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By *z2go OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Dublin

Ok Iv a question ..... every body is ok when it comes to condoms and sexy .

But what about giving head ?

Girls , unprotected are we at risk ?

Guys - how would you feel if you dated wouldn’t suck ur cock without a condom ?

I’m kind of new to this so would love he hear how guys and girls feel about it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First off that's a bit of a loaded question... You ask women about being at risk (in general) then ask guys about when dating someone.

But to answer your question if dating someone and after a certain time has passed I would consider it an issue if the woman I am with insists on using a condom when giving me oral.

To clarify further I am talking about being with someone 6 months, just with them etc.

It would come off as either she has an extreme phobia of catching something or... Is there something I should know about? (her not wanting to give me something out of fear)

In any case people need to be wise when giving oral (male or female) especially on a site like this. It's common sense.

But I feel the need to tell two stories here (also sorry guys for the long post)

1st, I was about to hook with a woman 10 years ago. She was only 21 at the time and I was 23. On the night we were meant to do it she told me she had vaginal warts before but 'assured' me they were gone. Needless to say I walked home with my condom in my back pocket. No need to take a risk even with protection. Not to mention it's a turn off. But hey good on her for being honest.

2nd, one of my friends has gotten tested for sti's a few times in James Street despite always using protection. It's a phobia of his.

Anyways... The amount of people you see there in the clinic will shock you. Normal everyday people (and to quote him 'beautiful women' in the queue)

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"First off that's a bit of a loaded question... You ask women about being at risk (in general) then ask guys about when dating someone.

But to answer your question if dating someone and after a certain time has passed I would consider it an issue if the woman I am with insists on using a condom when giving me oral.

To clarify further I am talking about being with someone 6 months, just with them etc.

It would come off as either she has an extreme phobia of catching something or... Is there something I should know about? (her not wanting to give me something out of fear)

In any case people need to be wise when giving oral (male or female) especially on a site like this. It's common sense.

But I feel the need to tell two stories here (also sorry guys for the long post)

1st, I was about to hook with a woman 10 years ago. She was only 21 at the time and I was 23. On the night we were meant to do it she told me she had vaginal warts before but 'assured' me they were gone. Needless to say I walked home with my condom in my back pocket. No need to take a risk even with protection. Not to mention it's a turn off. But hey good on her for being honest.

2nd, one of my friends has gotten tested for sti's a few times in James Street despite always using protection. It's a phobia of his.

Anyways... The amount of people you see there in the clinic will shock you. Normal everyday people (and to quote him 'beautiful women' in the queue)

"

You do realise people who are in the waiting room at the gum clinic arent all disease riddled. They are the sensible ones getting tested who may or may not have an sti. Beautiful people or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I was waiting for this reply. So much that I considered making that apart of my post.

Logic states tho... If you or I were in the waiting room... How could we differentiate who is there for what? I can't... Can you? Are we all to be naive and think no one is there to get a sti check-up?

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By *ubblyeveWoman
over a year ago

thurles

I would think that most people that play play on a regular basis are responsible and repectful enough of other people. Me personally dont like the feel of the condom in my mouth. Not a huge lover of blow jobs but if came to it. Its a no go for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First off that's a bit of a loaded question... You ask women about being at risk (in general) then ask guys about when dating someone.

But to answer your question if dating someone and after a certain time has passed I would consider it an issue if the woman I am with insists on using a condom when giving me oral.

To clarify further I am talking about being with someone 6 months, just with them etc.

It would come off as either she has an extreme phobia of catching something or... Is there something I should know about? (her not wanting to give me something out of fear)

In any case people need to be wise when giving oral (male or female) especially on a site like this. It's common sense.

But I feel the need to tell two stories here (also sorry guys for the long post)

1st, I was about to hook with a woman 10 years ago. She was only 21 at the time and I was 23. On the night we were meant to do it she told me she had vaginal warts before but 'assured' me they were gone. Needless to say I walked home with my condom in my back pocket. No need to take a risk even with protection. Not to mention it's a turn off. But hey good on her for being honest.

2nd, one of my friends has gotten tested for sti's a few times in James Street despite always using protection. It's a phobia of his.

