagra so I tried it one night and it was the best sex I ever had. I got a pain in my hips from thrusting I was going so long ![]() | |||
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"I suspect some ED is to do with masturbating aggressively by hand. Women, even the most petite contortionists, aren't capable of exerting as much pressure on a penis as a man's hand. A woman's own hand is nowhere close to having that grip strength - and even female athletes in sports requiring hand grip aren't as strong as untrained males. When I slacked off I noticed the sensation increase, and the lips/interior of my sex toy prevented desensitization. TLDR; Go easy!" Sorry but in my opinion that has very little to do with ED. Stimulation starts in your brain and not in the grip of your hand and has eventually to do with the connection of your lower body, your brain and bodily functions. Also petite has nothing to do with tight. I'm certainly not an expert in this field but just applying a bit of logical thinking based on experience. Every man is different so is every woman. Not everyone needs a rough wank to cum. | |||
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" Truth be told there’s a high amount of sexually dysfunctional men on here , whether it’s erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation , what puzzles me is why join a swing site for sexually confident people when you know you this ![]() Don't forget the condom phobia ones | |||
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"Or maybe try one of the generics, Mydixadrupin, Mydixnorizin, Dixafix, and of course, Ibenopokin. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I can't really help.. I don't think there was anything wrong with my ex husband's lack of erection... he just didn't fancy me ![]() ![]() ![]() Did you check to see had he a pulse Lol | |||
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"What happens if your husband has it and has been to the doctors, they prescribed him tablets but they no longer work. ?? this means I no longer have sex. " Hi Linda. Your husband seriously needs to go back to the doctor as there may be underlying problems. Bear in mind that an erection depends on blood flow. So ED can often be a symptom of something else. It's the 21st century and this can (should) be able to be sorted. If no joy with GP then go and see a Urologist. Best of luck with it. This is very tough on both of you x | |||
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"I can't really help.. I don't think there was anything wrong with my ex husband's lack of erection... he just didn't fancy me ![]() ![]() ![]() Lol my husband was the same | |||
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"Confession, you say.... This is probably not in my best interest, to post this, but hopefully someone else might benefit from this. Besides, its not as if I've been tearing it up on here... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Fair play for posting. Truly honest and very refreshing. I’m sure you’ll have helped and encouraged anyone with these issues. One of the bravest posts I’ve read online ![]() | |||
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"Confession, you say.... This is probably not in my best interest, to post this, but hopefully someone else might benefit from this. Besides, its not as if I've been tearing it up on here... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Thank you for your honesty and an excellent read... whatever is causing the issue I hope it eventually gets resolved. X | |||
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"I only came across it in combo with condom fear. ![]() Yes i get that ..althou my mojo gone coz my ex stopped me seeing my daughter so im not feeling it sexually at present | |||
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"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro ![]() Bit harsh blaming women in general for your current problems.. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I know apparently this is a myth but could it also be caused by too much masturbation? Some of us men play with ourselves way more than we should ! Just need a bit of rest and a recharge? " How much is too much? | |||
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"I know apparently this is a myth but could it also be caused by too much masturbation? Some of us men play with ourselves way more than we should ! Just need a bit of rest and a recharge? " No. Its not a myth. Thats why the sex with a partner is important for our health. Overdosed masturbation is addictive. Too long without a partner and your body reaction may surprise you in negative way... It is not only happen to men over 40+. Its exactly the same warning for women. A bit of self stimulation is okay time to time but there is a tiny red line... | |||
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"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro ![]() ![]() ![]() Was said tongue in cheek x ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() We all know what u want in her cheek ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Biggest cause of Ed is stress. " Got another 5 yrs plus i think of it as youngest is only 9 so i live under rule majority of time from ex still ![]() | |||
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"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() If i could sustain the erection id say yes i would like it in there lol ....but might have to put on hold for a bit me thinks ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I know apparently this is a myth but could it also be caused by too much masturbation? Some of us men play with ourselves way more than we should ! Just need a bit of rest and a recharge? No. Its not a myth. Thats why the sex with a partner is important for our health. Overdosed masturbation is addictive. Too long without a partner and your body reaction may surprise you in negative way... It is not only happen to men over 40+. Its exactly the same warning for women. A bit of self stimulation is okay time to time but there is a tiny red line... " its right, our brain rewire itself and we get used to porn and wank. And done men don't get hard to a real woman, instead they only get erection when they watch porn. | |||
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"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro ![]() ![]() ![]() He was blaming women in general who fight their exes in the courts for basic access to their kids after a break up.not all women in general | |||
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"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro ![]() ![]() ![]() He did explain he was being a bit tongue n' cheek Hal ![]() | |||
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"Going through court at present fighting my ex for basic access of my daughter ....got erectile problems very bad at the mo to point i cant even wank !!! Why do women put us through this aggro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Apologise Ladies ...it was only really about my ex xx ![]() | |||
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"Debate is,I've met 2 men,one from a different site,lasted a year and nxt guy I really like on fab has ed too.." Maybe you just didn't turn them on.. If they were with a woman they were attracted too they wouldn't have that problem.. | |||
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"Debate is,I've met 2 men,one from a different site,lasted a year and nxt guy I really like on fab has ed too.. Maybe you just didn't turn them on.. If they were with a woman they were attracted too they wouldn't have that problem.. " Before it got solved , I only ever had ED in the past with women I fancied so much that the sex being good was totally preoccupying me | |||
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"Love this forum. I’ve just finished writing a book about how it feels being a woman living long term with a partner with ED and mismatched libido marriage. Fab was a great help to me on that journey. So once I publish it I would like fab readers to have it for free initially. If anyone’s interested in getting that please DM me xx Thanks! " Will do | |||
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"Debate is,I've met 2 men,one from a different site,lasted a year and nxt guy I really like on fab has ed too.. Maybe you just didn't turn them on.. If they were with a woman they were attracted too they wouldn't have that problem.. Before it got solved , I only ever had ED in the past with women I fancied so much that the sex being good was totally preoccupying me " Can also be simple things like being dehydrated that cause Ed.. Hydrate with hot water every morning then drink tea or coffee later in the day.. Rock hard erections ![]() | |||
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