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What is a ‘proper bloke’

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I heard the phrase this morning on the radio and wonder what a proper bloke is? Coz I’m gay can I ever be a ‘proper bloke’?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I heard the phrase this morning on the radio and wonder what a proper bloke is? Coz I’m gay can I ever be a ‘proper bloke’?"

No such thing it's all subjective and opinion based.

I get told I'm not a proper bloke for having long hair and wearing Kilts. Yet other people think that it is what a proper bloke should be. Let no one tell or dictate who is and isn't a proper bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One that does the housework without complaining

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

High testosterone but a nice chap = proper guy.

I'd think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If somebody compulsively listens to television or radio or is constantly gazing at their smartphone it's a fair indication they are not somebody interesting.

Feeding your mind with a digest from whatever companies, the government or Facebook wants you to see/hear/read isn't going to make you a better human or improve your life because their interests are not your interests.

It's like feeding your body fast food, but for the mind.

All it does is make you complacent and smug that you're 'in the know', but it's only a simulation of real human interaction. Probably it makes you overconfident and probably it makes you gradually more stupid because it's not exercising the muscles in your mind because the medium is 100% passive.

Becoming a zombie like this is just like being an undiagnosed autistic.

Ever noticed how television from the old days was more intellectual? Ever notice how the new music being regularly played is getting worse? Ever notice how people on social networks are becoming more antisocial?

It's real! It's getting worse!

Leave the matrix! Talk to real people and read books. Explore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I heard the phrase this morning on the radio and wonder what a proper bloke is? Coz I’m gay can I ever be a ‘proper bloke’?"

It's presumably the colloquial version of "a real man", neither of them are terms I would use

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One that does the housework without complaining "

Does such a man exist? I complain to myself while doing housework

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"High testosterone but a nice chap = proper guy.

I'd think."

I'd agree.

I'm fed up with all this 'politically correct' thing.

I absolutely love real women.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Much the same as "He's a real man... how would you even begin to define it.

Oh if you find out let me know

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Like "Action Man" with camouflage army gear, a scuba suit and a large maschette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like "Action Man" with camouflage army gear, a scuba suit and a large maschette "

Would totally suit you

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

A proper bloke to me is a man who doesn’t shirk his responsibilities. A real man stands for his kids no matter what is going on between him and the mother.

And a real woman is also a woman who doesn’t use her kids to score points or hurt the father.

If they don’t have kids it’s how they conduct themselves around others. Not being a fucknugget

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By *imeoutaloneMan
over a year ago

Dublin to Westmeath

Is this like the saying "a man's man"

I've always thought that was suggesting they were gay

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By *enstoryluvsongCouple
over a year ago

ithe city


"One that does the housework without complaining "

that would be me then

Clarence xx

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By *andsomeman100Man
over a year ago

Ah sure now...


"A proper bloke to me is a man who doesn’t shirk his responsibilities. A real man stands for his kids no matter what is going on between him and the mother.

And a real woman is also a woman who doesn’t use her kids to score points or hurt the father.

If they don’t have kids it’s how they conduct themselves around others. Not being a fucknugget "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One that does the housework without complaining

Does such a man exist? I complain to myself while doing housework"

I don't think it does

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By *ornyandwellhungMan
over a year ago

belfast

On the other hand, how do you define a proper woman? I suppose everybody's opinion will vary but there may be some common denominators.

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By *ardandmeanMan
over a year ago

carlow

Most guys pee their name in snow

I pee mine in concrete

Im a proper bloke

??????

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

Don’t think your sexuality makes you any less a man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most guys pee their name in snow

I pee mine in concrete

Im a proper bloke

??????"

Jaysus id say you might need a trip to the doc if your pee is burning holes in concrete.

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By *ornyandwellhungMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Don’t think your sexuality makes you any less a man "

Really?

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"Don’t think your sexuality makes you any less a man

Really?"
yes he is gay not trans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband read that earlier and said see it is possible !

I'm not sure what he meant as he was laughing as he walked out the door

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don’t think your sexuality makes you any less a man

Really?"

So coz I’m gay im less of a man than you? I’d love to hear your reasons why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A proper bloke to me is a man who doesn’t shirk his responsibilities. A real man stands for his kids no matter what is going on between him and the mother.

And a real woman is also a woman who doesn’t use her kids to score points or hurt the father.

If they don’t have kids it’s how they conduct themselves around others. Not being a fucknugget "

Great response

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