Anyways... The amount of people you see there in the clinic will shock you. Normal everyday people (and to quote him 'beautiful women' in the queue)

"

Virtually everyone who is sexually active will have come in contact with HPV at some point, which incidentally is one of the several STDs which can be contracted despite the use of condoms - and doesn't always mean visible warts either.

Everyone who is sexually active and non-monogamous should be getting tested for STDs.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


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2nd, one of my friends has gotten tested for sti's a few times in James Street despite always using protection. It's a phobia of his.

Anyways... The amount of people you see there in the clinic will shock you. Normal everyday people (and to quote him 'beautiful women' in the queue)

"

First of all there's no fully bomb proof protection therefore you should get regularly tested when engaging in a NSA lifestyle. Some Sti can transmit through simple skin contact. So it isn't a phobia of your friend, it's you not going for check ups. You could be caring an Sti you're not aware of and pass it on.

The Sti clinics are there to get tested and to make sure you've no Sti. You can assume that most peeps queuing in the clinic are disease free and just do the sensible thing and go for a check up. Also beauty doesn't protect you from stis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because there are people who attend a clinic doesn’t mean they’re disease ridden! Lol

For those of you who've put it off or don't do it frequently enough, I thought I would post contact details for all the FREE STI test centres in Rep Ireland. Feel free to add any more helpful info.

Dublin:

GUIDE Clinic, St. James’s Hospital, Dublin 8, 014162315

(Young Persons Only clinic on Thursdays)

MaterHospital, Dublin 7, 018032063

GMHS Clinic for men who have sex with men and transgender people only

Baggot St Hospital, Dublin 4, 016699553

Louth:

Outpatients Dept, Louth County Hospital, Dundalk, 0868241847

Our Lady of Lourdes Hospital, Drogheda - 0868241847

Monaghan:

Outpatients Dept, Monaghan Hospital, 0868241847

Westmeath:

Midland Regional Hospital, Mullingar, Co Westmeath, 0864169830

Laois:

Portlaoise STI Clinic, Out Patients Department, Midland Regional Hopsital, Block Road, Portlaoise, Co Laois

Contact Number: 0868591273

Opening Hours: Tuesday evenings, by appointment only, 5.15pm- 7.15pm

Cork:

South Infirmary, Victoria Hospital, Cork City, 0214966844

Youth Health Service, Cork City, 0761084150

Kerry:

General Hospital, Tralee, Co. Kerry, c/o 0214966844

Waterford:

Regional Hospital, Waterford City, 051842646 (By appointment only)

Carlow:

District Hospital, Carlow, c/o 051842646 (By appointment only and clinic is held on alternative Tuesdays)

Tipperary:

South Tipperary Hospital, Clonmel, Co. Tipperary, c/o 051842646 (By appointment only and clinic is held on alternative Wednesdays)

General Hospital, Nenagh, Co Tipperary, c/o 061482382

Limerick:

Regional Hospital, Limerick City, 061482382

Clare:

General Hospital, Ennis, Co. Clare, c/o 061482382

Galway:

University Hospital, Galway City, 091525200

Portiuncula Hospital, Ballinasloe, Co. Galway 0909648372 (extension 676)

Mayo:

General Hospital, Castlebar, Co. Mayo, 0949021733 (Extension 3076 - Tues am only and Ext 3501 – Mon, Wed, Thurs, Friday)

Sligo:

Regional Hospital, Sligo Town, 0719170473

Donegal:

General Hospital, Letterkenny, Co Donegal, 0749123715

Service is fully confidential and Free!

Happy fabbing and stay healthy

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"Ok Iv a question ..... every body is ok when it comes to condoms and sexy .

But what about giving head ?

Girls , unprotected are we at risk ?

Guys - how would you feel if you dated wouldn’t suck ur cock without a condom ?

I’m kind of new to this so would love he hear how guys and girls feel about it ?

"
I never have any form of unprotected sex , you can catch many conditions from unprotected oral , obviously no one likes them but they are a important in this modern world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because there are people who attend a clinic doesn’t mean they’re disease ridden! Lol

For those of you who've put it off or don't do it frequently enough, I thought I would post contact details for all the FREE STI test centres in Rep Ireland. Feel free to add any more helpful info.

Dublin:

GUIDE Clinic, St. James’s Hospital, Dublin 8, 014162315

(Young Persons Only clinic on Thursdays)

MaterHospital, Dublin 7, 018032063

GMHS Clinic for men who have sex with men and transgender people only

Baggot St Hospital, Dublin 4, 016699553

Louth:

Outpatients Dept, Louth County Hospital, Dundalk, 0868241847

Our Lady of Lourdes Hospital, Drogheda - 0868241847

Monaghan:

Outpatients Dept, Monaghan Hospital, 0868241847

Westmeath:

Midland Regional Hospital, Mullingar, Co Westmeath, 0864169830

Laois:

Portlaoise STI Clinic, Out Patients Department, Midland Regional Hopsital, Block Road, Portlaoise, Co Laois

Contact Number: 0868591273

Opening Hours: Tuesday evenings, by appointment only, 5.15pm- 7.15pm

Cork:

South Infirmary, Victoria Hospital, Cork City, 0214966844

Youth Health Service, Cork City, 0761084150

Kerry:

General Hospital, Tralee, Co. Kerry, c/o 0214966844

Waterford:

Regional Hospital, Waterford City, 051842646 (By appointment only)

Carlow:

District Hospital, Carlow, c/o 051842646 (By appointment only and clinic is held on alternative Tuesdays)

Tipperary:

South Tipperary Hospital, Clonmel, Co. Tipperary, c/o 051842646 (By appointment only and clinic is held on alternative Wednesdays)

General Hospital, Nenagh, Co Tipperary, c/o 061482382

Limerick:

Regional Hospital, Limerick City, 061482382

Clare:

General Hospital, Ennis, Co. Clare, c/o 061482382

Galway:

University Hospital, Galway City, 091525200

Portiuncula Hospital, Ballinasloe, Co. Galway 0909648372 (extension 676)

Mayo:

General Hospital, Castlebar, Co. Mayo, 0949021733 (Extension 3076 - Tues am only and Ext 3501 – Mon, Wed, Thurs, Friday)

Sligo:

Regional Hospital, Sligo Town, 0719170473

Donegal:

General Hospital, Letterkenny, Co Donegal, 0749123715

Service is fully confidential and Free!

Happy fabbing and stay healthy

"

Good one Fooey. I had already decided to book an appointment and you've just made it that much easier. Call made, thank you.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I have never once used a condom for oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never once used a condom for oral "

At my last apoointment, the nurse told me that most of the infections they detect are in the mouth and throat.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I have never once used a condom for oral

At my last apoointment, the nurse told me that most of the infections they detect are in the mouth and throat. "
that doesn't surprise me. I'd say very few use a condom for oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because there are people who attend a clinic doesn’t mean they’re disease ridden! Lol

For those of you who've put it off or don't do it frequently enough, I thought I would post contact details for all the FREE STI test centres in Rep Ireland. Feel free to add any more helpful info.

Dublin:

GUIDE Clinic, St. James’s Hospital, Dublin 8, 014162315

(Young Persons Only clinic on Thursdays)

MaterHospital, Dublin 7, 018032063

GMHS Clinic for men who have sex with men and transgender people only

Baggot St Hospital, Dublin 4, 016699553

Louth:

Outpatients Dept, Louth County Hospital, Dundalk, 0868241847

Our Lady of Lourdes Hospital, Drogheda - 0868241847

Monaghan:

Outpatients Dept, Monaghan Hospital, 0868241847

Westmeath:

Midland Regional Hospital, Mullingar, Co Westmeath, 0864169830

Laois:

Portlaoise STI Clinic, Out Patients Department, Midland Regional Hopsital, Block Road, Portlaoise, Co Laois

Contact Number: 0868591273

Opening Hours: Tuesday evenings, by appointment only, 5.15pm- 7.15pm

Cork:

South Infirmary, Victoria Hospital, Cork City, 0214966844

Youth Health Service, Cork City, 0761084150

Kerry:

General Hospital, Tralee, Co. Kerry, c/o 0214966844

Waterford:

Regional Hospital, Waterford City, 051842646 (By appointment only)

Carlow:

District Hospital, Carlow, c/o 051842646 (By appointment only and clinic is held on alternative Tuesdays)

Tipperary:

South Tipperary Hospital, Clonmel, Co. Tipperary, c/o 051842646 (By appointment only and clinic is held on alternative Wednesdays)

General Hospital, Nenagh, Co Tipperary, c/o 061482382

Limerick:

Regional Hospital, Limerick City, 061482382

Clare:

General Hospital, Ennis, Co. Clare, c/o 061482382

Galway:

University Hospital, Galway City, 091525200

Portiuncula Hospital, Ballinasloe, Co. Galway 0909648372 (extension 676)

Mayo:

General Hospital, Castlebar, Co. Mayo, 0949021733 (Extension 3076 - Tues am only and Ext 3501 – Mon, Wed, Thurs, Friday)

Sligo:

Regional Hospital, Sligo Town, 0719170473

Donegal:

General Hospital, Letterkenny, Co Donegal, 0749123715

Service is fully confidential and Free!

Happy fabbing and stay healthy

"

I don't post in Irish forum anymore but I'll add this as it's important. For those in the north the clinic in Anderson House, Altnagelvin, L'derry is free and results will be sent to you by text inside 10 days. Its useful having that text.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Yes I have used condom for oral a few times.

Things to take into account:

The penis will probably lose sensitivity over time in the condom. How soon is highly dependent on the condom really.

This means the guy could go floppy after half an hour blowjob in one and then 45 mins fucking.

To get around this you need to be willing to go through a few condoms. After being in a condom for a while skin on skin contact becomes extra nice, like when youre wearing rubber and then someone touches your skin...

So if you're willing to take the condom off after a 15/20 min blow job and then jerk their cock and rub it on your body, it should either give them a happy finish or kind of reload their sensitivity for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never once used a condom for oral

At my last apoointment, the nurse told me that most of the infections they detect are in the mouth and throat. that doesn't surprise me. I'd say very few use a condom for oral "

I'd say you're right. Which is why regular testing is vital.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I have used condom for oral a few times.

Things to take into account:

The penis will probably lose sensitivity over time in the condom. How soon is highly dependent on the condom really.

This means the guy could go floppy after half an hour blowjob in one and then 45 mins fucking.

To get around this you need to be willing to go through a few condoms. After being in a condom for a while skin on skin contact becomes extra nice, like when youre wearing rubber and then someone touches your skin...

So if you're willing to take the condom off after a 15/20 min blow job and then jerk their cock and rub it on your body, it should either give them a happy finish or kind of reload their sensitivity for sex."

But try to find someone into sucking with condom is hard everyone seems to think you can't get something from a Bj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok Iv a question ..... every body is ok when it comes to condoms and sexy .

But what about giving head ?

Girls , unprotected are we at risk ?

Guys - how would you feel if you dated wouldn’t suck ur cock without a condom ?

I’m kind of new to this so would love he hear how guys and girls feel about it ?

I never have any form of unprotected sex , you can catch many conditions from unprotected oral , obviously no one likes them but they are a important in this modern world "

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All forms of physical contact between two or more people carries a risk of infection or cross infection.

Whether you suit up for oral or any other form of sex the risks vary.

Herpes and Genital warts for example can be passed through skin-on-skin contact simply by touching the area of an infected person.

Nothing is 100% safe on FAB!

 

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The point was to say anyone can have an sti. There are no visual cues.

Thanks for your smarty reply tho.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Happy to wear a condom and her to use a dental dam (I think it's called)

Also, flavoured condoms are available

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By *z2go OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Dublin

Thank you fir all the opinions ...... I’m understand that oral is risky ?

I don’t play around much ..... but I think I’d ask him to suit up for oral ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I have used condom for oral a few times.

Things to take into account:

The penis will probably lose sensitivity over time in the condom. How soon is highly dependent on the condom really.

This means the guy could go floppy after half an hour blowjob in one and then 45 mins fucking.

To get around this you need to be willing to go through a few condoms. After being in a condom for a while skin on skin contact becomes extra nice, like when youre wearing rubber and then someone touches your skin...

So if you're willing to take the condom off after a 15/20 min blow job and then jerk their cock and rub it on your body, it should either give them a happy finish or kind of reload their sensitivity for sex."

I'd like to meet the woman that gives a half hour blowjob and the man that lasts 45 min at sex.. just to shake their hand and congratulate them!!

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